Cutehector:
dats why i just ddnt even answer anybody quoting me regarding number one especially the females... I just ddnt want to get angry. People cant just bendown and read inbetween lines. Evryword counts!

hlo dear

I disagree with only two, putting your hand on the waist in the public is married is morally wrong, also being handbag carrier wen she's not carry anything is wrong, handbang is part of ladies dress. Why carrying it cos you want to mark register? Don't pretend to be caring.

Jolllyjoy:
life don pass dis stage bros.

tell the lazy scammer


But wait Ooo, ur booby wan use style big for this ur new DP Ooo, abi vulcanizer don help u pump am ni ??

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omo ole radarada

I appreciate this tread a lot and give it to OP and you guys for your comments so far because I'm currently going through this moment of life with my gf whose believe in equal right and responsibilities is sanely the right thing and not the usual African way.

What really got me startle about her yesterday was when she came back frm the hospital in the afternoon(She"s a Med Dr.) to her house. After the usual whtsup, she took her time to mop the floor and washed the plate in the kitchen. Afterwards, she dint alter a word to me, I even try to ask what the problem was, yet she kept mute all through before I left for my house since I couldn't condone her muted/cold mode.
I came back to her as early as possible this morning and I asked why she acted real cold to me but to my amazement, she said I dint clean up the room, the room was in same shape as she left it and also left the plate unwashed.

Plz and Plz, how do I go about solving this?

Cutehector:
So many times we try too hard to impress people, and the outcome is really that bad.. Though i stand to be corrected, buh in my opinion, i find some things very okay when one is in company with the opposite sex... Wana knw them?




1. Its very ok to share the bills when you are on a date with the opposite sex


Now guys and ladies have this mentality that its the guy dat is very much supposed to foot all the bills on a date... And then after all the nice time you two spend together, the guy feels its his right to sleep with the babe.. That mentality shouldnt be so.. I believe that two matured people who are on a date should share in footing the bills if need arises. its so not shameful.. It doesnt reduce ur ego..



2. Its not a crime to ask the opposite sex for assistance especially financial assistance.

Yeah, sometimes we get so broke in life, even to buy 100 naira airtym is a problem, and u have this bestie who is of the opposite sex, i really dont think its a crime to ask him/her for assistance.. Most guys be like, mehn i cant ask any girl for money, and as d big olodo you are, that same babe will suck u dry and even ur last card, u will give to her.. Buh to quit the ego when you are in need is a problem... Its not shameful tho.. Buh do not make the mistake of asking all and sundry for assistance, just ur very close friends..


3. Its not shameful to assist the opposite sex in doing chores.

Now this is meant for those who r very very close to each other... You have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and lets say you two live together, boyfrnd is sick or girlfriend is sick and you as the partner is very much hale and hearty, its so not shameful to assist him or her in washing their clothes, especially his/her undies.. Yeeeah i know right..


4: its very very ok to for a guy and a girl to hold hands when walking in public...


Some people are so so timid or uptight in their character, even when with the opposite sex, they still feel that awkwardness.. There are quite a good number of PDAs that aren't shameful to practice in public like holding hands while walking, holding each other by the waist, etc.. To me these aint dat shameful.. Unless you are embarrassed about him or her in public.. Sometimes, people judge a lot, their mindset are so so myopic that they see these acts like immoral.. Please if you are of that category, quit the habit and mind your business.



5. Its so not shameful for a guy to assist his female friend or boss to carry their handbags should they feel incapacitated to do so at that moment


Now many guys find it difficult to help their female friend with her handbag. She may want to get something or maybe holding too many things with her hands, its so not shameful to tell her, hey leme help u with one of them, maybe your handbag.. It just wouldnt reduce our ego, would it?

carry on

IamLEGEND1:
You know there's this line in a captain america movie-"...public displays of affection makes people uncomfortable..."

it was just a forgettable line a movie but I actually noticed that it was kinda true.... it just depends on how well the people of that country/state/community have learnt to just mind their business.

But u know say for naija we no get chill at all.......holding hands is generally o.k but when u start holding waist and stuff then you're really pushing it.....all these old women wey no get joy fit walk up to una start to dey misyarn.

After black widow had kissed Captain america coming down from d escalator... Nyc 1

No. 4 is just...

merizy:
hlo dear

urm i hvnt still gotten ur number yet, ok why not u call me, my number is in my profile.

^^ wasted yout

IamLEGEND1:
You know there's this line in a captain america movie-"...public displays of affection makes people uncomfortable..."

it was just a forgettable line a movie but I actually noticed that it was kinda true.... it just depends on how well the people of that country/state/community have learnt to just mind their business.

But u know say for naija we no get chill at all.......holding hands is generally o.k but when u start holding waist and stuff then you're really pushing it.....all these old women wey no get joy fit walk up to una start to dey misyarn.

lol.....dey fit even slap u ontop sef....dey go jst dey swallow panadol 4 anoda man headache

StrawberryCream:
^^ wasted yout

ladyboss like seriously! Smh

Cutehector:
ladyboss like seriously! Smh

U still chasing woman

StrawberryCream:

U still chasing woman

StrawberryCream:

U still chasing woman

i just recognized u immediately... I knw ur scent .. Naaah am nad still chasing women in nl lol.... Av repented now.. How hav u been

Cutehector:
i just recognized u immediately... I knw ur scent .. Naaah am nad still chasing women in nl lol.... Av repented now.. How hav u been

Lol ur the only that knew straight away
What gave me up ??

Thank God u don repent.. Glad ur aite .

StrawberryCream:

Lol ur the only that knew straight away
What gave me up ??

Thank God u don repent.. Glad ur aite .

ur lips...

Cutehector:
urm i hvnt still gotten ur number yet, ok why not u call me, my number is in my profile.

send me d numba cnt find it in ur profile

merizy:
send me d numba cnt find it in ur profile

..

merizy:
m callin nw

alryt, expectin the call

merizy:
m callin nw

i just ddnt hav enuf airtym in my sim, i wasnt expectin to call anyone today, i thought u said u were gona do d callin and u flashed

Cutehector:
i just ddnt hav enuf airtym in my sim, i wasnt expectin to call anyone today, i thought u said u were gona do d callin and u flashed

lolz i dnt ve enof airtym too

merizy:
lolz i dnt ve enof airtym too

den u should hav just given me ur new number.... Flashing turns me off... I'd call u tomoro.. And pleeas no flashing, alryt..

Cutehector:
den u should hav just given me ur new number.... Flashing turns me off... I'd call u tomoro.. And pleeas no flashing, alryt..

alryt swithrt

Relationship of whatever kind requires reciprocal shown of affection and love. it is quite a pity that Ladies often feel the man should always be giving out while they are meant to always be receiving, what a wrong philosophy. This is mostly a black Woman belief.
it baffles Me why a man should always play the fool. To the ladies out there, Relationship should come with mutual benefit not parasitism.

Never be ashamed of asking for the car door to be opened and closed for you.

#Goals �

realjane:
Never be ashamed of asking for the car door to be opened and closed for you.