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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by sukkot: 1:44pm On Oct 30, 2015

deez hoez aint loyal

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Saylawchar(m): 1:44pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back. Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

Am very sure your mum killed your dad so as to enable her enjoy these men, but tell her no evildoer will go unpunished. God is watching her.....

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by condralbede(m): 1:45pm On Oct 30, 2015

Omoo....Nah so d thing dey sweet am

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by vivaobi: 1:45pm On Oct 30, 2015

coogar:

the woman is a disgrace.....
she must be a nympho! where's the decorum? if she must shäg, it should have been in the man's crib not in the same bed her late husband once slept.

the OP should go to his dad's grave & invoke his spirit. if his spirit is irked, the new boyfriend could get his ass whöoped by a spiritual horsewhip in the next sex session.

story

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by 4nobody4every1: 1:46pm On Oct 30, 2015

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Vado(m): 1:46pm On Oct 30, 2015

You guys should stop aiming the pronoun "Your" at the op. This is just some story on vanguard.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by halix239(f): 1:46pm On Oct 30, 2015

wow, sorry op, dunno what to say, I feel u both shld ve a mother n son kinda talk, would probably clear some things up, it's really sad though

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:46pm On Oct 30, 2015

coogar:

of course, it matters....
unless you don't understand what the word decorum means. how can a widow start bringing different men into her bedroom only 6 months after husband passed away?

pray tell - what kinda tacit message is she sending to her kids? the issue isn't fragility, it is promiscuity. before you know it, those men would start abusing the woman's kids. if she is getting the itch, there are cheap dïldos in oyingbo market or better still.....she should take her men elsewhere but her house.

whether she cared or doesn't care she could be infected with HIV isn't only the concern. there are kids in that house - that is the primary concern. if she's all alone by herself, she could shag all the men in baghdad in her bedroom & no one would care.

The only issue here is the multiple partners. Other than that, I see no reason why she can't bring a man home. The only obligation she owes them is the knowledge that she is seeing someone. Unless she is a religious woman, I see no reason why can't have sex in her own home. The man is dead and he is dead. The living must continue to do what makes them happy and what is right. So can we stop getting sentimental about the significance of the home cheesy

Also the kids are old enough to mind their fvvkinf business. If she isn't maltreating them or abusing them then ehatever their mum is up to is not their concern.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Acidosis(m): 1:49pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

The only issue here is the multiple partners. Other than that, I see no reason why she can't bring a man home. The only obligation she owes them is the knowledge that she is seeing someone. Unless she is a religious woman, I see no reason why can't have sex in her own home. The man is dead and he is dead. The living must continue to do what makes them happy and what is right. So can we stop getting sentimental about the significance of the home

Also the kids are old enough to mind their fvvkinf business. If she isn't maltreating them or abusing them then ehatever their mum is up to is not their concern.

A woman has no right to bring home another guy into her late husband's house. That can only happen if she has no grown up son.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by IceDude(m): 1:49pm On Oct 30, 2015

The only issue i have in this issue is for her to bring the man home. Chai! Ur mama nor dey fear God at all cry

........OP sorry about that, thats life for u. Just start making plans to relocate before u do sumtin tragic someday cry

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by goshen26: 1:50pm On Oct 30, 2015

Pu..must b serviced

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by dwebdesign(m): 1:50pm On Oct 30, 2015

Probably she never loved your dad or she can't just stand being alone. But all is well. Talk to her and pray she will listen to you.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Saao(m): 1:50pm On Oct 30, 2015

Op sorry, I know how u feel. Some women are fake, pretend and profess love just waiting for u to die. Op I guess ur dad will all his properties to u guys before ur mum will take them to her boyfriends? Guard against ur inheritance before she will deny u guys.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Kockane(m): 1:50pm On Oct 30, 2015

I mean no disrespect o, OP but your momsie's is a hoe.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by DukeNija(m): 1:51pm On Oct 30, 2015

NickiRoman:
I believe the vow said till death do us part and she was obviously cheating on him while he was alive,She as right to move on

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by atakamus: 1:52pm On Oct 30, 2015

Ask your yeye mother about what killed your puppsy. Maybe she will tell you. She has a hand on his death ok. Tell your puppsy,s brother if any of the development. Women wicked die.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by sukkot: 1:53pm On Oct 30, 2015

SAMBARRY:
nawa for you o.see as you just conclude like say na for your presence them orchestrate all this things

Op na you I get buisness with. Face your front and mind your buisness. She's not and adolescent that you'll be monitoring. Abi if it was your mom that died and your dad brought in a woman Will you come here to rant?

Face your own problems and leave whatever your mom is doing with her private part

kinda traumatic seeing some grunting ol nigga tearing yo mamas ass up tho. jus sayin

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by MarieEyre: 1:54pm On Oct 30, 2015

It's a Yoruba thing. I'm 100 percent sure the OP is Yoruba. Promiscuity, It's a way of life of the people. lol

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Hefemale: 1:54pm On Oct 30, 2015

when the woman must have gone through hell from the man all in the name of marriage and you expect her to mourn forever abi? A month is enough for some useless Nigerian men.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Jobabori(m): 1:56pm On Oct 30, 2015

Her only fault is bringing not only a man but men to her matrimonial home. I doubt if she has conscience. The poster should understand that she must continue her life after Dad but the way she is doing it is unacceptable

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:57pm On Oct 30, 2015

Acidosis:

A woman has no right to bring home another guy into her late husband's house. That can only happen if she has no grown up son.

Bla bla bla

A woman has a right to bring home another guy into her home. It is her home as much as the husbands. It used to be the marital home until the death of the other partner. Therefore It does not belong to the two of them like it used to, it belongs to the surviving partner cheesy

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If the dead is so pissed, he can come from the grave to seek vengeance cheesy

Who is the fvcking son? What right does he have over his mother? If he start acting like Hulk Hogan, the woman can throw him out of her house. She is fvckibg mother not his sister.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Oluboonmi(f): 1:57pm On Oct 30, 2015

unmmm... I've read a lot of comments on this post...
I'll like to ask: Do we all have the same mind, body, and attitude? No is the answer.

Op, your dad went to the great beyond, may his soul rest well. I see no reason why your mum should not move on. She's not having an affair because she has no husband. She is dating, and there's nothing wrong with that. She wants to move on, its OK.
But for her to be having more than one person is the 'ish' here which I know is not right.
So, what should you do? Have a grown-up talk with her. Let her know you understand that she is spreading her wings and moving on, and that's okay.(I suggest u talk in a cool way cos she's your mother, you talk shabily you can receive slap). Let her know its OK with u for her to date, but only one man. (You should know how to put it nah)

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:57pm On Oct 30, 2015

niggi4life:
She has been cheating on your dad before his demise...
These women ain't loyal!!!!

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:57pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back. Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

that's normal. She is now a free WOMAN and can remarried anytime she want to.
Your job now is to encourage her at all means.

When you get there! You will understand

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:58pm On Oct 30, 2015

sukkot:
kinda traumatic seeing some grunting ol nigga tearing yo mamas ass up tho. jus sayin

If you don't like it, pack out of the house. She has a right to be happy, if you can't be because of sentiments then you must be a bas.tard.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by fatheritunu: 1:59pm On Oct 30, 2015

niggi4life:
She has been cheating on your dad before his demise...
These women ain't loyal!!!!

Bless you man...

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:00pm On Oct 30, 2015

Saao:
Op sorry, I know how u feel. Some women are fake, pretend and profess love just waiting for u to die. Op I guess ur dad will all his properties to u guys before ur mum will take them to her boyfriends? Guard against ur inheritance before she will deny u guys.

Are we talking about the properties both of them suffered for?

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:01pm On Oct 30, 2015

The possibility of your mum having a hand in your dad's death can't be ruled out.Your mum had no love for your dad.She's certaily a certified LovePeddler!The best thing you can do for yourself is to disown her.Take heart.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by peromosele: 2:01pm On Oct 30, 2015

That's must be the reason for your dad sudden dead.that is she must have been having an affair when your dad was still alive, be careful

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 2:01pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back. Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

pinshure or I don belief

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SAMBARRY: 2:01pm On Oct 30, 2015

sukkot:
kinda traumatic seeing some grunting ol nigga tearing yo mamas ass up tho. jus sayin

if you see a girl grinding your dad nko will you feel the same way?

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by sukkot: 2:02pm On Oct 30, 2015

daretodiffer:

If you don't like it, pack out of the house. She has a right to be happy, if you can't be because of sentiments then you must be a bas.tard.

shut your ho ass up woman. park well make i see front. so you dont see whats wrong in a woman living with kids bringing some man to their dads bed after he died ? you must be some demonic infested woman. you need holy ghost fire, holy water, koboko and an exorcism angry

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