Hello,

I have been dating my boyfriend (call him Yakub) for around 10 months now. When we met, I knew we could never have a future together but I decided to go for it anyway. I am young and i was having fun.

6 Months into the relationship, a very bad incident occurred ( It's related to the reason why we cannot have a future). I couldn't take it. I tried to break up with him but he begged and asked for another chance.I had lost interest in the relationship. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project was completed i would break up finally. The project is completed next week.

I met a nice guy 3 months ago and we began casually seeing each other, this weekend. Nothing serious. This weekend Yakub found the texts and was outraged. He broke up with me on the spot. I apologized and told him I understand.

Only for him to call me and beg this evening, saying that he does not mind me seeing other people, he said his life is incomplete without me. He just wants me for me.

I told him NO, but he won't stop. I feel guilty about everything but I also know it wont work out.

Nairaladers, how do I end this>

If you want to make it clear to him that its over, you have to tell him EXACTLY what he did to turn you off in the relationship and why he cant fix it. You cant sugar coat anything, you have to have specifics. You have to tell him that attraction works in a certain way and once its gone, its gone. You cant get it back by hanging around each other. stop stringing this poor guy along.

Your man must have a very low self esteem for he to want you back after you cheated on him

I'm sure the guy is broke for now, after now you'll come back begging to reap where you did not sow...
Your story is even annoying

Don't go back...he's set for a disastrous revenge on u.

It's obvious that you don't know what you really want.. A guy that truly love you for you to the extent that he even said he doesn't care if you're seeing other people.. A guy you cheated and he still wants you back, well I just pity the guy sha.. I just pray that God will give him the heart to forget you cos you don't deserve him at all..

WHY DIDNT YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM BEFORE CHEATING ON HIM

OH GOD..GIRLS WHY..

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Raiders:
Your man must have a very low self esteem for he to want you back after you cheated on him

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This is what I am expecting to read

comoestas:
Hello,

I have been dating my boyfriend (call him Yakub) for around 10 months now. When we met, I knew we could never have a future together but I decided to go for it anyway. I am young and i was having fun.

6 Months into the relationship, a very bad incident occurred ( It's related to the reason why we cannot have a future). I couldn't take it. I tried to break up with him but he begged and asked for another chance.I had lost interest in the relationship. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project was completed i would break up finally. The project is completed next week.

I met a nice guy 3 months ago and we began casually seeing each other, this weekend. Nothing serious. This weekend Yakub found the texts and was outraged. He broke up with me on the spot. I apologized and told him I understand.

Only for him to call me and beg this evening, saying that he does not mind me seeing other people, he said his life is incomplete without me. He just wants me for me.

I told him NO, but he won't stop. I feel guilty about everything but I also know it wont work out.

Nairaladers, how do I end this>

He's not yet done with your puccy and I can assure you that when he's done he's going to dump your ass for good maybe it might just be when you're finding the relationship quite interesting.
Real niggas don't forgive a cheating woman - They will be biding their time until when it's time to hit back and very hard just to break your fragile heart in a way it will take a genuine love to mend.

Huhhhh Error/toxic sign No (1) he said he doesn't mind seeing you with other niggas (2) you ones cheated on him and he said his life is incomplete without you.......... You sef, you knew nothing was good was going to come out between you both concerning the future and you still went in because you were working on a project... are you a parasite "IF MARRIAGE IS NOT THE GOAL, then WHY ARE YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP

He justs wants to keep fvckn u cux he misses d sex.

End what exactly, leeching on him?? Cos if I read right, there was no "relationship" foregoing.

End what exactly, leeching on him?? Cos if I read right, there was no "relationship" foregoing.

Bitches everywhere..... *shakes head*... I fear for my GF....

comoestas:
Hello,. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project i will break up with him>

i smell shiloh 2026 here.....u wantd 2 use him 2 complete ur project and later dum him?...not fair!

Cutehector:
He justs wants to keep fvckn u cux he misses d sex.

did u read d part were she said she was into the relationship bcoz she wantd 2 complete a project?

I would av said d gui is a fvcked up nigar buh wen unkonjisional love is involved hmmmmmm......

comoestas:
Hello,

I have been dating my boyfriend (call him Yakub) for around 10 months now. When we met, I knew we could never have a future together but I decided to go for it anyway. I am young and i was having fun.

6 Months into the relationship, a very bad incident occurred ( It's related to the reason why we cannot have a future). I couldn't take it. I tried to break up with him but he begged and asked for another chance.I had lost interest in the relationship. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project was completed i would break up finally. The project is completed next week.

I met a nice guy 3 months ago and we began casually seeing each other, this weekend. Nothing serious. This weekend Yakub found the texts and was outraged. He broke up with me on the spot. I apologized and told him I understand.

Only for him to call me and beg this evening, saying that he does not mind me seeing other people, he said his life is incomplete without me. He just wants me for me.

I told him NO, but he won't stop. I feel guilty about everything but I also know it wont work out.

Nairaladers, how do I end this>

Doubt me; but most of you that leave guys this way fall into the wrong brutal hands. Be careful what you wish for...

comoestas:


I had lost interest in the relationship. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project was completed i would break up finally. The project is completed next week.


Nairaladers, how do I end this>

You really are selfish.

Some guys understand 'No' as "try harder next time" He should have just let her go when she wanted to leave.
What is the need holding unto something/someone that don't want you

Me thinky he is planning a revenge. Guys don't forgive cheating easily.

Hmmmm

Girls most often complain about how fragile there hearts are and how guys came and broke it blah blah blah. You know what, I think you are a lil gold digging bitch.

Well I pity your clueless Yakub, its like he's a naive newbie otherwise there are perfect ways to handle cheating gfs that they won't forget in a hurry. Toying with a mans heart at this age of geowing men scarcity. Nonsense

Yakubu is probably a low self esteem calibre...

@op stop wasting your time.




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If you love your life, move away from him because if you continue to stay wife him while cheating on him, we will be here when news that you have been stabbed in the neck by a jealous boyfriend.

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