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Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by ronald4lif(m): 9:27am On Feb 18, 2016 |
I read some saying if a man cheats a woman too should but how many women have the emotional sturdiness and stability to cheat randomly as compared to the men? How many married women can embark on a fvcking spree without feeling worthless and empty even as some have now mastered the act of body counts? What concerns an average guy with keeping tab of the women he has shagged. A man can fvck Temi, Oge, Amina on same day without even remembering the next morning, how many women can to do this compared to men? If you think you have what it takes to cheat as much as men then feel free to do so make we see who go taya. 2 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by class0247: 9:30am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Funny how Nigeria women wish to copy western way of life and not knowing what most of those white ladies are going through.I read a news sometime ago on how desperate those white ladies are even in their early 40s to have a man in their life and they populate all those online dating site but ending up been scammed most of the time. If a man should treat on you, give him little time to repent and if you know his weak point use that on him and I assure you if he throughly loves you then he will repent but if he refuse to repent and you are STILL YOUNG then you can take a break. It is not really easy to grow old alone and to cheat on your husband because he cheated..That is childish lol..You are a woman and you have woman hood to protect.It will be a disgrace to you and your family and it will even affect your younger sisters who are yet to marry and some of your friends won't even associate with you anymore. A man going outside to cheat is exposing himself to a lot of danger 1. The girls out there can reck you and make your life miserable with any means(most girls out there are diabolical. 2. Your life can be cut of with HIV AIDS and other dieases. 3. You are exposing your house to arm rubbers and kidnappers and don't be surprised if they visit you often. 4.You have defiled sacredness and don't be surprised when strange things start to happen in your home..I bet you won't want to loose any of your child Is not worth it. A faithful marriage is fruitful and blessed 2 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 9:30am On Feb 18, 2016 |
jadelyn007: Omase o Eyin ladies yiii..e mo nada. Preach to guys to remain faithful lol... If you are dating a guy who is not a believer in christ lety alone holy spirit filled abeg start rehersals on how to cope with an adulterous hubby. Ironically even many spiricoco pastors cheat on their wives. This is a hard pill ladies must swallow...if you find yourself with a faithful man ..kudos and if otherwise abeg the options are there. Polygamy is not a taboo and no woman can stop a man who wants to tow that line..its even amazing that bigamy is no longer a crime in lagos even for a legally married man. Sorry ladies,this is no time for sermon but facts. 1 Like |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by jadelyn007(f): 9:36am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008:If you can be faithful for 12yrs in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, why is staying faithful in a marriage impossible for you? Polygamy is different from adultery. Even in Islam and traditional cultures that accept Polygamy, adultery is an offense. If you want to practice Polygamy practice it. The Bible never supports neither Polygamy or adultery. 11 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Tolatutu: 9:36am On Feb 18, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Oh please women are giving just as good as you dish out. A woman doesn't need 10 side lovers, 1 0r 2 steady ones will do and they are smarter than you lot sef so you'll never know except one day you realise some of your kids are not yours lmao. Women have decided to follow you since you say you are the head, its where the head goes the body will follow abi 13 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by ishiamu(m): 9:36am On Feb 18, 2016 |
cococandy: I just said my story... I don't knw what you assume of me or toks... yu can still call me or him bad or good... but that doesn't stop me from giving example with myself... I ain't even endorsing the option toks gave for women finding their self in a situation whr their hubby or bf cheats... what to do is left for you, stay or go as people are diff so are their choices 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 9:53am On Feb 18, 2016 |
jadelyn007: The bible is not against polygamy either and that is the point... If Quran supports it and the bible is not against it then why are ladies killing themselves over their hubby being with another lady? Fornication and adultery are sins but marrying many wives is ok so would a lady agree to polygamy..? Ladies are the ones causing this problem...they say they hate polygamy yet will gladly date a married man and even agree to marry him. 1 Like |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Nobody: 9:55am On Feb 18, 2016 |
ishiamu:It's surprising that lots of you guys on this thread don't cheat,yet you are the ones advocating for cheats. It's really really bamboozling... if a woman says all men are dogs, y'all will be quick to ask "including your father?", "did you sample them all?". Pray tell, how did you arrive @ your 5%? 12 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 10:00am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie: Its even lesser than 5%. Very soon,it will likely be a global law that every man can marry at least 2wives. O si n rin yin..ladies better wake up...and learn how to focus on your life and that of your children after marriage and let the man be. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by gemale(m): 10:01am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Teespice:Abi o! It's nt by force 2 answer Mr & Mrs. Yes no one is perfect & marriage is abt compromise bt a person who regularly cheats on u & uses d excuse dt he/she still loves you neither loves nor respects you. Personally, me constantly tolerating a cheating spouse is allowing d person 2 make a mockery of D sanctity of our marriage. Shld I decide 2 get married, I intend (by d grace of God) 2 b faithful 2 my wife (till death do us part). Anyone who cheats repeatedly in a marriage (whether male or female) isn't supposed 2 b in marriage. Yes it's nt a must 2 end d marriage, if u can live wt a cheating spouse, good 4 u. Bt u cant expect majority of pple 2 fold their arms & get cheated on just because dey r females. It isn't easy o. B4 u Sabi, u no go kno when u go turn 2 dt woman wey kill her husband 4 Ibadan. BTW, nyc signature. 10 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by uzolexis(f): 10:02am On Feb 18, 2016 |
shaboti: I cant even explain how disgusted I am at this OPs post and the fact that it always gets to FP even makes it worse. 1 Like |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 10:09am On Feb 18, 2016 |
uzolexis: Oleku Tell me something wey i no fit do Mo gbopo gbopo ma lo tu mo ni ni mo ni ni mo deji mo deji i know you are ready cos oleku feeling the boy feeling the boy e Shebi you know the road to lagos lagoon... Save your anger...you dont need it now. 1 Like |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by jadelyn007(f): 10:10am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008:where In the new testament is Polygamy endorsed and where in the entire Bible is adultery endorsed? Please don't quote the old testament to support Polygamy as long as we no longer offer animal sacrifices for atonement of sins, Polygamy doesn't stand. Even apostle Paul said He(God) who made them in the beginning made them male and female. 6 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by jadelyn007(f): 10:13am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008:with this your funny ideas, why do you think any female should be Married? Since you men have somehow managed to wriggle out of financial responsibility, physical responsibility and are trying to wriggle out of emotional responsibility now 7 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 10:14am On Feb 18, 2016 |
jadelyn007: LOBATAN...No need to quote since you don talk say old testament no be part of bible. 1 Like |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by jadelyn007(f): 10:16am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008:I am sure you still sacrifice goats and pigeons to cleanse yourself of sins since the old testament prescribes it. No?? 7 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by enygmababe: 10:18am On Feb 18, 2016 |
ohzee: You are welcome sis! 1 Like |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by jadelyn007(f): 10:18am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Funny how these polygamy preachers pull out old testament scriptures to support their ideas yet they believe making animal sacrifice is no longer needed. 7 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 10:20am On Feb 18, 2016 |
shaboti: Call me mr roma romantic Oya show them, show them, show them Show them, show them Make all of them know That my baby so romantic Oya baby make we show them, show them Show them, show them, show them Make all of them know That my baby so romantic oh Make you make a choice na wahala but instead na curse you dey curse like a frustrated koko seller...na you get your hand wey u take type lawma trash..ko kan aye... Oya show dem show dem show dem...•sings on• |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by sunnyt1(m): 10:23am On Feb 18, 2016 |
FRANKOXY: Are you serious about this opinion? |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Teespice(f): 10:23am On Feb 18, 2016 |
gemale: if I didn't have a first hand experience in all the relationships I have been, I won't have mouth to talk. I have been cheated on, yet na me go still forgive and after forgiving them, I will be the one who ends up getting ditched. God knows me I am done giving chances. and about my previous posts, I will reiterate the same stance over again. let all the males abuse and call me naive, na them sabi. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(m): 10:26am On Feb 18, 2016 |
jadelyn007: O n bi mi ni jamb question. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by ishiamu(m): 10:27am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie: I ain't advocating for cheating neither do I say what toks say is what you should do, if your hubby cheats do anything you like ain't telling any1 what to do, we different so is our choices 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by gemale(m): 10:39am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Teespice:Sorry o! Guess u have 2 kiss a lot of frogs 2 get 2 ur prince ryt? Dnt Sha close ur heart permanently. Dere r still guys who take fidelity 2 their women seriously. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by iPopAlomo(m): 10:41am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie: You don't get it... do you...?? you said you can't marry a cheat... agreed... but what if you found out he cheated...?! After assuring everyone of us here... you can't marry a cheat...?! And you're already married to him...?! Is the English to complex for you...?! |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by ronald4lif(m): 10:42am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Tolatutu: Lol. Fair retort. That's not a problem. They should keep following us and don't complain about men being cheats. Let's have an open relationship and free for all fvcking. For men who cheats they don't wince about but for women it's always lamentation here and there. Ours is out fun and the excitement it brings but for someone who copies like women it appears theirs is to spite and can an act of spite be joyous as that of men who revels naturally? And I'm still wondering if any man will father a kid(s) that's not his for longer than a year in this times where any reasonable fella should confirm paternity of their wards as soon as they are birth. 2 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Nobody: 10:43am On Feb 18, 2016 |
iPopAlomo: iPopAlomo:Then it's obvious English is complex for you too. My post answered that, go read it slowly... For the records, the two questions are entirely different. |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Nobody: 10:46am On Feb 18, 2016 |
[color=#990000][/color] opribo: Reallyyyyy?.... I laugh when I hear a man say this,"it's a man's world", just justify his immoral ways. Sorry to burst your bubbles dear, but you are so wrong. It's not a man's world, it's the devil's. Don't try to drag or SHARE it with him, or else you delve deeper into sin. Even JAMES 4:4 says. You adulterer and adulteress, know that friendship with the world is enormity with God. The devil is the prince and the ruler of this earth, but Christ himself said we shouldn't be afraid because he has conquered the world. No, you go and read JOHN 12:31 Whenever men like yourself say it's a man's world, please my brother, always refute it (for statement like that justifies immorality only cheapens you), except it's on the basis of good and fruitious tasks like finding a cure for Aids, invention of new automation, or embarking on a charitable and remarkable project. God bless 3 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Nobody: 10:47am On Feb 18, 2016 |
[color=#770077][/color] opribo: Reallyyyyy?.... I laugh when I hear a man say this,"it's a man's world", just to justify his immoral ways. Sorry to burst your bubbles dear, but you are so wrong. It's not a man's world, it's the devil's(JOHN12:31). Don't try to drag or SHARE it with him, or else you delve deeper into sin. Even JAMES 4:4 says. You adulterer and adulteress, know that friendship with the world is enimity with God. The devil is the prince and the ruler of this earth, but Christ himself said we shouldn't be afraid because he has conquered the world. No, you go and read JOHN 12:31 Whenever men like yourself say it's a man's world, please my brother, always refute it (for statement like that justifies immorality only cheapens you), except it's on the basis of good and fruitious tasks like finding a cure for Aids, invention of new automation, or embarking on a charitable and remarkable project. God bless 2 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Mamatee07: 11:02am On Feb 18, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Out of spite Ke, do you think those women care again . It's It's case of let me eat my cake and have, remain married so society can call me a "respectable married woman" while I enjoy myself whoever I fancy what's not to love. After sleeping with one pot-bellied husband for years it's a nice break to get a correct guy with 6-packs by the side you men just opened women's eyes to what they've been missing, it's the best of both worlds really how many men do DNA test, you always think you are the smart ones lmao 6 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by uzolexis(f): 11:11am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: I am angry cos of the unfortunate ladies that have come your way seeking for advise and have been ill advised by you.... I really feel bad for them. 2 Likes |
Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Crieff(m): 11:17am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Toks2008: Oga Toks2008 This is your opinion only. You do not impose your perspective on others. It is the civil thing to do. Whether it is the gospel / empirical truth, you do not and should not impose your perspective on others especially on the internet. Please. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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