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She's Ruining Me! by Slimzjoe(m): 6:52pm On Feb 03, 2016

I broke up with this Girl Few Weeks Ago and she Spent the whole of that Day Shouting and Insulting me on the Phone. I thought it was All going to end that Day if she Poured Everything in her and kept Quiet While she Raved on but Unfortunately for me, Things have taken a Worst Turn.
She's a Member of my Choir while I'm the Asst.Choir Director and For the Past Few Weeks, she's been Trying to Frustrate me by Getting on my Nerves Regularly,Insulting and Deliberately Disobeying me. Today I was the Topic of Discussion in her Clique and She Stepped up her Game By Making sure she Dropped Rude Remarks whenever I Make any Statement or Contribution.

Mehn....Am Tired already angry I don't know what I did To this Girl that's Warranting All these.....I can't Quit the Choir Cos of A single Entity.

Ladies abeg, what exactly does she Want and What do I do To make all these Stop

Guys Ejoor,Biko How do you go about Situations Like this cos I don Weak Already
cry

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Elosky20: 6:54pm On Feb 03, 2016
text STOP to 131

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Nobody: 6:58pm On Feb 03, 2016
in 10 years time will all this matter? You're just embarrassing yourselves

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by DarryOsh(m): 6:58pm On Feb 03, 2016
Of course she's hurt. Maybe you've been a jerk. Maybe not.

She'll soon be over you and you'll probably create a thread next week with the title "I broke her heart, now I want her back."

By the way, in future, you should think twice before settling for choir master/choir member relationships.

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Nobody: 7:01pm On Feb 03, 2016
End time choir

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Slimzjoe(m): 7:01pm On Feb 03, 2016
mayonnaise:
in 10 years time will all this matter? You're just embarrassing yourselves

I've Said and Done Nothing....She's the one Doing everything.....I don't even know what to do!

Re: She's Ruining Me! by kingofchess(m): 7:01pm On Feb 03, 2016
u don't know wat u did? are u 4 real? u fucking broke up with her.

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Nobody: 7:02pm On Feb 03, 2016
Elosky20:
text STOP to 131

grin grin cheesy
Re: She's Ruining Me! by babywhite(f): 7:02pm On Feb 03, 2016
say sorry, keep saying sorry

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Nobody: 7:05pm On Feb 03, 2016
So u cant defend ursef?

Ok u want a whole super heros from nl?

to cum help u fyt her?

U cant shut her up wen she starts

I feel why are people so slow wen sumone is fustrating dem

Please let her continue wen u are really angry ur andrelaline wud tell u wat to do not us!

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by ladyF(f): 7:05pm On Feb 03, 2016
That's why it's best to date people that are not in your day-to-day circle, like same work, same school, same church. It's easier to move on that way when you guys break up, their presence doesn't constantly taunt you. grin

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Slimzjoe(m): 7:06pm On Feb 03, 2016
kingofchess:
u don't know wat u did? are u 4 real? u fucking broke up with her.


She's not the First Woman that Has been broken up with angry

ladyF:
That's why it's best to date people that are not in your day-to-day circle, like same work, same school, same church. It's easier to move on that way when you guys break up, their presence doesn't constantly taunt you. grin

Ladyf you no Lie abeg....But what do I do now

Re: She's Ruining Me! by Sunkyphil(m): 7:06pm On Feb 03, 2016
y are u dating a fellow choir in the first instance
Re: She's Ruining Me! by ladyF(f): 7:07pm On Feb 03, 2016
kingofchess:
u don't know wat u did? are u 4 real? u fucking broke up with her.
no be by force na. As he no wan do, she should move on already!

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Slimzjoe(m): 7:08pm On Feb 03, 2016
sickstars:
So u cant defend ursef?

Ok u want a whole super heros from nl?

to cum help u fyt her?

U cant shut her up wen she starts

I feel why are people so slow wen sumone is fustrating dem

Please let her continue wen u are really angry ur andrelaline wud tell u wat to do not us!

I used to Hear you where Senseless angry
Its now Obvious To me How
Re: She's Ruining Me! by LaurelP(m): 7:09pm On Feb 03, 2016
Call her on phone and give her a very stern warning, dont even argue with her, just WARN her. Tell her to leave u alone or she wud regret crossing ur part.

If she persists, walk her out of ur class. Be a man mehn. Atimes u just have to show the other side of u to send a strong message.

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Nobody: 7:09pm On Feb 03, 2016
Slimzjoe:


I've Said and Done Nothing....She's the one Doing everything.....I don't even know what to do!


keep doing what you're doing. Ignore her. Talk to other ladies. Don't allow her drag you down to her childish level
Re: She's Ruining Me! by ladyF(f): 7:09pm On Feb 03, 2016
Slimzjoe:



She's not the First Woman that Has been broken up with angry



Ladyf you no Lie abeg....But what do I do now

Best thing is to ignore, act like she doesn't exist, you shouldn't always respond to side comments, she has her mouth, she will talk.

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by divinehand2003(m): 7:09pm On Feb 03, 2016
If a girl breaks up with you, you are safe.
If you break up with a girl, there are two things involved :
-if you settle her after the break up, you are safe
-but if you bone like say nothing happen, OYO for you.

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Nobody: 7:09pm On Feb 03, 2016
Slimzjoe:


I used to Hear you where Senseless angry
Its now Obvious To me How

and your foolishness is a delight to my fancy
Re: She's Ruining Me! by kingofchess(m): 7:10pm On Feb 03, 2016
Guy just give her time..... I believe with time she will cool off....she is hurt u knw
Re: She's Ruining Me! by Slimzjoe(m): 7:10pm On Feb 03, 2016
babywhite:
say sorry, keep saying sorry

Sorry For what Exactly?
Sunkyphil:
y are u dating a fellow choir in the first instance

How would I know Bolts Where missing in her head

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by delishpot: 7:10pm On Feb 03, 2016
Fake Christians everywhere you go. Dem common pass mtn



Slimzjoe:

I broke up with this Girl Few Weeks Ago and she Spent the whole of that Day Shouting and Insulting me on the Phone. I thought it was All going to end that Day if she Poured Everything in her and kept Quiet While she Raved on but Unfortunately for me, Things have taken a Worst Turn.
She's a Member of my Choir while I'm the Asst.Choir Director and For the Past Few Weeks, she's been Trying to Frustrate me by Getting on my Nerves Regularly,Insulting and Deliberately Disobeying me. Today I was the Topic of Discussion in her Clique and She Stepped up her Game By Making sure she Dropped Rude Remarks whenever I Make any Statement or Contribution.
Mehn....Am Tired already angry I don't know what I did To this Girl that's Warranting All these.....I can't Quit the Choir Cos of A single Entity.
Ladies abeg, what exactly does she Want and What do I do To make all these Stop
Guys Ejoor,Biko How do you go about Situations Like this cos I don Weak Already
cry

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by kingofchess(m): 7:12pm On Feb 03, 2016
ladyF:

no be by force na. As he no wan do, she should move on already!
the op just need 2 give her time....with time she will cool off...she is hurt u know.
Re: She's Ruining Me! by Slimzjoe(m): 7:12pm On Feb 03, 2016
sickstars:


and your foolishness is a delight to my fancy

I've had enough of you Already angry

Swerve here>>>>>
Then take this And Fvck off my Mentions!

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by F22RAPTOR(m): 7:13pm On Feb 03, 2016
kingofchess:
u don't know wat u did? are u 4 real? u fucking broke up with her.
dont mind him, some people are unbelievable.

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Nobody: 7:14pm On Feb 03, 2016
Slimzjoe:


I've had enough of you Already angry

Swerve here>>>>>
Then take this And Fvck off my Mentions!

Are u showin me d same rope u goin to use on ursef wen depression sets in cos u cudnt fyt for ursef

Ordinary girl dey giv u hard time chicken boy!
Re: She's Ruining Me! by Slimzjoe(m): 7:14pm On Feb 03, 2016
mayonnaise:


keep doing what you're doing. Ignore her. Talk to other ladies. Don't allow her drag you down to her childish level

Brah....That's Very Hard Cos I'm A Leader who Is meant to carry everyone along
delishpot:
Fake Christians everywhere you go. Dem common pass mtn

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Slimzjoe(m): 7:15pm On Feb 03, 2016
mayonnaise:


keep doing what you're doing. Ignore her. Talk to other ladies. Don't allow her drag you down to her childish level

Brah....That's Very Hard Cos I'm A Leader who Is meant to carry everyone along
delishpot:
Fake Christians everywhere you go. Dem common pass mtn

angry angry
divinehand2003:
If a girl breaks up with you, you are safe.
If you break up with a girl, there are two things involved :
-if you settle her after the break up, you are safe
-but if you bone like say nothing happen, OYO for you.

Life Don Dey Taya me Already

cry
Re: She's Ruining Me! by ladyF(f): 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2016
kingofchess:
the op just need 2 give her time....with time she will cool off...she is hurt u know.
lol ever heard the phrase helll hath no fury like a woman scorned? grin

Some people take breakups very badly, it's crazy grin

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Re: She's Ruining Me! by Fraih(f): 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2016
Elosky20:
text STOP to 131
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: She's Ruining Me! by Slimzjoe(m): 7:18pm On Feb 03, 2016
F22RAPTOR:

dont mind him, some people are unbelievable.

Dude Seriously What's Unbelievable Do you know all the Insults she Hurled at me the Day I Broke up with her? For a moment I thought she was going to Come back to my house to Attack me or Something.

People Make and Break up everyday, She's not the First and I see no Reason why her Case should be Different

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