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Shortyy:
OK, I read something here yesterday about men and why they shouldn't care about virgins. As usual 95% of them men would rather marry a non virgin than marry an inexperienced naïve blaa blaa girl. Kai smh!
Now back to the matter. I wasn't impressed with that article at all. It was as if it was encouraging the girls to go on and loose themselves. I'm not saying she wasn't right in a way, but! A virgin girl reading that at that moment might say, "oh soot, what's the point if he's still gonna marry me after all?" But he might not. So please keep it. They'll tell you how important it is that you lose it, how you've become of age and shouldn't keep it anymore, how they'll know if you're compatible for them, and all kinds of BS, don't do it as long as you know yourself and you are clean, don't do it, if he loves you, he'll stay.
Remember ladies, a girl's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout the Bible here or what they tell you on Sunday school. I'm talking bout you as a girl. Your virginity is your pride, your dignity, it's part of your self respect. So keep it! Forget about those that have lost thiers for nothing, they wish they could turn back the hands of time.
That man who found out that his wife was a virgin on their wedding night, won't only love her, but also respect her for the rest of their lives. Girls, be wise.

misspicy:
My Nigga

don't tell me you are arguing virginity with an obviously perforated person,who says virginity makes a woman complete...I lmao at that statement,what can I say,they have been brainwashed, it is after the marriage they will come to their senses,when the so called respect and love isn't forth coming,they think virginity equals respect and love,well we are here and we see them all,BTW no eediot should quote me wrong,its a good thing to remain a virgin and have one sexual partner all your life,at least your brainwashed selves will be happy, and have a false sense of fulfilment,no one is encouraging a virgin to go and lose it to any random guy,if you want to remain a virgin till marriage please do and carry your so called dignity with pride,but stop brainwashing yourselves that that is what
makes you a complete woman,in our society, having a child is what makes you a complete woman,not virginity every girl was born with a closed vagina....

and some girls are born ugly with zero body endowment, and no guy is calling on them,they end up as by force virgins lmao

btw i know a couple of virgins who have anal sex,who masturbates,who suck dicks and have their vaginas sucked too,their hymens are still intact i guess we can call them virgins too
kwakwakwawakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa


my opinion,doesn't make me a virgin or non virgin it makes me a woman that I am,because virginity does not dictate my happiness in life or marriage,virginity does not define the love of my husband for me,virginity does not define my husband's respect,my character and disposition makes me a whole woman,my ability to push out a human being.

Shortyy:
OK, I read something here yesterday about men and why they shouldn't care about virgins. As usual 95% of them men would rather marry a non virgin than marry an inexperienced naïve blaa blaa girl. Kai smh!
Now back to the matter. I wasn't impressed with that article at all. It was as if it was encouraging the girls to go on and loose themselves. I'm not saying she wasn't right in a way, but! A virgin girl reading that at that moment might say, "oh soot, what's the point if he's still gonna marry me after all?" But he might not. So please keep it. They'll tell you how important it is that you lose it, how you've become of age and shouldn't keep it anymore, how they'll know if you're compatible for them, and all kinds of BS, don't do it as long as you know yourself and you are clean, don't do it, if he loves you, he'll stay.
Remember ladies, a girl's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout the Bible here or what they tell you on Sunday school. I'm talking bout you as a girl. Your virginity is your pride, your dignity, it's part of your self respect. So keep it! Forget about those that have lost thiers for nothing, they wish they could turn back the hands of time.
That man who found out that his wife was a virgin on their wedding night, won't only love her, but also respect her for the rest of their lives. Girls, be wise.

Shortyy:
Nigga, rant all you want, I give no bleeps. A woman's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout abstaining from sex here and being holy. I'm talking about what makes a woman whole, and that's her virginity. Once she's lost it mistakenly, she has become completely empty. Take it or take a hike. Go tell your sisters to go open their legs to any random nigga, but don't advice other girls so.

Shortyy:
OK, I read something here yesterday about men and why they shouldn't care about virgins. As usual 95% of them men would rather marry a non virgin than marry an inexperienced naïve blaa blaa girl. Kai smh!
Now back to the matter. I wasn't impressed with that article at all. It was as if it was encouraging the girls to go on and loose themselves. I'm not saying she wasn't right in a way, but! A virgin girl reading that at that moment might say, "oh soot, what's the point if he's still gonna marry me after all?" But he might not. So please keep it. They'll tell you how important it is that you lose it, how you've become of age and shouldn't keep it anymore, how they'll know if you're compatible for them, and all kinds of BS, don't do it as long as you know yourself and you are clean, don't do it, if he loves you, he'll stay.
Remember ladies, a girl's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout the Bible here or what they tell you on Sunday school. I'm talking bout you as a girl. Your virginity is your pride, your dignity, it's part of your self respect. So keep it! Forget about those that have lost thiers for nothing, they wish they could turn back the hands of time.
That man who found out that his wife was a virgin on their wedding night, won't only love her, but also respect her for the rest of their lives. Girls, be wise.

scentmarlc:


Just like 'John the Baptist' in the bible, the man who foretold the birth of christ several years before, let me say ' I knew this day would come' . A day I would be forced directly or indirectly to say mind, in support or against VIRGINITY.


VIRGINITY is a pride to all, both male and female. It is a virtue to be extolled not condemned. It depicts maturity, discipline and to a very large extent, 'Holiness' (To some churches , as if that's all holiness entails). In another way, it shows your level of endurance and character, a trait everyone should pray to exhibit.

In a world full of contempt, vulgarism, pollution, sexual assaults, harassments, Nudity, lewdism et al., it then can be said of anyone who has been tribulated from birth by this temptations to have been able to abstain and maintain his/her dignity till marriage.

This is my opinnion and should be respected.


HOWEVER,

Virginity has evolved in a lot of ways over the years. Its meaning could be likened to Dolly Partons "Coat of Many Colors" . The Word itself has been used as different part of speech - as an adjective , as a noun , as a Verb .... To say the least, I doubt if one can actually grab the full concept of a 'maiden' or a Virgin.

Thanks to our sharp guys , many ladies have been tempted into sexual activeness at a very tender age and they themselves have learnt the rope so fast they know all the styles in the book. ( God dey sha ) . Social influence on our mentalities hasn't helped either. The songs we hear, the movies we watch - all na sex tape


Now to where am going !

Life is too short to complicate matters of the 'down below' . It is either you want to remain 'chacha' or you want to be tokunbo ( God knows some tokunbo make sense die ) . I wrote an article on my blog few months back, precisely May 2015, titled "VIRGINS OF DOOM" (You can read it via
https://scentmarlc./2015/05/12/virgins-of-doom/ ) and. I created a thread with the same title on Nairaland few days later ( Check the Thread here http://nairaland.com/2308824/virgins-doom ) . In it, I castigated ladies that has turned the word virgin into a self-acclaimed title (I can hear someone sayin 'just like shortyy' ) . A mere trophy to keep. Most of them do things that are worst of sex or at par with it like Mouth Gig, anal sex, MouthAction bla bla bla ( Don't wanna corrupt you guys ) . Then you begin to wonder after the Mouth Gig you asked to start the main film and she bolted 'like say she saw her dead grandma' . These set of people are Virgins of doom.

Another set of culprits are those that are fortunate to meet a serious guy at a tender age. Based on agreement, they decided to stay off each other's pant till marriage (possibly after 5-8 years. Hunn ). The guy must have been so grateful to God to have found a lady with an esteemed self pride and felt 5-8years was just around the corner. 2 years gone by, the lady comes off age and begins to find our dear brother boring and inadventurous but wouldn't dare tell him 'Babie let's have sex' just to maintain her good girl image. Instead, she runz out to naijaboiy's hands and chop the koboko as much as she wants. ( U sef know say d guy dey loaded downstairs na ). To the main guy, she is still a virgin. Smh . These set of ladies are Virgins of doom.


Another sets of DOOMED VIRGINs are those that can't do without smooching. To make up for their inability to have sex, they resort to obtaining a Bsc in smooching . 5-hours is just like 10mins to them. ( Infact, they can kiss for africa ) . Sooner or later they get so addicted to romance such that when they eventually start doing the 'styles', it gets so intense for the unlucky guy to cope with. Abii which kyn yeye sex we wan have wey we go first use almost one hour romance body , abeg leave threash for lawma and dem wolewole joor . You don't need a soothesayer to tell you such girls do have sex in their dream

Don't forget "Just the tippers" oooo . These set will even encourage you to put just the penis tip in their canal. The sensation that alone gives them can't be measured. Some will even offer to help you hold the shaft and rub the cap against their clitoris ; first in a circular motion, then slowly stroking it perpendicularly to simulate the cringing effect of thrusting ( don't let's go into details bikoo ) . Now tell me, if hymen were to be sold, these sets won't hesisitate to buy a full carton ahome just to have the flexibility of having sex and replacing the hymen back ( just like ladycare ) .


The last set of doomed virgins are those that won't let us sleep 'cos they are priviledged to be a virgin (majority of which aint goodlooking ) . These types won't stop blabbing around in the hostels and would stop @ nothing until they know the virginity status of every one in the hostel. They are always like "Nkechi I hope you are still a virgin like me sha"






Summary, virginity is not a title. Its not a concept. Its not an Idea. Its not a joke. Its not a trophy. Virgins should try to know they are absolute not in competition with anyone. Virginity is a virtue that comes by choice. And we all have that choice to make at one point or the other. Virginity is not a thing of the mind neither does it increase your intelligence. It doesn't add to your CV and I doubt if boost your account balance. But it does GIVE YOU SELF-PRIDE and COMPLETE PEACE OF MIND when you get married and if I must say, you likely gain more TRUST from your partner. Yet Nothing is GUARANTEED. Chikena.





NOTE: I do not support male promiscuity or prostitution of whatever form neither have I paid less attention to male Virginity. Infact I wrote an article on my blog (March2015) titled "MALE VIRGINITY: An Honour Fading Into Oblivion" (Click here to read full texts of the article .. https://scentmarlc./2015/03/15/male-virginity-an-honour-fading-into-oblivion-2/ ) . In the post, I chastised the society for placing too much emphasy on female abstinence and undersensitizing the male folks on the need for remaining undefiled. Feel free to go through those links I dropped, its very likely you know my true position on this matter.








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pretydiva:
#teamvirgin# we rock

IamLEGEND1:
Abeg kip quiet

If keeping ur virginity will help u stay sane and improve ur useless self image,then by all means. No one is stopping you, it is ur vagína afterall.

But to then open ur mouth and start misyarning about stuff u obviously know nothing about is a travesty.

Just because you turned out to be a virgin on ur wedding night makes absolutely no difference to anyone but urself. it might make u feel like you've achieved some life long goal,but that doesn't apply to ur partner.

See this is exactly why virgins are useless. just because you managed to keep a thin membrane covering the entrance to your vagína intact doesn't mean you deserve respect. What dignity and love ur husband bestows on you has nothing to do with ur virginity.

.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww, all these dumb bítches and their misplaced sense of entitlement.

#SmH

IamLEGEND1:
Abeg kip quiet

If keeping ur virginity will help u stay sane and improve ur useless self image,then by all means. No one is stopping you, it is ur vagína afterall.

But to then open ur mouth and start misyarning about stuff u obviously know nothing about is a travesty.

Just because you turned out to be a virgin on ur wedding night makes absolutely no difference to anyone but urself. it might make u feel like you've achieved some life long goal,but that doesn't apply to ur partner.

See this is exactly why virgins are useless. just because you managed to keep a thin membrane covering the entrance to your vagína intact doesn't mean you deserve respect. What dignity and love ur husband bestows on you has nothing to do with ur virginity.

.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww, all these dumb bítches and their misplaced sense of entitlement.

#SmH

olagbemi118:
u don smoke... Smh bad influence

leonard509:
devo in the flesh, just be patient, hell awaits you and ur disciples. Mumu dey vex b'cos im no be virgo... The Dignity and love a man will bestow on his wife has a lot to do with her virginity. ur brain,mind, and conscience is dead(that's how u knw a devil)!

Shortyy:
Nigga, rant all you want, I give no bleeps. A woman's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout abstaining from sex here and being holy. I'm talking about what makes a woman whole, and that's her virginity. Once she's lost it mistakenly, she has become completely empty. Take it or take a hike. Go tell your sisters to go open their legs to any random nigga, but don't advice other girls so.

IamLEGEND1:
Abeg kip quiet

If keeping ur virginity will help u stay sane and improve ur useless self image,then by all means. No one is stopping you, it is ur vagína afterall.

But to then open ur mouth and start misyarning about stuff u obviously know nothing about is a travesty.

Just because you turned out to be a virgin on ur wedding night makes absolutely no difference to anyone but urself. it might make u feel like you've achieved some life long goal,but that doesn't apply to ur partner.

See this is exactly why virgins are useless. just because you managed to keep a thin membrane covering the entrance to your vagína intact doesn't mean you deserve respect. What dignity and love ur husband bestows on you has nothing to do with ur virginity.

.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww, all these dumb bítches and their misplaced sense of entitlement.

#SmH

safarigirl:
why do you all like to associate bad character with virgins?


This OP no even write this topic well, it lacks proper expression of what virgins have to tackle, like say make I write another one.


Why do you all equate virgin girls to naive lazy, dependent, bad charactered people? Is it because we didn't have sex to pass exams and get jobs?

A bad character is no respecter of hymen, stop promoting jargons about terrible virgins and angelic shaggers

scentmarlc:


My brother don't be fooled by the sudden innocence of all the babes on this thread.


Go to sexuality section and you will see them jumping on any thread that has "sex" or "pennis" as the Keyword.


I have learnt to stick with the truth - Virgin or No virgin. You gain nothing by fooling your boyfriend that you are a virgin when obviously you are not.


And so far, I have not seen the correlation between character, attitude and virginity. Ironically, the egoistics types of virgins are the worst people to live with.


I will always appreciate whoever, male or female that's remains a virgin till the wedding night but I will never discriminate or look down or on those who aint also. Like I said before, Life is too short. Y. O . L . O


My 2cent bro



So baba,

IamLEGEND1:
[b] + with the way the virginity issue is being over-flogged on NL, it'll be nigh on impossible for even an illitrate not be well versed in the pertinent details by now.

different strokes for different folks.
a very tiny faction of the male populace still hold the notion that a virgin is automatically an angel......but eyes don dey open.

staying a virgin is a personal choice,a good one I may add. But expecting to garner respect and admiration for your personal choice is stupíd, wic is what the OP is suggesting.

nothing is black & white.We live in a world with a million shades of grey,purple,even pepper red sef.Not to mention the dread of marrying a virgin with a very narrow minded view about what sex entails.

I know of a couple, a VERY young couple for that matter-the husband related how his wife won't allow them have sex doggystyle because it's too animalistic hence,gross.

I would just slit my wrists and die to free myself from that kyn nónsense if I was the guy.

+ nobody wants a woman just staring at him like a lost puppy in bed. [/b]

Valprof:
GO AND SIT DOWN...IF U LYK GET A PHD IN BEDMATICS, WE WANT A WOMAN WE CAN PROUDLY PARADAE AS OUR OWN...DO U KNW WE R NATURALLY JEALOUS..KEEP DECEIVING URSELF.

esosa993:
Lol thumbs up bro, every gal here are now claiming virginity....I don't get why u have claim what u are not, even the op am sure isn't a virgin
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I have seen so many gals lie about being one which dumb to me




See if u are a virgin pls keep it but have it @ the back of your mind that your husband might still not love u,it won't stop him from cheating on u.


And u gals here wey dey form virgins. Why u dey lie lie

esosa993:
Lol thumbs up bro, every gal here are now claiming virginity....I don't get why u have claim what u are not, even the op am sure isn't a virgin
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I have seen so many gals lie about being one which dumb to me




See if u are a virgin pls keep it but have it @ the back of your mind that your husband might still not love u,it won't stop him from cheating on u.


And u gals here wey dey form virgins. Why u dey lie lie

pamellla:
hypocrites everywhere.....ts a good thing if u remain virgin til ur wedding night but u don't av to condemn those that are not....u bn a virgin doesn't mean u are better than them nd it doesn't guarantee a successful marriage....in fact it could lead to the potential downfall of the marriage coz if ur hubby to be is a sex freak nd u as a virgin can't satisfy his max. want, he is gonna look outside to derive his satisfaction unless if u are lucky enuf enough dat ur hubby is also a virgin sha (whch is rare among guys nowadays)....d bottom line is if u are a virgin, good for u nd implore u to keep it till ur wedding night....ts something very rare in dis part of d world nd for dose that are not ts not d end of d world....lyf continua! dem no dey use virginity collect money 4 bank now so y strez yasef.

dechibs:
For me thier is no longer pride in virginity.... Dat word has being abused for so long... U see girls dat av dated 7 guys, nd all ov them has kissed u squeezed ur boobs sum has even seen u unclad....nd u will b forming virgin dat u kept ur diginty....dats trash...go back to histroy nd find out people who are being described as virgins....
Everytin abt dem frm dia head to toe has nt being touched sexually by any one both M nd F.......u hardly see a society were 15 out of 20 girls have virgin lips.. At age 8.....xo pls op dis thread is shit*

emmyw:
Dear, you gat point, no need of arguing with anyone about what you have said, personally, I respect women that are Virgin, and I must surely marry one by Gods grace. Why people attack you on this thread is that they have lost theirs(Virginity) long ago. When they are controlled by their body desire, they lose their senses, quote me anywhere, virginity is the pride of both men and women. It pays to be a virgin.

Ayo199:
what is now d point in trying to discourage d ones that still kept theirs

Shortyy:
OK, I read something here yesterday about men and why they shouldn't care about virgins. As usual 95% of them men would rather marry a non virgin than marry an inexperienced naïve blaa blaa girl. Kai smh!
Now back to the matter. I wasn't impressed with that article at all. It was as if it was encouraging the girls to go on and loose themselves. I'm not saying she wasn't right in a way, but! A virgin girl reading that at that moment might say, "oh soot, what's the point if he's still gonna marry me after all?" But he might not. So please keep it. They'll tell you how important it is that you lose it, how you've become of age and shouldn't keep it anymore, how they'll know if you're compatible for them, and all kinds of BS, don't do it as long as you know yourself and you are clean, don't do it, if he loves you, he'll stay.
Remember ladies, a girl's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout the Bible here or what they tell you on Sunday school. I'm talking bout you as a girl. Your virginity is your pride, your dignity, it's part of your self respect. So keep it! Forget about those that have lost thiers for nothing, they wish they could turn back the hands of time.
That man who found out that his wife was a virgin on their wedding night, won't only love her, but also respect her for the rest of their lives. Girls, be wise.

IamLEGEND1:
Abeg kip quiet

If keeping ur virginity will help u stay sane and improve ur useless self image,then by all means. No one is stopping you, it is ur vagína afterall.

But to then open ur mouth and start misyarning about stuff u obviously know nothing about is a travesty.

Just because you turned out to be a virgin on ur wedding night makes absolutely no difference to anyone but urself. it might make u feel like you've achieved some life long goal,but that doesn't apply to ur partner.

See this is exactly why virgins are useless. just because you managed to keep a thin membrane covering the entrance to your vagína intact doesn't mean you deserve respect. What dignity and love ur husband bestows on you has nothing to do with ur virginity.

.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww, all these dumb bítches and their misplaced sense of entitlement.

#SmH

Ayo199:
what u typed is shit...does d fact DAT some engaging in DAT act and still claiming virgin means all virgins engage in DAT act...what are u spewing?

Ayo199:
what u typed is shit...does d fact DAT some engaging in DAT act and still claiming virgin means all virgins engage in DAT act...what are u spewing?