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GovWahala:
Mumu personified

mugu

satowind:
mugu

Robotic fool

menxer:
You never chi chong ching

The surest way not to succeed in a relationship is to put eye in your lady's money when she intends to keep it a secret.

my people have a saying, "a mad person has a lover".
Meaning everyone has who they submit to.

If your lady is not submitting her money purse to you for inspection/appropriation, it shows you are not worthy of her submission.

It also shows she's not fully submitted. Marraige is one-ness: spirit,mind and body.
Everything, except God, should be brought in submission to the head in the union-the man. Money included. A woman, hiding her salary from the husband doesnt respect the husband and his God-given office.

GovWahala:
Robotic fool

robotic jobless mugu

LoveStan:
When a man knows about how much u earn, he won't take full responsibility in family
He will keep lying 2 u on how he doesn't hav money 2 solve d family pressing needs. Esp whn it has 2 be 2 provide 4 d children's needs. Again he will always spend d money on his mistress knowing fully well dat u wil help out cos u can't sit & watch ur children starve due 2 d mother child r/ship. Again he will use ur kindness & care 4 providing 4 d family as ur weakness & will always like 2 use his man trick, 2 win ur hrt even u say u dnt have any money
So Ladies, stay alert, dnt let them fool u wit their love/romance tricks 2 help him carry his responsibislities, but I will, advice take cautions on how 2 solve needs in d home, dnt give in totally else he will use u................
Stay safe, & remain home builders.... We Rock

highly foolish. This is how to destroy a marraige. Which comes first, the marraige or urselves?
If the marraige is first, there is nothing like 'my money', it is 'our money'. Except the man is careless and irresponsible, he should make decisions concerning how the financial resources of the family should be allocated. The woman should defer to the man, not questioning or challenging his judgement but trusting that he is acting in the best interest of the union and the family.
If this is hard to do, look at how Jesus submitted his will to that of the Father. The Father had the big picture and plan. Jesus was equal to the Father, yet submitted to Him, not fighting Him. If women will submit to their husbands and respect his office, even when it looks foolish, things will go well.

satowind:
robotic jobless mugu

This Ode just have to use my word dumb skull