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My guy, tell your guy to shun all the above advise telling him to take it softly... The church babe sabi say ur guy na bad boy naim make she agree to date am, she wants to do something different, she wants to explore, to wants to do the things that all her church brethren would naturally be afraid to do, because Pastor is watching from somewhere. The babe needs him to take her to impossible places that she could only imagine. Though it is very important that your nigga takes it subtly and sharply
I had a Muslim chic once as a friend, while chatting we started exploring secrets, I told her my own secret was that I masturbate (sharp guy like me no fit tell her my worst kept secret na) naim d babe open up to me that she fantasizes being a heroine in B D S M role play (B D S M is rough and kinky sex) the kind that was depicted in the movie 50 shades of Grey, though she confessed to being a virgin. Trust me na, I guided her through the process, taught her what she needed to know, showed her that I was an expert, and ladies and gentlemen, somebody I never imagined I could bleep in my wildest dreams, is making me give her the roughest bleeping of her life.
So, don't believe all the hype about joining her in born againism, ur guy should do his own thing, show her all she's been missing wearing all those long gowns.
Na my own be this ooh.. I am out

Luckygurl:
Choii!! Gifts that I like??
A portrait, I've always fantasized having this as a gift, too bad it still hasn't materialised.

A teddy Anyone who gets me this has won his/her way into my heart.

A book from my favorite authors

Ermmm!!! The conventional stuffs nah!! Say accessories, perfumes, wristwatch etc

You could get a customised clothing for her too...
A towel with some romantic stuff embroidered on it, say her pet name in fact whatever sweet thing that comes to your mind.

See what too much daydreaming has caused for me oo


Bottom line: You have to find out things that catches your partners fancy and try to be creative about it.

As for gifts my bf likes, I don't know cos......

What I listed basically is what I find appealing..
This little will help

some ladies are romantic sha. thank you plenty plenty

Michellla:
am having a hard time understanding your write up...

Okk let Me make full English.though I don't Like stressing my self with full English.

What am trying to say here is this

when your with a born again girl,And your mind says do it (lust).you And I know lust is a sin.So is it not better to just do it at once when you know that you have already sinned?

also how do we control our mind against lust?

Gelengelen:
For the past two months my friend has been involve with this lady. Hé told me she is thé born Again type. She has accepted to date him and she likes him very much.


His problem is that hé is being careful not to do things contrary to her believe cos they have plans concerning thé future.


People, what steps should hé take to make this relationship romantic?

Is she expecting more from him?

Thé only thing hé has done to her was to hold her hands, held her shoulder and sat down close to her when they were in public bus.


mature advise please



Note: this matter is for my friend and not for me.



na my friend say make i ask una ooo...Disclaimer

You claim it's your friend's issue, but the title of your thread sells you out.

Anyway, relationship isn't all about sex, though the urge will surely come. If you know you can't date a girl in a no-sex relationship, please just leave that girl alone. Don't be the one to push her into sex, whether she's a virgin or not. You shouldn't be the reason for another person's backsliding. Sexual immorality is a very big deal. Forget that the world has made it a normal thing, but it's still a sin before God.

I dated a girl for 3½ years, and we didn't even reason about having sex together. My mind was made up not to do it, just like her mind was. We never really struggled about it. I still believe you can have a relationship without sex, if you make up your mind. If you know you can't, please leave that girl alone. I can bet you that she will find a guy that will want to date her without sex. At least I know that men like jmoore and kennydoc are still in the world. There are many more guys like us.

sissylucy:
he should convert to a born again too...dat way it wont be difficult to mk the relationship work

Exactly

marlockj:
Okk let Me make full English.though I don't Like stressing my self with full English.

What am trying to say here is this

when your with a born again girl,And your mind says do it (lust).you And I know lust is a sin.So is it not better to just do it at once when you know that you have already sinned?

also how do we control our mind against lust?

the fact that you thought of it is one sin on its own.then going ahead with the act makes it a double sin.
wouldnt advice that.
and you can control lust by the things i listed above in my previous comment

MsGlobalwonder:
speaking from a Christian point of view now; hope you know those "physical affections" are exclusive for marriage ONLY. #JustSaying

u r weird! Kai!

weather BORN AGAIN OR NOT - A woman will always be a woman.


Treat her like you would another woman but make sure you are not carnal. Rule out oral kisses, or any kind. sex is out of it, encourage waiting
don't be afraid to hold her. . . she likes it.


Just be yourself. . . no pretences.

Now, being romantic. . . has nothing to do with romance.

Think of something nice. not necessarily buying gifts, except she's the carnal type.


O'boy!


Your friend should do whatever except being carnal.

#IDonTry

hmmm it's only hard when he has a dirty thoughts he wish to do with her.....am in such relationship now infect she's a worker,n I respect her...... all that matters is making each other happy, if u can't just quit pls don't lead another person to sin especially somebody like that except if its her own consent

watch sezxx films in sitting room when she visit

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]He wants to romance her? Very simple thing to do.

Whenever she comes to his house he should be with king James version of the Bible and then he should tell her that he had a vision from God,asking them to read the songs of solomon together and then practice whatever they read.

So when they see something like "your lips as smooth as the rose petals I will kiss it to the glory of God"...then your friend should make the move to kiss her.

When they see "your breasts so succulent and well aligned according to the proportions of your body and i'll love to touch it to give glory to God"...I'm sure your friend knows what to do.

Thank me later [/color]

Lol freemanan read the topic and this post its a funny shit

Let him get her a rival nah, he go dey knack that one. Then dey use that one dey do "born again". Very Simple.

Michellla:
the fact that you thought of it is one sin on its own.then going ahead with the act makes it a double sin.
wouldnt advice that.
and you can control lust by the things i listed above in my previous comment

Hmmmm double sin hmmm

A sinner is a sinner.u cnt b Hiv positive twice.

You can't be pregnant ontop another pregnancy.

Nothing Like double sin.once you have sin you have sin.

Thought of it is a sin automatically just as the same Like you have done it.

Sin was never categorized in Bible as single sin,double sin triple n So on,sin is a sin.

A person who steal ten naria is the same as the one who kills,as all r sin And ticket to hell.

My question is Since thinking about sex is sin that is lust,Why not just do it at once?

marlockj:
Hmmmm double sin hmmm

A sinner is a sinner.u cnt b Hiv positive twice.

You can't be pregnant ontop another pregnancy.

Nothing Like double sin.once you have sin you have sin.

Thought of it is a sin automatically just as the same Like you have done it.

Sin was never categorized in Bible as single sin,double sin triple n So on,sin is a sin.

A person who steal ten naria is the same as the one who kills,as all r sin And ticket to hell.

My question is Since thinking about sex is sin that is lust,Why not just do it at once?

you have a point.
but still you tryna justify the whole sinning thing by saying since you'v tot of it why not just do it...
well its upto both parties to decide if they wana give in to the lust or not.

Michellla:
you have a point.
but still you tryna justify the whole sinning thing by saying since you'v tot of it why not just do it...
well its upto both parties to decide if they wana give in to the lust or not.

Yeah u got my point.

Let's say your a Christian how do get lust out of your brain,knwing a thought of it is automatically a sin,especially for guys,though I do knw much about gels.

Cuz someone Like Mi I cnt count d number of lust I have in a day.

marlockj:
Yeah u got my point.

Let's say your a Christian how do get lust out of your brain,knwing a thought of it is automatically a sin,especially for guys,though I do knw much about gels.

Cuz someone Like Mi I cnt count d number of lust I have in a day.

am not so fervant.
was just dropping a point i thought could help him.

Birds of a feather have to flock together otherwise it won't work.

thorpido:
Romance is an expressive feeling one has towards another person.It comes with certain actions and the culmination of it is sexual intimacy.

You can be romantic by sending love notes to each other.
You can cook a special meal just for your partner.
You can dedicate a song on the radio just for that person.
You can take a walk in the park or on the beach together.
You can compose a poem and read to her or have someone else read it.
You can go see a movie together.
You can pay a surprise visit to her at work or school etc
These are all romantic actions.

in this recession?

airmirthd1:
Relationship shouldn't be all about sex....It's all about knowing yourself to know if it will lead to marriage or not....but being in love with a SU isn't a big deal...just understand her, disover what she likes and don't force her to do what she doesn't like... REMEMBER....The bed should be undefiled..

u are right only if d gal be virgin....no be if u Bleep fibish u go wan come deceive mugu

pussyAvenger:
u are right only if d gal be virgin....no be if u Bleep fibish u go wan come deceive mugu

True!!