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Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please / Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) / He Is Almost 40 And She Is Above 34 But They Still Want Abortion (2) (3) (4)

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 10:32am On Oct 29, 2015
jazinogold:
Since it did not work for her! Maybe you should take it instead! It may work for you cheesy grin[s][/s]
Lol badt guy
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by leonivas: 10:35am On Oct 29, 2015
Abortion is never a way it is just postponing your doomsday, and beware of the vengeance of an inocent blood.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by calcal: 10:37am On Oct 29, 2015
murderers!
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by marlockj: 10:41am On Oct 29, 2015
Loo
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.



When you both Whr screaming rolling from bed to ground,using impossible kunfu style,burglary upside style,operation ha pussyyyy Mst Cal ur name style,combining missionary And sutra together, did you call us.

Now the product of Dat is this!!!.

how can you sleep with a girl And you think She will not get pregnant for years,Like say you Dey pour inside mattress, say no b person u Dey pour put.

No matter the kind of love or trust how can u sleep Without cd with a girl ur not married to.Weda virgin, faithful or church member.

So because She don't cheat She cnt be infected, through another source aside sexx. U b Mumu I swear. Ppl Like u tink HIV is only tru sex,Mayb u Hv not gone to hair saloon to see Wat they use to fix ladies hair,or nail filing,or hospital for treatment.

U b concrete mumu.

If I Whr you I will 1st Tnk God am not hiv positive And marry the girl.

Iddiooot

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by TheBossLadyK(f): 10:48am On Oct 29, 2015
Ab025:
Just do a simple pregnancy strip test, it will clear all this ur doubt. And if she is positive for pregnancy, then marry her.

Didn't you say you loved her more than anything? Well, it's time to prove that...

Thanks bros
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by mechanics(m): 10:53am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.
guy u no serious, wetin bible talk about fornication, u beta cari ur cross cos any attempt to do any oda abortion, u may loose her and d baby.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by femoboy(m): 10:55am On Oct 29, 2015
Fussbot:
Am not in support of abortion.But am very sure most of the people advising you not to abort have aborted b4 or aborted for a gal...Nigerians! fcking hypocrites!



U jes said my mind now,castigating the guy as if they are innocent.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by MyschoolNG(m): 10:56am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:


Look at this fool, do you know who the Bleep I am? You using death to play with me right? See I don stop some things but please no incure my wrath, I go give am to u double I swear to God.
yes I know who da Bleep u r, u r a fool who bleeps around without condom,and goes about begging for advice on murder. Lol "I don stop some thing" yes na . U don stop to dey use condom ode! Wetin u wan give me double wen God don already give u trouble. Beta go and buy pampers as u no fit buy condom olodo!!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by LordAdam: 11:00am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.

Please see a doctor. Many are religious, but please ask as many as you find until you find a doctor who will treat your gf as a patient needing help than see her as Hitler in a feminine form.

A lot of people would advice you to keep the kid, but of you and the lady do not want to keep it, please do not keep the baby. This is not a matter of religious conviction, it is a matter of personal choice and critical thinking. The peeps advising against abortion and the church will not raise the kid for you.

Why people have to force their beliefs and convictions down the throat of others is beyond me.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 11:00am On Oct 29, 2015
MyschoolNG:
yes I know who da Bleep u r, u r a fool who bleeps around without condom,and goes about begging for advice on murder. Lol "I don stop some thing" yes na . U don stop to dey use condom ode! Wetin u wan give me double wen God don already give u trouble. Beta go and buy pampers as u no fit buy condom olodo!!!!


Mtchww. Won't fall for this tempation.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by rotexsky(m): 11:03am On Oct 29, 2015
why are our girls not commenting,i see this is one topic they hardly want to talk about,the reason is so simple............................................she who be without this particular sin sin should cast the first stone. grin tongue
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 29, 2015
LordAdam:


Please see a doctor. Many are religious, but please ask as many as you find until you find a doctor who will treat your gf as a patient needing help than see her as Hitler in a feminine form.

A lot of people would advice you to keep the kid, but of you and the lady do not want to keep it, please do not keep the baby. This is not a matter of religious conviction, it is a matter of personal choice and critical thinking. The peeps advising against abortion and the church will not raise the kid for you.

Why people have to force their beliefs and convictions down the throat of others is beyond me.

Bros than you, I swear I tire for some Niger people honestly. Will try to see a doctor
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by adesani(m): 11:11am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.
. No worry my guy just keep the pregnancy, believe me you can only suffer this mistake for now but you will spend the rest of your life being happy with the baby in future. You may be thinking your family and friends will feel disappointed in you, fine then after that every thing will become normal just believe in God. Pls don't commit another terrible mistake that you will ever remain regretting when the abortion back fires
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by MyschoolNG(m): 11:11am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:



Mtchww. Won't fall for this tempation.
but u fell for the temptation of fucking without protection. And you about falling for murder! see ya life!
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by MrCork: 11:11am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.



...bro..dont let her trap u....abot the gadem baby & change yor nomba and home adress....but it yhe baby is lightskin..KEEEEEPIT((REAL TALK)..No ofeencse) angry

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 11:12am On Oct 29, 2015
MrCork:




...bro..dont let her trap u....abot the baby & change yor nomba and home adress....but it yhe baby is lightskin..KEEEEEPIT((REAL TALK)..No ofeencse) angry

Lolz bros ok, my girl is might skinned thou but she herself no wan keep am

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by mceze(m): 11:13am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:



You mean I should get Lipton tea, one bag, then small limes then squeeze the lime water in a cup then deep the Lipton bag in it as if I am preparing tea then she takes it right?

Yes.It will do the work.I have recommended it to many people and it worked.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 11:16am On Oct 29, 2015
mceze:


Yes.It will do the work.I have recommended it to many people and it worked.


Guy God bless u, see if it works I go tidy u, will let u know later on so I get hr details
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Elle277(f): 11:19am On Oct 29, 2015
lucky you!....I call it second chance from God...any attempt again, you will regret it for life.. a word is enough for the wise!
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 11:23am On Oct 29, 2015
Don't go ahead with the abortion plan. The sign is very clear that if you insist on aborting the innocent baby, the lady might lose her life, and you will spend the rest of your life in jail. Most importantly, abstinence till you get married would have saved you all these headaches.

Abortion = Murder in God's sight.

Kindest regards.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ERCROSS(m): 11:24am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:


Yes very surprising.
Very Very Surprising. No one is perfect broh, no mind all these NL hypocrites claiming hollier than thou, hope u've gotten a solution yet?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 11:32am On Oct 29, 2015
ERCROSS:

Very Very Surprising. No one is perfect broh, no mind all these NL hypocrites claiming hollier than thou, hope u've gotten a solution yet?

Thanks a lot, for now I think so, will go with some, but someone prescribe a Lipton tea method for me here so will ask my woman to try that and see how it goes, hopefully it goes well, next time will be very careful.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by rockyh(m): 11:34am On Oct 29, 2015
collegereap:
Misoprostol is actually a prescription for ulcer but it's side effect is that it forcefully empties the uterus of any content it holds, hence abortion occurs.

First, a strip test will not correctly tell if the pregnant is still there till after three weeks or even a month. The strip works by detecting HCG in the urine which the body keeps producing even after delivery, miscarriage or forced_miscarriage (abortion).

Second, it is still natural to still be feeling pregnant, even unpregnant women feel that way sometimes,hence,the term chemical pregnancy due to hormonal in balance. The symptoms can be deceptive.

To confirm, go for an ultrasound and check if the foetus is still there or developing. This will help rule out complications or unejected foetal remains.

But seriously, if you can't buy condom 50naira, why think of sex?



its nt abt buyn a condom but abt d grl using it my grl has severe pains if u use it so we do raw but she takes gyneacosid to prevnt preg
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by fimzzy1991: 11:35am On Oct 29, 2015
Pls and pls don't kill that baby. The little angel had no say in bringing himself to the earth, you called him please give him a chance to live. If not You will live to regret it. Who knows this may be your only kid
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by yahoofak(m): 11:40am On Oct 29, 2015
when u dey fu#k her, shey u called for help? wait make baby comot then u use hand strangle am.. does it make any difference
Awon omo wobe #sturbornfellow #murderers
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 11:45am On Oct 29, 2015
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Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.
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Silly blasphemer
Only God can save you now coz if anything happen to that slvt, you will rot in jail.
So N50 is too expensive for you abi Senseless murderer

I JUST HOPE YOUR SISTERS TOO WILL BE FVCKED LIKE THIS BY IRRESPONSIBLE GUY LIKE YOU.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by steph2sweet(f): 11:57am On Oct 29, 2015
God knows i can't be telling this kind of story. Say no to premarital sex and avoid stories that touch.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Tamakay(m): 12:00pm On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.



Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.





Wait a minute bro, u are actually seeking for help on how to kill a human being like u? I took time to read ur post in btw d lines and a statement u made actually prompts my comment. The place where u said"we've been having unprotected sex for 1yr...I tot she is not fertile...." If u truly love this girl for doing it unprotected and depositing ur deceptive rubbish on dis innocent and naive girl; u should have been worried of that situation but yet u feel OK simply because u are using the girl to satisfy ur sexual urge. Please love the girl genuinely and keep the baby. It's normal for every first timers to have this fear u are exhibiting when such thing happens. I repeat love d girl genuinely and I bet u, u will be d happiest guy nine months later. Take my advice not to commit double murder.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by itunuaina: 12:01pm On Oct 29, 2015
I guess the name CONDOM is not in their dictionary, why not use condom when u know you don't want the pregnancy. oga o
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:10pm On Oct 29, 2015
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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:14pm On Oct 29, 2015
Hy since d pregnancy is still at an early stage tell her to tak alcohol and lime prefrably vodka or gin...goodluck
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by simdam500(m): 12:42pm On Oct 29, 2015
M not here

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