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holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading

you never liked her, I know what she asked was a little out of line but that should not be the case for a break up. That's if these your story is real, cos I only believe 2% of what I read here.

timmyblast:
you never liked her, I know what she asked was a little out of line but that should not be the case for a break up. That's if these your story is real, cos I only believe 2% of what I read here.

No lies.
Trust me.
Why would i lie sef abi them dey pay me for lie?

Don't ever do blood covenant or oath

My guy don't try that bloody covenant shit..
Or you may regret it later... . [color=#990000][/color]
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Just mee her and sort things out. Ok?

omakay:
This life is kinda funny shaaaa....

This same BLOOD CONVENANT we are all screaming against is what has kept some marriages intact until death.

If there is one thing that will eventually scatter a union, it is INFIDELITY, and BLOOD CONVENANT keeps that in check.

When either party knows that they have no escape route, they will have no choice than to try and solve their problems which they eventually do.

If na me, i go let the girl know the implication of wetin she wan do. I will give her a lot of time to think about most of the implications which i will voice out.

If she still insists on it and i truly love her...........

My bro, my quoting you was more than brotherly love. Imagine the ulter jargons you scribbled up there. Get sense na.

Blood convenant as discerned by you is a cage. One where those in it turns a new leaf and one has to be compelled to stay? Hell fvcking no.

Trust me, have you dated a possessive gal? You'd be choked with expectations that you might not be able to keep up to, to safe the day, always have options. Not the ROOM WITHOUT DOORS OR WINDOWS Blood Convenants do subjects those in it to abide by.

badonkadonk:
It's obvious you can't read.. So keep walking!!!

my brother abeg try get sense.

If that's the reason u broke up I think you should go back to her. She loves you. Discuss the demerits of a blood oath. You don't see such ladies regularly. It is well

Hmmmmm. ISIS busy recruiting on twitter and Obanjes busy recruiting in NL.....remember There is god o.

Never ever enter into a blood covenant with her or any one else. if you do you have mortgaged your whole life and your future generations to the devil. you may end up on the road a mad man. This is real. Do not be fooled for nothing. Run for your life dear.

she is doubting your love that is why she wants to make convenant with you. you for no run na

You're but a boy that's all!(ending the relationship that way) blood convenant is a NO, but she's scared. You're dull though don't ever date a virgin if you're not willing to d dictate your life to her too, death do you pass they become really clingy after you disvirgin them. The first reason why you're meant to wait till you get married before have sex. If you're not ready for marriage focus on better things trust me

Who told you age 22 is far from Marriage? Just d economic situation of d country that makes people feel like they are still young to get married. If not, you guys could have start a better plan for life together!!

Lordkratus:
my brother abeg try get sense.

Guy! Like I said it's obvious u can't read.. So keep walking..

trishapal:
It's obvious the op got afraid when he heard blood covenant because he is as young as the lady that proposed it, although it is more popular among younger teens living close or seeing each other very often. When an emotionally immature lady truly loves a guy, she ignorantly sees him as her "Future Partner" - it's simply her body chemistry and nothing more. She is severely afraid of losing the excitement to any other lady and begins to feel insecure at the slightest thought of losing her love. This usually leads them to any possible means of eliminating their fears.

A mature guy knows the tactics of sincere and mind-blowing reassurance which will easily make her jettison the idea of blood covenant. Quitting the relationship was a confirmation of the op's immaturity too. My advice is that you need to determine if you will be able to lavish her with enough love while she grows up. If you are capable and you have time to spend on her, go back to her and she will be happy again. But if you think you will hurt her the more, it's better you maintain the present status quo.

very very matured response. for this matured response alone, I've got to follow u. you took the words right out of my mouth. nothing More to say

badonkadonk:
Guy! Like I said it's obvious u can't read.. So keep walking..

its obvious u still lack sense.don't worry i'd pray for u

Bro, it's almost impossible to find a woman that loves you so much like this. This is why I decided to forever love my girl because I realised despite her countless flaws there's absolutely no way I'll find someone to love me as much as she does.


She suggested something which is very wrong. How about you educate her on the ills of her suggestion and then continue with your love?



Please call her and get back to her . Heal her wounds and continue your relationship


Thank you

HIV is real my brother..The sickness no be supporter of age ,beauty or intelligence. Simply give her reasons why its too risky to do a blood covenant.She should understand that there are other better ways of building trust rather than it.

Lordkratus:
its obvious u still lack sense.don't worry i'd pray for u

What a lost cause u are..

you did right op, use them loose women(ashies) before they use you!


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cassyrooy:
My bro, my quoting you was more than brotherly love. Imagine the ulter jargons you scribbled up there. Get sense na.

Blood convenant as discerned by you is a cage. One where those in it turns a new leaf and one has to be compelled to stay? Hell fvcking no.

Trust me, have you dated a possessive gal? You'd be choked with expectations that you might not be able to keep up to, to safe the day, always have options. Not the ROOM WITHOUT DOORS OR WINDOWS Blood Convenants do subjects those in it to abide by.

Cant you quote me without the insult

Na wa oooooo.

I am only trying to make the best of it as a LAST RESORT TOOL.

The truth is that it is only DVD partners and husbands that are scared of it and defend themselves with religion.

Abeg no insult me again.

This world is big enough for all to live at peace..

Not exactly a bad girl, but she's cuckoo as hell. NO BLOOD COVENANT under any circumstances; if you still love her, you need to take her to a real man of God for some hardcore deliverance. Breaking up with her was kinda harsh though, but hey, a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading [/quote]Why would you break up with a good girl because she wants to take an oath. All you have to do is buy Calabash in the Market put water down ribena tell her u got it from one Baba and tell her anyone who cheat will somersault and die. Olboy that yansh will be yours alone till you are ready to move on to greener pastures from that Village girl you are dating. Seriously though go take your girl back, it's hard to get a good girl this days. Tell you love and she needs to come down.

holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading

it is written,'avoid all sins, but that of a woman...FLEEEEE!!!!'
Just try ur best to avoid her bro.

omakay:
Cant you quote me without the insult

Na wa oooooo.

I am only trying to make the best of it as a LAST RESORT TOOL.

The truth is that it is only DVD partners and husbands that are scared of it and defend themselves with religion.

Abeg no insult me again.

This world is big enough for all to live at peace..

Sorry for that bit of unruliness from me.
Peace.



FIRST LAST RESORT or not, you can't justify losing your freedom because of love.

Trust me, it will/might make her too high handed that unconventional traits begins to surface.

Okay, what if they aren't compactible genetical?

Or gets to transmit some blood diseases in the process?

People tend to grow apart as some succumb or drift towards better prospects in life and you'd want me to forego that development niche?

I can do beyond anything for love, but i musn't be compelled to do so.

I can't even make a blood covenant with my wife,its just too demonic

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She's a virgin na. All you had to do was sit her down and talk to her not freak out like a pu.ci

I was in this same situation before several months back. Spoke to her about it, gave her the necessary assurances and that was that. She never brought up the ish again.

Bros, u need grow up o.

Lord save you from Karishika

holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading

holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading

u were too harsh brother.. As a matured guy, of which i knw u arent, u should hav made her understood the dangers of boold covenant.. That vows before God almighty on the wedding day is enough to prove ur undying love for her hence the nullity of blood covenant..

No, u have done no bad. My brother,if u value ur life run from ladies like dat before they turn ur life upside down!

ferhyntorlah:
Very apt comment.

holyFRED, you did the RIGHT thing. Don't and I mean DON'T let anybody make you feel bad. If you didn't end it with her, she would continue pestering you that you won't have any choice but to give in to her request and if you did, you would have been in bondage!

As far as I'm concerned, the only covenant that should bind a man and a woman together is the MARRIAGE COVENANT. Anything else is demonic.

@bolded...Gbam!

One crate of Smirnoff Ice for you sister.

izsmike:
my guy u did the right thing.... Maybe she be ogbanje after blood covenant she go con die... Den begin straff u for dream

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guy too much nollywood movie don dey affect u