1: Your girlfriend will never be faithful
She see no reason why she will to be faithful to you when you can’t foot her bills, she have needs which you cant afford, she cheat on you because her needs need to be met. You maybe playing the role of her emotional comforter or sex machine but it doesn’t give you right to demand for her faithfulness, the bottom line is play your role and if you are not comfortable with your role waka and save yourself the heartbreak.

2: She may have no respect for your feelings
I can relate to this because I was once a victim, I cant forget in a hurry Easter last three years when I was so broke that I cant afford to take my babe out, I called her to know if she will spend Easter day at my house. She told me that a male friend wants to go on a date with her that day, all my effort to make her change her mind was in vain she stop picking my calls and told me in harsh tone that I should stop disturbing her. Since that day I learnt my lesson.

3: She will be rude along the line
I cant forget how I tried to reconcile my guy and his babe, the words coming out of her mouth were so bad that I felt like crying for my guy. She was rubbing it on his face that he is so broke that he cant afford her needs and still expect her to be faithful while all her girlfriends have boyfriends taking care of their needs, she went on to say that she wonder why she agreed to date him in the first place even after reconciliation her rude behavior did not stop.

4: She will not be proud to introduce you to her close friends.
Don’t be surprise if such happens to you, she is protecting her investment. I was once a victim, my ex then introduced me as her cousin brother to her lodge mates when I visited her school, I asked her why will she do that she told me that her land lady will not allow a male friend to spend the night at their lodge so she introduce me as her cousin so that her land lady will allow me spend the night. My mumu self accept her explanation it was later I found out that she have a rich boyfriend who always visit her and is well known as her boo, me na assistant or side boyfriend no be person tell me to run as far as I could.

5: She will be open with you
Imagine your babe telling you that she has a boo apart from you and expect you to be comfortable about it, when asked why she will cheat on you she replies, her needs will be met, within yourself you know you cant afford her needs so it is either you stay or you leave either way she will not lose anything. Who misses a broke person if I may ask ? I believe we all know the answer.

6: Backstabbing
Girls may not only be a poor dude problem his guys can be especially the fake friends.
A fake friend may go behind you to snatch your babe or be sleeping with her because he is richer than you. We read everyday of such stories online, how you handle such betrayer is up to the guy involve.

7: Painful breakup
As a poor dude you may have invested your time and little money and sacrifice a lot just to make her love you but at the end a richer guy will snatch her away either for marriage or relationship either way it is always painful if you find yourself in such situation

8: Disrespectful
Who respect poor people in the society if I may ask, so as a broke dude always have it at the back of your mind that such is inevitable. Back to my guy matter his babe talks to him anyhow in public that even their coworkers have to caution her many times yet any small problem she will tell the guy that it is over yet let the guy go she will not because she knows no other guy will tolerate her shit, most times I wonder if they use the girl swear for my guy.
Last note
Rich guys are not having it easy with girls too reason why some still fall mugu in 2016 but their case is far better.
The time you invest in relationships as a broke dude while neglecting your future and careers if invested in the after mentioned many of us will be richer and better, this is 2016 and you are not getting younger, invest your time into productive things and forget about relationship for now. Don’t get it twisted I am not ruling out the fact that true love do exist, not all girls are materialistic but the percentage of them are few compare to their opposite. If you chase girls first money will run away from you but if you chase money first girls will run after you. Remember success have many friends while failure is alone.

Written by Uche Osefoh
source http://ucheosefoh..com.ng/
cc farano, Rocktation

everything revolve round money

Must guys be the one to pay foot bill na wa oo....we're boyrfriends and not ATM

BTW a real chick is independent she hustle for herself and provide her need...if her b.f has cash...is just a 2nd option

When a woman works hard, a man with money would be just a bonus, and not a ladder of upgrade

Typical of my Igbo brother.
They work their ass off to impress a girl who in turn fvcks another guy who is richer.
*Note*
There will always be another *Nigga* who'd make you look broke no matter how much you've made.

Don't be lustful for pvssy.I believe to much emotion for it makes guyz act stupid.

Some things u mentioned are not totally exclusive to broke niggaz.

Mhizkel:
When a woman works hard, a man with money would be just a bonus, and not a ladder of upgrade

i wish all girls reason like u

but u might be pretending here who knows

Mhizkel:
When a woman works hard, a man with money would be just a bonus, and not a ladder of upgrade

In ur mind!!!!

G

@Ucheosefoh
i am so pissed off when i see such myopic write ups, and then these same men will turn around and call these women olosho, when the reality is that these men are the ones who allow such women to act this way with them.

1:Your girlfriend will never be faithful
if the brokeass wh0re you are dating will never be faithful to you because you are broke then guess what?! she still wont be faithful to you when you are rich, because there will always be a richer man than you.... so the issue is NOT your financial status but the damaged brain of that said babe

2: She may have no respect for your feelings
again, the problem here is not your financial status, the problem is that animal you are dating who values you on the wrong foundations. count your blessings that you discover the type of disrespectful criminal she was, in due time

3: She will be rude along the line
these are traits that you dont want in a future partner, and whether broke or not, she has no right saying these hurtful words.... again COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS that you discover her true self before it was too late
btw a cheating woman is a cheating woman, and there is nothing you can do about it.

4: She will not be proud to introduce you to her close friends.
and you should equally not want to be introduced to her fake phoney friends who may also value you via how much you have. anyone who view you as an "investment" instead of partner, should be dropped INSTANTLY

5: She will be open with you
would you rather she lies to you everyday?!?!?!?!?!?!? thats great, let her be honest so you know exactly the type of demon you are sleeping with, and subsequently run as far as you can from her. unless you are MAD, there is no reason to stay with a wh0re who tells you she is cheating

6: Backstabbing
great!!! thank your "ex" friend for getting rid f these demons from your life, AND fake friends in the same instance.
real friends will be down and broke with you, and the one helping you get financially stronger, and not use your poor financial state to defraud you. good riddance to bad rubbish, as they deserve each other

7: Painful breakup
LIFE is painful, and this same gal wh0re will break up with that rich guy when a RICHER guy comes her way... its called KARMA

8: Disrespectful
nobody (whether poor or rich) should stand or even date disrespectful/rude people. they are just a waste of time, and a clear indication of the kind of BAD friend/lover/mother/wife they will end up being

here is MBJ's advice: there are lots of men out there who are broke, at the end of the month, because they TOOK CARE OF BUSINESS (aka paid the rent, paid all the bills, paid for the car notes, put food in the fridge and on the table, clothes on their back and settle whatever is outstanding in their lives), and thats OK. dont let any brokeasss miserable hungry begging deluded woman tell you otherwise, you ARE doing what is right!

rawpadgin:
i wish all girls reason like u

but u might be pretending here who knows

There goes the popular saying.

So, why did she agree to date him in the first place ??

poverty is a disease...

MRBrownJ:
@Ucheosefoh
i am s pissed off when i see such myopic write ups, and then these same men will turn around and call these women olosho, when the reality is that these men are the ones who allow such women to act this way with them.

1:Your girlfriend will never be faithful
if the brokeass wh0re you are dating will never be faithful to you because you are broke then guess what?! she still wont be faithful to you when you are rich, because there will always be a richer man than you.... so the issue is NOT your financial status but the damaged brain of that said babe

2: She may have no respect for your feelings
again, the problem here is not your financial status, the problem is that animal you are dating who values you on the wrong foundations. count your blessings that you discover the type of disrespectful criminal she was, in due time

3: She will be rude along the line
these are traits that you dont want in a future partner, and whether broke or not, she has no right saying these hurtful words.... again COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS that you discover her true self before it was too late
btw a cheating woman is a cheating woman, and there is nothing you can do about it.

4: She will not be proud to introduce you to her close friends.
and you should equally not want to be introduced to her fake phoney friends who may also value you via how much you have. anyone who view you as an "investment" instead of partner, should be dropped INSTANTLY

5: She will be open with you
would you rather she lies to you everyday?!?!?!?!?!?!? thats great, let her be honest so you know exactly the type of demon you are sleeping with, and subsequently run as far as you can from her. unless you are MAD, there is no reason to stay with a wh0re who tells you she is cheating

6: Backstabbing
great!!! thank your "ex" friend for getting rid f these demons from your life, AND fake friends in the same instance.
real friends will be down and broke with you, and the one helping you get financially stronger, and not use your poor financial state to defraud you. good riddance to bad rubbish, as they deserve each other

7: Painful breakup
LIFE is painful, and this same gal wh0re will break up with that rich guy when a RICHER guy comes her way... its called KARMA

8: Disrespectful
nobody (whether poor or rich) should stand or even date disrespectful/rude people. they are just a waste of time, and a clear indication of the kind of BAD friend/lover/mother/wife they will end up being

here is MBJ's advice: there are lots of men out there who are broke, at the end of the month, because they TOOK CARE OF BUSINESS (aka paid the rent, paid all the bills, paid for the car notes, put food in the fridge and on the table, clothes on their back and settle whatever is outstanding in their lives), and thats OK. dont let any brokeasss miserable hungry begging deluded woman tell you otherwise, you ARE doing what is right!

counter thread in disguise

MRBrownJ:
@Ucheosefoh
i am s pissed off when i see such myopic write ups, and then these same men will turn around and call these women olosho, when the reality is that these men are the ones who allow such women to act this way with them.

1:Your girlfriend will never be faithful
if the brokeass wh0re you are dating will never be faithful to you because you are broke then guess what?! she still wont be faithful to you when you are rich, because there will always be a richer man than you.... so the issue is NOT your financial status but the damaged brain of that said babe

2: She may have no respect for your feelings
again, the problem here is not your financial status, the problem is that animal you are dating who values you on the wrong foundations. count your blessings that you discover the type of disrespectful criminal she was, in due time

3: She will be rude along the line
these are traits that you dont want in a future partner, and whether broke or not, she has no right saying these hurtful words.... again COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS that you discover her true self before it was too late
btw a cheating woman is a cheating woman, and there is nothing you can do about it.

4: She will not be proud to introduce you to her close friends.
and you should equally not want to be introduced to her fake phoney friends who may also value you via how much you have. anyone who view you as an "investment" instead of partner, should be dropped INSTANTLY

5: She will be open with you
would you rather she lies to you everyday?!?!?!?!?!?!? thats great, let her be honest so you know exactly the type of demon you are sleeping with, and subsequently run as far as you can from her. unless you are MAD, there is no reason to stay with a wh0re who tells you she is cheating

6: Backstabbing
great!!! thank your "ex" friend for getting rid f these demons from your life, AND fake friends in the same instance.
real friends will be down and broke with you, and the one helping you get financially stronger, and not use your poor financial state to defraud you. good riddance to bad rubbish, as they deserve each other

7: Painful breakup
LIFE is painful, and this same gal wh0re will break up with that rich guy when a RICHER guy comes her way... its called KARMA

8: Disrespectful
nobody (whether poor or rich) should stand or even date disrespectful/rude people. they are just a waste of time, and a clear indication of the kind of BAD friend/lover/mother/wife they will end up being

here is MBJ's advice: there are lots of men out there who are broke, at the end of the month, because they TOOK CARE OF BUSINESS (aka paid the rent, paid all the bills, paid for the car notes, put food in the fridge and on the table, clothes on their back and settle whatever is outstanding in their lives), and thats OK. dont let any brokeasss miserable hungry begging deluded woman tell you otherwise, you ARE doing what is right!

My man! You just said my mind. Guys need to own outcomes and stop blaming lack of money. If you believe that you are less of a man because you do not have money, you will be treated as such. Also, if you believe money makes you a man, you will DEFINITELY end up with an expensive hoe.

Op how will they relate with these things

Ehi69:

My man! You just said my mind. Guys need to own outcomes and stop blaming lack of money. If you believe that you are less of a man because you do not have money, you will be treated as such. Also, if you believe money makes you a man, you will DEFINITELY end up with an expensive hoe.

absolutely spot on!!!

all these men who are quick to say:" make money and women will flock", as if these men are/were miserable and the money will make them become fantastic men, lol

Diddyydiva:
Op how will they relate with these things

Cos they are either brothers,uncles, kits and kin of brokeness...the title should be "The Greatest Fear Of Broke Guys In A Relationship"

Did dose broke boys tell u countless time d girls went weeks hungry just to see him eat or feed


Did d broke guy ever told u d girl gave her life time one opportunity money meant for investment just to give her broke guy who inturn gave d money to his frnds to buy a fone nd sell d fone making d girl a sole loser

Did d broke guy tell u constant times d girl ssent lots nd lots of money while she starves wenever d broke dude needed money he calls on her claims bf she goes up nd down borrow money


Did d broke boy tell u for ordinary money is sold out the girl dat went tru goin to bed hungry for almost 2yrs for him to eat
He deserves all d insult in life for selling d girl out for cheap money

did d broke boy mention number of times she went about to get d guy to school her leaving her own education academics to suffer to make sure d guy is educated nd he refuses to b educated
SMH

DId d broke boy tell u so many times he lied she forgave him
May God purnish him according to d suffering tears nd pain d girl went tru

No body is begging any body to date u dont kno bou people past nd den disgrace dem openly with are u my God my father or mother?

Wat busineas do u av if i insult nybody its because dey told d people dat came openly in a public forum to disgracs me nd claim they love me y'all can go ur way


U av made me feel worthless so no point being with me i will find d right partner who wud love me rightly

I hope my parents get to see all d disgrace u gave me on nl from day one

fulfillbill:


Cos they are either brothers,uncles, kits and kin of brokeness...the title should be "The Greatest Fear Of Broke Guys In A Relationship"

Or better still.

Ladies attitude when dating a broke guy

I dont do broke ass niggaz right from day one i swear!!

Why do all the things have to do with women

OP, then for a poor guy, is it a must to date?

MRBrownJ:
@Ucheosefoh
i am so pissed off when i see such myopic write ups, and then these same men will turn around and call these women olosho, when the reality is that these men are the ones who allow such women to act this way with them.

1:Your girlfriend will never be faithful
if the brokeass wh0re you are dating will never be faithful to you because you are broke then guess what?! she still wont be faithful to you when you are rich, because there will always be a richer man than you.... so the issue is NOT your financial status but the damaged brain of that said babe

2: She may have no respect for your feelings
again, the problem here is not your financial status, the problem is that animal you are dating who values you on the wrong foundations. count your blessings that you discover the type of disrespectful criminal she was, in due time

3: She will be rude along the line
these are traits that you dont want in a future partner, and whether broke or not, she has no right saying these hurtful words.... again COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS that you discover her true self before it was too late
btw a cheating woman is a cheating woman, and there is nothing you can do about it.

4: She will not be proud to introduce you to her close friends.
and you should equally not want to be introduced to her fake phoney friends who may also value you via how much you have. anyone who view you as an "investment" instead of partner, should be dropped INSTANTLY

5: She will be open with you
would you rather she lies to you everyday?!?!?!?!?!?!? thats great, let her be honest so you know exactly the type of demon you are sleeping with, and subsequently run as far as you can from her. unless you are MAD, there is no reason to stay with a wh0re who tells you she is cheating

6: Backstabbing
great!!! thank your "ex" friend for getting rid f these demons from your life, AND fake friends in the same instance.
real friends will be down and broke with you, and the one helping you get financially stronger, and not use your poor financial state to defraud you. good riddance to bad rubbish, as they deserve each other

7: Painful breakup
LIFE is painful, and this same gal wh0re will break up with that rich guy when a RICHER guy comes her way... its called KARMA

8: Disrespectful
nobody (whether poor or rich) should stand or even date disrespectful/rude people. they are just a waste of time, and a clear indication of the kind of BAD friend/lover/mother/wife they will end up being

here is MBJ's advice: there are lots of men out there who are broke, at the end of the month, because they TOOK CARE OF BUSINESS (aka paid the rent, paid all the bills, paid for the car notes, put food in the fridge and on the table, clothes on their back and settle whatever is outstanding in their lives), and thats OK. dont let any brokeasss miserable hungry begging deluded woman tell you otherwise, you ARE doing what is right!

U are a big annoying fellow may dis apply to those u kno cos guys are really saints dey av no flaws nd spotless it takes too to tango.


A girl dat took d boldness to date a broke guy all her life never needed any one money in d first place she wanted a partner dat she cud love nd grow up with nd watch him suceed nd dey grow nd marry

U dont kno d pain nd tears a girl dating a broke boy went tru y fink any ex wud b happy to say good bou his ex?

Not all especially d wicked ones i dated dat cast me out for wateva amount dey were paid Gid broke d relationship for me to see all dis alive av learnt my lesson cos i was disgraced in a pybluc forum daily 24/7 i av been secretly crying for d past 2mnths Gid is watching
But u never heard d girls part of d story which is very unfair u guys are wicked why dont u call d girl nd broke boy togeda nd let d broke boyfrnd say dis alligations infront of d girl u not givin d girl d ryt to defend hersef i pity ur wife


Ny one who is ready to ruin ur marriage will come nd tell u trash bou ur wife nd u wud bliv it without askin her i hate u all heartless fellows very heartless

@sickstars
i wish i could reply to you but i have absolutely no clue what you are talking about.

MRBrownJ:
@sickstars
i wish i could reply to you but i have absolutely no clue what you are talking about.

All of u can pretend for all i care i hate all of u from d depth of heart just know dat m nt buyin ur calmness
M tired of acting like u all are innocent

I av never done nytin wrong to any body m tired

Every one took advantage of me enof is enof u go ur way all of u i go my way please please please nd please

Av bern disgraced openely i accept my fate

sickstars:


All of u can pretend for all i care i hate all of u from d depth of heart just know dat m nt buyin ur calmness
M tired of acting like u all are innocent

I av never done nytin wrong to any body m tired

Every one took advantage of me enof is enof u go ur way all of u i go my way please please please nd please

Av bern disgraced openely i accept my fate

i hope you can solve whatever issue is bothering you, but i doubt this thread has anything to do with it.

MRBrownJ:


i hope you can solve whatever issue is bothering you, but i doubt this thread has anything to do with it.

Bunch of liars av heard u tho

MRBrownJ:
@Ucheosefoh
i am so pissed off when i see such myopic write ups, and then these same men will turn around and call these women olosho, when the reality is that these men are the ones who allow such women to act this way with them.

1:Your girlfriend will never be faithful
if the brokeass wh0re you are dating will never be faithful to you because you are broke then guess what?! she still wont be faithful to you when you are rich, because there will always be a richer man than you.... so the issue is NOT your financial status but the damaged brain of that said babe

2: She may have no respect for your feelings
again, the problem here is not your financial status, the problem is that animal you are dating who values you on the wrong foundations. count your blessings that you discover the type of disrespectful criminal she was, in due time

3: She will be rude along the line
these are traits that you dont want in a future partner, and whether broke or not, she has no right saying these hurtful words.... again COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS that you discover her true self before it was too late
btw a cheating woman is a cheating woman, and there is nothing you can do about it.

4: She will not be proud to introduce you to her close friends.
and you should equally not want to be introduced to her fake phoney friends who may also value you via how much you have. anyone who view you as an "investment" instead of partner, should be dropped INSTANTLY

5: She will be open with you
would you rather she lies to you everyday?!?!?!?!?!?!? thats great, let her be honest so you know exactly the type of demon you are sleeping with, and subsequently run as far as you can from her. unless you are MAD, there is no reason to stay with a wh0re who tells you she is cheating

6: Backstabbing
great!!! thank your "ex" friend for getting rid f these demons from your life, AND fake friends in the same instance.
real friends will be down and broke with you, and the one helping you get financially stronger, and not use your poor financial state to defraud you. good riddance to bad rubbish, as they deserve each other

7: Painful breakup
LIFE is painful, and this same gal wh0re will break up with that rich guy when a RICHER guy comes her way... its called KARMA

8: Disrespectful
nobody (whether poor or rich) should stand or even date disrespectful/rude people. they are just a waste of time, and a clear indication of the kind of BAD friend/lover/mother/wife they will end up being

here is MBJ's advice: there are lots of men out there who are broke, at the end of the month, because they TOOK CARE OF BUSINESS (aka paid the rent, paid all the bills, paid for the car notes, put food in the fridge and on the table, clothes on their back and settle whatever is outstanding in their lives), and thats OK. dont let any brokeasss miserable hungry begging deluded woman tell you otherwise, you ARE doing what is right!

Valid points you made, but it is the reality of life that many broke dudes face everyday just that some foolish ones continue to face it everyday while the smart ones run away once they notice it.

lamentations of a broke niqqa

Ucheosefoh:
Valid points you made, but it is the reality of life that many broke dudes face everyday just that some foolish ones continue to face it everyday while the smart ones run away once they notice it.

nah bro, BROKE is just a temporary state that a man may finds himself into.... this is NOT permanent. but his "state of mind, his values, his whole being" are NOT broke therefore that man should stand just as proud as any guy out there. the sad part is that many Nigerians have a very low state of mind and they really think that they can be miserable negative beings all their lives, but as soon as they will make some cash, they will turn into these brilliant super dudes (and these brokeass hungry desperate babes also think that way), NOOOOOOO!

its how/who you are within you that matters, whether broke or mega rich, AND that whole journey/transition from who you are today and who you aspire to be. enjoy it fully instead of thinking that a man only matters when he is at the final destination. because a stoopid broke guy when he finally makes money, he is just gonna be a stoopid rich guy. so if a man has the RIGHT state of mind, he can do/be whatever or whoever he desires. women dont make us who we are, its us men who should decide who the fukc we wanna be. be a MAN whether poor or rich.... aka have values, integrity, character, morals, passion for something that matters, be driven, loyal, hardworking, respectful, faithful, have patience etc thats what a REAL man is, not the deluded version that these hungry brokeass miserable babes are desperately trying to enforce on us.

as i always say: if a woman doesnt value a man when he is down, then she has ABSOLUTELY no place in that man's life when he finally makes it through that whole journey called LIFE.