ladyF:

lol ever heard the phrase helll hath no fury like a woman scorned?

Some people take breakups very badly, it's crazy

Slimzjoe:


Dude Seriously What's Unbelievable Do you know all the Insults she Hurled at me the Day I Broke up with her? For a moment I thought she was going to Come back to my house to Attack me or Something.

People Make and Break up everyday, She's not the First and I see no Reason why her Case should be Different

Slimzjoe:


Brah....That's Very Hard Cos I'm A Leader who Is meant to carry everyone along




Life Don Dey Taya me Already

Elosky20:
text STOP to 131

F22RAPTOR:

using your logic, I could say that people who are hurt shouldnt feel pain, why because, they are not the first to be hurt. Man, you are still unbelievable.

Slimzjoe:


Have Someone ever broken up with you?
Did you Go about Rubbishing the Person cos you're Hurt?

F22RAPTOR:

personally, no matter how hurt i am, i just walk away and burn the bridge behind me so that there is nothing to link us again. But people react differently to adversity, both guys and ladies can become violent when they are despised.

hugogerrard:
my own candid advice.... #bitch gives ya no peace of mind, #bitch still close to ya, #bitch sure feels sad from within, #bitch really needs ya, #bitch being dumped by ya, #bitch and ya needs a matured chat.... man up my nigga and cone her down... no apology... go on with her flow... #mindoversperm

She's not One to Sit and Listen To Your Chats. One of the Reasons I decided to Discontinue
Calm her down? What Exactly do I even Say to her

Slimzjoe:

I broke up with this Girl Few Weeks Ago and she Spent the whole of that Day Shouting and Insulting me on the Phone. I thought it was All going to end that Day if she Poured Everything in her and kept Quiet While she Raved on but Unfortunately for me, Things have taken a Worst Turn.
She's a Member of my Choir while I'm the Asst.Choir Director and For the Past Few Weeks, she's been Trying to Frustrate me by Getting on my Nerves Regularly,Insulting and Deliberately Disobeying me. Today I was the Topic of Discussion in her Clique and She Stepped up her Game By Making sure she Dropped Rude Remarks whenever I Make any Statement or Contribution.

Mehn....Am Tired already I don't know what I did To this Girl that's Warranting All these.....I can't Quit the Choir Cos of A single Entity.

Ladies abeg, what exactly does she Want and What do I do To make all these Stop

Guys Ejoor,Biko How do you go about Situations Like this cos I don Weak Already

Slimzjoe:


When I was Breaking up, I tried to make Sure this Kind of thing won't Occur so I told her that I was the Problem and that I don't Deserve her. We never Quarrelled for once Except Minor Arguments on whether the Chicken or the Egg came First so I don't see what I should be Apologising For

Slimzjoe:


Dude Seriously What's Unbelievable Do you know all the Insults she Hurled at me the Day I Broke up with her? For a moment I thought she was going to Come back to my house to Attack me or Something.

People Make and Break up everyday, She's not the First and I see no Reason why her Case should be Different

Elosky20:

pls do take it easy and apologise, the level u placed her in ur life, might nt be the same level she placed u in her own life. remember jesus apologised to his father on behalf of those who killed him unjustly.

Slimzjoe:


So, You're Saying there's nothing Wrong with what she's Doing and I should just Sit there And Keep Praying she 'Burns her Bridge' Early Enough before She Finally Drives me Crazy?

granely:
why do you break up with her, it seems like you hurt her so badly, tell the full story so that we will know the best advice to give you and where to help you from. #my opinion#

Slimzjoe:


[color=#550000]I don't get it Man....What Should I Apologise For?

Elosky20:

maybe she thought both of u will last forever. just apologise 4 nt being able to fulfil her dreams. remember the way u talked her into dating you, use same way to talk her out of it and she will stop disturbing you.

ronald4lif:
A case of brother and sister in Christ romance gone sour. When una been dey do lovey-lovey at the backyard of the choir hall una no tell us o. Na now wey una don enjoy finish una dey involve us.

Let her have her day by making the snide remarks. Ignore her as much as you can and don't behave as if her hate remarks get to you. She's still very hurt and needs time to heal. When she's found closure she'll stop with her hate.

Would have Invited you but I don't Share

Ignoring Hard die but I'll Surely Try to.
She's even making me Loose Sleep Cos I've been trying to Figure out where Exactly I went Wrong.

Poseidon000:
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I understand your position and your repute you have to protect, but I tell ya. As long as you're trying to protect your reputation by giving her attention and showing her that you feel hurt by her actions.

I promise you. She will continue to make life miserable for you.

Since you're her leader in your choir. When you give an order and she flaunt it. Make sure you give her a formal stern warning. If she eventually makes a deamening/disobeying remark about your persona.
Report her to any superior who is in the position to curtail her stupidity.
I'm damn sure, she wouldn't give your romantic misadventure with her, as a reason for disobeying you or being arrogant.

If you don't act fast, You will have no respect/reputation to protect

NOTE: make sure you warn her in private bfor you start any brouhaha with her in church. She is capitalizing on your gentleness to spit on you.

Don't be a weakling. Give her a taste of her own dish.
If she see the conflagration for your eyez, she go sorggy
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Vikky014:
LOL this reminds me of a story about a choir master impregnating a choir member..

Slimzjoe:

Wow.....Thanks alot Bro

iykekelvins:
Bro,Just give give her time..
She didnt take the breakup well.
But how did u breakup with her