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Dirkcoyt:
Young lady, do you know that there are some great men who will be the best husband you can ever think of but still not yield to no sex before marriage with you? Why?

Because you don't know what great men like that have experienced with some ladies, don't stress the virginity too much, have a great guy to deflower you. Make everybit memorable. Not every relationship will end in matrimony.

Life itself is a risk, if you don't risk the virginity, you might have missed a potential great husband who is just love sex not cause he will dump you or not. Life is too short and small to be rigid.

Thanks, for the advice, though I wasn't comfortable with a few sentences you wrote, but you were being honest and I do appreciate that. Life is a risk, you say,well that's true, but keeping my self is a part of the risk, if you decide to look at it from another angle, and that risk am not scared to take, .


Having sex doesn't take away from one, therefore the good qualities in most men who have sex is still imminent.

Kindly allow me to talk about the guys I have met

1) A church brother who asked me out but refused a no_sex relationship, only for me to find out that he was actually engaged to a sister and the wedding was in three months time

2) An innocent looking dude ,who refused as well, but I later discovered that while he was after me, he was also chased everything chaseable and he happened to be a serial womanizer

These are just few of those, but why am writing this?

Well because you spoke about risk, and I believe there are risks on all sides, and over the years I have gotten to realize that no matter the decision you make as a person, there's always a pro and con attached to it.

Thanks @dirkoyt

Ornate1:
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Thanks, for the advice, though I wasn't comfortable with a few sentences you wrote, but you were being honest and I do appreciate that. Life is a risk, you say,well that's true, but keeping my self is a part of the risk, if you decide to look at it from another angle, and that risk am not scared to take, .


Having sex doesn't take away from one, therefore the good qualities in most men who have sex is still imminent.

Kindly allow me to talk about the guys I have met

1) A church brother who asked me out but refused a no_sex relationship, only for me to find out that he was actually engaged to a sister and the wedding was in three months time

2) An innocent looking dude ,who refused as well, but I later discovered that while he was after me, he was also chased everything chaseable and he happened to be a serial womanizer

These are just few of those, but why am writing this?

Well because you spoke about risk, and I believe there are risks on all sides, and over the years I have gotten to realize that no matter the decision you make as a person, there's always a pro and con attached to it.

Thanks @dirkoyt

Well its a good one, but what I meant was, now the only thing you see is every potential suitor is coming for the coochie, which you maybe wrong or right.

If you let go the coochie to a great guy mostly might not lead to something serious but a memorable romp. After deflowering,I think you will be able to look beyond everyman wants you for sex and see the best part of every man. You only think everyone will want sex and leave because you still a virgin.

Don't sweat, there are thousands of responsible men out there that will still want sex before marriage but this doesn't make them less responsible. What if you met someone who waits and you're married and ended up being worst enemies?

The thing is you just want the only person who deflowered you to be you husband,I mean just 1 one must see your nudity, unfortunately we don't always get what we wished for. Experience is learning from where you failed so no harm in trying. It your choice to make madam.

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For me if your character is on the average n not even top notch or exceptional couple with being a Virgin I believe any sensible guy would tag along till marriage. Maybe you should check yourself on why guys tag along only to back out along the line. Don't be naive, you might not be as perfect as you have painted. You do not have to lower you moral standard also. I bliv if you look inwards improve on your character any average guy will give the world for such a gem to be his just for waiting till the big night but note that might not stop him from getting his grove on elsewhere till then. [/quote]


I understand your viewpoints, and no, am not naive.


Since you don't know me, i will be demanding too much of you, if I expect you to believe my character is on point, so I understand.


I didn't want to bore you all, by writing an epistle ,hence my reason for hitting the nail straight on the head, but I've had men that played along with me. Will mention a few,

Someone once said he had no problem with it, but he ended up sleeping with my friend, as usual the devil took all the blame.

Another accepted too,and I felt at ease because I trusted him, but he eventually had a go at it with a sex worker. I saw the lab reports, he had std, so he confessed by saying the CD broke.

Thanks a bunch

My Sister from your thread I can see that you have been approached by men only because of sex and nothing else. I want you to know that any man that cannot accept your terms in any relationship is not worth being with. You are special in your own way and need to do things the way you seem right. So I do not want you to be unhappy or disappointed with yourself because of that rather focus more on other things that will be of benefit to you.

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Well its a good one, but what I meant was, now the only thing you see is every potential suitor is coming for the coochie, which you maybe wrong or right.

If you let go the coochie to a great guy mostly might not lead to something serious but a memorable romp. After deflowering,I think you will be able to look beyond everyman wants you for sex and see the best part of every man. You only think everyone will want sex and leave because you still a virgin.

Don't sweat, there are thousands of responsible men out there that will still want sex before marriage but this doesn't make them less responsible. What if you met someone who waits and you're married and ended up being worst enemies?


Hmmmm, you are making sense, i must say, yes waiting till marriage might not guarantee a lasting marriage, but if at people behold waited became enemies, the reason could also be due to other underlying issues .

If and when I meet someone who's ready to wait till we tie the knot, I am sure we're going to have a lasting and blissful marriage, not because we waited but because Christ happened be our bedrock, and besides I won't be marrying him alone based on the fact that he agreed to wait, knowing fully well there are other important qualities a future husband must possess.

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boxer022:
My Sister from your thread I can see that you have been approached by men only because of sex and nothing else. I want you to know that any man that cannot accept your terms in any relationship is not worth being with. You are special in your own way and need to do things the way you seem right. So I do not want you to be unhappy or disappointed with yourself because of that rather focus more on other things that will be of benefit to you.

Awwww, thanks

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Well you know what is best for you.

@Ornate1

Ok girl, you're sounding like you been there...you have seen all there is to see in terms of guys. But the truth is you seem to attracting the Same type of guys..Scumbags !

I don't want you to make a generalization that all men are scumbags. Many guys will put up with a no sex rule long enough to marry you, if u got the qualities of a good woman, like a certain 'Steve' guy said earlier.

You really got to examine yourself and the kind of signals you're sending out. My elders say an open wound attracts many flies.

Next, from they way you write, you appear to be a female who looks down on guys in general. That attitude alone unconsciously drives really nice guys away, so again I say Examine yourself.


You seem pretty attractive, send me a pix. Maybe all you need is man that truly understands you and ready to work out your issues with you. That could be me, you know ?!!

Ornate1:
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Awwww, thanks

You are most welcome.

I think it's like when you misplace something,you always have the feeling it's somewhere you can see but not looking. You just have to start looking at the right places

My sister do u mind if i can get to know u more. Here is my number 08139091035

Ornate1:
Now this is my challenge, guys comes after me in droves but yet leave the same way as they come, simply because I refuse to put out..

what advice are you looking for?

personally, i dont know any virgin who would use this kind of expression, "put out".

i could be wrong sha.

some even hang around, hoping I would change my mind but leaves when they realise they won't be getting any.

another ogbontira non-virgin expression.

tpiar:


what advice are you looking for?

personally, i dont know any virgin who would use this kind of expression, "put out".

i could be wrong sha.

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Of course, you are

It's okay though, if you don't have any advice to give. So far, others have, and others still will, and I appreciate them all.

However, if at all you change your mind to say uplifting words of encouragement to a sister, I will appreciate that too ,for every positive opinion counts.

Thanks@tpiar

tpiar:


another ogbontira non-virgin expression.

Lol@the ogbontira


Forgive me, but i had no idea I was using non-virgin expressions (if at all there's anything like that though).

Hello my dear sis. I was in your same situation, lost my virginity to a man, then we got serious, or so I thought, I got pregnant (i was happy about it) and now we're not together anymore... The baby is 3 months and a half.

Keep your virginity until you get married. If you date a real Christian, the guy should have the same beliefs as you do. Mmm if you want to, we can talk through whatsapp.

Don't give ur virginity to any stupid guys, i beg you.

The guys thatl run away thinks you are using your virginity as Bargaining chip. Like you want to trap them.

Besides how will they even know you are really a virgin if they even choose to tag along? If he marries you and you are not nko? You see my point?

It's ok to keep your virginity till the rapture time but it doesn't change or guarantee bliss in marriage.. I strongly believe an experienced lady will have more bliss than a novice..

When a woman thinks her whole world is in between her leg.

Then after marriage and loss of virginity to your husband then what?

When he gets tired (he will)of that which you presently think is your/the only strong point (like @skyfullofstars just narrated)nko?

Most women prefer Disneyland to reality...

You think keeping your virginity till marriage determines the outcome of the/any marriage? And the dude you are getting married to kept his virginity too...just to marry you...

How are you even gonna attend to his needs when you are inexperienced... I guess he will get it elsewhere...

How has marrying a virgin stopped a Muslim from marrying another wife? Or couples becoming total strangers after months of marriage...

You must think only virginity is all men want..

Turn away from delusion and self deceit for your long term happiness.

Sorry if my opinions hit some nerves on here.

gsalvatore:

You must think only virginity is all men want..

My point exactly.

Is marriage all about virginity which is the very first things to expire in a marriage and abruptly ends with just one thrust ?

If yes, then we wouldn't have as many divorce cases as we do now.

I doubt most, of these husbands even remember the virginity after a few weeks

Men Need so many things in a marriage: good food, good sex, good conversation, companionship, silence when needed etc Virginity will not guarantee a woman's ability to make those things happen in a marriage.

If I were the OP I would just see myself as a woman, period. Get to work on myself, improve myself, get closer to God (not because you're a virgin) make myself marriageable material for 'Mr right' (whatever that means)..

gsalvatore:
When a woman thinks her whole world is in between her leg.

Then after marriage and loss of virginity to your husband then what?

When he gets tired (he will)of that which you presently think is your/the only strong point (like @skyfullofstars just narrated)nko?

Most women prefer Disneyland to reality...

You think keeping your virginity till marriage determines the outcome of the/any marriage? And the dude you are getting married to kept his virginity too...just to marry you...

How are you even gonna attend to his needs when you are inexperienced... I guess he will get it elsewhere...

How has marrying a virgin stopped a Muslim from marrying another wife? Or couples becoming total strangers after months of marriage...

You must think only virginity is all men want..

Turn away from delusion and self deceit for your long term happiness.

Sorry if my opinions hit some nerves on here.

You don't get it... I'm not saying that virginity is all that men want. I'm telling her that: don't sleep with just any man, because after you sleep with him, he will leave you for another woman and so on, because he's only looking for "fun", nothing serious at all. And for women, we're not interested in a one night stand, unless the woman wants something such as money. But if the woman is looking for genuine love, one night of "sleeping together" doesn't give you love, at all. Even now that I'm not a virgin anymore, I don't wanna sleep with random men, the satisfaction will last only 10 minutes, and then I will be left empty.

Our bodies also come with a soul, we're not mere bodies/objects.

I could go on and on...

If you wanna discuss something else, quote me again, and I will gladly respond.

gsalvatore:
When a woman thinks her whole world is in between her leg.

Then after marriage and loss of virginity to your husband then what?

When he gets tired (he will)of that which you presently think is your/the only strong point (like @skyfullofstars just narrated)nko?

Most women prefer Disneyland to reality...

You think keeping your virginity till marriage determines the outcome of the/any marriage? And the dude you are getting married to kept his virginity too...just to marry you...

How are you even gonna attend to his needs when you are inexperienced... I guess he will get it elsewhere...

How has marrying a virgin stopped a Muslim from marrying another wife? Or couples becoming total strangers after months of marriage...

You must think only virginity is all men want..

Turn away from delusion and self deceit for your long term happiness.

Sorry if my opinions hit some nerves on here.

By the way, if all there's left to do in this world, is sleep with random people, I'd rather not sleep with anyone, because that's not what I want. I'd rather remain single...

Ornate1:
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Of course, you are

It's okay though, if you don't have any advice to give. So far, others have, and others still will, and I appreciate them all.

However, if at all you change your mind to say uplifting words of encouragement to a sister, I will appreciate that too ,for every positive opinion counts.

Thanks@tpiar

You're welcome.


There are too many "say a word of encouragement" threads all opened around the same time as this one, so I'll just be an observer until I know where you folks are going with this.

Kudos.

I can't give you much advise because I personally can't date someone I can't have sex with



That said, your type will finally come for you one day. But when he comes, will you match his expectation of a wife? Being a virgin is not the beginning and the end, what other things do you have to offer besides virgin?



I Don talk my own oo

Ornate1:
Hello my fellow nairalanders, have been a guest on this forum for a few years now. Over the years, have watched you guys save broken marriages, wavering relationships almost on the verge of collapse, and die-hard friendship being torn apart, with sound advices(a bith harsh, but always true) sometimes coupled with a little bit of sarcasm, which makes me laugh at times with tears rolling down my cheeks that I mostly end up holding my stomach so my tummy won't rip out from too much laughter.
I am a young lady in my mid-twenties, and am a virgin( based on biblical conviction and my own personal belief aside religion). Now this is my challenge, guys comes after me in droves but yet leave the same way as they come, simply because I refuse to put out. I know virginity is not the be all, but I just can't bring myself to sleep with someone who's not mine in all respect(in God's eyes and before the whole world at large). I know you all tired of virginity threads, but please I am so unhappy right now, am just confused as to why most men just leave without getting to know the real me. Why can't they have a healthy and trusting relationship with me void of sex? Help a sister ,advice anything. Because am so sad right now,and I am not in a relationship because of this ,some even hang around, hoping I would change my mind but leaves when they realise they won't be getting any.

why do u need a relationship when u are not ready to indulge in what comes with relationship with the opposite sex? Is there anywhere Bible said u must have a boyfriend

If u know u aren't ready to give what relationship demands, then forget about keeping a boyfriend and face your life alone!

If I may ask, what will u give to the guy u will be dating in exchange for his gifts, calls, pampering, etc? I am sure nothing but forming his girlfriend with rules and laws!

Why are women so selfish and wicked? U want to collect but u don't want to give!

It is simple, avoid relationship and pray for your husband to come soon.

Any guy that tells u that he will date u, stay committed to u, be assisting u, calling u happily as his girlfriend and not expect or demand sex from u is a big liar! He will only pretend while having sex with some other girls behind u and fooling u with sweet words of how he doesn't care about sex.

Any guy ready to accept no sex relationship won't need a girlfriend in the first place....so to say, such guys don't date!

You too shouldn't date! Stay on your own if u truly want to please God!

Ever since I decided not to indulge in sex outside marriage, I don't keep girlfriends....i don't woo girls....i stay on my own....i don't expect any girl to call me, text me, buy me gift or worry me...I am facing my life alone.

But u ladies want to have a boyfriend that will be spending on u, giving u money, taking u out, calling u always, doing this and that for u and at the end u don't give him anything in return, why? Is he your brother? Is he your father? Is he your cousin? Why must he be spending on u and not expect anything in return? What if after wasting his time and resources on u and u decide to leave him to marry another man, what will be his consolation?


The problem is it seems most ladies are selfish and greedy; they only think about what they want and don't care about what the man in their life want. Selfishness and greed are big sins too....flee from them. be yourself and stop dating if u want to be a true virgin in the sight of God.

What else do u have to offer to a man that will date u? Can u spend on him? Can u buy him a car? Can u even buy him clothes, shoes? Can u take him out, pay and not grumble? What do u have to offer this man that will date u and not ask u for sex? Do u think being a virgin is all men want from a wife? Then think again

ourchoice:
why do u need a relationship when u are not ready to indulge in what comes with relationship with the opposite sex? Is there anywhere Bible said u must have a boyfriend

If u know u aren't ready to give what relationship demands, then forget about keeping a boyfriend and face your life alone!

If I may ask, what will u give to the guy u will be dating in exchange for his gifts, calls, pampering, etc? I am sure nothing but forming his girlfriend with rules and laws!

Why are women so selfish and wicked? U want to collect but u don't want to give!

It is simple, avoid relationship and pray for your husband to come soon.

Any guy that tells u that he will date u, stay committed to u, be assisting u, calling u happily as his girlfriend and not expect or demand sex from u is a big liar! He will only pretend while having sex with some other girls behind u and fooling u with sweet words of how he doesn't care about sex.

Any guy ready to accept no sex relationship won't need a girlfriend in the first place....so to say, such guys don't date!

You too shouldn't date! Stay on your own if u truly want to please God!

Ever since I decided not to indulge in sex outside marriage, I don't keep girlfriends....i don't woo girls....i stay on my own....i don't expect any girl to call me, text me, buy me gift or worry me...I am facing my life alone.

But u ladies want to have a boyfriend that will be spending on u, giving u money, taking u out, calling u always, doing this and that for u and at the end u don't give him anything in return, why? Is he your brother? Is he your father? Is he your cousin? Why must he be spending on u and not expect anything in return? What if after wasting his time and resources on u and u decide to leave him to marry another man, what will be his consolation?


The problem is it seems most ladies are selfish and greedy; they only think about what they want and don't care about what the man in their life want. Selfishness and greed are big sins too....flee from them. be yourself and stop dating if u want to be a true virgin in the sight of God.

What else do u have to offer to a man that will date u? Can u spend on him? Can u buy him a car? Can u even buy him clothes, shoes? Can u take him out, pay and not grumble? What do u have to offer this man that will date u and not ask u for sex? Do u think being a virgin is all men want from a wife? Then think again

Yeah most of these our sisters are just greedy they want the best of all worlds on a platter of gold.

Your advice is golden. Let her keep away from guys since all they want is sex and pray for a husband to arrive by dhl express.
They come to forums and cry guys this guys that, but little do they know what certain guys like yourself are going thru. I know a guy just like you no gf, no one night stands, he's not expecting anything from these girls till he gets married.

Why can't these girls do the same and let us have some peace ?

skyfullofstars:


You don't get it... I'm not saying that virginity is all that men want. I'm telling her that: don't sleep with just any man, because after you sleep with him, he will leave you for another woman and so on, because he's only looking for "fun", nothing serious at all. And for women, we're not interested in a one night stand, unless the woman wants something such as money. But if the woman is looking for genuine love, one night of "sleeping together" doesn't give you love, at all. Even now that I'm not a virgin anymore, I don't wanna sleep with random men, the satisfaction will last only 10 minutes, and then I will be left empty.

Our bodies also come with a soul, we're not mere bodies/objects.

I could go on and on...

If you wanna discuss something else, quote me again, and I will gladly respond.

nobody is talking about sleeping with random men here. You didn't sleep with random men and things didn't still pan out as you have wanted. Sleeping with nobody before marriage and sleeping with everybody doesn't guarantee anything.

Do you even know she may sleep with one of those men and still be happily married by now.. And how will she even know one of those guys wont marry her? Or are you saying there are no non-virgins getting married Or happily married?

When women dangle virginity as a form of trophy or Bargaining chip like "marry me if you want sex" then something is wrong...it even reeks shallowness and insecurity,hypocrisy.
If a man is ready to marry and see who he wants to settle down with, believe me he knows.. You don't wanna give him those terms..

Most old virgins are myopic all they have is their virginity which guarantees fvck all.

gsalvatore:
nobody is talking about sleeping with random men here. You didn't sleep with random men and things didn't still pan out as you have wanted. Sleeping with nobody before marriage and sleeping with everybody doesn't guarantee anything.

Do you even know she may sleep with one of those men and still be happily married by now.. And how will she even know one of those guys wont marry her? Or are you saying there are no non-virgins getting married Or happily married?

When women dangle virginity as a form of trophy or Bargaining chip like "marry me if you want sex" then something is wrong...it even reeks shallowness and insecurity,hypocrisy.
If a man is ready to marry and see who he wants to settle down with, believe me he knows.. You don't wanna give him those terms..

Most old virgins are myopic all they have is their virginity which guarantees fvck all.

Well... Listen. I don't agree with you, yet I respect your own opinion.

I believe that sleeping with a man or woman has emotional implications, it's not simply physical, it's much more than that. We're not animals, we're human beings with feelings, and we feel at all times. Sleeping with a person is something very intimate.

I wouldn't like to sleep with a man one night, so that tomorrow he forgets about me...

Sex leads to getting pregnant and bringing children to the world, that's its biological purposes and should be done within marriage to procreate.

skyfullofstars:


Well... Listen. I don't agree with you, yet I respect your own opinion.

I believe that sleeping with a man or woman has emotional implications, it's not simply physical, it's much more than that. We're not animals, we're human beings with feelings, and we feel at all times. Sleeping with a person is something very intimate.

I wouldn't like to sleep with a man one night, so that tomorrow he forgets about me...

Sex leads to getting pregnant and bringing children to the world, that's its biological purposes and should be done within marriage to procreate.

I see your opinion has made you blind you don't seem to grasp my point.. You are going off reservation.
Nobody said the @op should sleep with all men that comes her way as you have clearing think that's the point I was making.

I could go on making the same point still won't get the message across.

NB: unprotected sex leads to pregnancy. Family planning is not rocket science. The thread is not about making babies and random sex...you view it that way that's why you clearly didn't get my point.

Ciao!

[quote author=ourchoice post=42335669]why do u need a relationship when u are not ready to indulge in what comes with relationship with the opposite sex? Is there anywhere Bible said u must have a boyfriend

If u know u aren't ready to give what relationship demands, then forget about keeping a boyfriend and face your life alone!

If I may ask, what will u give to the guy u will be dating in exchange for his gifts, calls, pampering, etc? I am sure nothing but forming his girlfriend with rules and laws!

Why are women so selfish and wicked? U want to collect but u don't want to give!

It is simple, avoid relationship and pray for your husband to come soon.

Any guy that tells u that he will date u, stay committed to u, be assisting u, calling u happily as his girlfriend and not expect or demand sex from u is a big liar! He will only pretend while having sex with some other girls behind u and fooling u with sweet words of how he doesn't care about sex.

Any guy ready to accept no sex relationship won't need a girlfriend in the first place....so to say, such guys don't date!

You too shouldn't date! Stay on your own if u truly want to please God!

Ever since I decided not to indulge in sex outside marriage, I don't keep girlfriends....i don't woo girls....i stay on my own....i don't expect any girl to call me, text me, buy me gift or worry me...I am facing my life alone.

But u ladies want to have a boyfriend that will be spending on u, giving u money, taking u out, calling u always, doing this and that for u and at the end u don't give him anything in return, why? Is he your brother? Is he your father? Is he your cousin? Why must he be spending on u and not expect anything in return? What if after wasting his time and resources on u and u decide to leave him to marry another man, what will be his consolation?


The problem is it seems most ladies are selfish and greedy; they only think about what they want and don't care about what the man in their life want. Selfishness and greed are big sins too....flee from them. be yourself and stop dating if u want to be a true virgin in the sight of God.



Well, there's really no need for the harsh undertones, alright? constructive criticism is always the best. That aside,

1) Now, the bible may have never spoken about dating, however, I won't be wrong if I tell you it existed, in the christain world, we call it courtship.

Jacob courted (or dated) racheal for seven years before marriage. Gen 29,18-30, though it wasn't that rampant then, However that's one example for you.

Your over-emphasis on the word "live your life alone" is not needed.

You avoid relationships because you don't want to have sex, well there's something called self control, i believe.

Instead of staying alone, it's always best to be on the lookout for someone who has the same beliefs as you, just as most nairalanders has already said ( unfortunately they are few) so this where your "pray for your own husband to come soon" comes into play, and thanks for this part though, am already doing that. Mind you when he comes, he is still going to be a tagged boyfriend first in this our 21st century society(since that's what they calls a man you are in a relationship with) before he becomes a husband.

"You ladies" why generalizing, huh?

I always took my exes out on their birthdays, bought gifts every now and then too, and whenever we eat out, we always go dutch, and never was it a one-sided relationship. This is just who I am as a person ,I always make it a habit to reciprocate whatever favors I get , when dealing with people in general. I know there's no free thing in Freetown and people will always expect a payback for every good deed rendered.

Can I buy him clothes?, can I buy him a car?, can I give him some money?,. Really?, the same materialism you feel the female gender exudes, is exactly the same thing you are vying for.

What about you say, can I help him to build his dream?, can I help me to achieve his goals?, can I be there for him in time of lack?, support him?, pray for him?, encourage and motivate him?, I think this sounds better.

There more to a guy than what he gives, and more to a lady, than her body she's expected to offer as compensation, and if they don't see that , their loss.

Have a good day

[q[color=#000099]uote author=gsalvatore post=42315907]When a woman thinks her whole world is in between her leg.

Then after marriage and loss of virginity to your husband then what?

When he gets tired (he will)of that which you presently think is your/the only strong point (like @skyfullofstars just narrated)nko?

Most women prefer Disneyland to reality...

You think keeping your virginity till marriage determines the outcome of the/any marriage? And the dude you are getting married to kept his virginity too...just to marry you...

How are you even gonna attend to his needs when you are inexperienced... I guess he will get it elsewhere...

How has marrying a virgin stopped a Muslim from marrying another wife? Or couples becoming total strangers after months of marriage...

You must think only virginity is all men want..

Turn away from delusion and self deceit for your long term happiness.

Sorry if my opinions hit some nerves on here.[/quote]
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It's okay, it takes more than that to get me upset .

I've given replies to comments similar to yours, you might want to check it up,when you are less busy, of course.

Thanks

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skyfullofstars:
Hello my dear sis. I was in your same situation, lost my virginity to a man, then we got serious, or so I thought, I got pregnant (i was happy about it) and now we're not together anymore... The baby is 3 months and a half.

Keep your virginity until you get married. If you date a real Christian, the guy should have the same beliefs as you do. Mmm if you want to, we can talk through whatsapp.

Don't give ur virginity to any stupid guys, i beg you.

Oh, am so sorry, it didn't workout and please be strong for your baby. It's well, as per the whatsapp contact, I will send you a mail.