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lanicky:
Nice one OP.

You need to create a counter thread though

because the truth really did hurt right

tunjion:
Marriage is best not rushed. Nothing is pursuing you, take your time to get exactly your kind of man.


Dont jump becos everyone is doing it and marry a man that will kill you.


Obey your parents becos they love you and want the best for you.


Marry within the confines of your religion and people.


Dont be pressured to marry but marry becos you love and want to leave with the person forever.

Religion, yes
Who are your people?

For the ladies only. I'm available, free and wanting to settle down soon. Twitter @bouncekennedy

fiziebaibie:
U wish

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Good to know that Prettythicksme is taken already by bonapart

True talk 4 the genuine ladies of our tym

pinceprinz:


I'll tk that as a compliment

Hmm ok

I claim this prayer for Naijasinglegirl damn that babe don suffer....u will marry before December 2016...just avoid what the emusmith listed

emusmith:

3. Unrealistic Financial Expectations

If he's not earning above 100k, I'm not interested. Heard that before? That's even the least. This days, just get an ok car and they're all over you. Who wan marry poor man? I get. [s] Dangote once slept under a truck for months. [/s] If ladies truly have "eyes" to see which guy will be successful or not; while under the truck, politician's daughters would have been coming to say "Hi" to his rickety former self.
[b] Moral Lesson: Still, follow a man for his vision. Not just for his BIG television.

Bros

You can lie o

Is it the only Dangote we know today you're referring to

Lieanus na him be your second name
Person wey come from a rich home.

8. Secretly a lesbian.

firstolalekan:





Bros

You can lie o

Is it the only Dangote we know today you're referring to

Lieanus na him be your second name
Person wey come from a rich home.

Do you research again. I lived in the north. I stand to be corrected.

AyamConfidence:
I claim this prayer for Naijasinglegirl damn that babe don suffer....u will marry before December 2016...just avoid what the emusmith listed

avoid?

emusmith:
avoid?

yes na...stay away from such obstacles as they hinder marriage

Why Are Some Of Us Single Men For Now Talk, Think And Behave As If It Is The Ladies That Needs Good Marriage Most, We Guys That Is Up To Marriage Age Need It As Well oooo .. Okay Make I Talk My Own Leave Others To Talk For Them Selves ........ I NEED A GIRL OOOO, PLEASE POST THE OBSTACLES THAT CAN PREVENT ME FROM GETTING MARRIED IN 2016 SO I CAN START NOW TO TAKE NOTE AND STUDY THEM

I totally agree your number point. Especially the igbo's practice this. Both men and women practice this.
You can't date an igbo guh with 100% guarantee he wil walk you down the altar....

The ops name is lienus,mohammed Ngbojikwe

firstolalekan:





Bros

You can lie o

Is it the only Dangote we know today you're referring to

Lieanus na him be your second name
Person wey come from a rich home.

The ops name is lienus,mohammed Ngbojikwe,Am very sure he is the younger brother of lie mohammed

firstolalekan:





Bros

You can lie o

Is it the only Dangote we know today you're referring to

Lieanus na him be your second name
Person wey come from a rich home.

AyamConfidence:
yes na...stay away from such obstacles as they hinder marriage

That's true. Is she your sisi?

Chicagoesontop:
Why Are Some Of Us Single Men For Now Talk, Think And Behave As If It Is The Ladies That Needs Good Marriage Most, We Guys That Is Up To Marriage Age Need It As Well oooo .. Okay Make I Talk My Own Leave Others To Talk For Them Selves ........ I NEED A GIRL OOOO, PLEASE POST THE OBSTACLES THAT CAN PREVENT ME FROM GETTING MARRIED IN 2016 SO I CAN START NOW TO TAKE NOTE AND STUDY THEM

Lolss

emusmith:


That's true. Is she your sisi?

nah...just seeing her posts around and i feel for her...she needs to be taken outta the market ASAP

AyamConfidence:
nah...just seeing her posts around and i feel for her...she needs to be taken outta the market ASAP

lol, are you married

I cant believe I am living in the same country with these idiots.

Nice Write up but OP Dangote never slept under the trailer...that one na big lie...get your facts right...

emusmith:
lol, are you married

no bro but dem girls don dey book space so....its only a matter of time

emusmith:
Do you research again. I lived in the north. I stand to be corrected.

you live in the North and then? that doesn't mean u should know everything about a man that HSS spent so many years in the west too...dangote nor sleep under trailer Mr....go and researche about the Dantata /dangote dynasty...

I don't know when people of the North like to dey lie...are you lie Muhammed brother?

Fear North

shollyboy2:



you live in the North and then? that doesn't mean u should know everything about a man that HSS spent so many years in the west too...dangote nor sleep under trailer Mr....go and researche about the Dantata /dangote dynasty...

I don't know when people of the North like to dey lie...are you lie Muhammed brother?

Fear North

gnyt

AyamConfidence:
no bro but dem girls don dey book space so....its only a matter of time

lol...you must be really touché

emusmith:
lol...you must be really touché

lol...you bet but right now we running a cashless policy so we enter market to help move ministry till i ready...(hoping to confuse you...lol)

emusmith:
7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015


As the curtains of 2015 is coming to a majestic close, I want to congratulate those NL ladies who got wedded. Those who didn't, it doesn't matter. 2016 is around the corner, waiting to land you into your "valid" relationships or husband's houses. Amen!

However, there could have been some things you did or didn't do, as such, yours was delayed.

Every time, singles who wants to get married are asked to come out, I see a lot of girls- young and old. So, they are many and that makes this thread relevant to ALL except the babies among us

NOTE: I'm speaking from one angle. You can address the other. Thanks.

What are some hindrances that could have delayed the marriages of some of our qualified Ladies:


1. Traditional Embargo:

It beats my imagination how some folks still hold firmly to this; if he's not from my place, I dare not marry him. While, it's good to heed to parent's advice, its you who will stay single till 30, not them. Please, pray and watch. Be wise.


2. "Confused" Expectations In The Kind of guy she wants.

I need a faithful guy, handsome, tall, godly, macho, good with kids, he might drink socially,good cook...if you notice; what relationship has being GODLY and DRINKING alcohol share? My advice is, write what you really really need in him. A goal not written is a wish. Wishes aren't horses anymore...while writing, remember: If you want an 100% man, get clay and mould him yourself. Wanting a man that can cook just because you can't, is denying one of the core essence that makes you a mother, wife and a woman. Learn how to cook, better. Let him just be assisting. My advice.


3. Unrealistic Financial Expectations

If he's not earning above 100k, I'm not interested. Heard that before? That's even the least. This days, just get an ok car and they're all over you. Who wan marry poor man? I get. Dangote once slept under a truck for months. If ladies truly have "eyes" to see which guy will be successful or not; while under the truck, politician's daughters would have been coming to say "Hi" to his rickety former self.
Moral Lesson: Still, follow a man for his vision. Not just for his BIG television.


4. War between her and in-laws

If he truly loves me, he'll put me above his siblings. Some girls have not yet become part and parcel of the family and their character is already exposing them. Call it wisdom, not hypocrisy. In- laws deserve respect, why? They are humans like you. I'm not speaking for myself though. Place yourself in their shoes. A girl wants to marry your brother and she's acting all "rude" and "sensitive". You won't tell him, go ahead. Will you? Unless you're like her tho...


5. Immaturity in handling little matters

He forgot my birthday, he's not worth being my "ideal" boo. I broke up with him. Did you just say that? Its absolutely wrong to forget your girl's birthday but is that the only way of solving that ish? Is there no better way? I've had to call someone to call me and wish me a Happy Birthday, with smiles on. It's no big deal. I learnt it. We all can do same. Be flexible and not immature. Most times, her actions isn't stemming from his forgetting to call her but from many other things. I understand. You can break up with him, if you confirmed he's been cheating. But, be sure. Let me not derail. Next point will explain that...


6. Pride/Ego/Unforgiveness/Unnecessary "Forming"


I'm not perfect but I know that unforgiveness pulls one back and separates two lovebirds. If he cheated on you for the first time and he reports himself that it was a mistake- haba, you shouldn't break up. One more chance. Pride and ego are the most reasons some are still lonely. Ordinary PM, you dey form, "I don't do PMs, and you are single" I think, if you're searching, be open a bit. That guy might be the next Dangote...oops! I just pressed a button there... Some girls form too much. You play hard to get to someone you like as though there is not enough serious business in marriage already: do sharp sharp joor. When he turns away now, you'll blame point 7.



7. Spiritual Attacks

One man saw the devil crying, he asked him, Badoo, why you crying? He replied, "Every little thing, they blame me for it. They even lie on my head."
Well, spiritual attacks are real though. But I believe, "the curse causeless doesn't come". Ladies don't pray too much in church UNTIL the pastor mentions, "every devil blindfolding his eyes from seeing any single lady here, die!" Then, you'll see her in action. Onetime, I saw one pretty babe who told me how she went one a very long fasting and praying sessions to get her man. They pray, but the only issue is some don't watch. #I'm in a friendly mood today#

It's our prayer that God will locate every one of our single ladies in the house Next year, 2016. Amen!

If a woman does not get married it is no big deal.This is 2015. Stop trying to put them under pressure or make them feel they have failed somehow. This is all part of the wider church scamming culture we see in Nigeria. Create a non existent problem and then present your "holy" selves as solution. Go and solve your own problems first. No where in his mission did Jesus advocate marriage or elevate it to a do or die affair.
As far as I am concerned you are not intelligent but clearly you think you are .It is important for me to question that so you do not labour under any misconceptions.Ordinarily I should ignore the twaddle you wrote but there are many weak and vulnerable minds who are vulnerable to wolves like you. No marriage is better than a bad marriage no matter what anyone else will say. It is this kind of culture that also has as its flip side the desperation now leading to baby factories in our society. Marriage is not for everyone that is a social fact and something you can confirm by observing many already married people.
Go ye into the world and multiply is a commandment for a world of millions not billions of people. At some point we may have to make laws to determine who can and who cannot be allowed to have children.Then I hope we can stop unintelligent folk from having kids and contaminating the genetic pool

misspicy:
Enusmith so lucky misspicy put off her countering garment already

nice thread

Go and put it On!
And will you remove that dark glasses.
I knw say she go abuse me tire, but i dont care.

@Post

As a typical Nigerian bred man, why have you not taken the liberty to list 7 obstacles that might have kept men from getting married? You also forgot to state that some women don't desire marriage. I know that is a difficult concept for you to comprehend as a Nigerian but it is high time you comprehend it. We are not in the 16th century anymore. We are in the 21st century. Marriage should be optional and not something you try to force gullible people into. And then you wonder why we have so many dysfunctional families and marriages in today's Nigerian society.