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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Welcomme: 5:45pm On Jan 15, 2016

Late 30s and still urinating? Obviously, not normal. T.B Joshua or guru maharaji would b of help.

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Btruth: 5:45pm On Jan 15, 2016

Eeyah! Serious spiritual warfare niyen. Please, I'll advice that you 2 should go for prayers.

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 15, 2016

Quite worrying, but it is no insurmountable ordeal. You can help her stop it if it's not spiritual. Observe her to know when and how many times she does so on the bed at night. If you can understand this, problem appears over.

Next, wake her up at intervals during the night. Firstly ensure she uses the toilet once she is about to sleep. Secondly make it a duty to wake her up every two hours throughout the night to go pee.

It might be stressful when you start it but her success over this ordeal would make you smile later and forever. Finally, after a while you would no longer be her alarm clock, she would become used to getting up herself during those hours especially when she is pressed to pee.

Marriage is for better and for worse. Thankfully, you found your cross quite early. Please bear it lovingly and tolerantly because you are more fortunate than so many others whose crosses are replete with spikes, agony and misery. Our LORD Jesus will certainly help you by offering you grace to pull through unscathed.

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 15, 2016

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'

Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

Pls MOD's Push this to front page to get urgent responses..

IF it's true, then why come here to EMBARRASS her.
U no longer know the road to the hospitals

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Taryur3(m): 5:47pm On Jan 15, 2016

I laf out my ass.this is a big problem indeed.bro all you need is serious deliverance.Synagogue church can help you.my ex passed through same hell and she got married to a banker now.Although am still single but no regrets...she said she got healed at synagogue church.she wish to re turn to me but no way.

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by cicc2010(f): 5:47pm On Jan 15, 2016

Adonis3:
OP it was probably aunty Toke Makinwa that advised her not to tell you. Smh

May thunder strike any woman that wants to withhold such sensitive information from me till we marry

haba wetin concern toke for dis matter nah.

#Adonis3HasSopken

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by yinkus204(m): 5:48pm On Jan 15, 2016

Where are my bet9ja crew wh don forecast finish make the person send me game make i play no time for story - in rick ross voice we talking money u talking nonsense

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by donbenedict(m): 5:48pm On Jan 15, 2016

Welcome to marriage, what u see is what u get!

But ladies why? Why do u people keep on deceivn men just to get married?

Woe to dat lady who deceives me to get married to her. Allah, there and then, she will see my lawyer.

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by tigo1: 5:48pm On Jan 15, 2016

Dis one na serious issue,iyawo le.

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Zoe99(f): 5:49pm On Jan 15, 2016

She could be suffering from a medical condition known as Enuresis.If not,then she could be under a curse.

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by jackie35(m): 5:50pm On Jan 15, 2016

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'

Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

Pls MOD's Push this to front page to get urgent responses..

LET HER SOAK GARRI EVERY NIGHT (JE KI O MA MU GARRI SUN)

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by EbolaParasite: 5:51pm On Jan 15, 2016

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'

Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

Pls MOD's Push this to front page to get urgent responses..

Get adult diapers

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Richy4(m): 5:51pm On Jan 15, 2016

This is not really a big deal sir.... You should try and understand the reasons why young adults bed-wet

REASONS WHY SOME ADULTS BED WET

<<<the body making a large amount of urine through the night;
<<<a bladder that can only store a small amount of urine at night;
<<<not being able to fully wake up from sleep.
<<<some bladders can’t hold very much urine through the day and this can cause problems at night;
<<<some bladders do not fully empty on the toilet, which means urine stays in the bladder;
<<<some kidneys make larger amounts of urine than normal through the night; and
<<<taking in a lot of salt or calcium from foods and drink can change kidney function.
<<<constipation;
<<<infection in the kidney or bladder

The easiest way forward is to get an alarm Clock set it every three hours... for her to wake up and empty her bladder
Seek medical help.. sometimes surgery is the last solution... that is when the doctor discovered that her bladder is to small to hold enough urine. it could be expanded....

This case is not enough for divorce.. and please laugh at the people that suggested it was spiritual... A lot of people are graduates or under graduate here. yet they reason like......

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by spencekat(m): 5:52pm On Jan 15, 2016

Sorry for that.You have to be there for her.Seek both medical and spiritual solution.Spiritually attacking the problem should be done urgently.Please take her to MFM Prayer City after seeking a medical solution to it.Act fast,because there is a solution to every problem.

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Guyman02: 5:52pm On Jan 15, 2016

how to stop bed wetting adult. There is a good resource material here

http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Wetting-the-Bed

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Vikky014(f): 5:55pm On Jan 15, 2016

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Eberex(m): 5:55pm On Jan 15, 2016

And here I was thinking a woman who snores in her sleep was a problem

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by joseph1832(m): 5:56pm On Jan 15, 2016

Men oh men. OP this is why I've always maintained that whoever wants to get married should spend endless nights, sleeping on the same bed with the girl he wants to marry.

If you had done this, you wouldn't be opening this thread. Just find out if she has a weak bladder, that's the only advise I can give.

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by oglalasioux(m): 5:56pm On Jan 15, 2016

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'

Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

Pls MOD's Push this to front page to get urgent responses..

Courtship is important in marriage. Premarital sex is wrong but not in today's world where people marry very late. One could end up with a sack of problems if we insist all biblical tenets must play out in this age and time. So sorry you can only rely on medical help to solve this problem as you are already married. Good luck.

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by ronald4ever(m): 5:56pm On Jan 15, 2016

Your wife is prolly suffering from enuresis and incontinency. The most effective remedial approach is to take less water before going to bed and set an alarm clock on intervals that would alert her to ease herself. After a while should will adapt and wake up by herself when she's pressed. You may want to read about her condition on the web for more insight.

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by john650(m): 5:57pm On Jan 15, 2016

elomez:
I believe some ways you can help her out is tell her not to drink so much water before going to bed. Tell her to always urinate before sleeping out night even though she doesn't feel like. You should also wake her up mid hours of the night to urinate by doing that she will be able to adapt to the changes. She should try kegel exercise for urine incontinence I think that will help her too. Please do it with love.

Basically, just become her mother and treat her like a baby.

On a more serious note, she needs to see a doctor immediately. While it might sound unusual for a woman in her 30s to be urinating in her bed, she does have a problem controlling her bladder. It could be as a result of an untreated sexually transmitted disease like Chlymedia.

In any case, the doctor would probably make her wear adult diapers. Yes there a lot of older people that have incontinence problem like your wife. There is an industry out there that caters to people like her. So don't worry, it's not the end of the world.

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by codedeleniyan(m): 5:57pm On Jan 15, 2016

make she dy sleep for grand nahh

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jan 15, 2016

OP, is it the only fault she has? I think you should get involved with her in finding the solution. No one is perfect. I am not saying bedwetting at her age is okay but you can help her instead of making her feel it is her problem. I am in my late 20s and I can tell you I stopped mine just few weeks to my moving to University. I have got admission and whenever I remembered it I got really scared because I was going to stay with about 6 guys in the hostel. I got really scared, I would sleep late and made sure I urinate like 2 to 3 times before I went to bed. God be the glory, I didn't and still never since then. Just like magic.

That is by the way, OP please feel her pain because she must be going through a lot. You should stop telling people about her problem just to feel important or make your wife a fool. Don't use because of a fault and destroy your marriage. You may marry somebody that does not urinate in bed but you may not be able to tolerate other behaviors of hers.

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by ojaythegreat(m): 5:58pm On Jan 15, 2016

think I've learnt my lesson from what ur passing through...mine go sleep over oooh!!!

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jan 15, 2016

Take her to see a psychiatrist, they will prescribe an anti depressant called imipramine. Its medically proven that it's effective in permanent prevention of bed wetting

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Nicepoker(m): 6:00pm On Jan 15, 2016

Use super glue for night. Use kerosene wash am off for morning.

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Onyiido: 6:01pm On Jan 15, 2016

BaddieKay:
I don't mean to be religious bt u need spiritual help,cause I dnt think its normal 4 an adult to bedwet...But if There's a medical explanation,then see a good Doctor

The constant urinating is as a result of a medical condition or maybe she's always scared going to the toilet to ease herself @ night. Op take her to a doctor or gynecologist

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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by blueroses747: 6:01pm On Jan 15, 2016

Nothing spiritual about the problem with her.try this this.1)put a big stone in a fire for up to 30minutes then 2) take the stone out of the fire and the lady should urinate on the stone while its hot.after one week she will be ok

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by mhizcovy(f): 6:01pm On Jan 15, 2016

[quote author=MYMINDER post=41999679]She is suffering from a disease called Enuresis. She needs to see a Urologist to examine her bladder and related organs.

The less water intake is not a cure, it can only ameliorate. In the interim, put on your alarm for 1am and wake her to go to the bathroom and empty her bladder even if she is not pressed.

A second one by 330pm that she take her to morning.

I don't believe it is spiritual, this is just usual talk by Nigerians because we live in a very diabolical environment. She should pray nonetheless because whatever you seek in life, go to God in supplication.

She was desperate to get married and avoided what would likely be a deal breaker. The Enuresis may be one of the reasons she was not yet married in her latter thirties until you met her and she succeeded in getting married to you by avoiding sleep over under the likely guise of morality.

Best wishes.

My Mind[
n pls ensure she doesnt drink any water at least 3 hours before bedtym...ds modules operandi helped my bro quit his bedwetting

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Onyiido: 6:01pm On Jan 15, 2016

Nicepoker:
Use super glue for night. Use kerosene wash am off for morning.

Wickedt

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by Jetwld(m): 6:03pm On Jan 15, 2016

IF WE CAN COMMUNICATE DIRECTLY I MEAN " U & HI "ONE ON ONE I'M VERY SURE BY GOD GRACE THAT IT WILL STOP
Quote me anywhere
I mean my word's

Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Urinates On Bed Everyday by emmyw(m): 6:04pm On Jan 15, 2016

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'

Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

Pls MOD's Push this to front page to get urgent responses..

You are not even suppose to include your first sentence, you wouldn't have marry her had it been you knew, is she not a human being? Because she bed wet, are you man enough? If I see a lady that I truly love for marriage, any problem that comes out, we will face it together, I hate how some people reason sometimes, why can't you look for the solution than typing how you feel about it? I don't really have time to type what I have in mind but act like a mature man.

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