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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jan 14, 2016
emzila:


THIS ONE NA JEALOUSY PART 1, THE GIRL IS A VIRGIN. VIRGINITY IS NOT BY YOUR DEFINITION IN AFRICA HERE.

K
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Goridoe(m): 5:07pm On Jan 14, 2016
honeric01:


But she's still decent as long as she hasn't bee. Spreading all over..


YES , she was decent then when she had it twice grin ..! baba once opened, Forever Open.! **drops pen**
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by harbeedaymee(f): 5:07pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:
Now this is what happened to me. I'm not gonna say it happened to a friend like some used to. I am just curious and would appreciate meaningful comments.

When I was much younger, precisely 6years, I had this quickie with a neighbour. He was around that Age too, we just did for the fun of it, I don't realy know what led to it, I just saw that this boy and I had some kisses and sex, twice.
I grew older and I blamed myself for doing that trash then, there hasnt been much exposure as it is these days, I had been a bad girl for doing the 'mummy and daddy's game'.
This year, I will be 24 years. I have never had any sexual intercourse after the one I had 18 years ago though I have had some boyfriends But sex was out of it.
To the Best of my knowledge then, there was nothing like pain or blood. Now, I wonder, wasnt the hymen torn then? How come girls even below 6 years (who were taken advantage of) now have blood stains and experience pains?
This hymen, do they vary in flexibility?
I wonder if I have been deflowered back then?
Now I experience mighty pains if anything comes around the V area, as tiny as a finger.
I am just curious..

***
Comments like 'who cares if you are a Virgin'
Who Virginity don help
Should please not be typed here.
I have been sincere enough to type this, I will respect Matured contributions.

Cc:Lalasticlala

I love your boldness. Yes, you are still a virgin since there was no blood

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by nath0507(m): 5:08pm On Jan 14, 2016
YOU HAVE BEEN DEFLOWERED[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font], you are no longer a virgin as long as there was penetration my dear. Quit letting the idiots on here telling you that they are 99.9% sure you have not be deflowered fool you. Big kudos to you though for keeping away from boys after your few encounters with your neighbor, some females get deflowered and they don't even know it because they don't bleed, other bleed. Everyone is created different and just cause a person does not bleed does not mean they are still intact.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by ucnwafor(m): 5:08pm On Jan 14, 2016
Op started bleeping things right from 6, choiiiiii!!! U be confirm oloshi by now oooh, pinshure or adobelievit
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Emeraldcute(f): 5:08pm On Jan 14, 2016
Goridoe:


i contributed by booking space na.. haba, ano try? abi virginity or not, how e wan help me before undecided


cheesy u deserve expired palmwinecheesy

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Jan 14, 2016
chely:
Depends on what u call virginity. D most popular definition is having sexual experience if it's from Dat definition u r no longer a virgin. The other definition is broken hymen if from dis definition, u r a virgin. The most important definition is d anatomist definition, this is Dat u hv never been pregnant, if by this definition, u r still a virgin. Bicycle n exercise can break ya hymen. Also u can have sexual experience in ya dream but those first two definitions there's no major anatomical changes Dat a irreversible. But in d last definition as soon as u r pregnant, so many changes occur in ya anatomy, physiology n chemistry n r obvious.
Noted
Thanks
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Goridoe(m): 5:09pm On Jan 14, 2016
Emeraldcute:



cheesy u deserve expired palmwinecheesy

[size=14pt]JESU[/size] .!
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jan 14, 2016
nath0507:
YOU HAVE BEEN DEFLOWERED[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font], you are no longer a virgin as long as there was penetration my dear. Quit letting the idiots on here telling you that they are 99.9% sure you have not be deflowered fool you. Big kudos to you though for keeping away from boys after your few encounters with your neighbor, some females get deflowered and they don't even know it because they don't bleed, other bleed. Everyone is created different and just cause a person does not bleed does not mean they are still intact.
Thank you
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by MrCEO69(m): 5:11pm On Jan 14, 2016
tpiah2:


make her wetincall no rest?

na market wey dey never close?


oloshos also need time off occasionally.

no be me talk am oh..
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by tpiah2: 5:11pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:

Thank you

so your point is the person you are talking about who was doing whatever you were describing at 6 years of age and then fingered by a doctor, is not a virgin.

So, what should we do now?

btw, shouldnt you be looking for husband rather than all this idle gossip you are spending your time on.

stop looking for married men, go and find a single never married male who for whatever reason, is into your type.
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jan 14, 2016
Goridoe:


YES , she was decent then when she had it twice grin ..! baba once opened, Forever Open.! **drops pen**

Evryone was just fooling around at Age 6
A lot even run around pantless and bath outside, so what are we saying? !
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jan 14, 2016
charix:
This is a thread that would expose the men posing under female monikers. Already some of them are goofing in explanations. How can you explain something you don't've? Some of you should fear God o.
You can say that again!
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Goridoe(m): 5:13pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:


Evryone was just fooling around at Age 6
A lot even run around pantless and bath outside, so what are we saying? !

Please did you just say EVERYONE isssok.. anywaiz, we are still saying what you're saying ..
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by 1miccza: 5:13pm On Jan 14, 2016
Op bigtt76 analysed it to the fullest while yourmain bared it out completely. Those contributions should summarise what you want to hear

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by tpiah2: 5:13pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:


Evryone was just fooling around at Age 6
A lot even run around pantless and bath outside, so what are we saying? !

are you ok?

your write ups are not.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by achinaboy(m): 5:13pm On Jan 14, 2016
endtime deflower

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by maxti: 5:14pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:

My curiousity led me to talk to a doctor, he said he would check with his fingers to see if there is a wide entrance.

He was wearing his gloves when I told him, 'dont bother again, thank you sir' cry
search no further, you are still a Virgin. Relax.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jan 14, 2016
tpiah2:


so your point is the person you are talking about who was doing whatever you were describing at 6 years of age and then fingered by a doctor, is not a virgin.

So, what should we do now?

btw, shouldnt you be looking for husband rather than all this idle gossip you are spending your time on.

stop looking for married men, go and find a single never married male who for whatever reason, is into your type.
What are we saying, what are you saying?
Who is looking for husband?
The last time I checked, the lady dont look for!
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Goridoe(m): 5:16pm On Jan 14, 2016
tpiah2:


are you ok?

your write ups are not.

grin grin grin grin [size=14pt]ano fit laff finish.. thank u bro.. anono say u sef see ahm.. are we still not saying what she is saying grin grin grin grin grin orisirisi... Na 'LAUGHLAND' dem suppose change this site name to.. people just too funny ehn[/size].. grin grin grin grin

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by jetage1(m): 5:16pm On Jan 14, 2016
misspicy:

I think OP is still a virgin,why?

according to her story,she was 6,the hymen becomes stronger during female formative years,which means the hymen must have been too thin to actually bleed or cause pain,and according to her,the boy was around her age grade,meaning he must have had a tiny pencil type of penis_ which couldn't have done the work of breaking the hymen,that is why,it becomes more painful for an older virgin to become disflowered than a younger virgin,say 30years/20years old virgin
please please please , can u check d meaning of virginity? an English dictionary would help. thank u

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by tpiah2: 5:17pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:

What are we saying, what are you saying?
Who is looking for husband?
The last time I checked, the lady dont look for!


you better look for sweetie!

just dont look for another person's own!
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by AyoolaIgwe(m): 5:18pm On Jan 14, 2016
YourMain:

No offence. But that's not how the hymen works at all.
how does it work
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 14, 2016
mopol2:
I dont believe dis shit..
at the age of 6? and now you talking abt 24 that you have had enuff sex and u coming here to seek an opinion....
....Lie
Well, your opinion!
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Kgdavid(m): 5:20pm On Jan 14, 2016
OP, while i assure you that i do understand where you're coming from, pardon me for poking a lil fun at you. You remind me of my friend who always protests and defends his virginity despite having had sex at a similiar age, playing the infamous daddy and mummy game. His own defense is "i didn't ejaculate"

grin grin grin grin

Funny people, OP, i hope he wasn't the one you did it with?

Okay, but seriously, sister, if that young man inserted his penis into you, you have had sex. Period. However if your motivation is purity, then in the eyes of God i believe you are still pure as you were not up to the age of accountability by then, and if your motivation is to please your husband, then he could still boast of being the only man to have had sex with you.

You're not a virgin objectively, but subjectively, you are one to me.
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Goridoe(m): 5:21pm On Jan 14, 2016
[size=14pt]ABEG MAKE OP-MESA ABI NA OP U DEY CALL AHM, GO CALL THE GUY gangan COME, MAKE HIN TELL US BY HINSELF, IF HIN ENTER THE PLACE LIKE 2BABA OR NOT... #CASEadjourned #COURTTTTTTT lipsrsealed[/size]

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jan 14, 2016
tpiah2:


op, come and answer.
Tpiah again
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:
Now this is what happened to me. I'm not gonna say it happened to a friend like some used to. I am just curious and would appreciate meaningful comments.

When I was much younger, precisely 6years, I had this quickie with a neighbour. He was around that Age too, we just did for the fun of it, I don't realy know what led to it, I just saw that this boy and I had some kisses and sex, twice.
I grew older and I blamed myself for doing that trash then, there hasnt been much exposure as it is these days, I had been a bad girl for doing the 'mummy and daddy's game'.
This year, I will be 24 years. I have never had any sexual intercourse after the one I had 18 years ago though I have had some boyfriends But sex was out of it.
To the Best of my knowledge then, there was nothing like pain or blood. Now, I wonder, wasnt the hymen torn then? How come girls even below 6 years (who were taken advantage of) now have blood stains and experience pains?
This hymen, do they vary in flexibility?
I wonder if I have been deflowered back then?
Now I experience mighty pains if anything comes around the V area, as tiny as a finger.
I am just curious..

***
Comments like 'who cares if you are a Virgin'
Who Virginity don help
Should please not be typed here.
I have been sincere enough to type this, I will respect Matured contributions.

Cc:Lalasticlala
whether hymen is broken or hymen is intact, but as long as d penis entered d no man's land u re not a virgin.. Although i don't believe d penis of a 6 years old can make any female lose her virginity status..

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by amzee(m): 5:23pm On Jan 14, 2016
@MhizTessy,come to my house and lemme test you whether you are still a virgin or not....
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by davidif: 5:24pm On Jan 14, 2016
YourMain:
Sigh. Do you even know what a hymen is ? Virginity by presence or absence of an hymen is the most ridiculous thing in the world.

You do realise it's possible to have a hymen completely intact even if you've had sex. The hymen isn't a big piece of tissue just covering the entry of the vagina.

Virginity by definition is the state of never having sexual intercourse. If you've had sexual intercourse, you're not a virgin. Finish.

Gbam! I wish I could like this a hundred times over.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by gbens2000(m): 5:25pm On Jan 14, 2016
xkris11:

The boy is too young to know what an hymen is and too young to know that it exist.
u are confusing my confusion we ur state of confusion. undecided
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jan 14, 2016
Kgdavid:
OP, while i assure you that i do understand where you're coming from, pardon me for poking a lil fun at you. You remind me of my friend who always protests and defends his virginity despite having had sex at a similiar age, playing the infamous daddy and mummy game. His own defense is "i didn't ejaculate"

grin grin grin grin

Funny people, OP, i hope he wasn't the one you did it with?

Okay, but seriously, sister, if that young man inserted his penis into you, you have had sex. Period. However if your motivation is purity, then in the eyes of God i believe you are still pure as you were not up to the age of accountability by then, and if your motivation is to please your husband, then he could still boast of being the only man to have had sex with you.

You're not a virgin objectively, but subjectively, you are one to me.

Wow
I like your sense of humour cheesy
Your comment is perfect... Purity, that's it.
Thank you!!! smiley

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