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Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by dlivefeeds: 11:20pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
I have been sleeping with a work colleague for just less than a year. Officially, we are in a “casual relationship”, but I would like more. I defined the relationship as casual because I felt that if pressurised to be in a “real” relationship, he would run a million miles. He has had his heart broken in the past, suffers from anxiety and sometimes depression, and if I push too much, I can feel him pulling away. I have tried multiple times to break away from him – I never message him first, I don’t go out of my way to see him, I don’t ask him to come over – but he always ends up contacting me and re-sparking everything. I have never told him how I feel so I don’t think he knows the emotional turmoil I have been going through – I think he sees me as quite happy-go-lucky about things. The truth is that the relationship makes me feel empty, lonely and confused. I don’t feel as if I can tell him how I feel, and I don’t know if I should break it off or carry on. One part of me wants to be strong and leave him, but the other feels as if I haven’t given it enough of a chance (and I don’t want to scare him away). I have tried seeing other men, but they’re just not the same. When leaving a message on this page, please be sensitive to the fact that you are responding to a real person in the grip of a real-life dilemma, who wrote asking for help, and may well view your comments here or on http://www.thelivefeeds.com/leave-try-make-things-serious/ |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by iceberylin(m): 11:31pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
It's a new year na.. Receive sense |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by obiorathesubtle: 11:52pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
you need Jesus! |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by Lordgatt46(m): 11:57pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Over to the expert |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by IamLEGEND1: 12:03am On Jan 07, 2016 |
He wined you he dined you you were shining teeth like mumu. he fuckēd ur brains out,you enjoyed it. now you want him to become ur full time maga. #UngratefulBitches 1 Like |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by Mzdivacious(f): 12:11am On Jan 07, 2016 |
toxic relationship.all those casual relationship ass guys r selfish fake people.everyone has had their heart broken one way or another.i dont blame them,they know either ways theyd get free punny id tell u to flee but i cn guess how difficult it is leaving sm1 u love who wont meet u halfway.disengage ur heart from him as slowly as u want.u have all d time in d world u wont get what u r looking for ma.run but wetin pikin like me know |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by Mzdivacious(f): 12:12am On Jan 07, 2016 |
IamLEGEND1:what is wrong with u!!! |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by IamLEGEND1: 12:18am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Mzdivacious:u talking to me,ma'am?
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Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by Nobody: 12:19am On Jan 07, 2016 |
I think you are a bit confused. May don't know what you want. Until you are sure of what you want, nothing's gonna change. You said you tried pulling out yet you afraid letting go of him. If yur sure you want something serious, then you have to let him know how you feel. Afterall you've got nothing to lose either way. But if you don't, you have a lot to lose. He's only gonna keep taking you as fwb and will definitely dump you when he's done eating while you never get to date other guy while in this fwb relationship The ball's in your court |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by ivyT(f): 12:21am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Eleyi gidigan o! No advice 4 nw until 2moro |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by Solowande(m): 12:21am On Jan 07, 2016 |
to be sincere with u, u don't need jesus or sense in dis mata as d guys above me claim. all u need, is who will love, appreciate and take u serious. dat guy, to me o, nor luv u, he just need u for service anytime he konji need somewhere to enter. mayb i go i advise u to use ur sense and put am 4 god hand |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by nerdfrost(m): 12:22am On Jan 07, 2016 |
This thread mumu ehh!! leave trash for lawma |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by nerdfrost(m): 12:22am On Jan 07, 2016 |
This thread mumu ehh!! #leavetrashforlawma |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by tosyne2much(m): 12:28am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Mzdivacious:My dear, I can't ff back ooooo... Ooops !!! |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by ibe9ja: 12:39am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Get yourself tested for HIV. |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by Mzdivacious(f): 12:41am On Jan 07, 2016 |
tosyne2much:i was shocked when i noticed we never ffd each other...so why cant u ffw.them don too plenty for ur list abi? #issorai |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by Mzdivacious(f): 12:42am On Jan 07, 2016 |
IamLEGEND1:lmao ehn ehn.iss me u got no chill tonight.who chop ur chinchin |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by Mzdivacious(f): 12:43am On Jan 07, 2016 |
tosyne2much:CHISOS!250!!!!must u ffw evr1 back |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by tosyne2much(m): 12:43am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Mzdivacious:Who be the people wey plenty for my list ? Babes? |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by tosyne2much(m): 12:51am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Your write-up is kinda confusing and incomprehensible Back to the matter OP, I think you are indecisive and don't know what you really want. Until you know what you want and decide for yourself, you may not be able to find solution to your problem |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by tosyne2much(m): 12:52am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Mzdivacious:When I have over 800 people ff me |
Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by IamLEGEND1: 12:53am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Mzdivacious:How did u know I saw a rat eating my chinchin?
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Re: Should I Leave Or Try To Make Things More Serious? by crismark(m): 7:22am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Beta tell am ur mind.... |
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