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Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Maxi112: 12:02pm On Jan 07, 2016
BUTCHCASSIDY:
Pls someone should educate me
How does one weep internally
and how do you know someone is weeping internally
hahaha!!! hope u r following the lies
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Maxi112: 12:07pm On Jan 07, 2016
op! u dnt hid to my advice... stop falling in love u no hear, now u r crying internally...
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by oshdam2015: 12:26pm On Jan 07, 2016
Lordprez:
dude are you a mind reader?... exactly what was on my mind

I juz can't believe the OP actually knelt down and begged someone who just cheated on him... ah mean seriously?undecided in this time and age


@OP love is a 2-way street, if you guys were to be married, I'd say forgive and try to make it work buh she's juz your girlfriend, and the fact that she cheated on you despite the fact that you guys have a 3 year old relationship juz shows she doesn't feel sh!t bout you et al


#BuhThen_JuzMyOpinion
Yes bro. In life, so many things happen in the secret which we don't know. We can only use the few ones that are revealed to discern the events we are not sure of. The statement is small but mighty. Left for the wise one to understand.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(op): 12:28pm On Jan 07, 2016
oshdam2015:
Yes bro. In life, so many things happen in the secret which we don't know. We can only use the few ones that are revealed to discern the events we are not sure of. The statement is small but mighty. Left for the wise one to understand.
Thank you all
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(op): 12:32pm On Jan 07, 2016
Maxi112:
hahaha!!! hope u r following the lies
I have been with her for over 3 years.. . I most things about her feelings.. when she keeps so so so so much quiet and can't say a word to what you are saying, she is crying internally, - trying to hold her tears. That is my girl I knw for sure. You too should knw yours.....This incident happened yesterday night 06. January 2016. Thank you
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(op): 12:32pm On Jan 07, 2016
Maxi112:
hahaha!!! hope u r following the lies
I have been with her for over 3 years.. . I most things about her feelings.. when she keeps so so so so much quiet and can't say a word to what you are saying, she is crying internally, - trying to hold her tears. That is my girl I knw for sure. You too should knw yours.....This incident happened yesterday night 06. January 2016. Thank you
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Maxi112: 12:35pm On Jan 07, 2016
Peterpan222:
I have been with her for over 3 years.. . I most things about her feelings.. when she keeps so so so so much quiet and can't say a word to what you are saying, she is crying internally, - trying to hold her tears. That is my girl I knw for sure. You too should knw yours.....This incident happened yesterday night 06. January 2016. Thank you
noted
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:47pm On Jan 07, 2016
Fifthcolumnist:
It's clear a lot of romance has been going on between the two of them behind your back. At this point, you need to give her time to figure out which of you is more important to her. The decision lies with her. You just need to brace up to whatever decision she takes, even if she opts for the other guy.
She's already figured everything out alright.

This one for díck, that one for attention.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:49pm On Jan 07, 2016
OP you dey fvck up.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Peterpan222(op): 1:35pm On Jan 07, 2016
BuddhaPalm:
OP you dey fvck up.
bro how?... pls tell me because that's why I created this topic
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by DrTizzle: 3:26pm On Jan 07, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
See this one!

You're just her side bítch and u dey even get mouth to tell us say u knelt down before her with TEARS in ur eyes and gave her a warm hug and a passionate kiss.
Just Shut the fūck up bro,is she God?

U don dey kolo abi dem don replace ur brain with tapioca?

bítch àss Niggaz everywhere. *spits*
@OP,, The irrational side of me has to agree with Legendary baba. You should be killed and hanged in public square for crying and passionate-kissing blah bah blah blah. Shut your hole, ARrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh undecided lipsrsealed lipsrsealed Real men don't do that ish. But nonetheless, the rational side of me thinks that Lengendary baba, was being to harsh on you. Lengendary, you ought to also understand him from another perspective. People are different, in such that, the way you might have handled a similar kind of situation depends on the amount of past experiences, length of hindsight, and a whole lot of other culminating factors. As a soon yet to be renowned psychologist, I already had everything figured out, when she made mention of the word JEALOUSY. This is my advise to you Peteru, has a promising doctor; Kick her to the curb. I really don't want to get into details of how I arrived at my final conclusion. I can write you a full novel indicating series of hypothetical and sub-hypothetical phenomenas and instances that got me to my final point. But I a'int gat that time, and besides, you wunt really understand half of everything I'd be saying. STAY SHARP!
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by tpiah2: 3:31pm On Jan 07, 2016
The males here are always opening threads about females.

yet they say there are more women than men, that is obviously wrong.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by firstking01(m): 3:50pm On Jan 07, 2016
Guys and clinginess...i'm yet to see a guy who will date a gal without always snooping, spying ang peeping on her without her awareness... Funny enough, we would still be the one to be heartbrokened in the endundecided
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by firstking01(m): 3:54pm On Jan 07, 2016
Chommieblaq:
Ma guess is that she cheated with the guy, probably her mind won't let her be or she found out that the guy is not worth, that is why she became super nice.



If u love her, forgive her, maybe it's a mistake buh be mindful so u won't be taken for a ride.
heysmiley
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by IamLEGEND1: 3:59pm On Jan 07, 2016
DrTizzle:
@OP,, The irrational side of me has to agree with Legendary baba. You should be killed and hanged in public square for crying and passionate-kissing blah bah blah blah. Shut your hole, ARrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh undecided lipsrsealed lipsrsealed Real men don't do that ish. But nonetheless, the rational side of me thinks that Lengendary baba, was being to harsh on you. Lengendary, you ought to also understand him from another perspective. People are different, in such that, the way you might have handled a similar kind of situation depends on the amount of past experiences, length of hindsight, and a whole lot of other culminating factors. As a soon yet to be renowned psychologist, I already had everything figured out, when she made mention of the word JEALOUSY. This is my advise to you Peteru, has a promising doctor; Kick her to the curb. I really don't want to get into details of how I arrived at my final conclusion. I can write you a full novel indicating series of hypothetical and sub-hypothetical phenomenas and instances that got me to my final point. But I a'int gat that time, and besides, you wunt really understand half of everything I'd be saying. STAY SHARP!
help me out here bruh!

coz u lost me at 'irrational'.

so A girl admits to cheating on u and the 'rational' reaction was to start shedding tears,kneel,hug and then give her a passionate kiss?

seriously?
I think there is a term for boyfriends like that-handbags
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by tpiah2: 4:12pm On Jan 07, 2016
Didnt read the long write up.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by DrTizzle: 4:17pm On Jan 07, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
help me out here bruh!

coz u lost me at 'irrational'.

so A girl admits to cheating on u and the 'rational' reaction was to start shedding tears,kneel,hug and then give her a passionate kiss?

seriously?
I think there is a term for boyfriends like that-handbags
I get sha, his actions were unspeakably unbearable. But you see, we live in a world whereby people are different and also, they deserve a second chance. His naive self-probably felt that was the best way to have handled the situation. Also you need to consider the fact that he came in here to seek mature advise. The only problem is this, if at all he refuses to heed to these advises and learn from his mistakes and goes on to repeats such misguided behavior again;then I'd look for him myself and probably burn him alive!
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by DrTizzle: 4:22pm On Jan 07, 2016
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by firstking01(m): 4:27pm On Jan 07, 2016
DrTizzle:
That's is a ill-progressive, one-sided, and most definitely nonsensical advise you just doled out right there. Analyze all he said properly and tell me how forgiveness comes in play here. Or you no sabi read.Mtchweee, Gerrarar-here my friend.
shou shocked...brosiehh...e seems u qouted d wrong person??
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by DrTizzle: 4:30pm On Jan 07, 2016
Peterpan222:
thank you too.. I will do as you said
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by DrTizzle: 4:31pm On Jan 07, 2016
firstking01:
shou shocked...brosiehh...e seems u qouted d wrong person??
Yea i just realized, my bad. No vex o.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jan 07, 2016
firstking01:
Guys and clinginess...i'm yet to see a guy who will date a gal without always snooping, spying ang peeping on her without her awareness... Funny enough, we would still be the one to be heartbrokened in the endundecided
You are right bro
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by DrTizzle: 4:33pm On Jan 07, 2016
Chommieblaq:
Ma guess is that she cheated with the guy, probably her mind won't let her be or she found out that the guy is not worth, that is why she became super nice.



If u love her, forgive her, maybe it's a mistake buh be mindful so u won't be taken for a ride.
That is an ill-progressive, one-sided, and most definitely nonsensical advise that you just doles out right there. Analyze everything he said properly and please tell me how forgiveness comes in play here. The girl does not love him enough to covet him.She probably, sees him as a feeble, nobody-wannabee weakler with no hope of a better future together as lovers or whatever you've deduced they'll turn out to be after he forgives her. It doesn't quite add up, don't you think.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jan 07, 2016
op from your write up you are a very good guy infact the type of guy any woman would want to marry but i have to warn you, you have to be tough and rugged. like someone said forget what you see in movies. in reality is a different ball game. dealing with women you have to use the carrot and stick approach. am dissapointed the way you reacted to her revelation it smacks of weakness on your part. a man doesnt react calmly to cheating cos if you do she would cheat on you next time knowing that if she is caught she will cry her way out of it.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by firstking01(m): 4:42pm On Jan 07, 2016
adepeter26:
You are right bro
thankGod..
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by firstking01(m): 4:43pm On Jan 07, 2016
DrTizzle:
Yea i just realized, my bad. No vex o.
awk
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by missKiffy(f): 4:50pm On Jan 07, 2016
This got me laughing and make me feel ur story is nt real "What I did next was to kneel down before her with tears in my eyes, gave her a warm hug n a passionate kiss. I told her I'm sorry for spoiling her mode" Lol,
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Chommieblaq(f): 4:58pm On Jan 07, 2016
firstking01:
heysmiley
Hiya
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 07, 2016
This kind of love story, though..
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by tommychow(m): 4:59pm On Jan 07, 2016
BUTCHCASSIDY:
Pls someone should educate me
How does one weep internally
and how do you know someone is weeping internally
Mehn, I was wondering the same.
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jan 07, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
See this one!

You're just her side bítch and u dey even get mouth to tell us say u knelt down before her with TEARS in ur eyes and gave her a warm hug and a passionate kiss.
Just Shut the fūck up bro,is she God?

U don dey kolo abi dem don replace ur brain with tapioca?

bítch àss Niggaz everywhere. *spits*
Lmfao.. @tapioca..
Re: Guys I Need You All Here.. by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jan 07, 2016
Maxi112:
op! u dnt hid to my advice... stop falling in love u no hear, now u r crying internally...
Lolzz.. Wicked sarcasm!!
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