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| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 11:48pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
McSquishi:I'll post an article in a bit when I get home. Working on my muscles right now and jamming to the voice of a great black woman, Esperanza Spalding. I can't let an obnoxious angry black woman kill my vibe lol. |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Sehindemi(f): 11:50pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Flashh:In as much Ur brain hasn't come up yet.. It definitely need to be repaired! And guess wat? I won't let U go until I do dat 4 U.. Fish-brained low life! |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Flashh: 11:59pm On Jan 14, 2016 |
Sehindemi:[color=#225484]This is a very lame way in seeking for attention. It won't insult you, because I won't like you to commit suicide because of me.[/color] |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by McSquishi(f): 12:18am On Jan 15, 2016 |
What a simpleton. Firstly, if my demeanor was anything it was patronizing, condescending, and annoyed, never angry. Learn some adjectives, increase that vocabulary. And back to your reading comprehension issues: it was I who first commented on mixed ppl who are "confused" and don't feel comfortable w/ Black identity. Not Miss Detroit. You labeling that something she was correct abt shows how lost you are in the convo, smh. The other point where you claim she is right is also stupid. You admit Black ppl accept mixed ppl as Black. That was what I stated, and what she disagreed with. That a mixed person may have their blackness questioned is not an impossibility. But so is the Blackness questioned of anyone who doesn't talk a certain way, eat a certain food, know a certain cultural reference, come from a certain place etc etc. mixed ppl are not the disadvantaged outcasts they were stated to be. What Black man of any esteem repeats & attempts to validate race based insults he hears "White guys" say? Shameful. What a coon. You call me a chihuahua but you are the one yip yipping at my heels after every comment i make. So what breed of female dog does that make you? ![]() Ok that's really my last one. Any way to block imbeciles?? SirShymexx: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 12:20am On Jan 15, 2016 |
cc: McSquishi Enjoy these articles from 2007: Exhibit one (Gary Younge): Is Obama black enough?Exhibit two (TIME Magazine 2007): Is Obama Black Enough?So, are you going to shut ya gob and stop arguing like an obnoxious angry black woman now? ![]() |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 12:28am On Jan 15, 2016 |
McSquishi:Lmao @ an incorrigible dunderhead with atrocious grammar and sentence construction talking about adjectives. You honestly don't want me to unleash the adjectives in my repertoire/lexicon on you. Better ask ya fellow villagers - I'm just keeping it calm for now. Unless you want to cry tonight with ya self-esteem nuked to smithereens. ![]() Anyway, I'll just pick the only sensible sentence in ya incoherent and illiterate soliloquy and, ask you a question based on that. So, if you're a product of two groups and one doesn't accept you, while the acceptance from the other group has a few asterisks on it - does that make you an outcast - yes, or no? |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by McSquishi(f): 12:48am On Jan 15, 2016 |
You just quoted 2 articles where talking heads discuss if Obama is Black enough for Black ppl. You don't quote any mainstream source w/ any data showing Black ppl didn't feel he was a black enough. & You won't find it. The best your article could do is look to Black support of Hillary, which I already addressed. The highlight about Hillary says exactly what I said: Black ppl didn't think the Black guy could win and that she was the presumptive nominee! Why would Black ppl not vote Obama bc he is half White but then support a White woman? That's just common sense. Obama being mixed race was not an issue. Growing up in Indonesia & Hawaii?? Perhaps. Having a White mom? No biggie. & You didn't bold the part where it discusses the writer who doesn't agree with African-Americans calling Obama "one of us"... How could this be if he wasn't being accepted as "one of us"? Lmao. Both of your articles depend on an article written by ONE Black man, Stanley Crouch, to make the long leap in suggesting that Black America takes issue with Obama being biracial. It's fluff, unsubstantiated fluff, then as it is now. the articles you linked don't make your point... like at all. But since you seem to be in this re: back n forth to just argue, common sense be damned, I'll just say "you win" and maybe you won't bother me again? *crosses fingers* SirShymexx: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by McSquishi(f): 12:55am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Are you really threatening to unleash words on me? Oh no! You're threatening to make me cry by calling me mean things?! What a tough "man" you are! So big and bad on the internet that u can bring women to tears, ha! Your mom must be proud! Lmbao! If I figure out how to block u I will. being stupid is one thing, but being arrogant + stupid simultaneously is sinful. fin SirShymexx: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 1:00am On Jan 15, 2016 |
McSquishi:Lol. It seems you have reading and comprehension problems and it's evident in ya English usage/grammar. I'll post excerpts from articles that specifically alluded to his biracial background as the reason why folks in the black community didn't think he's black enough. And perhaps you'll be able to grasp it. Also, both sources are credible mainstream sources, from credible journalists, and the premise of both articles was the sentiment prevalent in the black community at the time. Gary Young (Guardian UK, 2007): - His mixed-race heritage and solid midwestern timbre have left some claiming he is not black at all. - Some refer to Obama as a racial category all to himself: in the eyes of those who praise him he is a new, different and (by implication) better kind of black politician than those who have previously strode across the American political landscape. To others his background suggests a lack of authenticity. He's black alright, but simply not "black enough". A poll showing black Americans backed Hillary Clinton by three-to-one seemed to bear this out, although another poll in yesterday's Washington Post suggested that black voters are starting to support the black candidate in greater numbers. TIME Magazine 2007: - As much as his biracial identity has helped Obama build a sizable following in middle America, it's also opened a gap for others to question his authenticity as a black man. - The black-on-black argument seemed to be bolstered by recent polls showing Obama significantly trailing Hillary Clinton among black voters. But reading into poll numbers that way is a clever device, hatched by mainstream (primarily white) journalists who are shocked — shocked! — to discover that black people aren't as dumbstruck by Obama as they are. Is that too difficult for you to read and comprehend, angry black woman? And what's ya level of education cos you sound like someone who dropped out of school, due to unwanted pregnancy? ![]() |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 1:07am On Jan 15, 2016 |
McSquishi:Lol. I'm not a tough man on the internet - I just educate stark illiterates as a service to humanity. And as a black man, it's each one, teach one, with me. But in the real world, I'm really a big bad wolf - wooof wooof. ![]() Anyway, today is ya lucky day. I just checked ya profile and in as much as ya face looks a tad off, the cleavage looks nice. So, I'll let it slide cos of the cleavage. ![]() |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by McSquishi(f): 1:19am On Jan 15, 2016 |
No proof that it was the prevalent sentiment at the time and not fluff from talking heads. Just say it & it's so. LOL. And wait, like Miss Detroit you're not even American?? smh SirShymexx: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by McSquishi(f): 1:21am On Jan 15, 2016 |
SirShymexx:You putting down my looks from behind a faceless screenname confirms your cowardly lowlife status. |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 1:21am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Mix race, and others, are boxes one ticks on all equal opportunity forms you sign along side black and white. So in case some people forgot mixed race people Dont want to be black or white because most times they are both. So all your arguing sounds a lil juvi to me anyway... Mixed race people are mixed race people ffs stop over complicating shi just to proof some irrelevant point. |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 1:27am On Jan 15, 2016 |
McSquishi:So, you still couldn't grasp the excerpts I posted to you, no? Your case is irredeemable and it's typical with all the illiterate villagers on this forum. Most of you're obnoxious, obtuse, and vacuous - yet you walk around like you have got something up there, with cosign from fellow illiterate and ignorant villagers. ![]() I guess you know better than TIME magazine and an award winning investigative journalist whose specialty is race matters, no? |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by McSquishi(f): 1:30am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Race is a social construct itself, so when it comes down to it there is no Black, White, or Mixed ppl, just different phenotypes expressing certain genes. Still, in America there has long been a Black-White binary. I'm not even sure we have a "mixed race" category (does other count?) on our census yet like some other nations might. Nubian113: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by McSquishi(f): 1:30am On Jan 15, 2016 |
So your answer is no you don't have proof it was the prevalent view? The article you quoted doesn't even state it's the prevalent view. Or did I miss that excerpt? I've had enough. I said three or four posts ago that you win. Maybe you just crave attention from me your mom neglected to give you? Anyway, my hubby echoes good advice I received earlier to ignore imbeciles like you. Maybe I should deactivate, you're too exhausting. (I bet reading that last part made u feel like a champ, huh? That's how u know you're a loser! ) SirShymexx: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 1:31am On Jan 15, 2016 |
McSquishi:Lol. Angry black woman, how did I put down ya looks, when I praised ya cleavage? ![]() Err, I swear you never had a bra on in that pic, did you? Them tatas look huge...if I had seen that earlier, I would've focused on that rather than waste time trying to educate you. |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 1:36am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Nubian113:Yes. But the reality out there is different. I think in future, based on how there has been an increase in interracial marriages - they'll end up having their own unique ethnicity, just like the Arabs, and the Pardos in Brazil. |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 1:39am On Jan 15, 2016 |
McSquishi:Lol. You're the gift that keeps on giving. You ask for an article and I gave you two but you're too dumb to swallow ya pride and accept the fact that you're wrong. Anyway, I don't do the brownie points tripe - I just educate ignorant people. So, did you learn something new today? ![]() |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 1:42am On Jan 15, 2016 |
This might be just in my world but they do. My friends reply "Mixed race" when asked their ethnicity. And if you further enquire they'll give you countries like British and Nigerian or Irish and Jamaican. Most dislike being called black or white. Most are players and they play both races. Mixed race is an ethnicity in it's own right and ONLY closet racists talk all this non sense up there. No disrespect intended. SirShymexx: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 1:50am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Will You stop being a Sheldon from #bang_theoryI still prefer your logic but ain't you heard of the story of Jesus? Don't go down like that. Although we appreciate the time you take to share knowledge out of love for it can I add unlike some people who use it as a display of arrogance. But watch bp and your fingers when conversing with Africans on nl McSquishi: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 1:51am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Nubian113:Your friends sound delusional. So being mixed race is an ethnicity on its own in the UK, yet the likes of David Haye, Zadie Smith, Dele Alli, Adam Afriyie, Chuka Umunna, Ashley Cole, Harvey (So Solid Crew), Alesha Dixon et al are referred to as black, no? Heck, even the Mark Duggan, whose death started the London riots and backlash on black people was mixed. When I say most of you are obnoxious/ignorant - you'll start throwing hissy fit. Can you see how dumb you're (no pun intended)? And what's racist in saying the reality? |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by McSquishi(f): 1:54am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Lmao. I don't watch that show. I've seen clips. Is Sheldon the nerdy one who nobody likes much?? lmao! I swear this is my first & last back n forth experience. I've learned my lesson. & I feel silly for engaging this long on such a base level. Lemme go live. See ya 'round xx Nubian113: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 2:02am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Ok. 1 I have no TV so I don't know those people. I gave you my view so bye lovely enjoy your evening. SirShymexx: |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 4:25am On Jan 15, 2016*. Modified: 4:41am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Fairly said. Not to imply there aren't, in the same way, other experiences and pockets of intolerance in the US, but I find it hard to believe that some European countries could be more tolerant than the US as a whole. That's interesting, tho. |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 4:36am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Nubian113:Frankly, that's the healthier more rational outlook. Why acknowledge half your identity and disavow the other half? That's some sad bullshyt right there. |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 5:16am On Jan 15, 2016 |
EnlightenedSoul:This I don't know. |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 6:29am On Jan 15, 2016 |
SirShymexx:I won't say I know much or less, but I understand the ones I knew and can relate to what the discussion is all about. And as for me being a village man I take it as a compliment because from what I know we all have our respective villages. I don't see you as an educated man but a half-baked scholar with an over bloated ego. SirShymexx Salaam |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Sehindemi(f): 7:36am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Flashh:Oh.. Seeking for whose attention? U? of all NLers?? Impossicant! U only need to realize being senseless z a punishment.. And therefore U wud know who to battle words with next time.. As per committing suicide, I learnt it runs in Ur lineage.. Perhaps, It's now Ur turn.. It wudn't be thru me tho! Go work on Urself.. Only a fool wudn't want to be corrected! |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by Flashh: 8:28am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Sehindemi:[color=#225484]You just a punk. It's so obvious that no atom of sense in all your replies. You seriously need my attention, for me to give it to you, I would rather give it to a deaf and dumb. Take your stupíd correction to the psychiatric, that's only where it's need. Jobless old dirty thing trying so hard to be noticed. [/color] |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by hollandis(f): 10:27am On Jan 15, 2016 |
McSquishi:People are busy working their butss off.You are still here talking about petty issues with the only black people who want to associate with you .You have no black friends and force yourself on the white folks, meaning you have no genuine friends You are a lost case ,a vagabond walking the earth .And lets I forget a stupiid slut disgracing and ridiculing the image and personality of a black woman .Stuupid white man's whoree |
| Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by SirShymexx: 10:42am On Jan 15, 2016*. Modified: 11:27am On Jan 15, 2016 |
Truthpallbearer:So, you agree that you're ignorant about the subject-matter but like the typical useful idiot from the village you can relate to race matters out of ya knowledge scope and you think someone who knows and lives it has over-bloated ego. Can you see how stupid and utterly dum.b you sound, effing stark illiterate? That's the problem with primitive plebs - rather than stay in ya comfort zones and discuss topics you know, you always want to jump around like a monkey. And when they say the average Nigerian has an IQ just slightly above 70, which is basically the same as a re.tarded person, you'll start crying everywhere. Can you see that you proved them right with this post? ![]() Go pick firewood or find tree branches to hop on, you despicable gorilla. |
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