U can be putting nylon on ur bed before d bed spread just to avoid spreading of bed every morning... Buh u sef no try o... Aw cum u didn't notice?? Did u boycotted courtship??

My guy you are a Nice guy o, You never run. By third Night I for done run. Well it's very Simple, your new wife lack elasticity in her Virgina, the only Cause of that is having too many sexual partners or birth. You said nothing about her having kids so. Anyway the only way to stop it is call Vagina rejuvenation surgery. If you can afford it, then she needs to stop drinking water after 6pm

Onyiido:
Wickedt

the. Method is tested and trusted. Medically proven to be very safe.

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'


Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

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I'm sure your wife oversleeps. Try keeping her awake till 2am and wake her up by 5 and pls let her take a lot of water

She simply needs medical help. She has a bladder problem. Take her to a doctor that can help her else the problem will persist.

Hi bro my own and only advice I'll give to u is that you should get her pregnant and wait till she give birth. After she gives birth that bedweting will stop!.. Sounds weird right?

Eeyaaah!


to be sincere pls dont send her packing, help her out by waking her up midnight to pee, sometimes she might be pressed and be dreaming she's in the toilet taking it out not knowing its on bed....just take most of the advice here, wake her up with alarm to pee, it will help her. In addition to all these suggestions pls take her to SCOAN Prophet TB JOSHUA I have seen him perform deliverance on adult bedwetters!Goodluck

If you're lucking to get my number just call as soon as possible

cultivate d habit of waking her up thrice before dawn

take her to SYNAGOGUE and come back&thank me later!

For better for worse; till death do you apart.

Seek spiritual help now.

Ladies with deceit........

Ladies so desperate.....

Op, u håve entered one chance!
U either alight åt d next bus stop or manage ur situation like that.



But pls, let love lead d way.Help her out n become her Superman.

Lordprez:
Dude stop being a Fvckin crybaby... People leave marriages because of more serious sh!t like cheating and you're here beefin' your 1 week old marriage because she bed wets

Better divorce the lady, she doesn't deserve to be married to a kid like yourself


Buh till she signs the divorce papers... try doing what parents do... wake her up in the night to go ease herself and please, ah take God beg you try to be a human(you're definitely not a husband), and don't make her feel like a disgrace

#GodHelpTheBothOFYou... and happy married life

What made him not a husband? What of the wife that hid such a thing till after marriage? The annoying part is she even denied it after been caught.

Op go with her to see a doctor. Meanwhile, do the waking her up at night to empty. Do this for humanity sake, not for the word "wife". Cos I ain't seeing any

Op, its so unfortunate that you're into this mess... but i guess you have to start doing the job of waking her up everynight... and let her do kegel exercises with much intensity ... Dont even think about divorce ( remember FOR BETTER FOR WORSE!!!) ... Happy Married Life

BaddieKay:
I don't mean to be religious bt u need spiritual help,cause I dnt think its normal 4 an adult to bedwet...But if There's a medical explanation,then see a good Doctor

No need to go that far, one of my cousin had same issues but the guy had to tell my mum coz he loved her so he had to do what my mum told him (oya bros go get your pen nd paper) he should get a tin container (all those Milo container or any type of container, container is container) get charcole too (if u are using gas in ya auz den get kerosine)........ So every night before she goes to bed she need to get her pu ssy fry . put the charcole into the container and light it and let it brun like you want to use it to iron your cloth (I no say make you brun your house o!!!) till the fire is out by it self. Then she should pee into the container (no be say she go pee inside the container till e full) little by little just to get the steams to fry her V till the steams are out, ( I tell you if that pee dey come for night she will jump up her self ) Sabi you said you love her you self get work to do,,,,, watch the amount of water she takes before going to bed and always wake her up when its 1am to go pee if not you will need to dry your bed again the next day BTW go and buy a dog you know why ? So that when ever you want to put your bed under the sun jst raise your voice and say honey i don't want to see that dog on this bed again see as he pees for all the bed so the neighbors will think its the dog or better still go and buy adult pampers don't forget #3.03 to $1 so if I were you I will take option one fry her V and enjoy your marrage ....... .

Nicepoker:
the. Method is tested and trusted. Medically proven to be very safe.

Hmm then that's good

She wud ve let u knw dis b4 now. But pls dnt leave her... She needs u now, jst seek for prayers for God is d God of all posibilities, he will see u tru. And now dat u are one, she shud stop hiding tins and be open.

u ve to carry ur cross. marriage is for beta for till do u part.i can't help.

YOU DO NOT LOVE YOUR WIFE. YOU ARE A SPINELESS MAN!

McSquishi:
smh this story has to be fake... What husband would find his wife is suffering from this issue and after just 7 days dealing with it is already regretting the marriage?

Even though I think the story is fake too, I left advice for those who are real sufferers. I've seen many cases before, esp in someone quite close to me.

When I say spiritual, I'm not advocating that they go to some prophet. Hypnosis, counseling and psychoanalysis can heal psychological wounds sustained in early childhood.

For example, most bed wetters admit to having a poor relationship with their fathers mostly as early as 2 or 3 years.

If the father, instills fear into the toddler rather than being more approachable, bedwetting can become a regular feature in the life of that child as time goes on.

Ah....! Be deceiving yourself!


And be forming Jehovah witness there!

glossy6:


It is not the standard for a woman to spend nighiin the fiance's prior to marriage

Ighoga898:

nothing we won't hear in nairaland

Well

Dotmax53:
Fellow Nairalander'


Please Help A Brother...I newly married this beautiful young lady in her late 30's, and was shocked with what i saw with my eyes the first night of our wedding,she ended up messing up my newly purchased bed which i bought to appease our marital life,Had i known she was a baby adult,i wouldn't have gone into this marriage with her...No wonder she wouldn't agree to sleepover at my place while we were dating,,,i never knew there was a skeleton in her cupboard.After i noticed the drained bed on our first night together,She ended up giving an excuse that maybe she had drank so much water during the day/stressful day. Ever since, she as been urinating on the bed, We end up going to spread our bed outside everyday to get heated by sun...I believe our neighbors would have started suspecting something of such nature due to the usual sunning of the bed....Fellow Nairalanders, I love this lady and i cant afford to loose her..Our marriage is just a week old..

Please Advise me on what to do because i am really out of my mind presently.....

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You should go to the hospital. There is medical solution to this

Onyiido:
Hmm then that's good

lol. Pls don't try the method at home. It only works in movies.

UTMOST10:
What a wicked world.........,God will change her story this same month! Click if you believe God.

amen

Chubhie:

Capo, howdy? which holiness babe do you strong thing?

.

Chubhie:

Capo, howdy? which holiness babe do you strong thing?

Lol! Bros no mind me abeg. I was in a terrible mood when I posted that and I needed an avenue to rant.

These girls no go kill person


How your side na?

Sorry for this state of your wife. It's called Enuresis. It's not deliberate and quite a number of things might be responsible. It's nothing to fuss so much about except of course the embarrassment. Most young people affected by it hardly travel for holidays or sleep out cos they know accidents can happen. If structural causes (problems with the urinary system) is ruled out through a number of tests by specialist, emotional factor might need being explored. Management involves combination of approaches such as fluid restriction in late evenings, behavioural modifications like use of bell and pad which conditions the individuals and of course certain medications which I for obvious reasons can't be mentioning here. It's manageable condition with desirable outcome in most cases. Visit a hospital with specialists in urology and behavioural medicine. Don't be disappointed, be empathic and you would be happy in the long run. Congrats and have a wonderful marriage.

Nicepoker:
lol. Pls don't try the method at home. It only works in movies.

Would have given u a nice poke of ya life, badt

Nicepoker:
lol. Pls don't try the method at home. It only works in movies.

Would have given u a nice poke of ya life, badt

CaptPlanet:




Lol! Bros no mind me abeg. I was in a terrible mood when I posted that and I needed an avenue to rant.

These girls no go kill person


How your side na?

I understand. I just dey clubless since our guy Jose nefa see work.

Dude whether she drink too much water or too much less water.she go still wee wee for bed.dis 1 dn pass ur power.tek her to a doctor who knw whatup abt spiritual stuffs.