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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by sabi99(m): 6:10pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Durentt:are u kidding me ,are u d God that said we should go into d world and multiply.....why would u want d population reduced.......if all people were lesbian d human race would av long gone to extinction....check it out....girls marrying girls(how can they gv birth 2 kids.....) Or man loving man(how will they produce issue). It is ungodly and unwise to say lesbianism is 100% right cos its not,not one bit. |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Xfemt(m): 6:13pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
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Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by darchiplanhomes(m): 6:15pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
esthersolomon00:YOU'RE A FOOL. YOU JUST WANTED SOMEONE TO ENCOURAGE YOU INTO LESBIANISM. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Cronnie7: 6:16pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Durentt, it isn't a scientific fact yet that people are born with homosexual inclinations... All we av yet are hypotheses....scientific guess work for or against. Although I must say that the scientific work that disproves genetic homosexual makeup is more scientifically coherent based on the fact that basically all living things that engage in sexual reproduction do so primarily because they need to preserve their species and not for the pleasure (infact not many living things derive pleasure from sexual reproduction). And if we must perpetuate our species.. Homosexual relationships may be an aberration that is unaccounted for genetically 1 Like |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Maximus85(m): 6:18pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
esthersolomon00: Prayed for what? That God should help you enjoy sex before marriage? Or he should help your letsbehonestism quest? Wos wos wobi, mind yourself ooo 1 Like |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 6:20pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Estharfabian: Lol |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Antiparticle(m): 6:25pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
i'm curious: what did you do? banky3w: |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by ALISMILE(m): 6:26pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Durentt:are u really a lesbian? |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 6:27pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
lesbianism is bad desist from it.most lesbians are suffering from a curse.dat curse makes them have difficulties in falling in love or enjoying sex.make prayer a priority because prayer works but u must first desist from sin for it to work.secondly desist from premarital sex cause its bad because it causes diseases like hiv aids e.tc and unwanted pregnancy.there is no assurance dat d guy you have sex with would marry u.even condom is nt 100percent effective.a person i know very well used condom yet she got pregnant.before you get married u must study nd make sure hes someone you love.sex is meant for couples alone.make sure u see a psycologist if wat i said doesnt work for u. |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Duru009(m): 6:27pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
U need deliverence my dear....... Stop deceiving urself.......... U can stop it.......... Everything its possible!!! |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by lawrenceunaa: 6:28pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
esthersolomon00:u re a lesbian no 2 ways abt that 2 Likes |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 6:28pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
ALISMILE:see jamb question nii |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 6:30pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
You do girls,so what? 3 Likes |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 6:32pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
sabi99:every one cant be lez joooor |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Antiparticle(m): 6:34pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
seangy4konji:Did you just advocate rape and say "Amen" in the same writeup? OMG. Shame on you. |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by swaggerdgrt(m): 6:34pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
If u are in abuja,come to dunamis intl gospel centre and I assure u,you will be delivered.wherever you are you can come.God has used him to deliver women dat has worse cases dan u do nd dey wea deliverd |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by tiredface: 6:35pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
EARLY 20S AND A RELATIONSHIP FOR 9YRS. HOW OLD ARE YOU REALLY? |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 6:36pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
ranson:pls lesbianism is not a habit but a sexuality. Please 3 Likes |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by chilan: 6:39pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
esthersolomon00: You have prayed?? And you are Bisexual?? |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Antiparticle(m): 6:42pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
There is nothing wrong with being gay. My only advice is that you shouldn't fully avoid the issue of your sexuality so that you would be more educated about safety measures if/when you end up engaging in the act. It makes no sense that God (if he/she/it exists) would create you this way and then choose to punish you for being what he created you. It just makes no sense. I also would advice you to read a lot more about theism and Christianity (from a historical perspective, over the past 2000-2500 years) and you may be surprised what you find out. Or you can start by reading the religion thread... look out for @johnydon22's posts. Maybe some of this would help you contextualize some of the Christian admonitions against homosexuality. Dnacode: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 6:43pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Cronnie7:in English please? |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by saintandsinnerz: 6:47pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
esthersolomon00:Look I'm not here to judge you, but you are a core lesbian! The question you should ask yourself is when did all these abnormal sexual behavior start? Who initiated you into this? Have you seeked for spiritual help? Why do you love to make love to women more than men? If you get answers to these questions then you are in the right part to correct your sexuality. The problem with most homosexual people is that they always believe that they are born that way, hence there is no need to try and change their sexual orientation. Sis, the problem with homosexuality is that society especially in a place like Nigeria will seriously be frowned at. Regrettably, if you don't correct this it will ruin your life 1 Like |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 6:51pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
OP, it is a fault and you know you have it, but faults are meant to be corrected, not to be enhanced. Most girls here on Nairaland are Lesbians and their advices would always skewed towards that direction. You can correct yourself and the only way you can do that is by being disciplined. Don't just have sex with your lover(man) but make love with him. What are those things that you think that same sex can offer you, teach him how you want it. Learn pre-intimacy, don't just jump into having sex because that will hurt you more. |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Panzerfaust(m): 6:53pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
shantelrandy:Lies..My babe is a les. nd am ok with it. It doesn't make her any less of a partner to me. As for gay men, that is unacceptable. 1 Like |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Nobody: 6:54pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Have a 3some; you can lick all you want and he can phock all he wants...problem solved 1 Like |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by saintandsinnerz: 6:56pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Durentt:I hope you are not abusing the little girl in your DP sexually? Homosexuality is evil and abnormal. It will never have a place in our society |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Coldfeets: 6:56pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Durentt: Jeeze! Really? 85 %? Hmm, If this is really a fact, then I think I'm getting so scared! |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by Antiparticle(m): 7:01pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
@esthersolomon00 There's nothing wrong with being lesbian if that's your primary emotional and sexual attraction. I would advice you to consider moving to a different country where people are more tolerant; if you in the future decide to fully embrace your lesbianism, Nigeria can be a dangerous place. Since you are still young, you could try applying for a masters degree in Germany or Canada... Germany is cheaper because international student tuition is completely free after which residency is not that difficult to get. For Germany, go to www.daad.de/en (they have lots of MSc programs in English, and lots of jobs) and for Canada go to www.universitystudy.ca/search-programs/ If you choose to go the student route, go to these threads on Nairaland to read and ask people questions: Germany: https://www.nairaland.com/2098236/general-german-visa-enquiries-part Canada: https://www.nairaland.com/2557850/travelling-canada-part-9 I would advice that you use a different moniker though if you post on those other threads, but this is probably obvious to you already. |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by macho44(m): 7:01pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
esthersolomon00:u are suffering from "EMOTIONAL CONJI" |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by spafu(m): 7:04pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
esthersolomon00:I don't think you are seeking a solution if what you want is for our society to see and approve lesbianism. Why will one have a vagina and then say, instead of a penis, I'd appreciate a fellow vagina, finger, candle or cucumber. I am not condemning you dear, but what is wrong is wrong. So if you want to use what you were given rightly, you must first of all hate abusing it [ an abuse is when something is used not as it manufacturer would have intended it to be used]. Your problem has a solution but only you can play the great role than any psychology or guy. I was had a girl that had similar issue, but she wasn't really ready to work with solution I thought she needed. And she ended up being rape, cause the guy unlike me wouldn't stop when she shouts "please stop, its is paining me". So what is my recommendation? First try and get which may have been the cause: 1) Abused as a child 2) Religious about not engaging in sex and has now turn to guilt each time you had wanted to indulge in it. 3] Addicted to playing with same sex (which seem to be your case). Now, if you have had any of these and you are now consciously preparing your mind to get to have good sex with the opposite sex, it create a sort of resistance in some women which send a signal down to their vagina to get "closed" (tight) and dry and which explain the pain and lack of enjoyment. Most of such women don't even get wet during pre-intimacy. So work on your mind: desire to have a passionate love making session with your present guy, fantasize with the thought, every other mode of satisfying yourself, when you get to play with him just handover your thoughts to the pleasure you intend to derive from the act and you would have started some progress. |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by colp2015: 7:08pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
There's a handle the devil uses to handle every living soul. In your case the enemy of your soul crept in secretly and planted the seed of lesbianism in your heart. Your bi-sexual tendencies are unnatural. The forces at play are strongholds stationed in your heart; so even if you decide against lesbianism, your resolve will last but for a few days. So, what's the way out? First, surrender your life to Jesus. If you have done so, I'll advise you get the ebook - Secrets to Purity at http://faithfuljoel.com. Alternatively, I'll suggest you seek help at any of the Deliverance Ministries along Lagos-Ibadan Expressway. After deliverance, you'll still need to maintain your freedom, so the information contained in Secrets to Purity is recommended. |
Re: Talk Sense Into My Head Plssss... by veraiyke(m): 7:09pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
First u should want to have sex for the right reason n not just to be like other ladies out there. Bisexual or not God made you so I think. Keep yourself for the right person who would love you n you will love him in return n b willing to make love with him. Believe m most of the guys n girls chasing you r doing so cox they want to taste from a bisexual. I encourage u not to gv in to pressure but uphold ur dignity. Go to God |
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