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Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by donTbone(m): 4:38pm On Jan 25, 2016
joshsmarty:

Ok I'll just ignore this one
*fades
If u like...no ignore, e consine me? undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jan 25, 2016
joshsmarty:

Ok I'll just ignore this one
*fades
pls all stop runing my topic with this ur nonsence talk

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Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jan 25, 2016
Europija:
pls all stop runing my topic with this ur nonsence talk
Sorry. About that
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by johnson232: 4:41pm On Jan 25, 2016
Europija:
......what should i think that he is doing?
have u discussed this recent change in attitude with him?
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jan 25, 2016
johnson232:

have u discussed this recent change in attitude with him?
.......D thing is that he will tell me some silly excuse but the point is that when he calls me at night we will talk for 1 hour or 2 n he will be very happy talking to me...so i dont think he is losing interess
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jan 25, 2016
Europija:
.....But when he calls me at night.he will talk very good with me n laugh n smile...n we will talk like for 1 hour or 2...In his talk it doesnt seem like he looses interest n he still talks about our future

then you have to be careful. people can be very deceptive.

when most people cheat, they become more affectionate and try too hrd to give more time.

However, less time cud mean something else. He's probably too confident that he has you and he doesn't have to stress himself to keep you. I wud advise u on what u cud do, but i dont want to be the reason for somebody's breakup smiley (not saying it will end in that)

Also, it cud mean that there is something or somebody that is occupying his time. Due to that fact that you're not there...this is quite likely. If this is the case, he'll most likely not tell you. But don't assume that it is the case...I may be wrong.

Try to be perceptive. listen and watch out for change in patterns... is he using new slangs or words? (being around new people long enuf makes us adopt slangs that they use). has he stopped calling u a particular pet name?

Just dont conclude...be patient and time will always reveal everything.

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Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jan 25, 2016
Back to your problem sounds serious.. .
How often do you guys see eachother Asin eye not online?
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jan 25, 2016
samted:


then you have to be careful. people can be very deceptive.

when most people cheat, they become more affectionate and try too hrd to give more time.

However, less time cud mean something else. He's probably too confident that he has you and he doesn't have to stress himself to keep you. I wud advise u on what u cud do, but i dont want to be the reason for somebody's breakup smiley (not saying it will end in that)

Also, it cud mean that there is something or somebody that is occupying his time. Due to that fact that you're not there...this is quite likely. If this is the case, he'll most likely not tell you. But don't assume that it is the case...I may be wrong.

Try to be perceptive. listen and watch out for change in patterns... is he using new slangs or words? (being around new people long enuf makes us adopt slangs that they use). has he stopped calling u a particular pet name?

Just dont conclude...be patient and time will always reveal everything.
Ok i understand u and u r right about all and thank u for so long answer n care...he doesnt use new slangs or words and the point is what i wanna ask u is if he started cheating me...How is possible that he is every day with that woman and also if he started living in same home with that woman.then how he calls me at night?
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jan 25, 2016
Europija:
Ok i understand u and u r right about all and thank u for so long answer n care...he doesnt use new slangs or words and the point is what i wanna ask u is if he started cheating me...How is possible that he is every day with that woman and also if he started living in same home with that woman.then how he calls me at night?

I seriously doubt that he's living with a woman (assuming there is one). There's no way he wud have time to call you at night and talk if there's another woman around. except she's a hooker and doesn't give a sh*t. But I doubt that. Since he still talks about a future with you, i'd stick with my first hypothesis. You've probably professed love to him to the extent that he doesn't feel the need to be crazy about you like before.
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jan 25, 2016
samted:


I seriously doubt that he's living with a woman (assuming there is one). There's no way he wud have time to call you at night and talk if there's another woman around. except she's a hooker and doesn't give a sh*t. But I doubt that. Since he still talks about a future with you, i'd stick with my first hypothesis. You've probably professed love to him to the extent that he doesn't feel the need to be crazy about you like before.......Can i get ur contact number?I would like to talk more with u...

Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jan 25, 2016
[quote author=Europija post=42315687][/quote]

send me an email. mr.altairx@gmail.com

i'll email you my number when i get ur mail.
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jan 25, 2016
[quote author=Europija post=42315687][/quote]

hey, that your email? nedaserbia??
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jan 25, 2016
samted:


hey, that your email? nedaserbia??
yesss
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 25, 2016
Europija:
yesss

ok. just sent u an email.
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by ZeeAfrica(f): 5:17pm On Jan 25, 2016
maybe it's cheaper to call at night. Maybe during the day he might be busy hanging with other jobless guys, or maybe looking for work or trying to work on some kind of business or something, or maybe the girl comes during the day and goes home at night. or maybe he lied to u so that u don't ask him for cash, now has a job, so he is not allowed to be on the fone during the day

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Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by calculator123(m): 5:25pm On Jan 25, 2016
Estharfabian:
LoL!grin
knuckle?undecided
Chop Hug jaweh!cheesy
no forget me o lol
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 25, 2016
ZeeAfrica:
maybe it's cheaper to call at night. Maybe during the day he might be busy hanging with other jobless guys, or maybe looking for work or trying to work on some kind of business or something, or maybe the girl comes during the day and goes home at night. or maybe he lied to u so that u don't ask him for cash, now has a job, so he is not allowed to be on the fone during the day

That's alot of maybes...
Just be patient n wait till you meet eachother.. #phyno Ife balaba.abago..whats yours yours..
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by ZeeAfrica(f): 5:44pm On Jan 25, 2016
joshsmarty:


That's alot of maybes...
Just be patient n wait till you meet eachother.. #phyno Ife balaba.abago..whats yours yours..

lol, maybe ooo
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 5:48pm On Jan 25, 2016
ZeeAfrica:


lol, maybe ooo
Welcome to NL.. 2nd account? I'll take it back.. grin
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by ZeeAfrica(f): 5:54pm On Jan 25, 2016
joshsmarty:

Welcome to NL.. 2nd account? I'll take it back.. grin

heheeh thank u. No, its my first account. I came across dis forus a few weeks back wen i was searchin for somethin on de net. I kinda liked it, and have been meaning to join for some days now, bt ddnt have de time
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by MrCork: 5:59pm On Jan 25, 2016
Estharfabian:
It's Either he's cheating or he's not Interested.



Dump Him!undecided





^^^^^see them...enemy of prrrogres...you want her to dumb him so you can move in...abi?...and then you complain you can't find man on nairaland. .GOAT!! (No opfeense) undecided

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Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Estharfabian(f): 6:08pm On Jan 25, 2016
MrCork:




^^^^^see them...enemy of prrrogres...you want her to dumb him so you can move in...abi?...and then you complain you can't find man on nairaland. .GOAT!! (No opfeense) undecided
No offense taken Babe!undecidedgringrin



Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jan 25, 2016
Estharfabian:
It's Either he's cheating or he's not Interested.



Dump Him!undecided


grin grin grin grin grin Ma geh cool cool cool cool cool
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Estharfabian(f): 6:38pm On Jan 25, 2016
chimkaire:
grin grin grin grin grin Ma geh cool cool cool cool cool
coolcoolSup Babe?


Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 25, 2016
ZeeAfrica:


heheeh thank u. No, its my first account. I came across dis forus a few weeks back wen i was searchin for somethin on de net. I kinda liked it, and have been meaning to join for some days now, bt ddnt have de time
Aiit welcome..
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by johnson232: 7:08pm On Jan 25, 2016
Europija:
.......D thing is that he will tell me some silly excuse but the point is that when he calls me at night we will talk for 1 hour or 2 n he will be very happy talking to me...so i dont think he is losing interess
maybe he's getting too use to u.
take a firm line on the issue when next u bring it up and try to be more assertive.
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by NemzySeries(m): 7:30pm On Jan 25, 2016
which kind relationship b dis wey both parties dey act like neighbours instead of lovers?......aw wud u b dating sum1 not close to u?.........mehn as far as I'm concerned u guys are jst ambassadors representing d countries U're both living in
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by ZeeAfrica(f): 7:32pm On Jan 25, 2016
joshsmarty:
Aiit welcome..
tank uuu ddnt know pp wer so nide on dis forum
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by firstking01(m): 7:48pm On Jan 25, 2016
The both of you are surfering from the syndrome of long distance relationship,,,,
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by firstking01(m): 8:14pm On Jan 25, 2016
The both of you are surfering from the syndrome of long distance relationship undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 25, 2016
Estharfabian:
coolcoolSup Babe?


I'm good. You? smiley
Re: My Boyfriend Started Acting Strange...help! by enny4real23(m): 10:18pm On Jan 25, 2016
Europija:
Hello all...My boyfriend started acting strange...I been together with him for 4 years n now he started calling me only at night from midnight n he doesnt pick my call when is day time...N when he calls me at night we will talk for 1 or 2 hours n he will be happy when he talks to me n still talks about future... When i ask him why he doesnt pick my call at day time he will give me some silly excuse like he was sleeping etc..Also he doesn't have a job n we live in different countries...I am thinking maybe he cheating me but why then he not sleeping with that girl at night?If he has woman he would also stay at night with her...right?What could it be??
the probability that he is cheating is very high, a large percentage of men that have been in long distance relationships have cheated at one time or the other. so he might have a side chick, its mostly because of sex, long distance relationships can be a b*tch.

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