joshsmarty:

Ok I'll just ignore this one
*fades

joshsmarty:

Ok I'll just ignore this one
*fades

Europija:
pls all stop runing my topic with this ur nonsence talk

Europija:
......what should i think that he is doing?

johnson232:

have u discussed this recent change in attitude with him?

Europija:
.....But when he calls me at night.he will talk very good with me n laugh n smile...n we will talk like for 1 hour or 2...In his talk it doesnt seem like he looses interest n he still talks about our future

samted:


then you have to be careful. people can be very deceptive.

when most people cheat, they become more affectionate and try too hrd to give more time.

However, less time cud mean something else. He's probably too confident that he has you and he doesn't have to stress himself to keep you. I wud advise u on what u cud do, but i dont want to be the reason for somebody's breakup (not saying it will end in that)

Also, it cud mean that there is something or somebody that is occupying his time. Due to that fact that you're not there...this is quite likely. If this is the case, he'll most likely not tell you. But don't assume that it is the case...I may be wrong.

Try to be perceptive. listen and watch out for change in patterns... is he using new slangs or words? (being around new people long enuf makes us adopt slangs that they use). has he stopped calling u a particular pet name?

Just dont conclude...be patient and time will always reveal everything.

Europija:
Ok i understand u and u r right about all and thank u for so long answer n care...he doesnt use new slangs or words and the point is what i wanna ask u is if he started cheating me...How is possible that he is every day with that woman and also if he started living in same home with that woman.then how he calls me at night?

samted:


I seriously doubt that he's living with a woman (assuming there is one). There's no way he wud have time to call you at night and talk if there's another woman around. except she's a hooker and doesn't give a sh*t. But I doubt that. Since he still talks about a future with you, i'd stick with my first hypothesis. You've probably professed love to him to the extent that he doesn't feel the need to be crazy about you like before.......Can i get ur contact number?I would like to talk more with u...

samted:


hey, that your email? nedaserbia??

Europija:
yesss

Estharfabian:
LoL!
knuckle?
Chop Hug jaweh!

ZeeAfrica:
maybe it's cheaper to call at night. Maybe during the day he might be busy hanging with other jobless guys, or maybe looking for work or trying to work on some kind of business or something, or maybe the girl comes during the day and goes home at night. or maybe he lied to u so that u don't ask him for cash, now has a job, so he is not allowed to be on the fone during the day

joshsmarty:


That's alot of maybes...
Just be patient n wait till you meet eachother.. #phyno Ife balaba.abago..whats yours yours..

ZeeAfrica:


lol, maybe ooo

joshsmarty:

Welcome to NL.. 2nd account? I'll take it back..

Estharfabian:
It's Either he's cheating or he's not Interested.



Dump Him!

MrCork:




^^^^^see them...enemy of prrrogres...you want her to dumb him so you can move in...abi?...and then you complain you can't find man on nairaland. .GOAT!! (No opfeense)

No offense taken Babe!

Estharfabian:
It's Either he's cheating or he's not Interested.



Dump Him!

chimkaire:
Ma geh

ZeeAfrica:


heheeh thank u. No, its my first account. I came across dis forus a few weeks back wen i was searchin for somethin on de net. I kinda liked it, and have been meaning to join for some days now, bt ddnt have de time

Europija:
.......D thing is that he will tell me some silly excuse but the point is that when he calls me at night we will talk for 1 hour or 2 n he will be very happy talking to me...so i dont think he is losing interess

joshsmarty:
Aiit welcome..

Estharfabian:
Sup Babe?

Europija:
Hello all...My boyfriend started acting strange...I been together with him for 4 years n now he started calling me only at night from midnight n he doesnt pick my call when is day time...N when he calls me at night we will talk for 1 or 2 hours n he will be happy when he talks to me n still talks about future... When i ask him why he doesnt pick my call at day time he will give me some silly excuse like he was sleeping etc..Also he doesn't have a job n we live in different countries...I am thinking maybe he cheating me but why then he not sleeping with that girl at night?If he has woman he would also stay at night with her...right?What could it be??