SINNZ:

This is why I keep advising guys to test-drive that Ferrari before purchasing it.

Atleast you would've known it leaks fuel and have it fixed or replaced.

What are you saying.. person dey pee for house you dey here dey say test drive... person dey pee for body if dem dey nyash cos i don't grab what you jos wrote

Dotmax53:
More advice pls..Im really out of my mind now

don't be out of your mind. It s a problem and there is a solution.
Just stop her from taking too much water. Her water consumption should be twice a day. She should put it into practice and always wake her up to pee or urinates at mid-night.
Anyway, see the doctor for more information cos I don't believe it s spiritual. It s physical problems and need physical or practical solutions.
It s well with u.

Pls bro, go to the market and buy a mat for her. Those mat that looks like rubber mat. With time, the bet wetting will stop.
God is with you and always prays to God, the solution finder.

SINNZ:

This is why I keep advising guys to test-drive that Ferrari before purchasing it.

Atleast you would've known it leaks fuel and have it fixed or replaced.

maybe you don't understand what the op said. Must everyone fall into sin before marriage? Must everyone had sex before marriage? Pls stop advising individuals to test drive before marriage. It s against the rules of morality by telling them.
Anyway, read the op update, he needs our advice. Not advise on sexual intercourse. Thank q

Go to a teaching hospital or multi-specialist hospital and ask to see a urologist.
The most practical solutions are to cut down on water consumption in the night and use an alarm clock to wake up intermittently to urinate.

Dyt:
Pls look for where they are doing local cooking
She should pee to quench the fire
Each time the pee is coming at night
It will burn her that she will rush up

Its a tale I heard when I was young oooo

**Shoot her**

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'
Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldnt have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldnt agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skelenton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day.Eversince,she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

.Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

Pls MOD's Puch this to front page to get urgent responses..

hmmm this a joke right take her for deliverance if u r serious d demon in her is responsible not her

sorry op but u don carry bad market

Must everything be spiritual?

BaddieKay:
I don't mean to be religious bt u need spiritual help,cause I dnt think its normal 4 an adult to bedwet...But if There's a medical explanation,then see a good Doctor

divinelove:

hmmm this a joke right take her for deliverance if u r serious d demon in her is responsible not her
sorry op but u don carry bad market

stevecantrell:
Unfortunately, there is no quick fix for adult bed wetting. A 38 year old woman has probably been doing it for 38 yrs.
According to my clergy friend, bedwetting could be spiritual in origin and lead to many drawbacks in life like late marriage.
Usually the victim has a dream every night that they got up to take a pee in the toilet, when in fact they never got up.
Get your wife to talk about it, don't let her live in denial. That's the way forward. Seek medical and spiritual help. Let her learn to do pelvic floor exercises and be ready to wake her up intermittently 3-4 times a night, whether she is ready to pee or not.

OP sorry about your luck.
Read thorpido's post again.

Na wa for her sha. Why hide such from you until after the marriage? That's deception.

cococandy:
OP sorry about your luck.
Read thorpido's post again.

Na wa for her sha. Why hide such from you until after the marriage? That's deception.

It's deception but that was probably what has kept her from hooking a man till her 30s and she must have been desperate.

thorpido:
It's deception but that was probably what has kept her from hooking a man till her 30s and she must have been desperate.

Yea I know.

Still the young man is bearing the brunt now. Medical conditions aren't what one lies about to hold down a partner. As it is very unfair to foist the responsibility of dealing with such issues on them without their knowledge.

If I were her. I'd rather remain single if no man can handle that truth about me than get married to someone who will resent me all his life.

cococandy:

Yea I know.

Still the young man is bearing the brunt now. Medical conditions aren't what one lies about to hold down a partner. As it is very unfair to foist the responsibility of dealing with such issues on them without their knowledge.

If I were her. I'd rather remain single if no man can handle that truth about me than get married to someone who will resent me all his life.

So true.
Being a sickler,having epilepsy,adult bedwetting just to name a few are not things that one should hide.It's enough to make a partner call off the marriage.

Souljaboi1:



**Shoot her**

@Op, I hv heard such a case on Emmanuel tv(Tb Joshua's channel) during their testimony, the victim was delivered permanently from it. You can as well take your wife dir, as this isn't ordinarily.

cococandy:
Must everything be spiritual?

If you have weird dreams every time you bed wet, its almost always due to a spiritual imbalance .

Do you wet the bed ?

stevecantrell:


If you have weird dreams every time you bed wet, its almost always due to a spiritual imbalance .

Do you wet the bed ?

mtchew

cococandy:
mtchew

Sorry, I didn't get u..

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'


Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

Pls MOD's Push this to front page to get urgent responses..

didnt she come with a warranty? shey na new one?

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get her pampers maxi, if she get big yansh u are on ur own

What a wicked world.........,God will change her story this same month! Click if you believe God.

Take her a pastor for prayers that's what you need to do simple. With Got all things are possible

Please advise her to go for MFM deliverance in Mowe / Ibafo along Lagos / Ibadan express road. Am very sure with 100% assurance that she will be ok. May God deliver us from the evil in Jesus name. Drop ur no here if true. Thanks

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'


Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

Pls MOD's Push this to front page to get urgent responses..

It is denonic. Seek spiritual help. Find better pastor.

The best way out of a situation is to totally reject the situation.. All night, prayer and fasting .

Can't help it. I can't help it.
Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!

In the meantime, use Macintosh and also wake her often to go use the washroom. In no distant future, she will get used to it.

Really

VibrationsZ:
get her pampers maxi, if she get big yansh u are on ur own

ur evil

coolsix:
person just post about him wife wey give birth...


this one post say him wife dey piss 4 bed...

na wa o

Guy u bad. I don't see dis as anything, if u luv her u can overcome dis, it will just take time

nseke:
My problem is her inability to own up to her fault besides,you can help her manage it-check the water intake in the evening through the night and wake her to go ease herself just before,when you would ve noted the range of time she normally passes urine

Fnk u for ds advice,n @ Op,try n encourage her to pray.

Yoruba's traditional medicines can help, pls help her seek for solution if u truly love her, pls forgive her completely for not opening up, anyone can be in her shoe

Remember, For better For Worse.
If this story is true than you have alot to do in helping her.its a difficult task that you must endure.