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| I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by ZillionBucks(op): 11:08am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a dilemma now and I need matured and constructive advice. I met a lady about 5 years ago in the UK and we dated for sometime. I was not ready to settle down, but she was. After sometime, she told me she was leaving me as I was not ready to get married, and she went back to the guy she was dating while in the university in Nigeria. About 5 months after she got married, she visited the UK and we may at a house party and got talking, got drunk and we ended up in bed together. The next morning, she felt very bad and begged me to leave her alone and let her concentrate on her marriage and left the UK about 2 days after that. About 9 to 10 months later, someone told me she gave birth to a baby boy, I didn't have her number anymore, as she changed it and didn't inform me. I sent her congratulatory messages on Facebook to which she replied casually. I just came about the baby's pictures recently and he looks exactly like me when I was a baby. I saved some pictures and showed it to some people and they said he looks so much like me. I think he is my biological son. I really want to meet him and I am not sure she will agree if I tell her. I am really sorry about this situation and I don't intend to destroy her home. The boy has a very good life, as the lady and her husband are well off financially. Should I just let sleeping dogs lie? Kindly advise. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by Nobody: 11:09am On Dec 16, 2015 |
I pity the lady's husband, not knowing what she did behind him SMH nothing to tell you @op |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by CaroLyner(f): 11:09am On Dec 16, 2015 |
do DNA test to confirm the paternity . |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by iceberylin(m): 11:11am On Dec 16, 2015 |
All these unnecessary f#cks... Well,I wnt let another man raise my kid. |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by Nobody: 11:16am On Dec 16, 2015 |
I am here just because of the title. bad guys do bad things. |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by Cholls(m): 11:18am On Dec 16, 2015 |
My brother i heard what shocked me one day when someone said 95% of marriages in nigeria the first born is not really the husbands child. What! |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by newpisces: 11:19am On Dec 16, 2015 |
What if the paternity test shows the baby belongs to the man but the revelations have already wrecked the family? One way or the other,some lives are gonna be shattered now and some hearts broken. |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by Nobody: 11:20am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Leave the lady alone...u were obviously not ready fr a commitment and she was. She made a mistake, ur child is better off not facing the trauma of a custody battle and divorce because being a typical man, ur ex's husband may likely divorce her. Just leave her alone and do what is best for ur child's psyche 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by Pheals(f): 11:24am On Dec 16, 2015 |
U c what you have cause  op..... your head like a tv screen!! U want to destroy her home... U guys should stop fucking if U are not ready for marriage!! Later U will cause trouble and claim the child if it's yours or not, her husband will hate her for life... |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by AmiLaHoit(f): 11:26am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Guy, candid advice. Do not endanger ur life after all U WERE NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN. Go and marry and move on with ur life and luv the kid casually if need be OR STAY AWAY The heart of a woman is like a deep blue sea o o ...no one can say what may happen to u if u make an attempt cos I am sure u know that u must destroy her home if u try any thing silly. What if u destroy her home and d boy isn't urs  What will be ur gain? Me, go kii' u o o ... I am really against the fact that she cheated on her hubby, its unfair but the dirt has been done by both of u already. Take it that ur are paying for ur sins by being bothered about this. THIS IS WAT I'LL TELL BROTHER IF HE WERE U (but my bros won't lay another man's wife) |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by CaroLyner(f): 11:27am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Pheals: |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by AmiLaHoit(f): 11:27am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Suigeneris93:WELL SPOKEN!!! 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by dachaste(f): 11:30am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Leave her alone biko. Which kind winchi be dis one Don't u know u'll spoil her home If u want pikin go and impregnate ur GF n leave a married woman alone mbok. |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by Nobody: 11:32am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Cholls:  . Thank God I'm not the first born but on the second thought, I look like my eldest brother now. |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by CaroLyner(f): 11:33am On Dec 16, 2015 |
dachaste:married woman that slept with her ex? i have no pity for her. |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by CaroLyner(f): 11:36am On Dec 16, 2015 |
estharfabian would have the right Bash for this |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by TopeQs: 11:37am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Pheals: tell me something........ |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by schumastic(m): 11:37am On Dec 16, 2015 |
ZillionBucks:You knew she was married and still went ahead to sleep with her and the lady self could not hold herself  .Lord pls don't let such ladies come my way when am ready to walk the aisle and deliver me from any married lady that will come my way Ameh. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by dachaste(f): 11:39am On Dec 16, 2015 |
CaroLyner:Did u read d post atall? Dint u c him say they were drunk? And froom d woman's action# moving back to Nigeria immediately, changing her line, cutting communications with d op# ain't it obvious it wasn't intentional and she regrets her actions? Be human biko n put urself in her shoes 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by CaroLyner(f): 11:40am On Dec 16, 2015*. Modified: 12:14pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Suigeneris93:the child is just 1month old.he wouldnt know whats happening.so what psyche are you talking about |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by CaroLyner(f): 11:42am On Dec 16, 2015 |
dachaste:i wouldnt do that if i were in her shoes. you too put yourself in her husband's shoes and tell me how you'll feel when you find out your wife cheated(without telling you) and you've been taking care of someone else's child. |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by tpiar: 11:44am On Dec 16, 2015 |
ZillionBucks:you watched aloha therefore nairaland must not rest? |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by Nobody: 11:45am On Dec 16, 2015 |
CaroLyner: Lmfao!hey! I'm not a "Basher" jhoor! Buh seriously, The Op And the Alleged Married slutty woman are both Reprobate, shameless Dickheads! saying he did that because he was drunk is just A Charade, a ruse, An enomous lie!! They both do not deserve the child sef...  |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by dachaste(f): 11:47am On Dec 16, 2015 |
CaroLyner: U won't do wot? Go to d party? Drink with an ex? Be sorry for a mistake? Cut of communications or wot? Be realistic and move a step from ur comfort zone biko I shouldn't ask wot u'll do in her shoes cos d shoes might not size u self If u know guys well u'll. Know dat she won't tell him cos telling him will ruin everything |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by CaroLyner(f): 11:51am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Estharfabian:knew you'd have the right reply exactly my thought.does being drunk means completely losing your brain?pathetic excuse the ex obviously still likes him.why she slept with him. |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by viclawz(m): 11:53am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Estharfabian:  |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by ZillionBucks(op): 11:53am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Well, you might think it's some kind of fiction, but it's my reality, and I sure need your advise, though it was a mistake that I hugely regret. you watched aloha therefore nairaland must not rest? [/quote] |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by tpiar: 11:54am On Dec 16, 2015 |
I didnt read your write up, I only quoted it. |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by CaroLyner(f): 11:54am On Dec 16, 2015 |
dachaste:please stop being sentimental why playing the female victim card here. they were both at fault and you're making it sound like the girl is completely innocent. your sentiments have clouded your judgement |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by Nobody: 11:57am On Dec 16, 2015 |
CaroLyner:LoL it's Cowardice..People that can't Own up to what they did use that as an excuse, A shelter to hide their "Shame"... Oh! simply because U were Drunk, You'd be justified for killing someone? Arrant Nonsense!! |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by Nobody: 11:58am On Dec 16, 2015 |
viclawz: I'm nuh "Bashing"... |
| Re: I Think My Ex-girlfriend's Child Is Mine. by CaroLyner(f): 12:02pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Estharfabian:thank you. A very valid point half of the girls on this comment section arent realistic. |
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