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trishapal:
It's obvious the op got afraid when he heard blood covenant because he is as young as the lady that proposed it, although it is more popular among younger teens living close or seeing each other very often. When an emotionally immature lady truly loves a guy, she ignorantly sees him as her "Future Partner" - it's simply her body chemistry and nothing more. She is severely afraid of losing the excitement to any other lady and begins to feel insecure at the slightest thought of losing her love. This usually leads them to any possible means of eliminating their fears.

A mature guy knows the tactics of sincere and mind-blowing reassurance which will easily make her jettison the idea of blood covenant. Quitting the relationship was a confirmation of the op's immaturity too. My advice is that you need to determine if you will be able to lavish her with enough love while she grows up. If you are capable and you have time to spend on her, go back to her and she will be happy again. But if you think you will hurt her the more, it's better you maintain the present status quo.

Thanks for your advice.

To change yah mindset,we don't see often. Infact,we hardly see in a year cos i'm a 300Level student of Futo who goes back home once in a while.

Secondly,i don't want to be held for murder in recent times cos i don't know what the future holds and that's why quit.
I also believe that if fate permits,we would be together in future.

Rajjah:
Blood covenant is a no no for me. She might evn be d one to be trapped. Though, op, get bak with her. Wat she has for u is love, which is scarce nowadays.

Thanks for your sincere advice.

I sincerely appreciate

misspicy:
Did she say you must do the blood convenant No she only asked and you answer should have been NO too not breakup....but ego no go allow you see road....you don lose this one,oya move on

So you yaff come na.
Ego?
I neva knew i had that.

But thanks for your candid opinion

please run away.. ..She doesn't know the implications for her reasoning.....

she's too small... love is still raw....

Bro take my advice, ignore other ones.
























Congratulations, YOU did the right THING.
Blood covenant for what? Is she a witch?
Don't ever think of picking her call not to talk more of going back to her.







































Cast ur net coz there are many more fishes in the BIG OCEAN bro.

trishapal:
It's obvious the op got afraid when he heard blood covenant because he is as young as the lady that proposed it, although it is more popular among younger teens living close or seeing each other very often. When an emotionally immature lady truly loves a guy, she ignorantly sees him as her "Future Partner" - it's simply her body chemistry and nothing more. She is severely afraid of losing the excitement to any other lady and begins to feel insecure at the slightest thought of losing her love. This usually leads them to any possible means of eliminating their fears.

A mature guy knows the tactics of sincere and mind-blowing reassurance which will easily make her jettison the idea of blood covenant. Quitting the relationship was a confirmation of the op's immaturity too. My advice is that you need to determine if you will be able to lavish her with enough love while she grows up. If you are capable and you have time to spend on her, go back to her and she will be happy again. But if you think you will hurt her the more, it's better you maintain the present status quo.

very true...have been there..in my own case it was an agreement btw myself and the dude in question but we didnt take the convenant. mehn sumtyms love can make you do stupid things lol

IamLEGEND1:
U got those first two right but I definitely am not ugly.

happy birthday BTW.

its not ugly in terms of looks, but actions. Have you watched the film, The good, the bad and the ugly?

halfrica:
A simple talk to let her let her kno d implications will do

Stop following me upandan like fly

Mehn! I just love this babe replies

holyFRED:
Thanks bro...I appreciate
But was I right for letting her be or should I have talked it out with her.
N.B: the covenant isn't an option

You shld have talked to her about it and made her see reasons why a blood covenant is wrong; the effects it would have on both of you as individuals and as a couple.

Hope its not too late? You cld still talk to her and win her back.

jackpot:
its not ugly in terms of looks, but actions. Have you watched the film, The good, the bad and the ugly?

yeah I have!!!! who hasn't. but it's been a while though.
Clint Eastwood my Jagaban!!!

'the ugly' is supposed to be the hilarious one right?
in wic case I will say thanks for the compliment!!!

Mj

trishapal:
It's obvious the op got afraid when he heard blood covenant because he is as young as the lady that proposed it, although it is more popular among younger teens living close or seeing each other very often. When an emotionally immature lady truly loves a guy, she ignorantly sees him as her "Future Partner" - it's simply her body chemistry and nothing more. She is severely afraid of losing the excitement to any other lady and begins to feel insecure at the slightest thought of losing her love. This usually leads them to any possible means of eliminating their fears.

A mature guy knows the tactics of sincere and mind-blowing reassurance which will easily make her jettison the idea of blood covenant. Quitting the relationship was a confirmation of the op's immaturity too. My advice is that you need to determine if you will be able to lavish her with enough love while she grows up. If you are capable and you have time to spend on her, go back to her and she will be happy again. But if you think you will hurt her the more, it's better you maintain the present status quo.

best advice I have ever seen or heard on naira land,lady u blow my mind.

ekundayoalo:
Mehn! I just love this babe replies

Tank u

ogbonnajude507:
Mjbest advice I have ever seen or heard on naira land,lady u blow my mind.

I concur with your submission... @trishapal killed it. The babe rock!!

Op, trishapal has said it all. You may be slightly hurt by her sincerity but I think you'll be better off by meditating on her words. A very mature and unbiased advice

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trishapal:
It's obvious the op got afraid when he heard blood covenant because he is as young as the lady that proposed it, although it is more popular among younger teens living close or seeing each other very often. When an emotionally immature lady truly loves a guy, she ignorantly sees him as her "Future Partner" - it's simply her body chemistry and nothing more. She is severely afraid of losing the excitement to any other lady and begins to feel insecure at the slightest thought of losing her love. This usually leads them to any possible means of eliminating their fears.

A mature guy knows the tactics of sincere and mind-blowing reassurance which will easily make her jettison the idea of blood covenant. Quitting the relationship was a confirmation of the op's immaturity too. My advice is that you need to determine if you will be able to lavish her with enough love while she grows up. If you are capable and you have time to spend on her, go back to her and she will be happy again. But if you think you will hurt her the more, it's better you maintain the present status quo.

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halfrica:
A sincere heart been taken for granted

By d time u need her sumone who knos her value wud av made her his wife nd make her an expectant mother


U tink girls like her are easy to come by these days bah??

i respect that she has never had intercourse with a man but does that determine she will be a good wife and a mother ?

IamLEGEND1:
do the covenant,sleep with her.......then escape.

Thats a develish thing to do my man...even Lucifer will frown at it

You shouldn't have break up with her. All you need do is to convince her about reasons why you shouldn't . If you can be able to convince, then she can be your and feel safe also

your behaviour was rather childish

All this bullshiiit niggaz with love stuffed inside there brain.worship God,make money and enjoy your life.

trishapal:
Everyone, pls take note of this VOICE OF THE DEVIL...

i tell u my sister

AyamConfidence:
Thats a develish thing to do my man...even Lucifer will frown at it

if Lucifer see free yansh.......my brodah him no go hesitate.

halfrica:
A sincere heart been taken for granted

By d time u need her sumone who knos her value wud av made her his wife nd make her an expectant mother


U tink girls like her are easy to come by these days bah??

Is this in anyway an advise?
So in this era of HIV and other blood-related diseases you want him to do the covenant? Grow up lil'kid.

halfrica:
A sincere heart been taken for granted

By d time u need her sumone who knos her value wud av made her his wife nd make her an expectant mother


U tink girls like her are easy to come by these days bah??

Gbam!!!

Thank you guy for the confident you gather

holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading

This post has lies written all over it In fact it is a fat lie

justjify:
Is this in anyway an advise?
So in this era of HIV and other blood-related diseases you want him to do the covenant? Grow up lil'kid.

Shey i talk say make e do convenant ni

Op shdnt not go into any convenant except its convenant university


shebi e can sit her down nd talk her out of it

The girls sounds like sumone dat wud do wat op says if he sat her down nd talk to her well bou it

Oga swerve joor ordinary hiv scare me wen ebola nd cancer can b transmitted by blood

OP, if you had had s*x with her and reassured her that you're gonna stand next to her, she might've dropped that Convenant notion

holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading

I need to hear her side of the story before I can advice

holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading

you go like story too much.
don't worry , she will get over you and you look for someone like her for the rest of your life but you will never find.
like I said , don't worry , such love don't usually last.

arabianights:
i respect that she has never had intercourse with a man but does that determine she will be a good wife and a mother ?

.
She has a sincere heart towards nd a sincere heart will everly b faithful yes she wud make a good wife

Dont break her heart nd turn a good girl to a freak wen u not a transformer oga hold d babe tight dont let her go


Claw her down