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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Ilaje44(m): 11:10am On Dec 20, 2015 |
Nipple: Bawo ni? Kaabo! I am sorry if family and peer pressure is making you to cut ties with families and friends. I understand Nigerians can be quite nosy and drive one to madness with their when are you getting married?, go and marry attitudes. Some do it innocently, and with the best intention, while some other just wanna torment you. Nevertheless, I do not think the best way of handling the situation is to isolate yourself. You will be compounding the situation by so doing. Hence, if people ask you such questions, the best you can do is smile, and tell 'em God's time is the best. I hope fortune will smile upon you, and you will find your very own "ideri" pretty soon. Since heaven only helps those who helped themselves, I would encourage you to try to put smiles on your face, and never let the situation take charge of you. 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Ilaje44(m): 11:22am On Dec 20, 2015 |
@ Udysweet I didn't get where you inquired about our language. Ijebu bawo? Take a look at my user name, what is left if you take away the figures (numbers)? |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nipple(f): 12:06pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Ilaje44:Thank you for your kind words words. I'm struggling to read your dialect. You write it so deeply. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Ilaje44(m): 2:10pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Nipple: If you wanna learn Ilaje, aunti FourFunmi would be a great help . Try to get her attention . Which Yoruba dialect do you speak/understand (Ibadan, Egba, Ijebu...)? Oya, you can set the ignition with this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6y_4_b6RS8 |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nipple(f): 2:49pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Ilaje44:lol. I'll pass o until I perfect my Ondo. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 2:58pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Gdmrn peeps, fine guys and babes of 30plus and singles thread. Happy sunday to u all. How was ur weekend? Hope it was cool? I had a busy weekend. The whatsapp chat for this thread had a very successful party yestdy. It was the bomb. There were lots of handsome dudes and beautiful ladies in attendance. People came from different parts of the country, one or two flew in from outside the country. It truly showed their commitment to the vision of the chat, and their seriousness to the biz of finding a life partner. The dresscode was casual chic/casual dude. It began from 12noon till mama calls. There was surplus food and lots to drink. We were all like a family. U can imagine when a group of people have been chatting since october 6th, and finally meet for the first time after 3mths of relating online! There were sparks in the air! Friendships were formed, relationships made and engagements announced. I tell u, it wasn't only the sound of jingle bells I was hearing! I cud hear the toll of wedding bells! Yay! For those who are wondering, the whatsapp chat is the baby of this thread and is meant for serious 30plus ladies and gents who want to go to the next level. The chat is responsible, as secure as can be, and operates under a controlled environment of love, respect and fun. If u like what am doing on this thread, then u shd be a part of this chat. I am glad to announce that in january, the whatsapp chat for 30plus and single is officially entering Season 2. For all those who asked to be added and were told to hold on till Season 1 wrapped up with this gtg, I thank u for ur patience. I'll be sending u a msg this week. If ur single and searching, if ur tired of trial and error online, if uve been hurt too many times, or fallen into the hands of 'one chance babes/dudes', if u just want to meet that serious guy/girl and ur 30+ hit me up on 08180632132. Note: I've had requests from 19yr olds. I've had requests from married men who are looking for 'friends with/out benefits'. Pls, before u apply, scroll up and read again. Like I always say, if ur panda, don't shop for gold. They just don't mix! Phone line is open. Send me a txt, whatsapp or call, and I'll add u! Have a good week ahead! Muahhh |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 3:13pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Ode DanJos Agabi So the media now tells our sisters that beauty is in having a body shape like the lab-created models with projected breasts and buttocks, and smooth faces like the skin of a tilapia fish. And for the brother looking for a beautiful sister to marry, that's the criteria abi? Well the media is wrong. Sister, you May not have the smooth face and curvy body, but appreciate yourself as a creature of God. You may waste time, energy and resources in trying to look like someone you're not. If the source of beauty is temporary, such beauty is temporary. You don't need to hide your scars and spots behind makeup in order to feel accepted and appreciated because when you look at the mirror after bathing, that's reality. And if you don't like the real you, no one else will. God bless you |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 4:37pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
matrix199, where are thou art? You gal is missing you ooooo. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Ilaje44(m): 4:54pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Nipple: I guess you must be from the Ekiti kete/Ondo egi angle then? |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Bisjosh(f): 4:58pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
udysweet: Thanks darling. How have u been? |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nipple(f): 5:18pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Ilaje44:That's correct sire! |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by torqque7(m): 5:51pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
siamia:A lot of us couldn't make it but from the pics I saw I most certainly will not miss the next one,Siamia dhl my cake o lol 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 7:21pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Torqque, oya cut and chop.... 1 Like
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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 7:54pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Ref: www.nairaland.com/2812932/fatal-accident-along-benin-highwayscores May God give the families of these departed ones the grace and strength to bear this unspeakable loss. Unfortunately, in the world we live in, bad things happen. The unexpected, the unplanned and the unforeseen sometimes happen. I pray that as we mark christmas, let's realise that life is a precious gift. Make ur life have meaning. Live right, live well. As u go out this week, make urself a blessing to someone who cannot repay u. Be nice to someone. Say a kind word to someone. Show forgiveness to someone who hurt u, even when they do not return to say thank u, keep bein good, bcs that's who u are. Its not how many years u spend on earth; its how u live it...its all about putting value to the days that God has given u. So that, when ur own time comes, ur life will be celebrated, and not regretted. We the people of 30plus and single, stand with these families in their moment of grief. May God console you all. May God see you through this trying times. He may not answer all ur questions, but He will surely stand with you. It is well. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fourfunmi: 10:01pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by choix007(m): 10:08pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
siamia: Nice one Siamia, I will do the needful. Looking forward to being part of Season 2.. BTW I will chat u up on whatsapp. @Nipple, you are welcome to the family! Season's Greetings EveryOne, who will I spend this Xmas with?! Mizbronzy? Lol |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Odunharry(m): 10:58pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
fourfunmi:sister mi kirikiri road a mi gbe? |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 5:31pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
Bademosi Aanu Omotayo DO YOU KNOW THIS ABOUT DATING It's NOT about being engaged, married, or in any relationship. It's about being secured, happy, safe, relieved, and feeling good....It's about having a peaceful state of mind. It's about sleeping at night without the fear of losing what you've got. It's about being yourself and not someone else. It's about feeling loved, happy, respected, understood and appreciated. It's all about the right person and the right time. • Sleeping alone is better than sharing your BED with someone who shares a BED with someone else when you're not around...! • Cheating doesn't mean you have to kiss, meet or have sex with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so your partner wont see them, you are already there. • 1. If a man is crazy about you, pray he doesn't get well, if he is getting well, know that another woman is giving him some tablets. •First love may not die, but true love can bury it. •If you still believe "LOVE IS BLIND" then i know for sure MARRIAGE WILL OPEN IT FOR YOU. •A woman's beautiful face attracts a flirt; A woman's beautiful heart attracts a lover; A woman's beautiful character attracts a man. •Don't fall in love because you are lonely, fall in love because you are ready. •A blessed garri is better than a cursed fried rice. A Godly Poor Man is far better than an Angry Rich Man in marriage. •I will rather have you stay in your father's house that you are sure of, than pack into a man's house you are not sure of. •Most men base their capacity of manhood and their abilities to fertilize ovaries and produce children. Any man can impregnates a woman. The real deal is HOW MANY MEN CAN BE THE FATHER TO THEIR CHILDREN, not promoters of ABORTION? •HOLY Wives don't just speak in tongues, they MANAGE their homes, make SUPER meals, raise GODLY kids, and bring out the KING in their man. •When you tend to your garden diligently you will be the one to reap the fruit of the vine thereof.... • You can say "sorry" a million times, say "I love you" as much as you want, say whatever you want, But if you're not going to prove that the things you say are true, then don't say anything at all. Because if you can't show it, your words don’t mean a thing. Don't lie in order to satisfy somebody for a moment, because the pain that you cause them in the future can last them for a lifetime. - Fb. 2 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 5:33pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
Hello the house! How is everyone doing? |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by magneto(m): 7:19pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
udysweet: Hehehe udypeperempe, how I go do na? U knw say na soso totori ur mata jus dey totori me so... . Do come abeg, I go keep one warehouse of okpa for u only. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by magneto(m): 7:26pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
Ilaje44: Hahahahaha...egbon mi ur head dey there!!! See as I come dey imagine d sweet lips dey chop agbalumo! chei, I have dead!!! Cardiac arrest ooooooo.... |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by magneto(m): 7:32pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
halexito: Halexito my man!! U have done it again....beautiful post bro! I love the above bolded best. How ur endz man? |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by magneto(m): 7:35pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
siamia: Amen, it is well with u too sista. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by magneto(m): 7:49pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
My people, my people...I dey greet all of una special o! Shout out to the newbies in da house, xerum, nipple, talk2docee...y'all are warmly welcome. I've been pondering on a particular matter for some time now, and I'd luv to get ur opinions on it... Between these two qualities "COMPATIBILITY" and "ADAPPTABILITY", which would u say is a more important quality in a potential mate and why?? Over to the house... |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 9:43pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
Hahahaha! Chai,NL o,making me happy since july 2013! @missbronze bia dis my nwannem nwanyi,pls be sure to be present to offer toast on our wedding day o,when magneto finally magnets udysweet(abi no b u matchmake us ni,lol) @ilaje44,u and magneto don join dis "lips" issue ni. I tot d mata had died dwn o,was a hot topic for a while b4 u guys joined,now una do re awaken am,lol! Mak I go remove dat dp mbok,lol(by d way I filteredt it o) @ilaje44,pls sir are u into music?I see a lot of music videos links,u seem to hav a sizeable collections churning out wats best for each scenario. Abg find one to describe my mood now mbok. Apologies also,I hv noticed d "ilaje" in ur name,so now I knw d lang u and @fourfunmi converse in. But I think "ilaje" is found in almost all d riverine areas in naija abi? I might be wrong o. @halexito,loverboy extraordinaire,lol! Nice write up dear. @bisjosh,am fine dear. How did your day go? @all(honestly d list is growing I can't keep up wit names,make I no offend dos I fit forget to list,lol. But trust me I'll edit my list again)hope our day went well? And harmattan nko? Not much lik dat in lag but enof to mak me go abt wit hanky and tissue cos of dust and sneezing,lol! @myminder,I called u out?lol! U dnt let go tins,do u? Have a great nite. One last one,magneto. So na only okpa u wan use mesmerize me? Oda o,kontinu,lol magneto: |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Ilaje44(m): 10:06pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Ilaje44(m): 10:20pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
udysweet: Udysweet, abegi, ma binu. Mi o mo wipe lips woyen ti da gobe sile tele tele ri. My mouth no go put me for gbege sha, him dey too like to talk wetin my eyes dem see. Ilajes are indeed found wherever this water, but we are mostly at home in Ondo state. You will find us in Gabun, Cameroon, Akwa Ibom, Cross River, Rivers, Delta, Ogun, Lagos, Benin republic... Magneto, Okpa nikan ko ni wa fi fe Udy o. Gbo nkan ti Oritsefemi so nibi: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fy4yd1ZDDd0 Udy, nitori wipe omo alayo ni e, ijo ayo ti ya: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YajjHPpLG-o |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Xerum(m): 10:41pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
@magneto My people, my people...I dey greet all of una special o! Shout out to the newbies in da house, xerum, Tip, talk2docee...y'all are warmly welcome. I would choose COMPATIBILITY for the following reasons: 1. You are attracted to the other for specific character traits / talent 2. At what point would the other have adapted enough and not compromise his/her core self which is why you got attracted to him/her in the first place. 3. In a good union / relationship is should be that, you go into it with 2 equals halves and make one melted whole in a new relationship / union. 4. I often say, where to people agree all the time, one of them is unnecessary. 5. And how do you determine who adapts what and what the level of adaptation would/should be? 6. Unrealistic expectations of ADAPTABILITY could lead to clashes due to adaptation expectations not getting realised And of course people change over time, but if the basis will be with strong level of compatibility, it will be much easier to close gaps and deal with challenges. My 2 cent o.. lol 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Ilaje44(m): 10:46pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
Just wanna be sober: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cc0QVWzCv9k |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 12:37am On Dec 22, 2015 |
magneto:compatibility FOR ME! adaptability IS JUST LIKE YOu are tolerating somone or just trying to survive with that person, but compatibility from the world companion or companionship! just like how God think of sending a companion to Adam which he said " it is not good for a man to stay alone and let us make him a help mate (companion in some bible) Even by hearing the world compatible! Also implies that come can live or coexist in an comfortable manner with each other without or little problem at all. But by hearing the word adaptable! Which doesn't sound good to me! Can also implies that one is just trying to survive or keeping boundaries with each other without understanding your partner but only understanding the environment your are with he/she. Sometimes I do wonder if compatible, companion and comfortable are all thesame words? 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nipple(f): 8:10am On Dec 22, 2015 |
magneto:human beings are the most adaptable beings. it means that regardless of any situation, you get to find a way to make it work. I like to think adaptability is something you resign to where compatibility is absent. we belong to a society that places value I have heard a lot of people say they can be with anyone and it just takes a few basic factors in place to do that. You get used to a situation, get used to be with someone and live with them. In my opinion, it's no different from settling. Why settle for ANYone when I can have SOMEone? Compatibility is a match, a complementary fit and everyone deserves to have that with their own someone. 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 8:14am On Dec 22, 2015 |
Udysweet, kindly explain what you meant. I am not sure what you are implying. When you do, I will take it from there. Cheers |
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