So many times we try too hard to impress people, and the outcome is really that bad.. Though i stand to be corrected, buh in my opinion, i find some things very okay when one is in company with the opposite sex... Wana knw them?




1. Its very ok to share the bills when you are on a date with the opposite sex


Now guys and ladies have this mentality that its the guy dat is very much supposed to foot all the bills on a date... And then after all the nice time you two spend together, the guy feels its his right to sleep with the babe.. That mentality shouldnt be so.. I believe that two matured people who are on a date should share in footing the bills if need arises. its so not shameful.. It doesnt reduce ur ego..



2. Its not a crime to ask the opposite sex for assistance especially financial assistance.

Yeah, sometimes we get so broke in life, even to buy 100 naira airtym is a problem, and u have this bestie who is of the opposite sex, i really dont think its a crime to ask him/her for assistance.. Most guys be like, mehn i cant ask any girl for money, and as d big olodo you are, that same babe will suck u dry and even ur last card, u will give to her.. Buh to quit the ego when you are in need is a problem... Its not shameful tho.. Buh do not make the mistake of asking all and sundry for assistance, just ur very close friends..


3. Its not shameful to assist the opposite sex in doing chores.

Now this is meant for those who r very very close to each other... You have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and lets say you two live together, boyfrnd is sick or girlfriend is sick and you as the partner is very much hale and hearty, its so not shameful to assist him or her in washing their clothes, especially his/her undies.. Yeeeah i know right..


4: its very very ok to for a guy and a girl to hold hands when walking in public...


Some people are so so timid or uptight in their character, even when with the opposite sex, they still feel that awkwardness.. There are quite a good number of PDAs that aren't shameful to practice in public like holding hands while walking, holding each other by the waist, etc.. To me these aint dat shameful.. Unless you are embarrassed about him or her in public.. Sometimes, people judge a lot, their mindset are so so myopic that they see these acts like immoral.. Please if you are of that category, quit the habit and mind your business.



5. Its so not shameful for a guy to assist his female friend or boss to carry their handbags should they feel incapacitated to do so at that moment


Now many guys find it difficult to help their female friend with her handbag. She may want to get something or maybe holding too many things with her hands, its so not shameful to tell her, hey leme help u with one of them, maybe your handbag.. It just wouldnt reduce our ego, would it?

Cutehector ure so so on point, as in i often see ladies as a pest to some of my guys, all they do is just ask ask and ask, i personally will never woo a broke lady, i go for the rich ladies, u can call me a player, i dont care, becaus i know when im broke, my lady will always be there to support me. "and on the issue of holding the hands of my lady in a public environ, im addicted to holding the hand of any lady when in a public place, be it my sisters,friends or girlfriend.

For this country?/

Confirm

ssweetorgasm:
FTC

abuja

laurenziz6:
For this country?/

as in eh.. We nigerians are so so uptight in lil things

This topic is one of the reasons I love dis gal I'm dating... A nigerian wid white gals' mentality....I call her my guy...

boboLIL:
This topic is one of the reasons I love dis gal I'm dating... A nigerian wid white gals' mentality....I call her my guy...

lol.. Such girls r very rare to find.. Neva let go of her

IamLEGEND1:
hold each other's waist abi?

make God catch u say her papa na mobile police & him dey do patrol that day.

hahaha.. Thats the problem.. Fear of what people will say or do...

sladimeji:
abuja

LOL

You shouldn't be ashamed to kiss in public too

ssweetorgasm:
Cutehector ure so so on point, as in i often see ladies as a pest to some of my guys, all they do is just ask ask and ask, i personally will never woo a broke lady, i go for the rich ladies, u can call me a player, i dont care, becaus i know when im broke, my lady will always be there to support me. "and on the issue of holding the hands of my lady in a public environ, im addicted to holding the hand of any lady when in a public place, be it my sisters,friends or girlfriend.

well, whateva makes your ministry move to the permanent site, neva stop doing it... As long as it is legal


Nice one

Cutehector:
lol.. Such girls r very rare to find.. Neva let go of her

seriously,,, so rare...na aradite and superglue I use hold am oh

Mhizkel:
You shouldn't be ashamed to kiss in public too

mhizkel u and i knw very well that is very very very hard to do..

Wow! i totally agree with u on dis one hector.

Emm...cutehector....that undies stuff...

Cutehector:
mhizkel u and i knw very well that is very very very hard to do..

Only in Nigeria.

Cutehector:
hahaha.. Thats the problem.. Fear of what people will say or do...

You know there's this line in a captain america movie-"...public displays of affection makes people uncomfortable..."

it was just a forgettable line a movie but I actually noticed that it was kinda true.... it just depends on how well the people of that country/state/community have learnt to just mind their business.

But u know say for naija we no get chill at all.......holding hands is generally o.k but when u start holding waist and stuff then you're really pushing it.....all these old women wey no get joy fit walk up to una start to dey misyarn.

Mhizkel:

Only in Nigeria.

even some new wedded couples find it hard to kiss in public in nigeria durin dr wedin ceremony...

IamLEGEND1:
You know there's this line in a captain america movie-"...public displays of affection makes people uncomfortable..."

it was just a forgettable line a movie but I actually noticed that it was kinda true.... it just depends on how well the people of that country/state/community have learnt to just mind their business.

But u know say for naija we no get chill at all.......holding hands is generally o.k but when u start holding waist and stuff then you're really pushing it.....all these old women wey no get joy fit walk up to una start to dey misyarn.

hahahahahaha.. They will just begin to gossip.. They will be like, mama chioma, how is ur daughter, i saw her on the road last week....

ShayGirl:
Wow! i totally agree with u on dis one hector.

lol thanks shaygirl..btw, happy birthday..

Cronnie7:
Emm...cutehector....that undies stuff...

its not w bad thing, is it? I personally dnt see any wrong in a girl washin a guy's undies and a guy washn a girl's undies.. I duno abt yhu..

But some guys hate carrying the handbag for a girl when walking on the road.

Nice write-up.

Adaure4ever:
But some guys hate carrying the handbag for a girl when walking on the road.

wow, nice one.. I'll add that to my post.... I feel its because of the ego.. And sentiments of people

NewSheriff:
Nice write-up.

thanks bro

Cutehector:
lol thanks shaygirl..btw, happy birthday..

. Thanx dearie!!

Cutehector:
even some new wedded couples find it hard to kiss in public in nigeria durin dr wedin ceremony...

Kikikikiki...Shame on them

I like to go public tho

I see all these as normal and do all with my closest female friends.
When we hang out, we split bills. I'm not ashamed to ask for help, everyone gets in a fix sometime. I help a little when I visit and I absolutely love PDA, but that one is reserved for one .

The Nigerian culture always portrays the man as being regnant, so there's this unnecessary ego. Shouldn't always be.

*modified*
Carry handbag? Say wetin happen na? That is a big NO!

Mhizkel:

Kikikikiki...Shame on them

I like to go public tho

me too..

IamLEGEND1:
hold each other's waist abi?

make God catch u say her papa na mobile police & him dey do patrol that day.

Lmao.....Na that day u go smell ur ynash