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If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by Divepen1(m): 1:43pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
I have a problem with the way we bombard ladies with fear that all men but a chosen few are bad as if na only ladies dem be dey enter relationship If men were trained more women would have little cases of marital abuses, rape etc. Our daughters now live in fear of tomorrow because mothers focus on them and not the boys. They teach daughters to respect the man but the guys are thought to live in honour( which is not taught right). If we learn to love like Christ then our trouble will lessen. The bible says in Ephesians 5: 21-23 says women should submit themselves to men and the reason is not far fetched when men follow the instruction to the letter they might become pompous. When men were asked to love their wives like Jesus loved the church. It simply means we should do the following 1. Be ready to give our all. Jesus left his kingdom for the church. 2. He was to present us to God without spot or wrinkles etc So we are also to always help her live pure and connected to God. 3. Jesus forgave always, so should men. 4. Jesus taught the Church, so should men. 5. Jesus gave up his life for the church, so should men. 6. He, God, sought us out and gave his all to us, so should men. Men are to be taught love, honour, sacrifice for their home. Anything you don't know how to do let her teach you. Women should also teach men that women are not weaker vessels a beg. They are strong willed and determined. They give their all and best for their marriage. Women should teach men that their wives should not be allowed to waste. Mothers or mothers-to-be should avoid implanting the notion that men are nuisance, that men are wicked in the heart of women. They should teach their sons, brothers, nephews that women are another type of God's nature. That nature that reveals God as loving, kind, jealous.. That women are singleminnded and they give their all. Women should teach their daughters that men are Godsent, they are loving. That men are not born to deceive, that a man should not be used as an example for men Men are not monstrous. Women are not promiscuous. Situation push people into wrong deeds but having love for God would help you stay firm as a better person. Boys are not tyrants who deceive women. They are golden and needed. They God's nature. Women should teach men more. lalasticlala https://litehelp./2016/01/16/if-mothers-taught-men-these-we-would-have-fewer-marital-problems/ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by Omexonomy: 1:46pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
And the fake list goes on. |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by funnynation(m): 1:49pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
ok |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
you are absolutely correct. but not everything should be left for the mother. The father has a big responsibility in that area of the boy's life considering its his fellow male. |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by IMO22(m): 1:54pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
The world is crazy, None can fix it...DONT EVEN TRY |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by wordbank(m): 1:55pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Mother and wife r two distinct figure Not enough |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by Divepen1(m): 1:56pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
IMO22:That's a blatant lie |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
I don't agree with ur write up mr op. The best legacy a mother can give to her son is absolute care and tenderness..that is what will make him see goodness in his wife. But unfortunately most african mothers are rigid than tigers. Just the same way a brutal father who has a submissive wife leaves a bad impression in the mind of his daughters. If a son sees a father sacrificing for his family(like u said) and the mother is a super nagger or troublesome woman, it would register in d sons brain that women are monsters. A mother who kisses her son every morning and nite b4 sleep and say things like.."John my boy, u're the man"..such a mother is passing the right message to d son unlike a mother who spanks and tranfers the nagging aggression to d child knowing that he can't face her like his father does. D problem is african psychology 1 Like |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by Divepen1(m): 1:58pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
wordbank:No clear boss. |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by Divepen1(m): 1:59pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
EroticAngelina:Yes fathers too should play a big role... yet the mothers are nearer than the fathers. |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by Divepen1(m): 2:00pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Divepen1:Boss |
Re: If Mothers Taught Men These, We Would Have Fewer Marital Problems. by stuff46(m): 2:22pm On Jan 16, 2016 |
Omexonomy:Now go back and read the write up carefully |
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