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2dice:
u wack Lmfao @ dp.. Definitely not true

LoL
what's not true?

cruzita:
wetin una dey talk wey go make u call am everyday?

Estharfabian:
LoL
what's not true?

Vikky014:
OP u hv been friendzoned * In some Nairalanders voice* kpele

girlhaley:
Gbam!!!

StefanSalvatore:
She's a damn b!tch playing wit u

girlhaley:
Gbam!!!

Mcslize:
You're in your late 20's that should be between the range of 20-22. You'r still young.

It is normal for every young man to have uncontrollable obsession about the opposite sex whom he had spent maximum time with on several occassion.

I was the type of guy that really didn't have much time for girls. I was always on my own. I did my own things. Have few male friends and most of the times girls were the ones giving me green lights but still ended up treating them as just friends.

I had it at the age of 25 cuz I fell in love when I was 25yrs.
At that time I was so much obsessed with the girl that I always wanted her to be beside me. She was always on my mind.

It all happened when she started staring at me whenever she sees me till one very good day, I gathered up courage to have a chit chat with her and boom she was all over me.
I decided to play around with her but never knew I would fall in deep ocean of love. That was how it all started.

In essence:

The more you spend time with a girl, the more you will fall in love with her. But as a young man you need to put your emotions in check so that you won't end up suffocating the girl with too much attention.

Keep your emotion in check. Do other things. Like me I hardly call a girl. Not that I do not call but I keep it to the minimum level cuz by the time you keep on giving her loads of calls , she will get tired of your calls and sometimes ignore your calls by that time you will be feeling uncared for and feel very bad. You will as well feel hurt and disappointed.

Majority of girls care less about how a guy feels about them. The emotional trauma you will pass through will be quite enormous. Thats why you need to be wise to always know when to draw the curtain. Free your mind. Reduce the level of how much you think about her. Do other things, call your male padies, chat with other of your female friends. In a short time, that pool of emotions you have for her will reduce.

Simply divert your attntion.

HateU2:
My brother, no be our fault. It's in our blood. My guy is xtra stubborn nd I'm also xtra stubborn but we are njoying d game but I miss him nd I rily wanna hear his voice

Topmostt:
Thanks bro. Though what I mean by late twenties is between 26 to 29

Mcslize:
ok its kinda confusing tho. 26-29 should be mid 30's I think. I'm deemed to be corrected. Late 20's should be 21-25.

But in all u an adult. We may be age mate cuz am very very close to 30 by -2.

Just try and get ur mind busy with other things. Being too emotional about a gal is not too good for a guy.