eatwell423:
You are absolutely right. Vast majority of the girls all follow this bandwagon of eatery. Can't we meet at a park and talk? If I take you out I expect we split the bills. Even couples split bill here in US. Most guys don't have the finance to take a lady out and spend that much money trying to impress them. I'm such a lucky idiot not being in such situation where I'll have to start inviting a girl out just to impress her. I'm not inviting her to my house either. We will meet at the park since they lack the wisdom of bill splitting

Lolz

Suigeneris93:


Yea and you shud consider getting an actual eggplant down below

Sincerely speaking, your teeth na die Reminds me of vampire diary

eatwell423:
when a brother need that panties so bad

Lol.. we cannot get to meet self. You both are on Planet Earth, i live currently outside (as at typing this msg)

eatwell423:
Sincerely speaking, your teeth na die Reminds of vampire diary

And sincerely speaking niccur,u aint got balls

Sharoniah:

don't mind these long-throat guys here commenting

The guys here are only trying to see it from their own light,i guess its best to throw more reasons why a girl wld want to meet someplace other than their ouz.

Actually, what turns you off turns other on anyway... Because when you ladies come up with a question like "do you live alone?" you know what it means and your (ladies) intention for asking... Now, y is it turning u people off oo @op?

Would u give a guy u dont rily like very much ur numba?..if yes...why?..if no..id like to knw y..

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Its very annoying. They make it look as if ladies are idle and have nothing to do rather than visit social media friends.
Its a very big turn of for me. I think it is degrading to invite and lady to ur house when she barely know u. Even when they make it look as if u are playing hard to get by saying no to their invitation.
Most of them think that any lady who gives them her number is a Home Service Provider.

Sharoniah:

don't mind these long-throat guys here commenting

Just a misunderstanding of intention between the two parties.

naughtynaughty:
I mean you meet a guy newly, maybe exchange numbers because you think he is smart, he calls and the next thing is 'can you come to my house'?? Like seriously? Honestly its becoming so boring and annoying nowadays.

What's it with guys nah? Cant you guys patiently woo a lady without adding the 'come to my house' talk? Its a big turn off for me, whats there to be done in your house that we cant do elsewhere?

Is there some solution to global hunger in your house? Orishirishi. It's so common nawadays that you wonder if guys have lost their minds on dating etiquettes. My new friend has turned this come to my house talk into a daily anthem ooo..no be small thing.

The thing is..80prcnt of the men who invite ladies to come to their house at first meeting have no good intentions at heart..and y'all need a slap to reset your brain on how to properly woo a lady. Lord save guys of dis generation

Am I d only one in dis?

Where do you want IT?

Cutehector:
i just the nigerian mentality of dates is so so whack! Its not bad for a guy to ask for a date at his place for christ sake!

Wasn't it you that was saying ladies should avoid going to men's house on that alleged rape thread? It's part of the 'avoidance' OP is trying to avoid na

Lmao...funny...buh wrong...dats fr d below average nigerian guy..an average guy in my generation lives way above his means...its called packaging...he wont invite u to a house dats not tushed...my 2 cents

MrsChima:
The average Nigerian guy in Nigeria has a mattress on the floor and an ancient TV. Boring!

They offer you a choice between indomie or rice with one egg. Boring!

Suigeneris93:




Excuse me? Who goes to a peppersoup joint these days...*sigh is dere any future for some nl guys sha?

That's how your type brags. It's your type that will go there with a mat and drink pepper soup to stupor.......Keep on forming

Suigeneris93:



Rie nshi. You, your mother and your family members will die. Stupid pea-brained s.cum bag.

The likes of you are manacled by egregious idiocy. No good social misfit, cursed with eternal misery, entitled to great and unfortunate things. Hungry thieving trifling slutty vagabond.

Scavenging whor.e.

0ldirtybastard:


The likes of you are manacled by egregious idiocy. No good social misfit, cursed with eternal misery, entitled to great and unfortunate things. Hungry thieving trifling slutty vagabond.

Scavenging whor.e.

shebi you know today is sunday

Hmmmmn....

informat101:
Thank you@ op is really disturbing.men do not want to woo ladies anymore.they just want awoof..a lady u just meet the first thing that come 2 their mind is can u come to my house.total turn off shows the guy is local and a douchebag.

Sharoniah:

shebi you know today is sunday

She's an idiat.

Sharoniah:
shebi you know today is sunday

Hey darl, are you a gymnast??

Cutehector:
i just the nigerian mentality of dates is so so whack! Its not bad for a guy to ask for a date at his place for christ sake!

it actually is bad. Put urself in the place of the lady and imagine a guy asking you to come to his house without even knowing him fully well.

0ldirtybastard:

Hey darl, are you a gymnast??

it aint good to call people names,,,yes i'm a gymnast

JudgementHammer:
Lolz. That's for guys who ask for it. Me..ask a girl to visit my house. Over my dead skelenton. When girls are begging to come see me at home and I keep them on good suspense. Them know me for my street. Na from work to house except church. My friends that I visit don't stay in my community. How many of all the jekojeko girls are of good moral standard for my liking. Its d guys who can't control their sex appetite that makes them think they're worth something. Ordinary safety pin worth more than them to me.

Bless you !

Nice 1

Sharoniah:
it aint good to call people names,,,yes i'm a gymnast

Let's be friends.

Pls cud u come to my house!!! I can explain

WORD

pirazo:
Just the way you ladies always prefer to meet at the eateries (at the expense of the guys pocket) is more than boring to guys too. Can't we meet at the field,take a stroll and other public places other than eateries? Come to my house does nt necessarily mean u are coming to have sex, ladies hide behind dat excuse al the time

phuk don tire dis 1. They go don blow am well well.

LMAO #word bruh..word

eatwell423:
There is nothing more to sex than just thrusting in an out.... Get laid girl... and stop acting Telemundo

Keep forming ; menopause dey close.

What is then end point of all the drive around town and Chinese restaurant, shopping and all that?some dudes just prefer to use the formula method and save 'em selves from the long journey. The reason why 90% of guys ask for a lady's no is because the will like to fu*ck her sometime while the reason 90% of ladies give out their no's to guys is because they feel they can get something from him. So it's a two way thing. Even the sex thing, ladies make it look like its only the guys that enjoy it but I wonder who mourns the most while in the act. Well, nature has given women an edge over men and he has saddled men with the burden of "wooing" ladies.

Lool...she just got served...by u..lool

Mcowubaba:

U wan met correct guy, I hope say u too be correct girl ....
The fact is that over 80% of Nigerian girls are hungry/self-centred/greedy/cunning/dependent u can add more!!!
The wanna reap where the didn't sow..nd when we fail to fall for their maga scam, the tag us "broke ass nigga" "poor dude"..Yes I gree- I'm the Chief broke ass nigga in my State ..

This is NOT fundamentally right, but it is the glaring fact- "most" Nigerian girls need money, luxury etc.. Nigerian guys needs SEX..simple!!! What mostly goes on in Nigeria is not relationship, its' simply prostitution/ commercial sex-work...
If ur bf no give u moni for hair, clothes etc, una go gree am to f+ck ... What is prostitution- Sex for financial or luxurious gains SIMPLE..check google/dictionary!!!

U wer mkn sense...den u ruined it all..love shuld grow first before what??..u visit him??..or u visit him n have sex?? Cos im sure its visiting we r tlkn about which brings me to d conclusion dat all yall think about wen u visit a guy is sex...wrong mentality..smh..yall shuld erase dat thought first..n consider d oda real reasons y u shuldnt visit anyone male or female dt u dont knw to an extent like security reasons n all...

Sharoniah:

money or no money,,it aint good to over to a guy's house,especially if you just met him,your relationship with him,either romantic or Agape love,should grow first

I invited a lady to my house...

And served her this..

Broses in the house.. Just be kind and nice.. They'll give u whatever u want in due time

#waistpain

Over here, the reverse is the case. Men come to a lady's house instead. If you don't invite them, they will practically invite themselves.

naughtynaughty:
I mean you meet a guy newly, maybe exchange numbers because you think he is smart, he calls and the next thing is 'can you come to my house'?? Like seriously? Honestly its becoming so boring and annoying nowadays.

What's it with guys nah? Cant you guys patiently woo a lady without adding the 'come to my house' talk? Its a big turn off for me, whats there to be done in your house that we cant do elsewhere?

Is there some solution to global hunger in your house? Orishirishi. It's so common nawadays that you wonder if guys have lost their minds on dating etiquettes. My new friend has turned this come to my house talk into a daily anthem ooo..no be small thing.

The thing is..80prcnt of the men who invite ladies to come to their house at first meeting have no good intentions at heart..and y'all need a slap to reset your brain on how to properly woo a lady. Lord save guys of dis generation

Am I d only one in dis?

zudozz:
phuk don tire dis 1. They go don blow am well well.

na paranoia dey worry am. Dem neva see anytin. Guys r nt smiling at all carrying such hot dog between their legs. Na to dey bite d ladies continually