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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:22am On Oct 31, 2015
Youngpo413:
so its only sex that will make her happy?

What makes you happy is not what will make me happy. If that is where her happiness lies, all well and good

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by cooker: 1:50am On Oct 31, 2015
sorry to say this your father is dead cry six months is good enough for your mom to look for some one new she is a human being and she has needs:now put your father in her shoes will he not do the same thing at least she is not cheating undecided what about women that cheat while their husband is still living on earth get married and know what marriage is all about before you judge your mom what you are suppose to do is have chat with your mom calmly undecided know how she feels make her understand how you feel believe me there is always a reason why things happen

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Certifiedboss: 1:55am On Oct 31, 2015
cococandy:

Yea but if your brother lost his wife you wouldn't mind him moving on 6months later.

I would . especially when they had kids together . you should show the kidsd their mother/father meant something to u
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by dickoflife(m): 1:55am On Oct 31, 2015
Edwife if you have nothing better to contribute stay off. Despite coogar and I not agreeing at least its a sensible discourse. 'Edwife' abi? Your moniker sounds like the leader of a harem of whores.
coogar:


unfortunately, that's the world we live.

deal with it!



i was just being charitable. cheesy

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by NemzySeries(m): 4:50am On Oct 31, 2015
choi.......mumcy don open shopping mall 4 her guys b dat

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by swaggerdgrt(m): 6:26am On Oct 31, 2015
MsGlobalwonder:
she is not a disgrace. Infact, if not for anything; we are proud of her. She is not pretending to be what she is not. She should mourn for 5yrs? shocked shocked . That's wicked if you asked me. "..till death do us part", and 6months after death is not enough? I can bet that after that 5yrs; world people will still ask her to go face her grand children. She doesn't deserve to love,feel loved and be loved in return abi? undecided
hmmmm wonders shall neva end,well am nt surprisd cos u ar birds of a feather.jst six mnths nd u are telin me u are proud of her and wat she does,u be big tme oloshoooo and a stupid girl for supportin such an act

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by bigboyo: 6:29am On Oct 31, 2015
It is forbidden in Yorubaland for a woman to start seeing a man after her husband is dead. She risks being dead herself especially if its not up to a year.
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 6:29am On Oct 31, 2015
[quote author=Youngpo413 post=39531444]This your comment says a lot about you...you are pathetic.[/quote

This statement says a lot about you.You are pathetic!
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by swaggerdgrt(m): 6:42am On Oct 31, 2015
xtervaganza:
1st let me say you have asked intelligent questions. I had to read it like 3 times to come up with answer


As for the bolded; for me ooo personally, even if she decides to move on after 100 years I'll never be okay with her bringing a man into her hubby's house. A woman normally moves in with a man not the other way.



A man who moves into another man's sweat and house is a leech and deserves thorough tidying



And you said we should shift love aside? How about respect? Is that not important too? If she respects her late husband she would never do that.




And for the last question; it's tricky, you know why? 1st it's irresponsible for a man to bring in a woman to his house just 6 months after his wide died even after a year it's still stoopid in my opinion


According to the op, the woman brings different kind of men home. Now let's say the person in the story is a man, now tell me how a responsible man will bring different won home just 6 months after his woman died? I don't even care if they are the worst enemy while she was alive.



Back to why I said it's tricky, if let's say the man is still very young and he owns the house if he wants to remarry then fine but if the house belongs to the woman or they both own the house I think it's 500% wrong



Lastly, I'm not one the countless fools who think men are superior to women. We are equal, I have an uncle I stopped speaking with because he took in a 2nd wife, I also have a friend I'm not on speaking terms with because he beat his wife. I'm not an idiot
nice one my guy bt i dnt agree wit ur lst paragraph,man and woman are not equal,if u wnt to equate urslf wit ur wife or gf,das ur bizness.a woman shud b submisive to her husbnd,d lady dnt hav regard for marriage and she is a prostitute
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by swaggerdgrt(m): 6:49am On Oct 31, 2015
prettyirene:
Its quite sad though!! But won't judge the woman. Nobody knows what she went through in that marriage,its obvious she didn't love the man. Dad died twenty years ago and my mum has refused to remarry, she keeps talking about how wonderful dad was and how she thinks she can't find a replacement. Its so easy to know a woman who truly loves her hubby and its can be shown thru the period of grieve and mourning. Having said that even if the woman was in a loveless and abusive marriage, I don't think it is right bringing multiple partners to her bedroom. Even if she never loved the hubby,she should at least show respect to the kids and consider their feelings! The deceased iis still their father and the memory of their lost loved one is still fresh. It is totally wrong and the kids would be resentful towards her... Nobody in OP's position will be happy..
my dear God wil bless u for dis comment,infact God wil giv u d husbnd of ur drms.ur mum is a virtious woman nd am proud of her,weda d lady luvs d man or nt,it is nt proper to bring men to her matrimonial hme jst afta six mnths.habaaaa na so her pussy dey scratch her reach.........
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 6:50am On Oct 31, 2015
swaggerdgrt:
hmmmm wonders shall neva end,well am nt surprisd cos u ar birds of a feather.jst six mnths nd u are telin me u are proud of her and wat she does,u be big tme oloshoooo and a stupid girl for supportin such an act
loool. I understand your frustrations and pains. Waa wa alright. I don't owe u any explanation and you don't have to agree with me. And yes, your entire household ; from the youngest to the oldest are all oloshos and silly and more. They did a bad job of raising you for not teaching you decorum and that people are entitled to their opinions and beliefs. So go tell them dey've raised u badly. grin

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by swaggerdgrt(m): 6:51am On Oct 31, 2015
prettyirene:
Its quite sad though!! But won't judge the woman. Nobody knows what she went through in that marriage,its obvious she didn't love the man. Dad died twenty years ago and my mum has refused to remarry, she keeps talking about how wonderful dad was and how she thinks she can't find a replacement. Its so easy to know a woman who truly loves her hubby and its can be shown thru the period of grieve and mourning. Having said that even if the woman was in a loveless and abusive marriage, I don't think it is right bringing multiple partners to her bedroom. Even if she never loved the hubby,she should at least show respect to the kids and consider their feelings! The deceased iis still their father and the memory of their lost loved one is still fresh. It is totally wrong and the kids would be resentful towards her... Nobody in OP's position will be happy..
my dear God wil bless u for dis comment,infact God wil giv u d husbnd of ur drms.ur mum is a virtious woman nd am proud of her,nt lke dos stupid and gud for notin ashawo girls here dat wea commentin rubbish,weda d lady luvs d man or nt,it is nt proper to bring men to her matrimonial hme jst afta six mnths d husband died.habaaaa na so her pussy dey scratch her reach.........
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 7:12am On Oct 31, 2015
bigboyo:
It is forbidden in Yorubaland for a woman to start seeing a man after her husband is dead. She risks being dead herself especially if its not up to a year.
forbidden? shocked in yoruba land? That is new. I'm Yoruba and i'm totally oblivious of such rule. All marriage contract terminates automatically after death of either of the parties involved. How the widow(er) decides to live their life and duration of their mourning is totally their decision and discretion. It's a simple rule of thumb. Some don't move on at all and decide never to remarry nor date, their choice! Some decide to date and remarry at 2months, still their choice! smiley
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by zudozz: 7:22am On Oct 31, 2015
u talking abt ''seeing'' another man.. I can bet u she killed ur dad. d way she shares his bed with so many men few months after his demise.
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by texybaby(f): 8:03am On Oct 31, 2015
Eya I would have said she was cheating before but since u said every weekend different men....she's most likely depressed.... depression in women vary... I will suggest u have a chat with her try to decode what's going on, don't raise ur voice just get ur facts first n let it b a heart to heart conversation from there u will know where n how u can b of help to ur mum...I hope it helps
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by iamdammie(m): 8:14am On Oct 31, 2015
Hey, d gravity of ds shit depends on some factors..firstly, how old is d op...if yu r above 18, den ur mama has a lotta issues..she obviously has no respect for yu or hw u gonna feel..my dear dat scene cld go a long way in taunting someone's psyche for life..well, I gat no biz wif d strange man,but still I can't stop wondering hw cheap dat man is to go in bed knowing she has grownup kids like yo...(ko ni daa fun bobo yen)....but my dear, u just hv to pretend as if notin is going on cos ur mama obviously is enjoying her sef and I dnt see her stopping because of yu...if u r a guy, leave d house because u cld get emotional one day and commit murder.......( ryt nw am seriously fighting d temptation to ask if mumsi get whatsap acct or bbm pin..)..jst kidding abeg...move on bro...free ur mum
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by xtervaganza(m): 8:33am On Oct 31, 2015
swaggerdgrt:
nice one my guy bt i dnt agree wit ur lst paragraph,man and woman are not equal,if u wnt to equate urslf wit ur wife or gf,das ur bizness.a woman shud b submisive to her husbnd,d lady dnt hav regard for marriage and she is a prostitute
thanks bro, but the way I see marriage to me it's like a partnership. No need to suppress or should I say subjugate my wofe all in the name submissive.


I hope you know men should be submissive to their wives too? It's a marriage, not a military school where you bark orders to your subjects



And I'll say some men won't allow it because women are the kings of overdo, she might one day abuse it
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by xtervaganza(m): 8:35am On Oct 31, 2015
iamdammie:
Hey, d gravity of ds shit depends on some factors..firstly, how old is d op...if yu r above 18, den ur mama has a lotta issues..she obviously has no respect for yu or hw u gonna feel..my dear dat scene cld go a long way in taunting someone's psyche for life..well, I gat no biz wif d strange man,but still I can't stop wondering hw cheap dat man is to go in bed knowing she has grownup kids like yo...(ko ni daa fun bobo yen)....but my dear, u just hv to pretend as if notin is going on cos ur mama obviously is enjoying her sef and I dnt see her stopping because of yu...if u r a guy, leave d house because u cld get emotional one day and commit murder.......( ryt nw am seriously fighting d temptation to ask if mumsi get whatsap acct or bbm pin..)..jst kidding abeg...move on bro...free ur mum
if she was my mom there's no way I'll let it slide



Matter of fact I'll arrange to have that man messed up big time

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by xtervaganza(m): 8:38am On Oct 31, 2015
MsGlobalwonder:
forbidden? shocked in yoruba land? That is new. I'm Yoruba and i'm totally oblivious of such rule. All marriage contract terminates automatically after death of either of the parties involved. How the widow(er) decides to live their life and duration of their mourning is totally their decision and discretion. It's a simple rule of thumb. Some don't move on at all and decide never to remarry nor date, their choice! Some decide to date and remarry at 2months, still their choice! smiley
just stfu with your lies



If you're truly Yoruba you'll know what they call Ile opo.
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by kharn(m): 8:57am On Oct 31, 2015
my dear, I tink urs is quite ok. Hw abt mine? I lost my elder Brother & jst a month after his death d wife is alredy goin out wt sm1 & as a matter of fact within 6 months of my brother's death sh'e gone down 4 secrets affair. Its unbelivable bt that's the truth. Its so funny abt sm ladies nawadays. Dey ar so full of deathly orgy. Jst kip praying 4 her d way I'm doin. because its only God that cn change anybody.
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 9:06am On Oct 31, 2015
xtervaganza:
just stfu with your lies



If you're truly Yoruba you'll know what they call Ile opo.

No I won't stfu! You stfu!! It's appalling to say the least why adults can't have diverging opinions without insults. I won't get used to it! Pray tell me why exactly I should lie that i'm Yoruba when i'm not? Why? Will the lies pay my bills? undecided undecided angry. I'm very Yoruba from Ondo state, Irele precisely. Wth! Who goes to ile-opo in 2015? Even Ooni of Ife's wives are not in any ile-opo (whatever that means). Hian! Get over yourself, face your life; live and let live. Iranu ati abasha.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by swaggerdgrt(m): 9:16am On Oct 31, 2015
xtervaganza:
thanks bro, but the way I see marriage to me it's like a partnership. No need to suppress or should I say subjugate my wofe all in the name submissive.


I hope you know men should be submissive to their wives too? It's a marriage, not a military school where you bark orders to your subjects



And I'll say some men won't allow it because women are the kings of overdo, she might one day abuse it
is true shaa bt as for me ohhh,I must superceed my wife cost nature tlk am evn bible tlk am too
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by swaggerdgrt(m): 9:19am On Oct 31, 2015
MsGlobalwonder:
loool. I understand your frustrations and pains. Waa wa alright. I don't owe u any explanation and you don't have to agree with me. And yes, your entire household ; from the youngest to the oldest are all oloshos and silly and more. They did a bad job of raising you for not teaching you decorum and that people are entitled to their opinions and beliefs. So go tell them dey've raised u badly. grin
story for d godss...d godsss ohhhh....u b olosho if he pain u go hug transformer
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MsGlobalwonder(f): 9:22am On Oct 31, 2015
swaggerdgrt:
story for d godss...d godsss ohhhh....u b olosho if he pain u go hug transformer
hope u've delivered the message to ur entire household? Case dismissed grin kiss

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by xtervaganza(m): 11:17am On Oct 31, 2015
MsGlobalwonder:
No I won't stfu! You stfu!! It's appalling to say the least why adults can't have diverging opinions without insults. I won't get used to it! Pray tell me why exactly I should lie that i'm Yoruba when i'm not? Why? Will the lies pay my bills? undecided undecided angry. I'm very Yoruba from Ondo state, Irele precisely. Wth! Who goes to ile-opo in 2015? Even Ooni of Ife's wives are not in any ile-opo (whatever that means). Hian! Get over yourself, face your life; live and let live. Iranu ati abasha.
lol ok. From what you said here you still don't know what Ile opo means



And how did u know the late Ooni's are not in Ile opo?



Na wa for you ooo
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Oluboonmi(f): 12:20pm On Oct 31, 2015
Youngpo413:
what should you expect from ladies who were busy jumping from one dick to another when they were single all in the name of relationship...such ladies can never ever be satisfied with only one dick,marriage will be like a cage to them...and this woman is a typical example...once more reason a sane man should marry a pure and untouched lady.
Well, the excitement of youth and the things it brings with it, sometimes don't leave a person easily. But talking about pure and untouched, o think it shd be vice versa.
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by bukatyne(f): 12:23pm On Oct 31, 2015
xtervaganza:
wow I'm really upset at this comment of yours



So what's love then? Just 6 months and the love you have for him will poof and disappear?


And bringing the man to the man's house? If anybody tried that with any of my relatives ilk find the man and deal with him, maybe kill him but I'll definitely deal with him

Upset that What really?

Which man's house? What if the wife was the one paying the rent?

In all honesty, if that wife remarried after one month after Her husband's death, she has commited no sin.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by iwaeda: 2:32pm On Oct 31, 2015
fireforfire:


Dat thing is as scary as hell

You need not to be afraid,Go in God'faith.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by itstpia8: 4:50pm On Oct 31, 2015
MsGlobalwonder:
I'm very Yoruba from Ondo state

are you?
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Ewuro4: 5:09pm On Oct 31, 2015
Mom fall my hand oh
Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 5:11pm On Oct 31, 2015
Ewuro4:
Mom fall my hand oh
Go and sleep. undecided

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