Guy you have no right to access her phone unless she asks u to.

misspicy:

only the bolded can convince me she is not cheating but going by the OP's post without asking the questions above since he didn't give us the complete tale of how it really happened, its normal to deduce that she is cheating

ok. So if I say I saw something moving in the sky, it would be normal to deduce it's a bird just like that?

Would you not ask for a bit more details to be sure it's definitely a bird and not an aeroplane?

Suigeneris93:


The truth is for a relationshp to survive, u hv to give ur partner the benefit of d doubt...Nl really isn't a place to solicit relationship advice cos most of the responses u get could make u even more confused. Op shud talk to his gf she just might nt be cheating

You are right.

In my house, we don't even pick each other's phone. My dad doesn't pick his wife's nor does he pick up mine while it rings. Mobile phones are private properties. People should learn to respect the privacy of others no matter their relationship.

Oahray:
ok. So if I say I saw something moving in the sky, it would be normal to deduce it's a bird just like that?

Would you not ask for a bit more details to be sure it's definitely a bird and not an aeroplane?

lol

OP we need more info on your post then and again,first thing that comes to mind is that she is cheating,first thing that comes to mind is that its a bird since birds are synonymous to the sky

She didn't even save my name in her contact.. She locked up all the phone apps plus gallery.. I asked her y she did she didn't answer me

I am sure she locked her phone cos you were becoming increasingly obsessive about checking the phone.... Learn to trust your partner abeg! You are not married to her yet aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ therefore you dont owe her! Even when you are married to her going through her phone all the time smacks off immaturity.

loomer:


You are right.

In my house, we don't even pick each other's phone. My dad doesn't pick his wife's nor does he pick up mine while it rings. Mobile phones are private properties. People should learn to respect the privacy of others no matter their relationship.

As in eh

micolo5000:
She didn't even save my name in her contact.. She locked up all the phone apps plus gallery.. I asked her y she did she didn't answer me

Did you have a quarrel with her?

Oahray:
ok. So if I say I saw something moving in the sky, it would be normal to deduce it's a bird just like that?

Would you not ask for a bit more details to be sure it's definitely a bird and not an aeroplane?

Or even something like the picture below.

Lol.

Misspicy why did punkyveer deactivate?

she is cheating on u simple. that was how I caught my soon to ex babe cheating on me

misspicy:

well I guess y'all doesn't want to accept the truth....

okay waste time on benefit of doubt and still find out she was cheating after all?

am not saying he should breakup with her but when a partner starts wanting privacy then there a breach somewhere,unless she is just testing if the locks on her phones are working


yes he will have to talk to her,which she will definitely deny,then he should investigate,which she might be good at covering up traces


my dear zero tolerance for cheats,they kill faster than AIDs

Speaking from experience?

joseph1832:
Or even something like the picture below.

Lol.

Misspicy why did punkyveer deactivate?

because she was fed up of your mentions, it was suffocating her

Suigeneris93:




Speaking from experience?

yes,of does I experienced and does people around me experienced,we can't all be wrong

misspicy:

lol

OP we need more info on your post then and again,first thing that comes to mind is that she is cheating,first thing that comes to mind is that its a bird since birds are synonymous to the sky

hehehe... Dey there dey twist words. That a bird is the first thing that comes to mind doesn't make it DEFINITELY a bird.

Oahray:
hehehe... Dey there dey twist words. That a bird is the first thing that comes to mind doesn't make it DEFINITELY a bird.

....lemme leave it at this,since you accuse me of twisting words

joseph1832:
Or even something like the picture below.

Lol.

lol. What state are you from?

misspicy:

because she was fed up of your mentions, it was suffocating her

LMAO. Now if that was true she would have told me so. She's not one who usually keep mute with stuff like that...

Seriously though, you have any idea?

misspicy:
....lemme leave it at this,since you accuse me of twisting words

Alright. It was a deduction sha, not an accusation

Oahray:
lol. What state are you from?

Why do you ask bro?

joseph1832:
LMAO. Now if that was true she would have told me so. She's not one who usually keep mute with stuff like that...

Seriously though, you have any idea?

seriously I have all the ideas and that was part of it ,she didn't say it coz she didn't want you to feel bad

Oahray:
Alright. It was a deduction sha, not an accusation

and you came to that deduction how?

misspicy:

seriously I have all the ideas and that was part of it ,she didn't say it coz she didn't want you to feel bad

You have all the ideas, and you knew what she was thinking. Wow!. Nice to know we now have someone who can read minds here.

So when I need a mind to be read, I'll give you a mention. Remember, I'll hold you to your words.

I kept tellin d youths of dis generation dat, if u wanna be happy, stay away from love

I kept tellin d youths of dis generation dat, if u wanna be happy, stay away from love....

joseph1832:
You have all the ideas, and you knew what she was thinking. Wow!. Nice to know we now have someone who can read minds here.

So when I need a mind to be read, I'll give you a mention. Remember, I'll hold you to your words.

why do I have her as an offline friend?
yea am just a mention away

micolo5000:
My gal friend of 3yrs now has All of a sudden locked her phones from me assessing them.. Guys wat exactly does this mean? Privacy or something else

Op, take heart.

misspicy:

why do I have her as an offline friend? yea am just a mention away

Yea right, you aint the only you know.
Anyway, bye bye. Master of Legilimency.

joseph1832:
Yea right, you aint the only you know.

Anyway, bye bye. Master of Legilimency.

lol....i was joking you know,i dnt know jack

do the needful

misspicy:

lol....i was joking you know,i dnt know jack

do the needful

I knew you were. . Will the needful require me to smack your butt? LOL.

joseph1832:
I knew you were. . Will the needful require me to smack your butt? LOL.

Things change in ppl's lives... And u've heard the saying that certain things are better left unsaid. There may be thing u shouldn't know for now... Doesn't have to mean that she's cheating. Allow her attitude towards u speak for itself.

misspicy:

yes,of does I experienced and does people around me experienced,we can't all be wrong

Sure