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Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by JeSoul(f): 3:58pm On Jun 03, 2009
Please this topic is for Christians only but if you're not one and can refrain from the typical mudslinging that's rampant in this section then your honest thoughts are more than welcome  smiley

I've been meaning to discuss this topic for a while now.
At a bible study we were discussing the subject and the general consensus is "No, a person is not born gay anymore than a person can be born to lie or commit adultery".

- What we are all born with is the sinful nature. I think we can all agree on that, and I think we can also all agree that we all struggle with different sins, what I might be weak in, you might be strong in and vice versa.

- Now if the sinful nature is comprised of all these different sins - including homosexuality - so could it just be that those who struggle with homosexuality are one of the 'unfortunates' who just happen to be weak in this particular and unpopular sin? I'm not sure, but I think its a point that warrants and begs for further thought and analysis so any takers? or leavers?
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jun 03, 2009
It is true that we are born with the nature to sin but we are also born with a natural inclination towards the opposite sex. Even animals, who do not have the nature of God neither were created in His image naturally gravitate towards members of the opposite sex.

the bible is CLEAR - Gen 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

That was the natural order . . . even after Adam and Eve fell that order still prevailed.

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Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by JeSoul(f): 4:18pm On Jun 03, 2009
davidylan:

It is true that we are born with the nature to sin but we are also born with a natural inclination towards the opposite sex . . .

That was the natural order . . . even after Adam and Eve fell that order still prevailed.

100% agree. So what is the explanation for the people who deviate from this 'natural inclination'? To them their choice very natural. If its sin as the bible describes it, isn't it still a product of the sinful nature?
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by mnwankwo(m): 4:43pm On Jun 03, 2009
These are my views on the issue you raised. Their has to be a distinction between the image of God that is man and what this image chose to become as a result of his or her free will. My sensing is that man was sinless at the time God created him or her and the image of God which is man is also sinless in its nature. However this image of God has a free will which can lead to decisions in contradiction to its nature, the image of God. Thus a crude analogy is that man as he is created by God is a diamond that shines. But if this diamond is thrown into a mud, the dirt can cover the brilliance of this diamond that people can no longer recognise the diamond. Inspite of this, the mud or dirt only covers the diamond but is not part of the diamond, that is the mud or dirt is not an intrinsic nature of the daimond, rather it is external to the nature of the diamond and can thus be washed away.

Homosexuality like all sins is not a part of the image of God or the spirit. However through the decision to taste impure currents, the spirit can acquire the mud of homosexuality. The thickness of the acquired mud can become so powerful that it entirely covers the brilliance of the spirit and strongly predisposes the person to incline to homosexuality. Thus in some cases of homosexuality, the individuals are born with the inclination to become homosexuals. Some other cases of homosexuality are only acquired during adulescence, adulthood. This later case can easily be treated and cured but the earlier case in which people are born with a strong inclination to be homosexual is difficult to treat except if God through his called servants intervene in the matter.

My views are not based on the bible but I hope it will be helpful. Stay blessed.

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Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by dalaman: 5:17pm On Jun 03, 2009
I personally believe that a person can be born gay, I have come across a lot of gay people here in Europe and I believe them when they say that they did not chose their sexuality. This behaviour even exist naturally in animals and has been very well documented it has been proven scietifically that it is not a mental illness.

But, actually, some same-sex birds do do it. So do beetles, sheep, fruit bats, dolphins, and orangutans. Zoologists are discovering that homosexual and bisexual activity is not unknown within the animal kingdom.

Roy and Silo, two male chinstrap penguins at New York's Central Park Zoo have been inseparable for six years now. They display classic pair-bonding behavior—entwining of necks, mutual preening, flipper flapping, and the rest. They also have sex, while ignoring potential female mates.
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Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by morpheus24: 6:54pm On Jun 03, 2009
@ poster


As it is evident that people are born black , white, brown yellow short, tall, retarded, intelligent, weak, strong,dumb, stupid, slow,transsexual, hemaphrodites,conjoined,

i don't think any one chose any of the above attributes. Therefore it is quite plausible to say I am of the opinion. People are born gay and do not choose this inclination.
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by JeSoul(f): 7:18pm On Jun 03, 2009
m_nwankwo:

These are my views on the issue you raised. Their has to be a distinction between the image of God that is man and what this image chose to become as a result of his or her free will. My sensing is that man was sinless at the time God created him or her and the image of God which is man is also sinless in its nature. However this image of God has a free will which can lead to decisions in contradiction to its nature, the image of God. Thus a crude analogy is that man as he is created by God is a diamond that shines. But if this diamond is thrown into a mud, the dirt can cover the brilliance of this diamond that people can no longer recognise the diamond. Inspite of this, the mud or dirt only covers the diamond but is not part of the diamond, that is the mud or dirt is not an intrinsic nature of the daimond, rather it is external to the nature of the diamond and can thus be washed away.

Homosexuality like all sins is not a part of the image of God or the spirit. However through the decision to taste impure currents, the spirit can acquire the mud of homosexuality. The thickness of the acquired mud can become so powerful that it entirely covers the brilliance of the spirit and strongly predisposes the person to incline to homosexuality. Thus in some cases of homosexuality, the individuals are born with the inclination to become homosexuals. Some other cases of homosexuality are only acquired during adulescence, adulthood. This later case can easily be treated and cured but the earlier case in which people are born with a strong inclination to be homosexual is difficult to treat except if God through his called servants intervene in the matter.

My views are not based on the bible but I hope it will be helpful. Stay blessed.

Thank you for your response Nwankwo.
Your views may not be based on the bible but there's a lotta biblical truth in it. I lose you when you make the seperation btw "those who were born gay" and "those who develop it". Care to explain further how some come with it and others don't?

Thanks.
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by JeSoul(f): 7:20pm On Jun 03, 2009
OLAADEGBU:

@Poster,

Since the fall of man sin has done a lot of damage to what is natural as you will see people are now inclined to bestiality, homosexuality, polygamy and paedophilia.  Most of which is acquired by child abuse and strange upbringing and what they have been exposed to when they were young and indoctrinated with.  These secular humanists have now influenced governments to be teaching these weird practises to kindergartens, no wonder they grow up to think that they were born gay which the likes of Huxley would be excited about and which says so much for their morality if they have any.

  Thanks for the reply my brotha. Correct me if I'm misunderstanding you: do you mean societal influences is what leads people to believe they were born gay?

 
morpheus24:

@ poster


As it is evident that people are born black , white, brown yellow short, tall, retarded, intelligent, weak, strong,dumb, stupid, slow,transsexual, hemaphrodites,conjoined,

i don't think any one chose any of the above attributes. Therefore it is quite plausible to say I am of the opinion. People are born gay and do not choose this inclination.
and I can def appreciate how you reached that conclusion smiley
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by bawomolo(m): 8:55pm On Jun 03, 2009
Even animals, who do not have the nature of God neither were created in His image naturally gravitate towards members of the opposite sex.

I finally it strange you can predict the sexual behavior of all animal species on the planet include the hermaphrodite and asexual ones.

You my friend are baffling.

This behaviour even exist naturally in animals and has been very well documented it has been proven scietifically that it is not a mental illness.

true, i definitely agree.  The prevalence of bisexuality among bonobo is no coincidence.  Sexuality is a continuous spectrum to me.

So what is the explanation for the people who deviate from this 'natural inclination'?

what natural inclination?
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by OLAADEGBU(m): 1:52am On Jun 04, 2009
The Last Days are here.

Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by mnwankwo(m): 2:05pm On Jun 04, 2009
JeSoul:

Thank you for your response Nwankwo.
Your views may not be based on the bible but there's a lotta biblical truth in it. I lose you when you make the seperation btw "those who were born gay" and "those who develop it". Care to explain further how some come with it and others don't?

Thanks.

Thanks JeSoul. I will attempt to give my perception on the issues you raised. Homosexuality is sexual attraction towards the same sex. Such attraction is not limited to physical sexual relationships alone but include our thoughts, emotions, motivations and even what happens in our dreams. Homosexuality is a distortion of the will of God and it is human beings via their free will that gave rise to this abberation. There are those who are born with a strong inclination or disposition to become homosexuals. Such individauls possees the strong inclination to homosexuality brought about by their genes. At the moment no group of genes are yet associated with homosexuality but I predict that genetic profiling of a large number of those whose stories suggest that they are born with the predisposition will reveal significant differences in their genes, its expression as well as the nature of their brains compared to genuinely heterosexual individuals. That they are born with the inclination does not mean that they are born homosexauls, rather they have a high probability of becoming one due to underlying genetic factors. Most people in this category often fight a loosing battle that drives them to despair because they clearly sense the aberration but are powerless to stop it. Counselling and therapies are often useless because the reason for the distortion which is reflected in their genes lies in activitities that happened before birth. At this point, you may regard what I will say as strange but I will still say it and hopefully some of it may be helpful.

Our life presently on earth is not the first time we have been on earth. All human beings have been here several times in different guises, nationality, religion and in some cases in different sexes. Thus what happens to us in this life is a snapshort of our entire existence, that means that some of the things we are presently experiencing in this life time have its causes, not in this life time but in a previous earth lives, that is in previous incarnations as human beings on earth. The image of God that is man, the spirit have the ability given to it by God to bring forms from formless power of God. These forms include our bodies (both physically visible and invincible). Our earthly body is the densest and it is one that everybody can see with his or her physical eyes. The spirit also forms the earthly body through the nature of its activity. God created us as either male or female spirits. Thus the human spirit is a split species. Male spirits form male bodies while female spirits form female bodies. That is the way God made it. But if a male spirit start to engage in activities that are feminine, it forms female bodies including a female physical body. Thus when this distortion happens, you have a male soul entrapped in a female body and a female soul entrapped in a male body. Individuals gifted with claivoyant abilities can clearly see that outwardly, that is in his physical body, he is a woman but the soul is a man. Thus, those who are born with the strong inclination to be homosexuals distorted the nature of their activities in a previous earth life which then have a physical materialization in this present life. Thus they are male souls in female bodies and female souls in male bodies. Because it is a female soul in a male body, it can be sexually attracted to female souls in female bodies that are not born with the predisposition to be gay but are developing homosexual tendencies in this life or is attracted to a male soul in a female body. Thus although the body is female, the soul is male and this weak male soul (outwardly a woman) is attracted weak female soul in a female body that is in the process of distortion or to a weak female soul in a mans body (outwardly a man). Thus in one case you find sexual attraction between people of the same physical sex because one is outwordly a woman (weak male soul) and the other is a weak female soul (outwardly a woman) but striving towards male charcteristics. Thus in this scenarion you find an effeminate man (outwordly a man but harbouring a female soul) attracted to another effeminate man (outwardy a man, inwardly a man but acquiring feminine characteristics). The other scenario which people think is heterosexual but is intrinsically homosexual is where an effeminate man (female soul in male body) is attracted to a masculine woman (male soul in a female body). However except you are gifted with the ability to see the soul, it will be wrong to make judjements based on what is physically and emotionally observable. There are a lot more to this than what I have described. In summary people who are born with with the inclination to be inwardly homosexuals sowed the seeds for homosexuality in a previous earth life and those seeds come to fruitfication in this earth life.

The other group are people who are not born with the inclination but acquired the tendency during childhood, adolecence, adulthood or even at old age. The physical body of this group will not change in this life, that is they remain a woman but if they have stroven towards male charateristics, they will be reincarnated as a man in the next earth life. The same goes for a man who strives for feminine activities. In the next incarnation the soul will be incarnated as a woman. Child molestation, tasting of impure vibrations like pornography, reading impure books and movies glamorising physical sexuality, sexual perversions, and occultic practices are some of the activities that can distort the pure nature of the male or female spirit sowing the seeds whose fruits in this life or another will result in homopsexuality outwardly and inwardly. As I said in my last post,  the sin of homosexuality can be atoned for and cured but it requires the participation of one called by God, given the necessary power to help the soul cure its distortion.

Lastly an undistorted man or woman (normal human beings) senses an inward natural repulsion to those who are already distorted or are in the proceess of distorting their soul. Stay blessed.
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by TayoUK(m): 2:20pm On Jun 04, 2009
Simple answer to your question is NO
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by AKO1(m): 2:24pm On Jun 04, 2009
Tayo-UK:

Simple answer to your question is NO

Any reasons? undecided
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by oludashmi(f): 2:25pm On Jun 04, 2009
davidylan:

It is true that we are born with the nature to sin but we are also born with a natural inclination towards the opposite sex. Even animals, who do not have the nature of God neither were created in His image naturally gravitate towards members of the opposite sex.

the bible is CLEAR - Gen 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

That was the natural order . . . even after Adam and Eve fell that order still prevailed.
True talk!!

God created a man and a woman so that only opposite sexes can pant after each other. God made no mistake, if not he would have created a woman and two men so that when the woman is not around the men can sleep with each other.

No one has never and will ever be born homosexual.
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by platinumnk(f): 2:33pm On Jun 04, 2009
On the topic- no one can be born Gay, its a destructive lie that blinds people.


Even though no sin is greater than the other, so I dont make a whole lotta whoopla about it.
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by JeSoul(f): 2:33pm On Jun 04, 2009
m_nwankwo:

Thanks JeSoul. I will attempt to give my perception on the issues you raised. Homosexuality is sexual attraction towards the same sex. Such attraction is not limited to physical sexual relationships alone but include our thoughts, emotions, motivations and even what happens in our dreams. Homosexuality is a distortion of the will of God and it is human beings via their free will that gave rise to this abberation. There are those who are born with a strong inclination or disposition to become homosexuals. Such individauls possees the strong inclination to homosexuality brought about by their genes. At the moment no group of genes are yet associated with homosexuality but I predict that genetic profiling of a large number of those whose stories suggest that they are born with the predisposition will reveal significant differences in their genes, its expression as well as the nature of their brains compared to genuinely heterosexual individuals. That they are born with the inclination does not mean that they are born homosexauls, rather they have a high probability of becoming one due to underlying genetic factors. Most people in this category often fight a loosing battle that drives them to despair because they clearly sense the aberration but are powerless to stop it. Counselling and therapies are often useless because the reason for the distortion which is reflected in their genes lies in activitities that happened before birth. At this point, you may regard what I will say as strange but I will still say it and hopefully some of it may be helpful.
 Okay I see where you're going now.
Strange indeed but its not too far from the scenario the presented in the header of some people been weaker in this particular sin compared to others. I haven't done extensive studies but I highly doubt anyone so far has been able to come up with definitive evidence homosexuality is linked to ones genes. Do you have any evidence that led you to this conclusion?

Our life presently on earth is not the first time we have been on earth. All human beings have been here several times in different guises, nationality, religion and in some cases in different sexes. Thus what happens to us in this life is a snapshort of our entire existence, that means that some of the things we are presently experiencing in this life time have its causes, not in this life time but in a previous earth lives, that is in previous incarnations as human beings on earth. The image of God that is man, the spirit have the ability given to it by God to bring forms from formless power of God. These forms include our bodies (both physically visible and invincible). Our earthly body is the densest and it is one that everybody can see with his or her physical eyes. The spirit also forms the earthly body through the nature of its activity. God created us as either male or female spirits. Thus the human spirit is a split species. Male spirits form male bodies while female spirits form female bodies. That is the way God made it. But if a male spirit start to engage in activities that are feminine, it forms female bodies including a female physical body. Thus when this distortion happens, you have a male soul entrapped in a female body and a female soul entrapped in a male body. Individuals gifted with claivoyant abilities can clearly see that outwardly, that is in his physical body, he is a woman but the soul is a man. Thus, those who are born with the strong inclination to be homosexuals distorted the nature of their activities in a previous earth life which then have a physical materialization in this present life. Thus they are male souls in female bodies and female souls in male bodies. Because it is a female soul in a male body, it can be sexually attracted to female souls in female bodies that are not born with the predisposition to be gay but are developing homosexual tendencies in this life or is attracted to a male soul in a female body. Thus although the body is female, the soul is male and this weak male soul (outwardly a woman) is attracted weak female soul in a female body that is in the process of distortion or to a weak female soul in a mans body (outwardly a man). Thus in one case you find sexual attraction between people of the same physical sex because one is outwordly a woman (weak male soul) and the other is a weak female soul (outwardly a woman) but striving towards male charcteristics. Thus in this scenarion you find an effeminate man (outwordly a man but harbouring a female soul) attracted to another effeminate man (outwardy a man, inwardly a man but acquiring feminine characteristics). The other scenario which people think is heterosexual but is intrinsically homosexual is where an effeminate man (female soul in male body) is attracted to a masculine woman (male soul in a female body). However except you are gifted with the ability to see the soul, it will be wrong to make judjements based on what is physically and emotionally observable. There are a lot more to this than what I have described. In summary people who are born with with the inclination to be inwardly homosexuals sowed the seeds for homosexuality in a previous earth life and those seeds come to fruitfication in this earth life.

 wow  smiley  this one pass my power my brother. I don't believe in re-incarnation becos of the simple fact the bible says "it is appointed to men to die once and then the judgement". But I must certainly say that your beliefs on the matter are very colorful. If someone asked you how you arrived at the above opinons what would your response be?

 I agree with you mostly on your last paragraph and as OLAADEGBU also says, society can definitely influence a person towards homosexuality.
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by horny4u(f): 2:35pm On Jun 04, 2009
m_nwankwo:

These are my views on the issue you raised. Their has to be a distinction between the image of God that is man and what this image chose to become as a result of his or her free will. My sensing is that man was sinless at the time God created him or her and the image of God which is man is also sinless in its nature. However this image of God has a free will which can lead to decisions in contradiction to its nature, the image of God. Thus a crude analogy is that man as he is created by God is a diamond that shines. But if this diamond is thrown into a mud, the dirt can cover the brilliance of this diamond that people can no longer recognise the diamond. Inspite of this, the mud or dirt only covers the diamond but is not part of the diamond, that is the mud or dirt is not an intrinsic nature of the daimond, rather it is external to the nature of the diamond and can thus be washed away.

Homosexuality like all sins is not a part of the image of God or the spirit. However through the decision to taste impure currents, the spirit can acquire the mud of homosexuality. The thickness of the acquired mud can become so powerful that it entirely covers the brilliance of the spirit and strongly predisposes the person to incline to homosexuality. Thus in some cases of homosexuality, the individuals are born with the inclination to become homosexuals. Some other cases of homosexuality are only acquired during adulescence, adulthood. This later case can easily be treated and cured but the earlier case in which people are born with a strong inclination to be homosexual is difficult to treat except if God through his called servants intervene in the matter.

My views are not based on the bible but I hope it will be helpful. Stay blessed.

Exactly my thots while i may not be gay, i have gay friends and i do not treat them any differently but in my thoughts i send them thoughts of strength becos all one of us was so pure we will be in heaven now not on earth.
I will say .
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by oludashmi(f): 2:35pm On Jun 04, 2009
dalaman:

I personally believe that a person can be born gay, I have come across a lot of gay people here in Europe and I believe them when they say that they did not chose their sexuality. [/b]This behaviour even exist naturally in animals and has been very well documented it has been [b]proven scietifically that it is not a mental illness.

Can you prove where it is in the bible/kuran that God supports a man to man or woman to woman sex? This is one of the reasons for Sodom and Gomorah destruction.

Ask a mad man on the street what is wrong with him and he will successfully justify his actions cos he is actually communicating with some people (although somewhere beyond your sight). If only he is aware of his status, he will request for a cure.

It is beyond a mental illness, infact there is no word for it both scientifically and grammatically.
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by Secretz(f): 2:35pm On Jun 04, 2009
Ok,I will not go on religious grounds, because I know what I believe the answer is.

However, I have gay friends, both male and female and they have often confided in me about their sexuality and how it came about, I have also asked why they are gay (assuming it was a matter of choice).

The responses I received were that since being little,  they have always felt different and that they never had an interest in the opposite sex, like there was no form of 'attraction' not in the slightest. They were interested in different toys, games etc etc and as they grew older, they became 'aware' that yes infact they were gay, they could only really confirm their 'gay-ness' often after doing the 'act'. One of my gay colleagues, actually said 'I am a devout christian, I read my bible, I go to church every sunday, I pay my tithes, I preach the word'.   undecided

This confused me because I then told him that christianity and being gay, doesn't really  go hand in hand, God made Adam and Eve, man and woman, that relatively he is committing a sin. He said, 'I'm sorry, but this is just the way I have felt since I can remember'.   lipsrsealed
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by JustGood(m): 2:36pm On Jun 04, 2009
Influences turn people gay. I dont believe anyone is ever born gay. They get influenced by their warped thoughts and decide to practice.

If people are born gay, it means that some people are probably just born with bestiality in them.

Ribbish!
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by JustGood(m): 2:39pm On Jun 04, 2009
Secretz:

Ok,I will not go on religious grounds, because I know what I believe the answer is.


The responses I received were that since being little, they have always felt different and that they never had an interest in the opposite sex, like there was no form of 'attraction' not in the slightest. They were interested in different toys, games etc etc and as they grew older, they became 'aware' that yes infact they were gay, they could only really confirm their 'gay-ness' often after doing the 'act'. One of my gay colleagues, actually said 'I am a devout christian, I read my bible, I go to church every sunday, I pay my tithes, I preach the word'. undecided
This confused me because I then told him that christianity and being gay, doesn't really go hand in hand, God made Adam and Eve, man and woman, that relatively he is committing a sin. He said, 'I'm sorry, but this is just the way I have felt since I can remember'. lipsrsealed

the bolded is utter nonsense. You cant claim to be a christian and say practice unashamedly, the very thing that christainity is completely against. Such people are not to be found near any bible-believing church.

It's either you're a bible-believing christian or not! You cant say you are a christian and proclaim something contrary to enshrined christian doctrine.
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by Ibime(m): 2:40pm On Jun 04, 2009
Nah mate. . . . you cannot be born gay. . . . society is what pervades your mind and distorts your preference. . . . if you were born in a society where homosexuality is encouraged, your chances of becoming gay are higher. . . . for example, look at the explosion in the number of gays in Naija since we got exposed to the internet and modern communication. . . . I can swear, I never knew what gay was until I was 14 years old. . . .one day, I was just going home in my estate when an older guy stopped me and started chatting to me saying he wants to be my friend and bla bla bla. . . . I thought it was one of the usual 'friend requests' you so often get in Naija. . . . .I said OK. . . .from there I went to my friends house (who was 23 years old) and told him that that guy at the gate said he wants to be my friend and bla bla bla. . . . all of a sudden, my friend got angry, saying he is going to go and talk to the guy at the gate and tell him to mind his business. . . . I said "why now?". . . . he said the guy is gay. . . and that was the first time I learnt the notion of homosexuality. . . . I never knew it was even an option. . . so in answer to your question, NO!. . . . no one is born gay. . . . some guys are naturally effeminate, but I know many effeminate guys we grew up with in Naija who are red-blooded heterosexuals. . . .
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by horny4u(f): 2:42pm On Jun 04, 2009
m_nwankwo:

Thanks JeSoul. I will attempt to give my perception on the issues you raised. Homosexuality is sexual attraction towards the same sex. Such attraction is not limited to physical sexual relationships alone but include our thoughts, emotions, motivations and even what happens in our dreams. Homosexuality is a distortion of the will of God and it is human beings via their free will that gave rise to this abberation. There are those who are born with a strong inclination or disposition to become homosexuals. Such individauls possees the strong inclination to homosexuality brought about by their genes. At the moment no group of genes are yet associated with homosexuality but I predict that genetic profiling of a large number of those whose stories suggest that they are born with the predisposition will reveal significant differences in their genes, its expression as well as the nature of their brains compared to genuinely heterosexual individuals. That they are born with the inclination does not mean that they are born homosexauls, rather they have a high probability of becoming one due to underlying genetic factors. Most people in this category often fight a loosing battle that drives them to despair because they clearly sense the aberration but are powerless to stop it. Counselling and therapies are often useless because the reason for the distortion which is reflected in their genes lies in activitities that happened before birth. At this point, you may regard what I will say as strange but I will still say it and hopefully some of it may be helpful.

Our life presently on earth is not the first time we have been on earth. All human beings have been here several times in different guises, nationality, religion and in some cases in different sexes. Thus what happens to us in this life is a snapshort of our entire existence, that means that some of the things we are presently experiencing in this life time have its causes, not in this life time but in a previous earth lives, that is in previous incarnations as human beings on earth. The image of God that is man, the spirit have the ability given to it by God to bring forms from formless power of God. These forms include our bodies (both physically visible and invincible). Our earthly body is the densest and it is one that everybody can see with his or her physical eyes. The spirit also forms the earthly body through the nature of its activity. God created us as either male or female spirits. Thus the human spirit is a split species. Male spirits form male bodies while female spirits form female bodies. That is the way God made it. But if a male spirit start to engage in activities that are feminine, it forms female bodies including a female physical body. Thus when this distortion happens, you have a male soul entrapped in a female body and a female soul entrapped in a male body. Individuals gifted with claivoyant abilities can clearly see that outwardly, that is in his physical body, he is a woman but the soul is a man. Thus, those who are born with the strong inclination to be homosexuals distorted the nature of their activities in a previous earth life which then have a physical materialization in this present life. Thus they are male souls in female bodies and female souls in male bodies. Because it is a female soul in a male body, it can be sexually attracted to female souls in female bodies that are not born with the predisposition to be gay but are developing homosexual tendencies in this life or is attracted to a male soul in a female body. Thus although the body is female, the soul is male and this weak male soul (outwardly a woman) is attracted weak female soul in a female body that is in the process of distortion or to a weak female soul in a mans body (outwardly a man). Thus in one case you find sexual attraction between people of the same physical sex because one is outwordly a woman (weak male soul) and the other is a weak female soul (outwardly a woman) but striving towards male charcteristics. Thus in this scenarion you find an effeminate man (outwordly a man but harbouring a female soul) attracted to another effeminate man (outwardy a man, inwardly a man but acquiring feminine characteristics). The other scenario which people think is heterosexual but is intrinsically homosexual is where an effeminate man (female soul in male body) is attracted to a masculine woman (male soul in a female body). However except you are gifted with the ability to see the soul, it will be wrong to make judjements based on what is physically and emotionally observable. There are a lot more to this than what I have described. In summary people who are born with with the inclination to be inwardly homosexuals sowed the seeds for homosexuality in a previous earth life and those seeds come to fruitfication in this earth life.

The other group are people who are not born with the inclination but acquired the tendency during childhood, adolecence, adulthood or even at old age. The physical body of this group will not change in this life, that is they remain a woman but if they have stroven towards male charateristics, they will be reincarnated as a man in the next earth life. The same goes for a man who strives for feminine activities. In the next incarnation the soul will be incarnated as a woman. Child molestation, tasting of impure vibrations like pornography, reading impure books and movies glamorising physical sexuality, sexual perversions, and occultic practices are some of the activities that can distort the pure nature of the male or female spirit sowing the seeds whose fruits in this life or another will result in homopsexuality outwardly and inwardly. As I said in my last post,  the sin of homosexuality can be atoned for and cured but it requires the participation of one called by God, given the necessary power to help the soul cure its distortion.

Lastly an . Stay blessed.

 

I urge you to open heartedly read Nwakwo mail as quoted above, it is full of wisdom ,far from us being pure we must seek wisdom and explanation.Nwankwo i disagee here "undistorted man or woman (normal human beings) senses an inward natural repulsion to those who are already distorted or are in the proceess of distorting their soul"
Should we treat with repulsion another weakness or do we offer sympathetic understanding, while we repluse the act we should not repulse the person after all the leader of all said throw the first stone he who is unstained by sin, abi ke, we are rubbing minds ni o, cos i am a sinner and oh how i wish i could be really pure but we have our propensities and we can throw the water away but please lets save the baby there in is True Love.
N>B i totally believe in reincarnation, totally
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by Secretz(f): 2:45pm On Jun 04, 2009
JustGood:

the bolded is utter nonsense. You cant claim to be a christian and say practice unashamedly, the very thing that christainity is completely against. Such people are not to be found near any bible-believing church.

It's either you're a bible-believing christian or not! You cant say you are a christian and proclaim something contrary to enshrined christian doctrine.

Well, I agree with you 100%. I do not believe people are born  gay; environment,circumstances, upbringing and many other underlining factors influence. The point that many people especially in the western world see it as being 'okay' or nothing soo bad, helps to influence even more.

What really gets me, is the so called gay pastors and priests!  lipsrsealed
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by proudly9ja(m): 2:54pm On Jun 04, 2009
I am not a medical doctor but I think I know a bit about hormones and genes. First and foremost, some men are born naturally with excess female hormones and I think its called the progesterone or egesterone. You will find these men in many societies today displaying woman like behaviours and you will mostly see them in the company of girls. In Nigeria, people even go ahead and call them 'obirin' meaning woman. For me, I think for these kind of people, they are 'born' with it and as such, it belies on them to fight it and do the right thing. It is also their parents' responsibilities not to indulge their woman like tendencies from childhood. Trust me, they can be overcome. Some girls are also born with excess male hormones called the testosterone. They do same thing as described for their male counterparts except in reverse.

Now you may say, the child was born with it so its not his fault. True. But one thing as christians we must understand is that the day Adam sinned, he brought sin into the world and since that day, Man took his destiny away from God's Hands and decided things for himself and his generations yet unborn. That is why if a woman who takes alcohol heavily during pregnacy gives birth to a deformed child, you cannot blame God for it. The issue of the why and how children are born with excess hormones of the opposite sex I cannot explain because I do not know but I am certain that is by our own doing. Its the same way some people who are called kleptomaniacs. They have an irresistible tendency to steal. No matter how rich they are, they get this satisfaction from stealing even petty things they usually do not need.

Same thing like someone said, homosexuuality can be imbibed from society. I do not want to talk too much on this as some posts before me have dwelt on it.

What then can be done. As a christian, first thing Il say is prayer. Also the person needs serious councelling and therapy. But first, he must understand and agree that it is wrong for him to be a homosexual and must accept to change.

Hope Ive made some sense

my tots.

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Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by JustGood(m): 2:54pm On Jun 04, 2009
Secretz:

Well, I agree with you 100%. I do not believe people are born  gay; environment,circumstances, upbringing and many other underlining factors influence. The point that many people especially in the western world see it as being 'okay' or nothing soo bad, helps to influence even more.

What really gets me, is the so called gay pastors and priests!  lipsrsealed

Gay pastor sha! Anyone can call himself pastor abi?

So, when gay pastor wants to preach and gets to the part where the bible condemns homosexuality, what will he say?

The world has turned upside down
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by Tonyet1(m): 2:54pm On Jun 04, 2009
those that were assumed as born-gay were simply possessed with the SPIRIT OF PERVERSION!

those that were made gays were so because they would not retain God in their thoughts, therefore God gave them onto a REPROBATE MIND
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by Emperoh(m): 3:01pm On Jun 04, 2009
When God created man, he felt he needed a companion and a helper. . . . , he didn't get him a fellow man.
He tooks his rib and got him a WOMAN. . . . being gay is a complete distortion and deviation from moral and standard norm

No man was genetically inbued with Homosexual traits. . . . just as some are born with family sickness.
Whatever sexual preference we tend to be inclined is what the WORLD taught us, God NEVER made it to be that way.

SO no one was BORN to be GAY!!!
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by UyiIredia(m): 3:07pm On Jun 04, 2009
nope !!!!>>>> u ain't born gay >>> it's a matter of choice.
2 overcome it welllllllllllllll >>>>>>>>> go 4 counselling  undecided undecided
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by Secretz(f): 3:07pm On Jun 04, 2009
JustGood:

Gay pastor sha! Anyone can call himself pastor abi?

So, when gay pastor wants to preach and gets to the part where the bible condemns homosexuality, what will he say?

The world has turned upside down

Yes anybody can call themself one. But I'm not talking of the pastors who hire a hall and start preaching. I'm talking of the ones who have been officially ordained and are receiving salary from the local authority.  undecided
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jun 04, 2009
The claim that one is born gay is, to me, a very weak excuse given by those who have become too used to being perverted.

One day, armed robbers will also claim to be 'born that way' in order to avoid the consequences of their criminal activities. So will serial killers, rapist and suicide bombers.
Re: Could It Really Be That A Person Can Be Born Gay? by ezego3(m): 3:20pm On Jun 04, 2009
Why does being GAY have to be a sin. Ignorance is just displayed in this thread showing our backward and African mentality. Just as "twins were evil" or "albinos are this or that". Has anyone on this thread ever used their common sense (which is not common though) to reflect on this. (By the way i'm not gay)

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