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naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Wow!

Okay i didn't see that coming.

Pele![/color]

Nubian113:

#stalkerAlert

As long as you buying sis I'm drinking

Fongido:
As if it's easy. the fact that it worked for someone else doesn't mean it'll work for you

judedwriter:
is this supposed to be a rhetorical question

daretodiffer:
Id.iot


Would the husband forgive if you were in his shoes? A man that can have sex with a maid will surely kill you to satisfy his madnedd

MISSCONGENIALITY:
That's the difference between you and some other women who will park out of their house at any given opportunity as if they have been witing for it. Some people who celebrate golden jubilee in marriage will tell u that it has not been easy. U will have to stop counting how many times ur spouse has wronged u.

doveda:
What pix?

Ode ni e!

Nubian113:
I'm lost... Why are you personalising this


Maybe the shoe fits.... If not why e pain

PUSIDRILA:
Hmmm I deh suspect you ooo.

doveda:
I'm lost...you never told me you suffer from partial blindness

Go through the thread again please or ask your BF why have been on his neck

confistified:
God bless you ma

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Do u always insult people whenever they don't agree with u? That's childish dear.

That's the difference between you and some other women who will park out of their house at any given opportunity as if they have been witing for it

judedwriter:
If u aint ready to forgive, forget marriage. Dat's why its good to marry solely for love so when the offences starts raining, forgiveness is non-negotiable. Not justifying cheating husbands-but for heaven's sake-no one is perfect! Dirvorce is a quick and selfish way to end a loveless marriage.

doveda:
God bless you sir

confistified:
Amen nd pls wen ever u are down nd depressed just remember that Jesus loves u...... don't think of Sui

doveda:
Is that how your mum is combatting her suicidal tendencies?

confistified:
Nope...... nd pls don't ever mention my mum in things like this. ... if u don't love urs I love mine

doveda:
Do you have to reduce women who would separate from their husbands to this:

Joy1706:
If my husband cheated on me, It'd be extremely difficult to forgive him. If he impregnate a woman outside, there would be no forgiveness not to talk of him sleeping and impregnating my maid in our house. Hahahahaha! Fogerrit o. No coming back from that. I would divorce him, we'd divide our assets and I'd claim damages for adultery sef and move on. OR I'd remain married to him, kick the maid out but we'd definitely have an open marriage and he won't say jack about it. We'd be strictly room mates, do your things by yourself and vice versa. If he doesn't like it, he can as well move out.

Those women who are saying they'd collect the child, una try sha

Bigmarx:
let me illuminate your comprehension. If your husband is rich or well to do....you are just talking trash. Even if you get half of "The" ..not his "His"...asset. remember if he is well to he will frustrate you in court who will pay your legal bills? Finally the supposed share you will get is part of the share both of you made when you legal got married and onwards. Don't think you will get part of the money he has made before he marries you. Damages is only paid if you had a legal agreement to that effect or if there is evidence of his brutality on you. By the time you leave him and say "jack".....younger and more pretty ladies are already queuing at his door post...everyone wants a cool life.....This is nigeria, he will only get to pay child support. Also open marriage will be heaven on earth for him. Na you go tire. How long can you keep up with the pace. At 45 a woman is already expired....Well if your husband is clinging on you for survival....then you can say those trash up there. Welcome to the World.....tread with caution....

chineloSA:
The reason why he cheated on you was the highlighted.
Just because she is a maid, doesn't make her inferior. How could one say "stoop so low because she is a maid"? Are Maids not human beings?

Serves you right!!

Oliviaarims:
I'd feel really hurt and betrayed.. It would be less agonizing if it was someone different, of course.. Someone who's respectably self-sufficient.

But for a maid? It would be difficult. I'll always regard him as a shameless man who took advantage of a girl dependent and far below him.

But my home must continue to stand.

confistified:
Nope...... nd pls don't ever mention my mum in things like this. ... if u don't love urs I love mine

lovaleenny:
Ode no be u say Bill Gates...did u specify weda na naija version or african version...infact did u even say any version

handie:
nice one bro

confistified:
Nope...... nd pls don't ever mention my mum in things like this. ... if u don't love urs I love mine

confistified:
Amen nd pls wen ever u are down nd depressed just remember that Jesus loves u...... don't think of Sui

doveda:
Nah

You got it all wrong

At 45 a woman is already expired? You must be living in lalaland

kilokeys:
Different tori if it was the wife that got impregnated by the gateman...

Chai.. it's a man's world

Joy1706:
No. I want an answer