Ewuro4:

Funnily, cancer physicals /tests don't commence until 40th birthday which is most likely during your married life. So?

God forbid bad thing.

coogar:


the point is to clear the pipes always to prevent the debris that can cause prostate cancer......



lol

Ewuro4:

What pipes ?

GodnGold:
OP, just thread carefully.
At first divorce will be the best thing to do,at first.
But once you are divorced,reality sets in.
It hits u on d face like harmattan wind from nsukka.
Have u thought of how to take care of the kids?
who gets custody?
where do u go from here?
And don't say ur parents,because they will get tired of having you around in a month.
What of the emotional trauma this will cause your kids?
If he begged you,let it go.
Is not gonna be easy honey,but with time.
Honestly,trusting will be hard.
The love dimnishes.
You are sick to your stomach when you want to have sex with him.
The thoughts...oh the thoughts.
For the sake of our lovely kids...Please. Please.
And pretty please.

dinachi:
@ Op yes leave him but first make sure you collect the phone numbers and house addresses of all these femnists asking you to leave him. They should provide accomodation and job for you and the kids when you leave.
More seriously, I am really sorry about your predicament

5minsmadness:


@bolded hmmmm someone reaping the benefits...

Pls dear don't commit suicide. Over what? Abi u no be confam wafi babe? Na dis kain tin wan make u menstruate? Kpatakpata u leave the house for a while to clear your head. Men are silly like this sometimes. Take it easy, ok?

All the good psychologists I know have left warri else I would have referred u to the psychiatrist at Central warri. Very good relationship counselor. Also Dr Slater would have helped too but he has left the place.

Dunno if u r interested in seeing a priest.

LadyFiona:
Others are saying their minds, proffering a likely solution but you have to come in with your renowned bitterness to swing this thread into a pointless feminist debate.
I am presuming, you will probably ask your wife for a repeat, with you acting as a cuckold husband offering handshakes to the other participants if you're the op.
Adultery is enough ground for divorce in Christian marriage but I wish sincerely that this psychosexual deviant husband of op will come to terms with his God given senses and turn a new leaf, and remember the sanctity of his marriage he is trying so hard to destroy. This is premeditated, if it has been murder, he will be kissing freedom goodbye.
Op, do what you gotta do.

LadyFiona:
Others are saying their minds, proffering a likely solution but you have to come in with your renowned bitterness to swing this thread into a pointless feminist debate.
I am presuming, you will probably ask your wife for a repeat, with you acting as a cuckold husband offering handshakes to the other participants if you're the op.

Adultery is enough ground for divorce in Christian marriage but I wish sincerely that this psychosexual deviant husband of op will come to terms with his God given senses and turn a new leaf, and remember the sanctity of his marriage he is trying so hard to destroy. This is premeditated, if it has been murder, he will be kissing freedom goodbye.

Op, do what you gotta do.

curtains:



am interested pls. can u recommend the priest n parish he is in

LadyFiona:
Adultery is enough ground for divorce in Christian marriage

Stillfire:
Bullseye!

TV01:

True.

Not true.

Two things here;

1. although it is grounds for divorce, it does not presume re-marriage, and
2. it may seem like it resolves issues, but in truth it just opens a up a whole vista of new ones

Bullseye is very wide of the mark. Think twice.
TV

armyofone:
Just tell him you have a fantasy too and go right ahead to fulfill yours. Create one if you don't have one already and enjoy your own four some or whatever it is.

Ewuro4:


2/4

curtains:
www.nairaland.com/2316343/marriage-depressed

The link above is about some months ago I saw his bbm n WhatsApp chat he wants to have a party with. He has finally had it last week. I found out dem the history of his browser that he has bin going to badoo. Wen I opened them, what I saw, was unthinkable.

Wen I confronted him, he confessed n is begging. He did it wit two girls from badoo

Our marriage is 5years. We r both in our early 30a's. We hv 3 children.

I have no more love for him. I need a break out of this house. I actually packed my belongings n my children to leave but on w second thought n his begging I didn't leave again.

He is an ardent reader of nairaland but hardly comments. I don't know if he want more fantasy in fact am devastated n have not stopped crying since Saturday night. I still dont want to tell my mum or friend. I need someone to talk to me pls cos am looseiing it

GodnGold:
OP, just thread carefully.
At first divorce will be the best thing to do,at first.
But once you are divorced,reality sets in.
It hits u on d face like harmattan wind from nsukka.
Have u thought of how to take care of the kids?
who gets custody?
where do u go from here?
And don't say ur parents,because they will get tired of having you around in a month.
What of the emotional trauma this will cause your kids?
If he begged you,let it go.
Is not gonna be easy honey,but with time.
Honestly,trusting will be hard.
The love dimnishes.
You are sick to your stomach when you want to have sex with him.
The thoughts...oh the thoughts.
For the sake of our lovely kids...Please. Please.
And pretty please.

LadyFiona:
Others are saying their minds, proffering a likely solution but you have to come in with your renowned bitterness to swing this thread into a pointless feminist debate.
I am presuming, you will probably ask your wife for a repeat, with you acting as a cuckold husband offering handshakes to the other participants if you're the op.

Adultery is enough ground for divorce in Christian marriage but I wish sincerely that this psychosexual deviant husband of op will come to terms with his God given senses and turn a new leaf, and remember the sanctity of his marriage he is trying so hard to destroy. This is premeditated, if it has been murder, he will be kissing freedom goodbye.

Op, do what you gotta do.

curtains:
www.nairaland.com/2316343/marriage-depressed

The link above is about some months ago I saw his bbm n WhatsApp chat he wants to have a party with. He has finally had it last week. I found out dem the history of his browser that he has bin going to badoo. Wen I opened them, what I saw, was unthinkable.

Wen I confronted him, he confessed n is begging. He did it wit two girls from badoo

Our marriage is 5years. We r both in our early 30a's. We hv 3 children.

I have no more love for him. I need a break out of this house. I actually packed my belongings n my children to leave but on w second thought n his begging I didn't leave again.

He is an ardent reader of nairaland but hardly comments. I don't know if he want more fantasy in fact am devastated n have not stopped crying since Saturday night. I still dont want to tell my mum or friend. I need someone to talk to me pls cos am looseiing it

curtains:
www.nairaland.com/2316343/marriage-depressed

The link above is about some months ago I saw his bbm n WhatsApp chat he wants to have a party with. He has finally had it last week. I found out dem the history of his browser that he has bin going to badoo. Wen I opened them, what I saw, was unthinkable.

Wen I confronted him, he confessed n is begging. He did it wit two girls from badoo

Our marriage is 5years. We r both in our early 30a's. We hv 3 children.

I have no more love for him. I need a break out of this house. I actually packed my belongings n my children to leave but on w second thought n his begging I didn't leave again.

He is an ardent reader of nairaland but hardly comments. I don't know if he want more fantasy in fact am devastated n have not stopped crying since Saturday night. I still dont want to tell my mum or friend. I need someone to talk to me pls cos am looseiing it

LadyFiona:
Others are saying their minds, proffering a likely solution but you have to come in with your renowned bitterness to swing this thread into a pointless feminist debate.
I am presuming, you will probably ask your wife for a repeat, with you acting as a cuckold husband offering handshakes to the other participants if you're the op.

Adultery is enough ground for divorce in Christian marriage but I wish sincerely that this psychosexual deviant husband of op will come to terms with his God given senses and turn a new leaf, and remember the sanctity of his marriage he is trying so hard to destroy. This is premeditated, if it has been murder, he will be kissing freedom goodbye.

Op, do what you gotta do.

dinachi:

Will you shut your hole! I was simply letting her know that moving out is not an easy decision because most of the people shouting move out will not provide accomodation for her or even money. It is very easy to come to an online forum and give free advice that even you will not take. And finally after all your huffing and puffing, what was your solution? Stay off my mentions or get it hot from me.

raayah:


If there is someone you don't want advice from. its Dinachi. He's very irrational. You can tell he's aggressive. All his post are derogatory to women. He's a woman hater who thinks he's above women and should be worshipped for having a dick.

I wish nairaland would have a female positive board where we can talk and share and give advice to women. Misogyny is so rampant on this website. It's becoming hard to ignore.

Some gold from Dinachi

A woman was severely abused with proof of pictures. Dinachi's response


To think that some poor woman is married to this thing is scary.

LadyFiona:
Noted.

dinachi:

And while you are at it, you write very well, consider a career in writing. You are good.