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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by raumdeuter: 12:00am On Oct 30, 2015

Beremx:
but it does happen na! You wanna pretend it doesn't happen?

Six months is enough to mourn a spouse. Life must go on!

You mean multiple women on the same bed used to share with the spouse?

If she had done it outside the house or even legally married one of them it might be different

In another country investigators and family would start to wonder what type of death killed the man sef

if you know a guy whose wife died 6months ago and started bringing multiple women to his house where kids still live with him, what would you say

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by iwaeda: 6:25am On Oct 30, 2015

raumdeuter:

You mean multiple women on the same bed used to share with the spouse?

If she had done it outside the house or even legally married one of them it might be different

In another country investigators and family would start to wonder what type of death killed the man sef

if you know a guy whose wife died 6months ago and started bringing multiple women to his house where kids still live with him, what would you say

The woman needs emotional healing,those men no get house

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by NickiRoman: 6:54am On Oct 30, 2015

I believe the vow said till death do us part and they never had a happy marriage,She as right to move on

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Kimoni: 8:23am On Oct 30, 2015

Hehehehehehehe

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Qualer: 8:48am On Oct 30, 2015

EggovinMma:
Please leave mom alone oooooo.
Dad is dead, so mom can continue her life biko.
Car wey dem pack for six months need proper servicing.
By the way, tell mom to stop bringing men into the house. It's disrespectful.

If na dad na, na normal thing.But because of na mom, culture must apply.

you sound like someone who loves shagging a lot, i mean a lot!!! cheesy

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 9:54am On Oct 30, 2015

Qualer:

you sound like someone who loves shagging a lot, i mean a lot!!!

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by iwaeda: 12:47pm On Oct 30, 2015

lalasticlala and ishilove; come and see beremx fighting here grin

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Beremx(f): 1:23pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:
lalasticlala and ishilove; come and see beremx fighting here

are you sure you are okay?

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Bonapart(m): 1:32pm On Oct 30, 2015

Your mom killed your dad with adultery

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:32pm On Oct 30, 2015

Women can hardly stay without a man.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by deramarks(f): 1:33pm On Oct 30, 2015

No she isnt

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by seedorfg(m): 1:35pm On Oct 30, 2015

this

ho1es ain't loyal

grin

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by seangy4konji: 1:35pm On Oct 30, 2015

I am not a bastard.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by WailingWailer00(m): 1:36pm On Oct 30, 2015

No vex o, your mom's a LovePeddler

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by mekaboy(m): 1:36pm On Oct 30, 2015

Why u no snap them? What shows u did not make up this crap like most romancelanders do?

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by omoharry(f): 1:36pm On Oct 30, 2015

Maybe she did not love your Dad as much as you thought..Was your Dad a good and loving father and husband?..One thing i know is that when a wife loses a good and caring husband , she is thrown into morning and will be so deep in thought that she can not tell happenings around her not to talk of Looking at another man.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by LockDown69(m): 1:36pm On Oct 30, 2015

niggi4life:
She has been cheating on your dad before his demise...
These women ain't loyal!!!!

Seconded!

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:37pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back. Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

So sad. Just move on. There is nothing you can do. She can never change until death or disease hit her................ If you have another place to go, just move.
It will be very shameful and dangerous to go into rivalry with her.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:37pm On Oct 30, 2015

niggi4life:
She has been cheating on your dad before his demise...
These women ain't loyal!!!!

By their comments you shall know them? how can you come to such conclusion without thinking deep

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 30, 2015

Oppypoppy:
If na man now no one wld raise eyebrow. Abeg u can't teach ur mom how to live her life BC she bore. Let her be and you focus on your life. Aftrtall no law is holding her back, she is a widow and can remarry, if she wills. Buh if its getting too much you can talk to her with respect.

Bringing different men home to sleep with in front of her children will not take away her boredom. When your own mother dies, give her such advice because she may need it more.

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Dozzysamuel(m): 1:38pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back. Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

...that means she had long expected the departure of your Dad,and it's absolutely wrong.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by babafirst(m): 1:38pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:

The family can conclude she killed the man

Even me I am concluding she killed the man directly by poison or indirectly by hypertension.This woman has been banging around even before the man died.And if you can still get a DNA through any means, though your Dad is no more I will advice you do that cos the late Baba may not even be your Dad.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by sleek82(m): 1:38pm On Oct 30, 2015

cococandy:

6 months is a decent mourning period. So dating after that time isn't a bad thing.

But bringing different men into the house she shared with your late dad is in bad taste. I agree with that. And the huge deal is that it's not even one person. That's where I'm like

But if your concern is the time, I think people generally believe 6 months mourning period is okay. Some people even remarry just a year later. So they must have started seeing another person some months after the loss. Although most people would wait a bit longer in order not offend the sensibilities of their kids but if they choose not to, it's not a sin. You know.

Face it, even after 10yrs, you still won't like to see her with another person because the memory of your dad is and will always be fresh in your mind.

wonderful comment!

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Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by hotdi(m): 1:39pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back. Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

Swear that you have not done the same 'omonyo' kiss

since you lost your dad six months ago grin

Stop judging your mum. You no the shame?

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by godoluwa(m): 1:40pm On Oct 30, 2015

iwaeda:
Less than six months after dad died, our mum started seeing someone else. I knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could move on so quickly. She went to a party with her friend and when I waited till midnight and she had’t returned, 1 went to bed.

In the morning, I took her breakfast. I opened the bedroom door then I noticed there was someone on Dad’s side of the bed. He grunted and rolled over when he saw me. I was in shock. “What the hell is going on here?” I yelled then ran out of the room. Sadly, he was the first of many men. Most weekends, Mum would go out and bring someone back. Her actions are out of order. Do you think she’s in her right mind?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/im-sad-mum-is-having-an-affair-six-months-after-dads-death/

WOMAN?!

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Btruth: 1:40pm On Oct 30, 2015

What a world of affliction! lipsrsealed

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by SANIMARYAM1: 1:42pm On Oct 30, 2015

U beta ask her who is ur true father oo self

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by demarc001: 1:42pm On Oct 30, 2015

Maybe her Engine is old and need consistent servicing not to pack off

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:42pm On Oct 30, 2015

I sympathise with on the death of the dad. I dont believe in the doctrine of 'for better for worse'. The mom happens to be a loose canon.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Acidosis(m): 1:43pm On Oct 30, 2015

Useless boy,

The time you spent typing that trash on vanguard is enough to kill your mothers' boyfriends. Just poison the last boyfriend, and your mom would be sent to the outer world to continue her loveless marriage with your late dad.

Re: I’m Sad! Mum Is Having An Affair Six Month’s After Dad’s Death’ by Nobody: 1:43pm On Oct 30, 2015

EggovinMma:
Please leave mom alone oooooo.
Dad is dead, so mom can continue her life biko.
Car wey dem pack for six months need proper servicing.
By the way, tell mom to stop bringing men into the house. It's disrespectful.

If na dad na, na normal thing.But because of na mom, culture must apply.

DEM DEY FIND ANIMAL WEY GET HORN THIS SNAIL SEF DEY SHOW FACE. SMH

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