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Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by oluseyiforjesus(m): 8:01pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
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Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Nathe11: 8:01pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
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Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by ikdiaro(m): 8:06pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
missingrib:y dint she call since the guy fail to call* I see this call thing to be responsibility of bout parties* 1 Like |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:09pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Op I love your write ups..... this one is spot on!....Communication is key!....no matter how silly the issue sounds, me I always want to hear it...then we trash it out and move on. |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by wisemania(m): 8:21pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
missingrib:I suppose you did not take the pain to ask her of when she last called him... |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by professore(m): 8:24pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Tell them,especially ladies who want men to be mind readers |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by wisemania(m): 8:25pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
foriz4u:take her to the room. she'll share it in no time... |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by creamylicious(f): 8:28pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
The relationship is indeed deaf and dumb.... Just imagine yesterday.... |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by sacora(f): 8:28pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
d&d |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
I learnt American sign language. Wanna learn?? |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by wisemania(m): 8:32pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
YorubaWoman:Your superman! Are you his only Lois. |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by tosyne2much(m): 8:32pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Nice one OP I have learnt something |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by kingstylo01(m): 8:33pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
missingrib:missing rib, he never still find you? |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by wisemania(m): 8:34pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
creamylicious:alright... |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Gusy(m): 8:40pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Toks2008:lolz |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by ATK4Joy(f): 8:45pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Very well said! Without effective communication,there won't be mutual understanding of both parties involved. |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Alexk2(m): 8:45pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Omotayor123; Agreed. Communication is the key... You can say that again. That is why I'll always advice that your partner should be your best friend. If he/she isn't your friend before you guys started off, work to make it happen! |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Mcweber(m): 8:51pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
This was exactly what really went wrong wen i was with my ex. I really loved her and she is the type that keeps things to her self. you will never get to know wen she is angry and even wen u have a clue she is, she will always reply with "I'm fine". Things got out proportion and she couldn't cope anymore cos I keep doing the same thing that makes her angry without me knowing she is. she only told me bout all what I did after we broke up. it was very painful....Communication Is indeed the key in every relationship |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Ucheosefoh(m): 9:22pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Vikky014:Cry ke ? That will happen if you are married to an emotionally weak man, all this alpha male and players will ignore you totally |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Odunharry(m): 9:42pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
toks2008 nice one.. keep preaching the gospel over and over |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by openmine(m): 9:51pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
You are right @OP,No relationship or marriage CAN last longer without a good and effective communication... For both partners to have an effective and fruitful communication, both must be very 1. ENGAGED LISTENERS If your goal is to fully understand and connect with the other person, listening in an engaged way will often come naturally. If it doesn’t, try the following tips. The more you practice them, the more satisfying and rewarding your interactions with others will become. Focus fully on the speaker, his or her body language, tone of voice, and other nonverbal cues. Tone of voice conveys emotion, so if you’re thinking about other things, checking text messages or doodling, you’re almost certain to miss the nonverbal cues and the emotional content behind the words being spoken. And if the person talking is similarly distracted, you’ll be able to quickly pick up on it. If you find it hard to concentrate on some speakers, try repeating their words over in your head—it’ll reinforce their message and help you stay focused. Favor your right ear. The left side of the brain contains the primary processing centers for both speech comprehension and emotions. Since the left side of the brain is connected to the right side of the body, favoring your right ear can help you better detect the emotional nuances of what someone is saying. Try keeping your posture straight, your chin down, and tilting your right ear towards the speaker—this will make it easier to pick up on the higher frequencies of human speech that contain the emotional content of what’s being said. Avoid interrupting or trying to redirect the conversation to your concerns, by saying something like, “If you think that’s bad, let me tell you what happened to me.” Listening is not the same as waiting for your turn to talk. You can’t concentrate on what someone’s saying if you’re forming what you’re going to say next. Often, the speaker can read your facial expressions and know that your mind’s elsewhere. Show your interest in what’s being said. Nod occasionally, smile at the person, and make sure your posture is open and inviting. Encourage the speaker to continue with small verbal comments like “yes” or “uh huh.” Try to set aside judgment. In order to communicate effectively with someone, you don’t have to like them or agree with their ideas, values, or opinions. However, you do need to set aside your judgment and withhold blame and criticism in order to fully understand a person. The most difficult communication, when successfully executed, can lead to the most unlikely and profound connection with someone. Provide feedback If there seems to be a disconnect, reflect what has been said by paraphrasing. "What I'm hearing is," or "Sounds like you are saying," are great ways to reflect back. Don’t simply repeat what the speaker has said verbatim, though—you’ll sound insincere or unintelligent. Instead, express what the speaker’s words mean to you. Ask questions to clarify certain points: "What do you mean when you say..." or "Is this what you mean?" 2. PAYING ATTENTION TO NON VERBAL SIGNALS When we communicate things that we care about, we do so mainly using nonverbal signals. Nonverbal communication, or body language, includes facial expressions, body movement and gestures, eye contact, posture, the tone of your voice, and even your muscle tension and breathing. The way you look, listen, move, and react to another person tells them more about how you’re feeling than words alone ever can. 3.KEEP STRESS IN CHECK Use stalling tactics to give yourself time to think. Have a question repeated, or ask for clarification of a statement before responding. Pause to collect your thoughts. Silence isn’t necessarily a bad thing—pausing can make you seem more in control than rushing your response. Make one point and provide an example or supporting piece of information. If your response is too long or you waffle about a number of points, you risk losing the listener’s interest. Follow one point with an example and then gauge the listener’s reaction to tell if you should make a second point. Deliver your words clearly. In many cases, how you say something can be as important as what you say. Speak clearly, maintain an even tone, and make eye contact. Keep your body language relaxed and open. Wrap up with a summary and then stop. Summarize your response and then stop talking, even if it leaves a silence in the room. You don’t have to fill the silence by continuing to talk. 4.ASSERT YOURSELF Value yourself and your opinions. They are as important as anyone else’s. Know your needs and wants. Learn to express them without infringing on the rights of others. Express negative thoughts in a positive way. It’s OK to be angry, but you must be respectful as well. Receive feedback positively. Accept compliments graciously, learn from your mistakes, ask for help when needed. Learn to say “no.” Know your limits and don’t let others take advantage of you. Look for alternatives so everyone feels good about the outcome. helpguide org/articles/relationships/effective-communication htm 2 Likes |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Sharoniah(f): 10:37pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
I usually do the calling, my boo is so deaf and dumb and blind in our relationship, broke up with him already, before he becomes paralyze |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by EOOJ(m): 10:49pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
foriz4u:very true and so so annoying |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Toks2008(m): 11:30pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Sharoniah: |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Toks2008(m): 11:31pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
tosyne2much: |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by EzeeYFB(m): 12:01am On Feb 16, 2016 |
YorubaWoman:hmm how does he do it?make me follow learn ,my babe sometimes b like u guun,I ask wat is it,go say all is well Zion,meanwhile I know say Israel is under attack |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by piagetskinner(m): 12:09am On Feb 16, 2016 |
..... For the married ones who aren't communicating I never marry |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by don4real18(m): 6:57am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Oga OP.... You are not yet matured enough to handle a woman |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by iykekelvins(m): 12:47pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Yh Thanks |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Nobody: 2:43pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Nice post. Indeed communication is very important in relationships. |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by 100Cents: 2:45pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Toks2008: Sir, how do i buy a Romance machine ? |
Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by missingrib(f): 3:04pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
kingstylo01:not yet |
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