This isn't easy.

I will pray and as God for direction before I will know what to do,but to say the 2rut it very difficult thing to let ur husband go with those toothpick legs ladies there,it only take the God graces coz is difficult.

The question is easy but very difficult to answer. The spouse has to do what is best for the family even if it means staying back. If it were me, if it was important for her to stay, she will staystay because two of usbis greater than her

2pwesh:
Scholarship cancelled...... He ain't going no where

As uggly as u are u think u have got an opinion

Chewing gum to d front of the thread#. Is diz y u called us here. Walks out of thread

Is it a bondage or am i imprisoned

Mynd44:
What will I do? It is a matter of what she will do.

If she wants to go for it, she has my full support. I will even lean into supporting her to take it.

hmmm... u will go with her or u'll learn to live single again after marriage? It's tough actually

Barely a month after wedding?
Odikwa risky situation.
Such scholarship would have to be deferred. However, if deferment won't be possible, then they should keep the so-called scholarship or give it to the next available eligible applicant.

tunapawizzy:
SHE WILL HAVE MY TOTAL SUPPORT

Dude! If a woman cross the sea and come back, don't expect her to be normal.

You are on a long thing!

2pwesh:
Scholarship cancelled...... He ain't going no where

Hmmm. You look too cute to do that

LordReed:


LoL. Some people need to collect permission first o!

you don't get it? Some of us hate the idea of being married and living single. It's just ridiculous

Of course he can go, anything to make our lives better is welcome.

We will go together, what God has joined together.... Let nothing put asunder

Mindfulness:
Join my spouse if possible and go abroad together.

If this is not possible, my spouse should do what is RIGHT and use this chance. I would give my unlimited support.

and u'll still be loyal to your marital vows in the absence of your spouse? Nice...

I will give her belle before she go.....

That was what happened to me 3 weeks.

damton:
why not. she can go , after all we are partners in progress not just husband and wife.

However, duration must not be too long max 3 years of which I'll either visit her occasionally or she comes home intermittently

awwwww. Husband material 100%

2pwesh:
Scholarship cancelled...... He ain't going no where

Wicked

damilareoye:
take it, is either we go together or non of us go

remember we have been joined. .


nothing can stop my show mheen

lool... I share similar sentiments. But such offers more often than none ain't impromptu tho. I can't be married and be living single. I fear that so much. My respect for those in distant marriage has no limit, but yours truly can't!

What else.... Leave her to go.... And then find anoda woman incase that thing hold me

My husband traveled two weeks after our wedding to study in the UK via ptdf scholarship.

During that two weeks of stay in Nigeria, I saw him for only 7days, he was in Abuja processing his documents and allowance.

I went about 9months later to visit.

Love is what matters, you go tire of digging when he finally return, one thing I did then was I got busy too with my MSc here so no time to even miss person.

2pwesh:
Scholarship cancelled...... He ain't going no where

lool.

sonofananimal:

Dude! If a woman cross the sea ans come back, don't expect her to be normal.
You are on a long thing!

I have not said I will trust her to come back d way she left....I insist I will support her...let her come back abnormal first....den we take it up from dere

olubankemi:
My husband traveled two weeks after our wedding to study in the UK via ptdf scholarship.

During that two weeks of stay in Nigeria, I saw him for only 7days, he was in Abuja processing his documents and allowance.

I went about 9months later to visit.

woow... this is what I don't want walahi. Lool. Strong woman.

MsGlobalwonder:
awwwww. Husband material 100%

100 yards.

mehn i must also gain scholarship too oo!!

Although her progress in life comes first as to the fact that we are one,

but we have to wed first before she leaves, the rings on her hands means a lot, and ordinarily that to some extent will prevent her from indulging just in case the pressure is too much for her over there.

But subsequently we'll take turns in visiting each other.

BTW it wont be so easy. But distance sometimes make the hearts grow fondly

mercylicious:


100 yards.

loool...

It depends on terms and conditions but most likely it's a NO!

olubankemi:
My husband traveled two weeks after our wedding to study in the UK via ptdf scholarship.

During that two weeks of stay in Nigeria, I saw him for only 7days, he was in Abuja processing his documents and allowance.

I went about 9months later to visit.

Love is what matters, you go tire of digging when he finally return, one thing I did then was I got busy too with my MSc here so no time to even miss person.

Bravo!

I will support her full time. It shows that her future is bright.

MsGlobalwonder:
woow... this is what I don't want walahi. Lool. Strong woman.

We were both focused. We were planning wedding when the scholarship came, he sees me then as the good head person who brought him luck.

I also knew he will return to earn better pay and I will be the madam. Lol.

So we both had to sacrifice.

One thing I will advise anyone is, I made the mistake then, both of you should gather money and finance the other party MSc, even if it will take loan, do it. It's worth it. We always wished I did mine then in the UK too.

I will let him go. .But we must Skype daily oooo.