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Mcbussy:
Hehehehe .... Naija babes be attempting to scam sharp guys since 419AD.

See this wan.
You know no say dem dey pay consultation fee before actual meeting?

cococandy:
See this wan.
You know no say dem dey pay consultation fee before actual meeting?

K, I hear... Hope ur gud?

Mcbussy:
K, I hear... Hope ur gud?

I'm awesome.
Thank you

It seems 8,000 is too small an amount for a guy to be demanding s3x.
So I think I'm gonna open a thread to ask, Ladies can you spend just 5,000 on a guy and not expect him to pay you back?

Op nawa see as how all the ladies dey fire you left and right. Just 8k. Hahahahahaha

Dear Seunwen2, ori e ti daru (no offense, guy to guy talk). You spent 8k on a girl who is not even your girlfriend when you earn just a few thousand over the double of that amount. Just tell me you've spent more on your sisters and mother.
And for all the akwanas saying 8k is too small, God bless your olosho ministries, they will soon use you folks for rituals

0ldirtybastard:
Your papa dey produce cement?

na sand em dey produce

wiringdpt:
Just 8k? Get your broke ass outta here

nor mind am

seunwen2:
Let the comments keep flowing. I took her to shop rite tho she is my closed friend

it depends on the kinda babe

agrovick:
Dear Seunwen2, ori e ti daru (no offense, guy to guy talk). You spent 8k on a girl who is not even your girlfriend when you earn just a few thousand over the double of that amount. Just tell me you've spent more on your sisters and mother.
And for all the akwanas saying 8k is too small, God bless your olosho ministries, they will soon use you folks for rituals

Thank God there are still sensible people on NL.

For those people saying 8k is too small, I can only conclude that you're either all working in multi-million naira companies, or you're still collecting handouts from your parents/relying on allowances from them. For the ladies, I guess you have wealthy clients. So I don't blame you, you have no idea how bad the economy is, or how hard those people worked to earn their money.

Here's my take on the issue;
1. Spending money on a girl and regretting it is retαrded. If you guys are close, you shouldn't be having second thoughts, no matter the sum. I see no other reasonable reason why you decided to open a thread about it. Unless you're here to brag or receive accolades for your heroics.
2. For those of us that actually have jobs outside of oil workers and CBN staff, we know how hard we work for every kobo we earn. The average graduate-level salary is about 50k, out of which one has to feed, transport themselves and pay rent. So no, 8k is in fact not too small to spend on a girl, unless you have at least 200k in your savings account.
3. Friendship is a two-way affair. I'm repulsed by this Nigerian mentality that a guy has to spend vast sums of money on every female he interacts with and dare not expect the same from the ladies. The lady in question is probably also a corper, who receives the same allowee. So tell me, could she spend 8k on the guy? Let's not forget the money was spent on shopping, not that it was her birthday or something special. The day I meet a Nigerian working-class lady that is willing to spend 8k on a male friend she's not in a relationship with, will be the day I give my life to Sango.

seunwen2:
God go make me bigger

Epic reply.....we need more of your type here....million likes bro

cruzita:
what's 8k?how can you spend such a small amount on a girl?a beg upgrade to 100k

only idiots and puscy niggas would spend up to that on a girl. When I can buy half plot of land with that. I would rather buy me 2 pairs of Nike air Jordan than pour 100k on puscy. Is it made of gold?

lefulefu:
hope u go give ur fellow male friend sumtin oo if he falls broke.no be say na just babes u just dey throw ur money give.anyway sha baba God loves a cheerful giver

why not even recently i borrowed a friend 100k to complete tution fee and i asked him to pay me back half it and even the half i neva see collect and i dint bother him cos i knw he might nt be able to pay it nw , so its nt only babes but anyone i av power to help

Mcbussy:
Why u raining curses on the guy nah? .... The OP only demands better returns on his 8k investment. Don't blame him for that.

dat amount is ridiculous its just like using N100 to buy a car

sometimes i wonder hw retard and shallow minded some folks can be. why on earth wil a guy start spending 100k on a gal dt wil eventually live u when she sees a richer guy,
frm d coments am seein here, its obvious dt gal luv munny nd nt d guy.

wel for me, if u no d value nd worth of sperm dt guys waist on girls, u wil agree wit me dt d 8k is even too much.

mind u i'm nt a broke ass.
dts my submission

EroticAngelina:
dat amount is ridiculous its just like using N100 to buy a car

wat d hell do u mean??, if u can be truthful to urself, u wil agree wit me dt u need sex more dan guys do.
hw much wil u den pay him for wat he wi pour insyd u

iamrealdeji:
only idiots and puscy niggas would spend up to that on a girl. When I can buy half plot of land with that. I would rather buy me 2 pairs of Nike air Jordan than pour 100k on puscy. Is it made of gold?

God bless u bro. i lyk ur thinkin faculty

bukas15:
wat d hell do u mean??, if u can be truthful to urself, u wil agree wit me dt u need sex more dan guys do.
hw much wil u den pay him for wat he wi pour insyd u

wat on earth are u talking abt who's talking abt needing sex more!?! both genders need sex for reproduction, buh let me ask u, who fvcks the other gender and dumps them?? who rapes more? male or female? who tries to get into the other gender's pants? u see guys creating threads asking stoopid questions about whether he should have sex with her and dump her, u see them asking questions cos they are desperate for sec( example, this thread )

so again I ask, wat are u talking abt
u should really learn to think before unleashing ur fingers on the keyboard, no offense
ciao

Rollar:
Thank God there are still sensible people on NL.

For those people saying 8k is too small, I can only conclude that you're either all working in multi-million naira companies, or you're still collecting handouts from your parents/relying on allowances from them. For the ladies, I guess you have wealthy clients. So I don't blame you, you have no idea how bad the economy is, or how hard those people worked to earn their money.

Here's my take on the issue;
1. Spending money on a girl and regretting it is retαrded. If you guys are close, you shouldn't be having second thoughts, no matter the sum. I see no other reasonable reason why you decided to open a thread about it. Unless you're here to brag or receive accolades for your heroics.
2. For those of us that actually have jobs outside of oil workers and CBN staff, we know how hard we work for every kobo we earn. The average graduate-level salary is about 50k, out of which one has to feed, transport themselves and pay rent. So no, 8k is in fact not too small to spend on a girl, unless you have at least 200k in your savings account.
3. Friendship is a two-way affair. I'm repulsed by this Nigerian mentality that a guy has to spend vast sums of money on every female he interacts with and dare not expect the same from the ladies. The lady in question is probably also a corper, who receives the same allowee. So tell me, could she spend 8k on the guy? Let's not forget the money was spent on shopping, not that it was her birthday or something special. The day I meet a Nigerian working-class lady that is willing to spend 8k on a male friend she's not in a relationship with, will be the day I give my life to Sango .

You do know the bold is like saying you want to go to Pluto, one will never get there. The average Nigerian lady feels a guy should do the spending and yet they will still turn around to say it's too small.
Obviously, the Op was trying to impress the girl and now he is regretting. The rule of thumb is never spend what will make you start doing calculations in your head as it's a sign you are going to spend more than you should.
I just hope the Op is saving as nysc doesn't continue forever.

EroticAngelina:
wat on earth are u talking abt who's talking abt needing sex more!?! both genders need sex for reproduction, buh let me ask u, who fvcks the other gender and dumps them?? who rapes more? male or female? who tries to get into the other gender's pants? u see guys creating threads asking stoopid questions about whether he should have sex with her and dump her, u see them asking questions cos they are desperate for sec( example, this thread )

so again I ask, wat are u talking abt
u should really learn to think before unleashing ur fingers on the keyboard, no offense
ciao

wel ar write to some extend,
d fact remains dt guys tend to demand for sex more, buh d ladies needs it more dan we do.

buh why on earth wil u guys say dt 8k is such a smal money. it may be, buh can u spend such on ur guy.
the last time i checked, it wasnt a must dt d guys must be d one doin d spendin.
girls should learn to be independent nd allow true love to exist.
luv is all about sharin, nomata hw little

Haa 8k, I paid 78,800 sch fees for a female friend whom I didn't even dream of wanting her body. She is married now, I don't regret paying that amount. If I get another opportunity, I will do it twice. Some friends are just too special to put sex or money above...

cruzita:
what's 8k?how can you spend such a small amount on a girl?a beg upgrade to 100k

No b economics teach us say resources dey scarce & wants infinite? 2 solve dis, we gats do scale of preference in which we go 4go 1 want 4 anoda (opportunity cost). Opportunity cost of me spending 100k on a girl=98%of D cost of dt sweet hp laptop I've been eyeing on konga/1 sweet ps 4 console + 40k change/ 100 rounds of s3x wt ashawo 4 empire/ 500 wraps of correct, high grade Igbo wey fit last me a lyf tym (or almost)/ over 300 bottles of beer/ cost of bike wey I fit dey give 1 malam 4 my side 2 dey do Okada make e dey give me returns.
U c nw dt it isn't small money. Wetin go carry me use hard-earned 100 k put on top woman na only if na deposit 4 her bride price (if na Igbo girl) & she gats give me receipt as evidence of payment.

Yes... Bt only if it's 4 something important & if I feel lyk bt if na 4 stupid tin lyk hair & oda frivolities & she dey pressurize me (u know hw women can be "if u dnt do dis, dnt talk 2 me again"), John Thomas must b appeased 1st. 8k wey man fit use do ashy T. D. B (till daybreak) still get change.

Broki like u.... Go get a good job jare

espionagesavvy:
Haa 8k, I paid 78,800 sch fees for a female friend whom I didn't even dream of wanting her body. She is married now, I don't regret paying that amount. If I get another opportunity, I will do it twice. Some friends are just too special to put sex or money above...

you have the money and u can spend it on someone u fancy witout feeling the effect.Its like someone working for chevron who took out his paddies to one beer palour and paid for it.the guy no go feel d effect na cos oil workers are rolling in money.op on the hand is a struggling youth corper who spent his meagre allowee on a babe and took her to shoprite and his asking us if what he did is a wise thing

gemale:
Yes... Bt only if it's 4 something important & if I feel lyk bt if na 4 stupid tin lyk hair & oda frivolities & she dey pressurize me (u know hw women can be "if u dnt do dis, dnt talk 2 me again", John Thomas must b appeased 1st. 8k wey man fit use do ashy T. D. B (till daybreak) still get change.

one thing i notice about guys addicted to alcohol and ashawos is that they always broke.some guys even dey go as far as to borrow money go run ashy

lefulefu:
one thing i notice about guys addicted to alcohol and ashawos is that they always broke.some guys even dey go as far as to borrow money go run ashy

Oga dt 1 u talk na stereotype. I no fit stupid 2 D point say I go borrow money go do ashy & I no stupid 2 D point 2 dey give money anyhow 2 woman. When no b say God create me as Santa Claus 4 females. Even if Im do am, everyday no b Xmas.

If you aren't hiring the services of an escort or other sex worker, it's best not to assume that spending any amount of money on a woman = sex from said woman.

Neither of the sexes is innocent in the using department: women get money spent on them & gifts from men who they may have no plans to engage with. men, knowing we're looking for marriage, delay and get what they can from us while dangling the possibility of marriage like a carrot.

Unfair perhaps for both sides but that's the way it is.

Bottom line though: if u spend $40 or even $500 bucks on a girl and want to be sure you'll get sex from it, hire a professional, don't treat your date like one.

McSquishi:
If you aren't hiring the services of an escort or other sex worker, it's best not to assume that spending any amount of money on a woman = sex from said woman.

Neither of the sexes is innocent in the using department: women get money spent on them & gifts from men who they may have no plans to engage with. men, knowing we're looking for marriage, delay and get what they can from us while dangling the possibility of marriage like a carrot.

Unfair perhaps for both sides but that's the way it is.

Bottom line though: if u spend $40 or even $500 bucks on a girl and want to be sure you'll get sex from it, hire a professional, don't treat your date like one.

good post.if a guy wants to give money to a babe then do it with an open mind.a guy dont need to spend money on a babe to have sex with her.sex should be a consesual act b/w both partners.but na naija we dey and a number of guys sti get that mentality dat they must give the woman money before she open.money for hand back for ground tins.

gemale:
Oga dt 1 u talk na stereotype. I no fit stupid 2 D point say I go borrow money go do ashy & I no stupid 2 D point 2 dey give money anyhow 2 woman. When no b say God create me as Santa Claus 4 females. Even if Im do am, everyday no b Xmas.

lol i no dey talk about u sha oo but i dey talk of wetin me dey see.the thing even worse that some married men who are civil servants as soon as govt pay them salary dem go spend the money at a blow for brothels forgeting dem get children for ground wey dem go pay their school fees or housewife wey dem go give feeding money.e no dey affect those guys wey dey go once in a while but those ones wey dey go dere everyday na so dem dey spend all dhier money for brothels and wen dem broke dem borrow again and spend am on d ashy.

The only bad thing these bitchesz see about the OP wanting to fhuck after spending money on a babe is that the sum of 8k is too small.

Awon olosho oshi.

So he should spend his life savings on a girl before he can expect sex.
Mtcheeew!