Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,152,800 members, 7,817,310 topics. Date: Saturday, 04 May 2024 at 09:58 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? (7530 Views)
I Am Tired Of Waiting, Please Help A Sister. / I'm So Sad Right Now | My Girlfriend Threatened To End Our Relationship. / My Mom Just Caught Me Mas+urbating(so Sad) (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by Stephanie22: 1:27pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
Please we need to talk. It gonna help you. |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by ourchoice(m): 4:08pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
Ornate1:My sister, I adore your stand on this and the way u took out time to address all my initial points. As for the Jacob and Racheal issue, they didn't court per se, Jacob was a servant to Rachels father; Laban...he fell in love with her while serving her father, so it's not courting. Jacob only wanted to serve Laban in exchange for his daughter, Rachel. Meanwhile, if truly u can help a man achieve his life's dreams, goals, and u do all the things u mentioned without just turning the guy a spending maga....without demanding and expecting the guy to buy this, buy u that, take u here, take u there....then u can find a man that will be your male friend without asking u for sex. But if u want a full time boyfriend that will be spending on u, buying u gifts, sponsoring dates, and all that comes with full dating, then be ready to offer him sex in return or else, it won't be possible to find such man. I know many guys come online to lie and form they can cope in no sex relationship and still claim to love, care and stay faithful to u...pls don't be fooled by those guys...face reality my sister...any mature, sexually active guy ready to have a girlfriend will never agree to no sex till marriage, unless u are just his side chick and he has some other girl(s) satisfying his intimate needs without your knowledge. You are a lady and not a guy, guys have a libido higher than that of average lady out there...so be real and use your wisdom. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by mimopel(f): 4:33pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
Miriam19: nice name tho |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by mimopel(f): 4:35pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
why do i feel like you shouldnt have brought this to the public just keep urself...GOD hardly fails virgins talking from experience |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by ourchoice(m): 4:56pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
mimopel:There are no real virgins above 19yrs in the world Which virgin? The so-called virgin that kiss, romance, su*ck, engage in oral se*x, engage in anal s*ex, handle, mastur*bate and just preserve her hymen to deceive gullible-men who still crave to marry fake virgin with rotten heart and soul. God alone knows the true virgins and true virgins don't date or keep boyfriend...go to Deeper Life.... |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by mimopel(f): 5:09pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
ourchoice: #smiles#...reason am not offended is because u are not exposed.....i dont cum to talk abt my sexual purity or promoscuity on public forums but i would hav used myself to clear ur doubt, who says there are no virgins who havnt involve in any form of sexual activity, have even seen 3 laides they are even in their late twenties so wat are we saying here. virginity is not abt church it about personality and beliefs....people go into sex by blood or by infleuence...one can have a strong christian foundation and spiritual support nd decides to to taunt their destinies for two minutes pleasure. dey can remain virgins even @ 25?....besides sex is not worth the hype and stress. there are so many other things in life we are meant to channel our energy to, the gospel. GOD"s work, ministry, visions, talent and not SEX!! for crying out loud. nobody have sex for one day stretch....because wat good fruit has pre marital sex brought to our society. get busy man with other tinz |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by ourchoice(m): 5:23pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
mimopel:agreed! So tell me y u need a boyfriend? Why do u need a boyfriend when u can channel the energy into the things u mentioned? You need boyfriend to foot your bills for free right? Isn't that selfishness and sin? As far as I am concerned, there are no Godly virgin above 18yrs....only God knows the true virgins....i don't believe in virgins because it's a scam Ladies that call themselves virgin do worse than non-virgins; we don't need to argue it...you know yourself...its between u and your God, don't convince me because I don't believe there are true virgins. if u are, God alone knows and will reward u...if u are not, it's bw u and your God and conscience, don't sweat it sis 1 Like |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by missyQween(f): 5:26pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
You man is coming dear....Keep the faith nd don't fall to temptation |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by mimopel(f): 5:38pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
ourchoice: no more arguement abt virgin or non virgin thing...but one question for u bro...why do u need a wife?? |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by drealzum(m): 5:49pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
What kind of virgin are you? The biological one that still has her hymen intact or the bible own that have not thought of dirty thing? Any way but if you can't abstain then marry. There are ladies of your age who are married. That's the wisest counsel I can give. There are many ladies of your age like you who are virgin and are still facing same temptation. some will fall and some will overcome but only you can decide your fate. I as a person to be sincere with you will love to marry a virgin girl. |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by ourchoice(m): 6:06pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
mimopel:1. For procreation 2. For companionship if she's willing to be a good companion Meanwhile, wife is different from girlfriend....and boyfriend is different from husband. |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by mimopel(f): 6:20pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
ourchoice: dont stess ur ans jst ans straight up. how do u get the wife |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by ourchoice(m): 6:32pm On Jan 27, 2016 |
mimopel:God will decide! 1 Like |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by domwas2(m): 12:15am On Jan 28, 2016 |
Dating is not advisable for Born Again Bible Believing Christians; it only leads to sin, which dishonors God, then God doesn’t bless the union. This ends up causing long term issues in the marriage by blurring the lines between lust and love. Once lust and the physical aspect has already been introduced in the relationship, the waters are muddied and both parties cannot see or think clearly. This is also a warning sign that the relationship is not God ordained. If only one of you is ready to get married, then you are incompatible and shouldn’t date. This also turns into recreational dating for the one who isn’t ready to marry and a big waste of time for the one who is ready to marry. When an individual is ready for marriage after spending quality time with God in worship, sanctification, and service, nothing pleases Him more than to bring a suitable mate for that individual in the covenant of Marriage. |
Re: Please Help A Sister, Am So Sad Right Now ? by jashar(f): 8:27pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
Who brought me back here? OP, how far na? |
Nigerian Girls Can You Take A Bullet For Your Boyfriend? / ‘my Wife Is Mentally Ill, But I Didnt Know Till After Marriage’ / besty_)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 69 |