MY TWIN SISTER'S CONFESSION
We both got talking freely as usual when she started complaining to me about her unsatisfying sexual life. Then, i ask if the husband was aware? She replied No, because she didn't want to appear too loose and she equally didn't want to hurt his feelings, etc. Stylishly, i asked the husband about his sexual life. His response confirm what my sister already told me. He complained of my sister's non-interest for sex, etc. Well as, the revise was the case, if only he could give her quality sex.

THE LESSON TO LEARN FROM THE CONFESSION
My observations reveal that the above case study is equally happening in so many marriages/relationship out there. The women are secretly complaining of unsatisfactory sex, while the men are ignorantly believing that the women are sexually starving them.

CLOSE STUDY OF THE SEXUAL CONFIGURATION OF THE MALE AND FEMALE DURING SEX
The woman's sexual response is likened to the OVEN, which takes gradual process to get fully hot.
Why the man's sexual response is likened to BLOWTORCH, that get hot almost immediately. This shows why most men get sexual satisfaction (come) quicker than most women. The same reason why most men who careless of their spouse's sexual satisfaction make unknown mistakes, according to the case study. So, lasting long enough for her to climax is the key. Because, when a woman starts noticing you are always unable to satisfy her. She does two things: Avoid sex with you, in other to kill/reduce her sexual life or she starts cheating on you with another man/self-service.

DOWNPLAYING THE IMPORTANCE OF SEX
Sex has been one of the most important unifying factor in marriage/relationship. Research has even shown that sex helps to bond spouse. Nevertheless, because of sexual incompatibility among spouse, its importance has been often downplayed by many men. Thereby, creating room for their spouse to misbehave.

ORGASM EFFECT
Having sex is no doubt a necessity for a better, happier and a loving union. But for her to orgasm is an unexplainable experience that places you in her heart of heart. Research reveals that very few women throughout their sexual active life experience orgasm. And that the men who make it happen are always bonded to the woman because of the Oxytocin that is release during the act. It also shown that it takes most women an average of 15 minutes to climax/orgasm during sex.

So, men take the sexual satisfaction of your spouse very seriously. Work on your sexual life to be a better spouse to her. Note: She loves/wants sex as much as you do, but it must be a quality and satisfying one.

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thats so true, but you can't really satisfy a woman in bed, the more you delay orgasm, the more sex she want. you can delay orgasm for 50min yet she will still tell you she is not satisfied. despite her having multiple orgasm until she gets dry, which you can feel.

Some that have been circumcised don't know what orgasm is talk more of experiencing it.

hmm.. as he tried ANal?

ironheart:
thats so true, but you can't really satisfy a woman in bed, the more you delay orgasm, the more sex she want. you can delay orgasm for 50min yet she will still tell you she is not satisfied. despite her having multiple orgasm until she gets dry, which you can feel.

If your woman gets dry, that is because she is not feeling your love making. Many men think sex is just humping up and down in their women for hours. Lubrication occurs when a woman is sexually aroused. Any time your woman dries up, it should be a reminder for you that you are doing a bad job of it. Don't be deceived, women can fake orgasms too. So she prolly was faking it so you do not say she takes long to do so.
The fact that in naija, women esp the married ones are looked with corner eye should they show their sexual prefferences or dissapointments doesn't help matter.

ironheart:
thats so true, but you can't really satisfy a woman in bed, the more you delay orgasm, the more sex she want. you can delay orgasm for 50min yet she will still tell you she is not satisfied. despite her having multiple orgasm until she gets dry, which you can feel.

True talk! D longer u hold, d more she wants. Though, how do u know she's had multiple orgasm? U dey clairvoyant?

some men are just selfish ,they jump in and jump out immediately they release not caring if the woman has orgasmed .BUNCH OF LAZY FELLOWS

delishpot:


If your woman gets dry, that is because she is not feeling your love making. Many men think sex is just humping up and down in their women for hours. Lubrication occurs when a woman is sexually aroused. Any time your woman dries up, it should be a reminder for you that you are doing a bad job of it. Don't be deceived, women can take orgasms too. So she prolly was faking it so you do not say she takes long to do so.
The fact that in naija, women esp the married ones are looked with corner eye should they show their sexual prefferences or dissapointments doesn't help matter.

I kind of agree with you, must men get it all wrong when it comes to love making, thinking it is just about Penetration. Yes, good Penetration (lasting long) can't be downplay. However, understanding the sexual desire of a woman to spice your love making is key.
Sure, most women are equally not really helping things. However, they often expect you to do the research and discover yourself.

Conclusion: a lot of spouse needs counseling. My organisation can offer that online or offline. Thanks

delishpot:


The fact that in naija, women esp the married ones are looked with corner eye should they show their sexual prefferences or dissapointments doesn't help matter.

so true, we just dey carry too much church church dey spoil something.

another is the fact that her mind may be on other things, does he find me attractive? is my body okay? am I tight for him? I get odour? that kind thing go just remove your mind from the issue at hand, while the guy get 101% concentration for the matter.

cruzita:
some men are just selfish ,they jump in and jump out immediately they release not caring if the woman has orgasmed .BUNCH OF LAZY FELLOWS

Laugh, Sist. take it easy on men oh! All they need to do wonders is help/counseling. Our research carried out recently shows that most men in this category are even ignorant of it, and those that are aware, don't know how to get help.

talktonase:
Some that have been circumcised don't know what orgasm is talk more of experiencing it.

Spicing love making is key, discover what works for her. No doubt circumcision has its effect.

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thanks, I be learnt something.

Guy when did you turn to a counselor?

I pity women for the following reasons

A husband with very small dic
A husband with big dic buh dunno how2useit
A very lazy husband that comes after 3 minutes

If you happen to marry one of these men I salute you.

Please never cheat,just endure..

The problem is, how do we make our wives reach climax?

xage:
I pity women for the following reasons

A husband with very small dic
A husband with big dic buh dunno how2useit
A very lazy husband that comes after 3 minutes

If you happen to marry one of these men I salute you.

Please never cheat,just endure..

Hmm! Anyway, it is not a total hopeless situation. What is needed is getting the right information to solve the challenges. Instead of enduring, the women should research for solutions. Here is my reasons: www.nairaland.com/2884787/what-need-cure-premature-expulsion

all these children talking about sex....hian

trump was right about blacks

whats happening to the OPs twin is becuas she had lots of sexual partners and now its making the man look grossly incompetent

anyway sex remains for the married

are u selling a kind of supplement for PE or jst into only counselling

whoever isnt satisfied with my little 2 seconds can get satisfaction elsewhere, I have inventions to discover and have no fuccking time for emotional shit.

Maruf05:
are u selling a kind of supplement for PE or jst into only counselling

Not only counseling. We equally have products to cure any Sexual or Erectile Dysfunction. Click for details: www.nairaland.com/2852801/top-secret-make-stick-love#41799881

Fact is most women climax during romance and caressing than during penetration

when I was a kid I used that sex was not meant for good people only the bad ones.

Nigeria needs to improve on sex education!

delishpot:


If your woman gets dry, that is because she is not feeling your love making. Many men think sex is just humping up and down in their women for hours. Lubrication occurs when a woman is sexually aroused. Any time your woman dries up, it should be a reminder for you that you are doing a bad job of it. Don't be deceived, women can fake orgasms too. So she prolly was faking it so you do not say she takes long to do so.
The fact that in naija, women esp the married ones are looked with corner eye should they show their sexual prefferences or dissapointments doesn't help matter.

but y be with someone who wuld look down on u wen u show ur preference and desires? i will neva undastand d rationale behind dat.

I think women needs to take dere destiny in dere own hands by rili voicing out wat they want and enjoy during d act. men are nt holyspirit dat know all things.
it is a mutual thing, d enjoyment and burden thereof shldn't be one-sided.

shegxi:
I think women needs to take dere destiny in dere own hands by rili voicing out wat they want and enjoy during d act. men are nt holyspirit dat know all things.
it is a mutual thing, d enjoyment and burden thereof shldn't be one-sided.

True, but most of them would rather see it as "hide and seek" game.

Mprepz:
when I was a kid I used that sex was not meant for good people only the bad ones.

Nigeria needs to improve on sex education!

Sure, a lot still needs to be done to reconfigure the mindset

Passing by...

Sex sex sex... it never gets old.

ashjay001:


True talk! D longer u hold, d more she wants. Though, how do u know she's had multiple orgasm? U dey clairvoyant?

try to b more attentive next time, you definitely will know