₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,331,032 members, 8,448,270 topics. Date: Monday, 20 July 2026 at 06:34 AM

Toggle theme

Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? - Romance (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland ForumNairaland GeneralRomanceGuys Are Too Selfish But WHY? (3483 Views)

1 2 Reply (Go Down)

Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Glo4issy(op): 10:38am On Dec 17, 2015
ambassadorgozie:
U r lucky

Y are dey buying u all dis?

Na only u waka come
my brother na God
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Glo4issy(op): 10:40am On Dec 17, 2015
misspicy:
he is worth it? are you 100% sure because some guys no pure o

if you are very sure please return it and stick to you guy,he will buy you a better one soon
Not 100%sure though buh I will return it cause he isn't responding fine at all
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by gevans(m): 10:43am On Dec 17, 2015
misspicy:
sister no hard feelings o,but you know the way we see this things around here,we don't believe a guy is gonna get you an expensive gift just as a friend and yes he might not show interest now,its definitely gonna show soon....

if you love your guy and you are sure your relationship is leading somewhere why not return the gift and be his "orente" (a girl that is not swayed by material gifts from other guys and sticks with her man even in lack)

That is if and only if your guy is worth it o.....lol
Best response smiley
misspicy:
sister no hard feelings o,but you know the way we see this things around here,we don't believe a guy is gonna get you an expensive gift just as a friend and yes he might not show interest now,its definitely gonna show soon....

if you love your guy and you are sure your relationship is leading somewhere why not return the gift and be his "orente" (a girl that is not swayed by material gifts from other guys and sticks with her man even in lack)

That is if and only if your guy is worth it o.....lol
Best response so far.
Warri for life
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by nairamaverick(m): 11:44am On Dec 17, 2015
Glo4issy:
please make me understand
how would you feel if a lady bought such an expensive gift for your boyfriend? Be sincere with yourself.
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Glo4issy(op): 11:49am On Dec 17, 2015
nairamaverick:
how would you feel if a lady bought such an expensive gift for your boyfriend? Be sincere with yourself.
Will be suspicious but I trust my bf
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by nairamaverick(m): 11:58am On Dec 17, 2015
Glo4issy:
Will be suspicious but I trust my bf
well it's tough for guys to allow other guys especially richer ones buy gifts for your girl. It's an ego thing, wanting to be the alpha male and providing for your girl, like misspicy said you can return the gift that's if your man is worth it or even sell it if you don't want to lose out completely and if that's okay with your friend who gave you the gift. Your friend, is he in a relationship? Cos I think he's got plans to come for you next year wink
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by missangela: 12:00pm On Dec 17, 2015
Glo4issy:
Hi pals,

Guys in the house please I need mature answers.

If a guy buys Iphone6S for ur girlfriend as an xmas gift,what will be ur reaction and thinking?Am asking cause my guy is not finding it funny,he even said I should return it,Is this not selfishness?
Op,please can you introduce me to this male friend of yours,am beautiful,am good in bed,and i cook well.
Am tired of my stupid boyfriend,that cannot even give me common N50,000 for xmas!
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Dec 17, 2015
Glo4issy:
please make me understand
ur guy thinks the guy is buying ur heart, do u know how much iphone 6 cost?
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Glo4issy(op): 1:08pm On Dec 17, 2015
missangela:
Op,please can you introduce me to this male friend of yours,am beautiful,am good in bed,and i cook well.
Am tired of my stupid boyfriend,that cannot even give me common N50,000 for xmas!
lol Where do u reside?
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Glo4issy(op): 1:09pm On Dec 17, 2015
Zceesneh:
ur guy thinks the guy is buying ur heart, do u know how much iphone 6 cost?
how much please?
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Glo4issy(op): 1:09pm On Dec 17, 2015
nairamaverick:
well it's tough for guys to allow other guys especially richer ones buy gifts for your girl. It's an ego thing, wanting to be the alpha male and providing for your girl, like misspicy said you can return the gift that's if your man is worth it or even sell it if you don't want to lose out completely and if that's okay with your friend who gave you the gift. Your friend, is he in a relationship? Cos I think he's got plans to come for you next year wink
lol
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Dec 17, 2015
Glo4issy:
how much please?
$99.00 to $749.00
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by kizolo(m): 1:40pm On Dec 17, 2015
missangela:
Op,please can you introduce me to this male friend of yours,am beautiful,am good in bed,and i cook well.
Am tired of my stupid boyfriend,that cannot even give me common N50,000 for xmas!
Man, see sharp girl!
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Maximillian1: 1:09pm On Dec 29, 2015
missangela:
Op,please can you introduce me to this male friend of yours,am beautiful,am good in bed,and i cook well.
Am tired of my stupid boyfriend,that cannot even give me common N50,000 for xmas!
lol..bae you ve gat no chill o..I like ur style sha wink
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Dec 29, 2015
missangela:
Op,please can you introduce me to this male friend of yours,am beautiful,am good in bed,and i cook well.
Am tired of my stupid boyfriend,that cannot even give me common N50,000 for xmas!
If that is really u on ur profile then inbox me ur bbm or whatsapp, let's see what I can do. No bragging
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by reservd(m): 2:39pm On Dec 29, 2015
Glo4issy:
Hi pals,

Guys in the house please I need mature answers.

If a guy buys Iphone6S for ur girlfriend as an xmas gift,what will be ur reaction and thinking?Am asking cause my guy is not finding it funny,he even said I should return it,Is this not selfishness?
Ermm is ds d same fone dt ws causin issues in ur relatnshp dt u eventually gav 2 ur elder broda only 2 find out ur guy ws a womanizer? Is it d same guy dt is now worth it? Pls jst clarificatn oo
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by justjify(m): 3:41pm On Dec 29, 2015
Glo4issy:
Will be suspicious but I trust my bf
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Which boyfriend are you trusting again?

i remember you are the star actor of this movie....

Glo4issy:
Hi my fellow nairalanders,

From my previous topic about how I was given a phone as a gift from a friend that's causing issues in my relationship, I gave my elder brother the phone just to prove to my boo am not materialistic and since then we have been in good terms.Recently,i decided to open another facebook account just to taste my boo's love for me,lo and behold he proved to me he is a womaniser,first he asked for my number to be checking on me,the most annoying part is I asked if he has a girlfriend to my greatest suprise he said he is single a guy that we have been dating for four years now,i can't pretend anymore, should I just walk away or keep pretending?
It is either you are jumping from one guy to the other of you are just being fictitious with all these threads you are creating

https://www.nairaland.com/2827487/cant-pretend-anymore
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by ourchoice(m): 10:41pm On Feb 01, 2016
Lolz @missangela and all the hilarious comments, lovely people u allgrin
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by chulo132(m): 2:13pm On Feb 05, 2016
I wonder how you would react if this story were to be the other way round.. A rich lady bought your guy an expensive phone.. What would you do?
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by sinequanon: 2:32pm On Feb 05, 2016
Glo4issy:
He is average, he bought me q10 recently I feel is just jealousy
How would you react if your friend, who bought you a very expensive phone, eventually started to show you physical affection?

How easy would you find it to say, "sorry (thanx for the phone (sotto voce)), but we are just friends"?

Do you know of anybody else for whom he bought anything expensive? If he is buying expensive stuff for all his friends, then maybe it is normal. If not, then you have to use your judgement. Some twisted men end up feeling "cheated" if the girl doesn't respond with sex at some point. You have to be sure he is not one of those.

I have bought an expensive gift for a girl who was only a friend, and I wasn't interested in romantically. So it doesn't automatically mean anything untoward.
Re: Guys Are Too Selfish But WHY? by Rawhumper(m): 5:23am On May 08, 2020
I am not selfish but i Can never be stupid....
You Girls really Call stupid Guys that Are extravagant.....


Why is it Guys that spend less bleep You ladies than Guys that spend More on You..?




[




author=Glo4issy post=41081171]Hi pals,

Guys in the house please I need mature answers.

If a guy buys Iphone6S for ur girlfriend as an xmas gift,what will be ur reaction and thinking?Am asking cause my guy is not finding it funny,he even said I should return it,Is this not selfishness?[/quote]
1 2 Reply

'You Are A Selfish Bastard One Minute Man'- Unsatisfied Lady Curses GuyIs My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right?I Just Lost My Fiancee To A Bad Prank Gone Wrong...women Are Selfish234

Will You Still Marry This Woman Even Though Her Food Always Have Too Much Salt?What Would Be Your Reaction If....?Do Nlander Ladies Do This Too