SexyCeline:
Nice write up. So what happens to us "secondary virgins"?

SexyCeline:
Nice write up. So what happens to us "secondary virgins"?

tobechukwuka:

What if you dont have a good character but had your virginity intact. What is the next?

GloryIsaac:
No matter how ladies pretend about hating
sex, they fantacize about it, they wait for it;
and look for it because all humans are
born
with primal sex urge.
This is because in today's progressive
society, ladies are scorned for their choices
especially when it comes to keeping their
virginity, therefore, they all pretend (both
virgins and non virgins) they are not
interested in sex at all.
Don't tongue lash me cos I'm not trying to
say that every virgin wants to get laid, but
as a general rule, the point is that sexual
urge for intimacy is a respecter of nobody

misspicy:

My Nigga

don't tell me you are arguing virginity with an obviously perforated person,who says virginity makes a woman complete...I lmao at that statement,what can I say,they have been brainwashed, it is after the marriage they will come to their senses,when the so called respect and love isn't forth coming,they think virginity equals respect and love,well we are here and we see them all,BTW someone sane should quote me wrong,its a good thing to remain a virgin and have one sexual partner all your life,at least your brainwashed selves will be happy, and have a false sense of fulfilment,no one is encouraging a virgin to go and lose it to any random guy,if you want to remain a virgin till marriage please do and carry your so called dignity with pride,but stop brainwashing yourselves that that is what
makes you a complete woman,in our society, having a child is what makes you a complete woman,not virginity every girl was born with a closed vagina....

and some girls are born ugly with zero body endowment, and no guy is calling on them,they end up as by force virgins lmao

btw i know a couple of virgins who have anal sex,who masturbates,who suck dicks and have their vaginas sucked too,their hymens are still intact i guess we can call them virgins too
kwakwakwawakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa


my opinion,doesn't make me a virgin or non virgin it makes me a woman that I am,because virginity does not dictate my happiness in life or marriage,virginity does not define the love of my husband for me,virginity does not define my husband's respect,my character and disposition makes me a whole woman,my ability to push out a human being.

IamLEGEND1:
Abeg kip quiet

If keeping ur virginity will help u stay sane and improve ur useless self image,then by all means. No one is stopping you, it is ur vagína afterall.

But to then open ur mouth and start misyarning about stuff u obviously know nothing about is a travesty.

Just because you turned out to be a virgin on ur wedding night makes absolutely no difference to anyone but urself. it might make u feel like you've achieved some life long goal,but that doesn't apply to ur partner.

See this is exactly why virgins are useless. just because you managed to keep a thin membrane covering the entrance to your vagína intact doesn't mean you deserve respect. What dignity and love ur husband bestows on you has nothing to do with ur virginity.

.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww, all these dumb bítches and their misplaced sense of entitlement.

#SmH

Shortyy:

Nigga, rant all you want, I give no bleeps. A woman's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout abstaining from sex here and being holy. I'm talking about what makes a woman whole, and that's her virginity. Once she's lost it mistakenly, she has become completely empty. Take it or take a hike. Go tell your sisters to go open their legs to any random nigga, but don't advice other girls so.

naijaboiy:
Okay so I guess this is the season of virginity threads again.

Well shortyy it is with great pleasure that I put it to you that your write up is crappy,totally baseless,sentimental and myopically presente to us and only those who have a backward and Stone Age thinking will agree to that hogwash.

Virginity makes a woman whole? What sort of nonsensical bullshyte is that?

Obviously you are one among the girls who think your sense of self worth is attributed to your vagina alone and therefore the status of your vagina will define the kind of woman you are.

Furthermore I Laff at the hypocritical guys and feather-brained women supporting you.

You all think this is the medieval times?

Virginity makes a woman whole my ass!

Greenbullet:
.I support op ,no matter how faithful a wife is a man can not fully trust her if he didn't meet her as a virgin that is why father's now secretly carry out DNA test on their kids to ascertain the child's origin, so sincerely being a virgin makes your husband trust you more a good example is my mum,my dad treats her like a Queen even in old age.

Cutehector:
I would say most of them cuz Lee is nw a statistic. I would never ask u for sex.

I had to cuz I wanted u to make a choice.

LoL! Really??

Wait till You meet me then..

Ugh...You shouldn't have ignored me simply because I was dating? Wouldn't even call that dating sef!

we were friends Hector... friends don't do that to each other...What if I got married?

so, You'd actually delete my number?

SexyCeline:
Nice write up. So what happens to us "secondary virgins"?

chronique:
The OP was actually making sense until her subsequent comments when she tried to pass across a message that ladies who are no longer virgins,are hopeless. That's a warped and myopic way of reasoning. It isn't objective but subjective and the truth is,intelligent people never talk from a subjective point of view. Being a virgin is a thing of pride to a lady and when I say virgin,I'm not talking of lafies who have done MouthAction,anal sex and all those dirty things. However,it is not the end of the world. Take for example,I have the option of marrying one person from 2 beautiful ladies presented to me. Girl A is a virgin,has good characters,wife material,pretty and all but has poor intellectual capabilities,and isn't the sharpest pen in the bag. Girl B has all these features and is extremely intelligent and is a leading light in her career path,but isn't a virgin and isn't a LovePeddler either. Which of these 2 do you expect me to pick from? As someone who survives on intellectually stimulating conversations,I'm definitely going to settle for girl B. I cant stand a person who is intellectually dull. At that point,your virgintiy wouldn't count for me cos I wouldn't want you to bear me dull kids in future.

So,you see here that virginity isn't the end of it all? It's good to be a virgin but while at it,pls make sure you have other qualities that stands you out. If all you've got going for you is that you're a virgin,then,you're as useless as the girl who has seen a 1000 dicks.

misspicy:

My Nigga

don't tell me you are arguing virginity with an obviously perforated person,who says virginity makes a woman complete...I lmao at that statement,what can I say,they have been brainwashed, it is after the marriage they will come to their senses,when the so called respect and love isn't forth coming,they think virginity equals respect and love,well we are here and we see them all,BTW no eediot should quote me wrong,its a good thing to remain a virgin and have one sexual partner all your life,at least your brainwashed selves will be happy, and have a false sense of fulfilment,no one is encouraging a virgin to go and lose it to any random guy,if you want to remain a virgin till marriage please do and carry your so called dignity with pride,but stop brainwashing yourselves that that is what
makes you a complete woman,in our society, having a child is what makes you a complete woman,not virginity every girl was born with a closed vagina....

and some girls are born ugly with zero body endowment, and no guy is calling on them,they end up as by force virgins lmao

btw i know a couple of virgins who have anal sex,who masturbates,who suck dicks and have their vaginas sucked too,their hymens are still intact i guess we can call them virgins too
kwakwakwawakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa


my opinion,doesn't make me a virgin or non virgin it makes me a woman that I am,because virginity does not dictate my happiness in life or marriage,virginity does not define the love of my husband for me,virginity does not define my husband's respect,my character and disposition makes me a whole woman,my ability to push out a human being.

dovelike:

Studied about the vagina deeply . Being a vurgin rocks. No matter what, man always respect beautiful and smart virgins . It makes some proud though. But we love it!!

[b] + with the way the virginity issue is being over-flogged on NL, it'll be nigh on impossible for even an illitrate not be well versed in the pertinent details by now.

different strokes for different folks.
a very tiny faction of the male populace still hold the notion that a virgin is automatically an angel......but eyes don dey open.

staying a virgin is a personal choice,a good one I may add. But expecting to garner respect and admiration for your personal choice is stupíd, wic is what the OP is suggesting.

nothing is black & white.We live in a world with a million shades of grey,purple,even pepper red sef.Not to mention the dread of marrying a virgin with a very narrow minded view about what sex entails.

I know of a couple, a VERY young couple for that matter-the husband related how his wife won't allow them have sex doggystyle because it's too animalistic hence,gross.

I would just slit my wrists and die to free myself from that kyn nónsense if I was the guy.

+ nobody wants a woman just staring at him like a lost puppy in bed. [/b]

Estharfabian:


LoL! Really??

Wait till You meet me then..

Ugh...You shouldn't have ignored me simply because I was dating? Wouldn't even call that dating sef!

we were friends Hector... friends don't do that to each other...What if I got married?

so, You'd actually delete my number?

emeraldknytt:

your gibberish chatter hold no value. Please, think twice before you enter one chance.

shut the fück up mahn and maintain your lane. I never called for your useless attention.

I know what I am saying. Now fùck off!

Doltish simpleton!

Cutehector:
I really Dnt wish for anyone to like me out of pity or obligation... buh by choice. I only had to test one feet in the waters to avoid drowning.

You are missing the point..

chronique:
The OP was actually making sense until her subsequent comments when she tried to pass across a message that ladies who are no longer virgins,are hopeless. That's a warped and myopic way of reasoning. It isn't objective but subjective and the truth is,intelligent people never talk from a subjective point of view. Being a virgin is a thing of pride to a lady and when I say virgin,I'm not talking of lafies who have done MouthAction,anal sex and all those dirty things. However,it is not the end of the world. Take for example,I have the option of marrying one person from 2 beautiful ladies presented to me. Girl A is a virgin,has good characters,wife material,pretty and all but has poor intellectual capabilities,and isn't the sharpest pen in the bag. Girl B has all these features and is extremely intelligent and is a leading light in her career path,but isn't a virgin and isn't a LovePeddler either. Which of these 2 do you expect me to pick from? As someone who survives on intellectually stimulating conversations,I'm definitely going to settle for girl B. I cant stand a person who is intellectually dull. At that point,your virgintiy wouldn't count for me cos I wouldn't want you to bear me dull kids in future.

So,you see here that virginity isn't the end of it all? It's good to be a virgin but while at it,pls make sure you have other qualities that stands you out. If all you've got going for you is that you're a virgin,then,you're as useless as the girl who has seen a 1000 dicks.

IamLEGEND1:
Abeg kip quiet

If keeping ur virginity will help u stay sane and improve ur useless self image,then by all means. No one is stopping you, it is ur vagína afterall.

But to then open ur mouth and start misyarning about stuff u obviously know nothing about is a travesty.

Just because you turned out to be a virgin on ur wedding night makes absolutely no difference to anyone but urself. it might make u feel like you've achieved some life long goal,but that doesn't apply to ur partner.

See this is exactly why virgins are useless. just because you managed to keep a thin membrane covering the entrance to your vagína intact doesn't mean you deserve respect. What dignity and love ur husband bestows on you has nothing to do with ur virginity.

.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww, all these dumb bítches and their misplaced sense of entitlement.

#SmH

Estharfabian:
You are missing the point..

naijaboiy:

shut the fück up mahn and maintain your lane. I never called for your useless attention.

I know what I am saying. Now fùck off!

Doltish simpleton!

live4ever:



Does anyone else notice the venom with which the Anti-virgin folks speak (both male and female)?

Is it just me or am missing something here?

Please go through any post on this topic on nairaland or any other platform and you'll observe that the pattern is always same.

I observed this and I wonder why......

Maybe someone can help provide us with answers.

Cutehector:
I would say most of them cuz Lee is nw a statistic. I would never ask u for sex.

I had to cuz I wanted u to make a choice.

you should really learn how to keep private things inn private.

Just saying.

emeraldknytt:

fast and furious, hehehe... Easy puppy! Your anxiety is only gonna propel you speedily in a cage. Pooshiit like you, urggh i even get time.. Ooshii

Just fùck off my mentions mahn!

TheSonOfMark:


Aren't you the two-faced, bipolar liar who lied on a front page thread that YOU'RE A VIRGIN TO GET LIKES AND BOOST YOUR NON-EXISTENT EGO?

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www.nairaland.com/2751764/when-doctor-asks-sexually-active#40250674

Half-wits like you can only go around fooling people like you. Always shifting the goal posts to suit your argument.

After being exposed as liar, you'll claim you were joking about being a virgin.

Wahala90:
The world is full of people who don't want you to have what they can't have or what they have lost. Immediately you mention virginity, they get mad not because they don't know the value but they have lost it and there is nothing they can do about it. Be wise, virginity is honourable.

Shortyy:

Nigga, rant all you want, I give no bleeps. A woman's virginity is her pride. I'm not talking bout abstaining from sex here and being holy. I'm talking about what makes a woman whole, and that's her virginity. Once she's lost it mistakenly, she has become completely empty. Take it or take a hike. Go tell your sisters to go open their legs to any random nigga, but don't advice other girls so.

naijaboiy:

you should really learn how to keep private things inn private.

Just saying.