CaroLyner:
should she rather have a baby she cant take care of ?

Didn't you read number 6?There are alternatives to that biko.

zeetyzin:

Says who?
Rape cases occur everyday and 80% of such cases lead to pregnancy...
No one wants to keep a baby dat acts as a constant reminder of the emotional, physical and mental torture she was subjected to.
Trust me, i know

I disagree sir

mildteddy:


She should have the baby. It is not the baby that raped her. No matter how you look at it, the scar will be far worse if abortion becomes an alternative.
The Baby is innocent, and killing him/her is a bigger crime than rape.

the baby will continue to torture her emotionally..it reminds her of a dark day in her life

Frankiss44:



Easier said... I will never judge a lady that decides to abort a baby if she was raped..

Who said that it was not going to be hard? But hasn't life taught us that tbe easy way is not always the best way?

lover33:
Game Play Guru Online

lalasticlala, seun, do something about this scammer, he just opened another handlers to continue his biz after someone exposed him.

Engrr:


Did you read down the post especially point No 6?

I dont think she did


i was reading, i felt touched then the next comment i saw was hers; most especially from a lady

godoluwa:
y do u av sex if u r nt ready to be a mother?

Sex is not only for reproduction.

GAZZUZZ:
Evil really evil.....

I thought you knew only about cars

godoluwa:
I disagree sir

Well, u av a ryt to ur opinions, so do i.
Abortion isnt a really good thing to do...buh in some cases, one doesnt just av any oda choice..

Even men that sponsor abortion are here to rebuke women. *just passing by. #say no to abortion

braine:
Sex is not only for reproduction.

itz a therapy ryt? i see...

let he who is without sin b d first to cast d stone... I see a lot of pretenders in nairaland

RexKexMilann:
This is a tough decision you have to make, but please be mature. Only an immature person
thinks of herself alone.

This article was written by neither a militant, pro-life male, nor a 50- year-old grandmother who has never been faced with a problem pregnancy. It was written by a woman who was eighteen and pregnant once. A woman who was scared, like you are, and chose abortion. After nine years I know what the right choice was, and is, and I just want you to know .



1. Abortion is not safe:


Contrary to the belief that abortion is as simple as removing a wart, it is actually a very serious procedure that can have very serious results. The clinic personnel will lead you to believe that complications rarely arise, but that is not the case. Many women have been damaged for life as a result of their legal abortion.


Your cervical muscle may be damaged in an abortion because the cervix is forcefully dilated. This means that your future pregnancies have a greater chance of resulting in miscarriage or premature delivery.

Damage to the uterine wall is another concern Perforation (puncturing) of the uterus, infection hemorrhage, and blood clots are only a few of the complications that you could end up with. I you do have a successful" abortion, scar tissue may still
form which can cause sterilization, miscarriages and tubal pregnancies.¹ approximately two out of 10
women who abort their first pregnancy will never be able to have children again. Do you want to take that kind of risk?



2. Abortion leaves emotional scars:


Most often a woman will feel the consequences of her decision within days of her abortion. If they don't appear immediately, they will appear as she gets older. Emotional scars include unexplained depression, a loss of the ability to get close to others, repressed emotions, a hardening of the spirit, thwarted maternal instincts (which may lead to child abuse or neglect later in life), intense feelings of guilt and thoughts of suicide.² Don't be fooled —every abortion leaves emotional scars.



3. Abortion kills a baby:


Before you even know you're pregnant, your baby's heart begins to beat. At six weeks brain waves are measurable and your baby moves and responds to touch. At eight weeks she is perfectly developed, with fingers and toes, even her own set of fingerprints. By ten weeks she can squint, swallow and suck her thumb. If you tickled her nose she would move her head away. By eleven to 12 weeks all body systems are present and working.³ All she needs to become a healthy newborn is time and nourishment. Nothing new develops after 12 weeks! What would you name her? Rebecca? Stephanie?



4. Abortion is violent:


The most common method of abortion used in early pregnancy is suction aspiration. The cervix is forced open. A vacuum device 29 times more powerful than a home vacuum cleaner is used to suction out the "contents of the uterus."


A D and E is performed after 16 weeks. As in the suction method, your baby is torn to pieces, but this time the abortionist uses a special instrument to tear the arms and legs from the body. He punctures her soft spot, suctions out the brain and crushed the skull, then removes the remaining body parts.

Another method done after 16 weeks is the saline abortion. A salt solution is injected into the baby's bag of waters. It poisons the baby and burns off her outer layer of skin. She actually convulses in pain for the hour or so that it takes for the solution to do its deadly job. The mother then goes into labor and gives birth to a dead baby.

A hysterotomy (last trimester) is done by making an incision in the mother's abdomen. The unwanted child is lifted out and left to die.



5. Abortion exploits women:


The counselors at an abortion clinic will use obscure terms such as "product of conception," "contents of the uterus," and "fetal tissue" to refer to your baby. They will rarely advise you to carry your baby to term because they are operating for profit and they don't want to lose your business. Essentially, they are making money off of your problem! The abortionist can make more money by doing abortions than a regular physician can through caring for a woman through a 9-month pregnancy. Are you going to be the poor girl who finances his next trip to Europe?



6. There are alternatives to abortion:


There are many organizations that can offer you practical support such as maternity and baby clothes, a place to live, pre-natal care, and financial aid. Counseling is also available to help you through this traumatic time. Please think carefully about your future. The decision you make in the next few weeks will affect you for the rest of your life. If you're unsure about having an abortion, take just one more day to think about it — don't let anyone pressure you into a decision you're not ready to make yet.

http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Evils%20in%20America/Abortion%20is%20Murder/untold_truth.htm



PS: This was by No means intended to Be Judgemental, Please try not To Take it personal .

I have said it before and its here SLIGHTLY analysed For them; those who abort are more CRUEL THAN SHEKAU!!!

nwadiuko1:
I thought you knew only about cars

You would be really surprised what I do in my spare time.

CaroLyner:
should she rather have a baby she cant take care of ?

Gold Circle condom is 50 naira

I wished they had aborted the pregnancy of Shekau, Late Lawrence Anini, and corrupted policians, lives wouldn't have been lost in our dear country Nigeria.

midehi2:
av an abortion, maybe you will understand what is written up there

after you.

Burger01:
Why have unprotected sex when you're not ready to have a baby Una just dey abuse God's gift.

you people should read my next comment before you start quoting me anyhow

M4gunners:
Didn't you read number 6?There are alternatives to that biko.

Dis is nigeria jare....u rarely find such organisations.

godoluwa:
yeah but only 1% of unwanted pregnancy waz as a result of rape

oga, this is not merrybet thread where You forecast stats . Rape is much more prevalent now than ever.

There are some situations were one have no other option than abortion:my advise is this;if it's not more than 4wks,you can go ahead with it but if it is,DON'T DO IT!!!4wks should just be enough to make a decision!

babyfaceafrica:
the baby will continue to torture her emotionally..it reminds her of a dark day in her life

I urge you to read this post: www.iamproudtobecatholic.com/2015/09/14/letter-from-a-pregnant-nun-who-was-raped/

It wont remind her of her dark past. Kids are beautiful gifts. If she accepts the child, he/she can even make her life change for better.

UIA04:
Abstinence still remains the safest for your future and that of your unborn children

My stomach hurts whenever i read about abortion i cant imagine the feeling going through the mind of the doctor who will do that

I thought am the only one that do have that feeling. Abstinence pays.

sonofananimal:
what is your problem! are you really dumb or what

you are the dumb one here.

Flashh:


The innocent baby wasn't responsible for the mother's foolishness.

why the silly modifying .confused much?

CaroLyner:
after you.

SMH

zeetyzin:

Dis is nigeria jare....u rarely find such organisations.

That means the Op is lying about that?

Don't know where to start or what to say. It depends on where we're all coming from.
If you take religiousity out of it and our fasting eroding moral compass....abortion actually wouldn't be such an evil as the op has painted it
1. It's actually as SAFE AS REMOVING A TOOTH if done by a qualified professional in the right place. It's a matter of choice in the UK and you can ask how safe it is there. So your first point is actually misleading cos it depends on if it's done by a professional or quack.
2. The issue of emotional scar depends on your own moral compass to start with. Some would rather endure the few days emotional scar than go through a 9 terrifying month of low self esteem and disgrace and even a disrupted career or education to bring an unwanted child neither father nor mother wants. You can as well read up the effects of unwanted pregnancy on children and their development.
3. Don't know about killing a baby. Each release inside a condom kills a 'baby'. The age at which you can call a baby a baby depends on when the baby can actually live. That's another matter entirely.
4. Don't know about that.
5. Don't know about exploiting women. I'm sure most doctors don't need the abortion money to go to Europe ....unless we're talking about a quack that is.
5.

M4gunners:
That means the Op is lying about that?

We all know the topic was copied from a foreign blog, and posted here.
Didnt mean the OP was lying tho

My sister aborted her first child, had series of miscarriages in her first marriage but has 2 kids in her second. How would you explain that?

Abortion is a SIN...

happy Sunday

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