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tjark1:
she blocked u?
Wow, cool, so end of the long story...
Get some sleep bra, you've done A LOT of typing... You need to rest.

And about d girl, she's Ex now, concentrate on creating and recreating!

BTW this is d season of breakups

Slimzjoe:
Read all these and I feel No Sorry for You Op.

Why? Well, Let's just say, I Expected you to smell a Break up was Coming A long time ago.....The Distance wasn't there, Abel was closer, she Likes Abel and Did that Group Chat thingy for you to Stand up as a Knight in shining armour which you Coward away (Same thing I'll Do tho). But, it was just so Obvious you won't last.


My Advice to you, Forget her! (Its hard, I know) its still easy if you want it to be. Get a Rebound Shawdy and have a Good Time. Try to stop thinking about her and Treat her like a Total Stranger cos she doesn't Deserve your attention One bit. (Trust me, I know you that well already) Spend Time with your Buddies too but don't get into Trouble

Everything will be fine with Time it heals Everything.

obiorathesubtle:
Bro. I just read your story man. I'm Igbo and our people say proverbs are the salt with which words are eaten, so I have to make this salty


They say the Eagle teaches its' child to fly by letting go


You have tried, if you bother her with more messages, she'll only get angrier. You should not have sent text. Let her be, it's the kiss at work. A kiss, that was how I got my first girlfriend, and when I didn't kiss her for 2months. We broke up. You can't do any other thing. Just leave her alone, she'll come back to her senses. Hope for the best, be positive

Hideme:
Thank you so much. For you time and your reply.

Hideme:
I've completed it.

engrkenny:
Op and there you were thinking you've found love, probably still planning on candle flames and red roses...

No jazz here, that's probably the way it works...

Am not quite experienced in these matters, but it seems she put you par with the other guy and made choice, easy for her and seemingly not for you...

She wasn't even decent enough to nicely break up with you or wait for a reasonable excuse...hmmm

Before I try to draw any conclusions, do you know abel's background?

Hideme:
I don't even know the dude.

Hideme:
No please, read all through, please, I really need advice on something else, not moving forward. Please I know your time is precious but please read it.

8unit:
did you ever cum inside her? That's mistake guys make. If u love a girl and wants her to do the same, give her creampiee, cum inside her. Well you made the mistake, move on

pcguru1:
Nigerians love stress I would have moved on, also never paste a private conversation its childish. Just move on and forget the girl life is not hard rather than exposing people online. Wait how old are you ?

Hideme:
I don't even know the dude.

younghartz:
abel's real name is JAMES

#profiler

Hideme:
hmmmm.

ceny6:
@hideme I want to tell a few little things. Yeah I know there is no point crying over spilt milk but let this guide u for future references. The probability of meeting a gal online and dating her without her still enjoying the company of other online bobos, flirting. with them is 2.3% . Now from what you have said u guys are far apart so do you think phone or whatsapp can replace the emotional/intimacy needs ur woman craves for. That's obviously the reason why she allowed him come over and allowed him kiss her. Now my final point is this no matter how much u love a woman never I repeat never give her a free hand. Be in control be the Boss. Let ur word be final. She will latter thank u for being a loving and firm boyfriend who prevented her from stirring away

Hideme:
10.

I was totally confused, this her new behaviour was strange. We have had more serious issue than this but she has never even threatened to block me or it has never been this serious. My concern mostly is I don't know how what I said can me so annoying to this point.

I spoke to my friends about it, and they all advised to to move on (as usual). One told me to send her a text and I wrote

"Hi there! Well I just text to say, I'm sorry, I know its not what you want to hear cos actually, you don't want to hear anything from me, well I consider this new attitude of yours very very strange too, but I guess the least I can do now is not to convince you, but to pray for you. Be sure I would. But also try to keep away from Abel, so as you've kept me away, cos I am very convinced he is the reason for all these. And even tho I'm no longer important to you now. I just want you to live the best life you can. Wale"

My friends help me reduce the shock and pressure. So I was quite okay. I prayed for her in the night and this morning also. I'm not sad she broke up with me, I'm sad about the manner she did, and time(considering all that is happening), I'm okay to move on and forget her but my fear is, I might be right, she might had been charmed, and if this is true, I am the only one that knows which leaves me in the position of the only person that can save her.

I'm really confused. Should I leave her? Is it normal? Do you think she is 100% okay? Do you think I was the one at fault and I deserve everything? I'm I just being too scared?

And (to her only)
If you're reading this now, and you figure out its you, please, pretend like you did not see it. You have placed me in fear already, and I'm just here to reduce that. Sorry if I had to let out a lot of private stuffs.

Thatz it!

cyprus000:
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it is quit funny how you have the illusion that she is under a spell and you are the only superman who can save her

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If you ask me. I'd say you are ammature in the game dating
You weren't in control of ur relationship,and you strike me lyk one who is emotionally weak.

This girl had the effrontry to tell you(her BF) that she wants to have a fling with another guy,while you are alive.

It didn't end there. She went ahead to have a fling,despite your resistance and fuccking kissed that same guy

This same girl looked at you and made the most gross demeaning remark a woman can make about her man(no atom of respect for your person). Then she topped it with rude exuberance of emotional stupidity. And finally blocked your sorry arse. Despite all this,you still
came to cyber space to open thread on her behalf.


Tell me bro. What's your problem?. Why you dey fall men hand.


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zaragal:
Lolzzzzz..hhehehehehehe...dis got me dis Monday morning

cyprus000:
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it is quit funny how you have the illusion that she is under a spell and you are the only superman who can save her

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If you ask me. I'd say you are ammature in the game dating
You weren't in control of ur relationship,and you strike me lyk one who is emotionally weak.

This girl had the effrontry to tell you(her BF) that she wants to have a fling with another guy,while you are alive.

It didn't end there. She went ahead to have a fling,despite your resistance and fuccking kissed that same guy

This same girl looked at you and made the most gross demeaning remark a woman can make about her man(no atom of respect for your person). Then she topped it with rude exuberance of emotional stupidity. And finally blocked your sorry arse. Despite all this,you still
came to cyber space to open thread on her behalf.


Tell me bro. What's your problem?. Why you dey fall men hand.


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