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netizenbuzz:
1. A Man That Does not Love & Respect His Mother
There is a thin line between a mommy’s boy and a man who genuinely loves his mom. A man should love his mother and respect her even when he disagrees with her. If a man doesn’t respect his mum, what makes you think he would respect you? He shouldn’t be a mommy’s boy with no backbone but he should respectfully disagree with her if the need arises.
2. A Man That Beats His Sisters
Forget that he is the older one or that his parents approve of it. There is a natural imbalance of strength between a man and a woman. A man that feels it is okay to beat his sisters won’t think twice before hitting you. His sisters are his blood relations and yet he hits them, how much more you? If he cannot protect his sisters, what is the assurance that he will protect you?
3. A Man That Is Money Conscious
This type has only one thing on his mind, ‘make money’ by whatever means whether good or bad. In the long run, he would probably do something that will embarrass your family. He also believes his money should earn him your respect irrespective of his character.
4. A Man That Cannot Cook
Just ask yourself some simple questions. What will happen to your kids or even to you if you are sick and bedridden? What will happen to your kids if you happen to travel? What will happen to your kids if by nature of your job, you close later than your husband? Finally, what will happen to them if peradventure you die untimely? Will they starve? Or will your husband replace you immediately even if the new mother is not a good person?
5. A Man That Will Not Cook
This is quite common in our society. He can cook but he chooses not to because they find it quite demeaning. Truth is, this says a lot about how he sees you. If he believes only you should do the degrading chores around the home, it is because he believes you are a lesser human than him. Even if you are dying, this one will rather buy food than cook o. Run.
6. A Man That Believes You Owe Him
This type thinks he is doing you a favour by marrying you so he obviously won’t respect you and expects you to take anything he dishes out to you.
7. A Man That Carries Kids For The Gram
There is a new trend lately of men with children all over social media. They are usually all lovey-dovey with them but don’t be deceived. People ooh and aww at pictures like that only because we are not used to that kind of image in our society. Half of these men probably don’t know how to change diapers so once again the pressure is on you to always make the children look good or you will hear it.
8. A Man That Believes it is Natural & Normal for Him To Philander
It is not and will never be normal to cheat. It is a lie from the pit of hell that so many believe and so many more perpetuate. If you agree with this, then you agree that every man has a place in hell already which we know is not true. What is wrong is wrong and everybody doing it will not make it right. If you marry someone with this mentality, you know what to expect.
9. A Man Who Cannot Answer To You
Wo, this one will show you pepper in marriage. A fi mu e fon fere. You cannot question his actions or inactions o. He will not be accountable to you on how he spends money, where he goes, what time he comes in, etc. He will make and take decisions that affect the family without consulting you and without giving any tangible or logical reason. Awon team ‘I Will Because I Know I Can’ leyi. He will wake up one morning and tell you to change the school your children attend and you will be there wondering what went wrong. Stay far away from them.
10. A Man Who Doesn’t Take The Issue of Rape & Child Molestation Seriously
Just take note of your conversations with him when the issue of sexual assault arises. If he is the type that always finds a way to blame the victim, either male or female, you should have a rethink. He is not a qualified father material. It will be dangerous for him to bath your kids. Forget that they are his kids too, we hear stories na.

There are many more things to look out for like his tolerance level, humility, religious beliefs, gene compatibility, level of responsibility etc. There are really no fast rules to this and you will probably never meet a man that will not fail in one or two of the categories listed above. Just decide within yourself which flaws you can live with. Selah.

Bros u get time....
How many years did it take u to come up with this rubbish....

This is a first class nonsense

thank God am not a Nigerian so such man won't come my way shaa

A man may have all these qualities and still have girls reject him. Good looks/genetics, sadly is all that matters to girls/women of nowadays, especially the liberated ones.

When women say there are no more good men left, they are not necessarily talking about men with the qualities enumerated above. Its the hot 10 percent of men with the looks of a god, the height of a deandre jordan and the muscular strength bruck lesner; these are the unattainable men they are all scrambling for until pressure begins to mount on them to settle for less.

The best you can do as a man is to try and improve your physicall looks to become the best version of yourself through exercises and eating right and most importantly, have a job to provide at least your basic needs.

That way, you may get a wee bit of amorous favours from the fair maids before are past their saleby date.

Donfamous:
then u won't stop running.

guilty?

What about not strong in bed

I am that man that is guilty of 4 & 5 only.

YOU TRY TO CHANGE THEIR VIEW BEFORE MARRIAGE
OR YOU LEAVE THEM TO MARRY THEIR TYPE OF GIRL , COS WE HAVE GIRLS THAT POCESS THIS CHARACTERS TOO #BIRDS OF SAME FEATHERS FLOCK TOGETHER

Kenzico:
Most men possess some of this traits....If our gelz don't marry them, who will they marry then?



Angels

COS THAT'S WHO U ARE

titosantana:
This is a first class nonsense

I don't think No4 should be included!

netizenbuzz:
1. A Man That Does not Love & Respect His Mother
There is a thin line between a mommy’s boy and a man who genuinely loves his mom. A man should love his mother and respect her even when he disagrees with her. If a man doesn’t respect his mum, what makes you think he would respect you? He shouldn’t be a mommy’s boy with no backbone but he should respectfully disagree with her if the need arises.
2. A Man That Beats His Sisters
Forget that he is the older one or that his parents approve of it. There is a natural imbalance of strength between a man and a woman. A man that feels it is okay to beat his sisters won’t think twice before hitting you. His sisters are his blood relations and yet he hits them, how much more you? If he cannot protect his sisters, what is the assurance that he will protect you?
3. A Man That Is Money Conscious
This type has only one thing on his mind, ‘make money’ by whatever means whether good or bad. In the long run, he would probably do something that will embarrass your family. He also believes his money should earn him your respect irrespective of his character.
4. A Man That Cannot Cook
Just ask yourself some simple questions. What will happen to your kids or even to you if you are sick and bedridden? What will happen to your kids if you happen to travel? What will happen to your kids if by nature of your job, you close later than your husband? Finally, what will happen to them if peradventure you die untimely? Will they starve? Or will your husband replace you immediately even if the new mother is not a good person?
5. A Man That Will Not Cook
This is quite common in our society. He can cook but he chooses not to because they find it quite demeaning. Truth is, this says a lot about how he sees you. If he believes only you should do the degrading chores around the home, it is because he believes you are a lesser human than him. Even if you are dying, this one will rather buy food than cook o. Run.
6. A Man That Believes You Owe Him
This type thinks he is doing you a favour by marrying you so he obviously won’t respect you and expects you to take anything he dishes out to you.
7. A Man That Carries Kids For The Gram
There is a new trend lately of men with children all over social media. They are usually all lovey-dovey with them but don’t be deceived. People ooh and aww at pictures like that only because we are not used to that kind of image in our society. Half of these men probably don’t know how to change diapers so once again the pressure is on you to always make the children look good or you will hear it.
8. A Man That Believes it is Natural & Normal for Him To Philander
It is not and will never be normal to cheat. It is a lie from the pit of hell that so many believe and so many more perpetuate. If you agree with this, then you agree that every man has a place in hell already which we know is not true. What is wrong is wrong and everybody doing it will not make it right. If you marry someone with this mentality, you know what to expect.
9. A Man Who Cannot Answer To You
Wo, this one will show you pepper in marriage. A fi mu e fon fere. You cannot question his actions or inactions o. He will not be accountable to you on how he spends money, where he goes, what time he comes in, etc. He will make and take decisions that affect the family without consulting you and without giving any tangible or logical reason. Awon team ‘I Will Because I Know I Can’ leyi. He will wake up one morning and tell you to change the school your children attend and you will be there wondering what went wrong. Stay far away from them.
10. A Man Who Doesn’t Take The Issue of Rape & Child Molestation Seriously
Just take note of your conversations with him when the issue of sexual assault arises. If he is the type that always finds a way to blame the victim, either male or female, you should have a rethink. He is not a qualified father material. It will be dangerous for him to bath your kids. Forget that they are his kids too, we hear stories na.

There are many more things to look out for like his tolerance level, humility, religious beliefs, gene compatibility, level of responsibility etc. There are really no fast rules to this and you will probably never meet a man that will not fail in one or two of the categories listed above. Just decide within yourself which flaws you can live with. Selah.

find mud

This kind of post and belief is one of the reasons girls don't have husband.... I personally can't and don't cook but have been married for 10yrs..

No man has all the xteritics. .. what has a man being able to cook or not contribute in your choice of not marrying him?

So, if you as a girl find a man who is good but can't cook, you would reject his marriage proposal? Are you kidding me?

And the op is not toks2008
Nice one OP. I will quickly run if I see 4 in him

titosantana:
This is a first class nonsense

Lolzzzz.

imagine nonsense.

mayama:
Nonsensical philosophies that won't ever work here in Nigeria, maybe outside Nigeria it could,but here,let the man be sad day hussein, as long as he can pay there bills they will endure,no be 9ja girls shio

are nigerian girls that bad? Dnt conclude cos of 1 or 2 girls u met, that mayb turned out to b bad----nigerian girls aren't bad pls, stp showcasing us in a bad light.

eleko1:
Sorry! All dis joke nor dey Niagra girls dictionary. When money speak, all thing fall yakata

Word!

netizenbuzz:
1. A Man That Does not Love & Respect His Mother
There is a thin line between a mommy’s boy and a man who genuinely loves his mom. A man should love his mother and respect her even when he disagrees with her. If a man doesn’t respect his mum, what makes you think he would respect you? He shouldn’t be a mommy’s boy with no backbone but he should respectfully disagree with her if the need arises.
2. A Man That Beats His Sisters
Forget that he is the older one or that his parents approve of it. There is a natural imbalance of strength between a man and a woman. A man that feels it is okay to beat his sisters won’t think twice before hitting you. His sisters are his blood relations and yet he hits them, how much more you? If he cannot protect his sisters, what is the assurance that he will protect you?
3. A Man That Is Money Conscious
This type has only one thing on his mind, ‘make money’ by whatever means whether good or bad. In the long run, he would probably do something that will embarrass your family. He also believes his money should earn him your respect irrespective of his character.
4. A Man That Cannot Cook
Just ask yourself some simple questions. What will happen to your kids or even to you if you are sick and bedridden? What will happen to your kids if you happen to travel? What will happen to your kids if by nature of your job, you close later than your husband? Finally, what will happen to them if peradventure you die untimely? Will they starve? Or will your husband replace you immediately even if the new mother is not a good person?
5. A Man That Will Not Cook
This is quite common in our society. He can cook but he chooses not to because they find it quite demeaning. Truth is, this says a lot about how he sees you. If he believes only you should do the degrading chores around the home, it is because he believes you are a lesser human than him. Even if you are dying, this one will rather buy food than cook o. Run.
6. A Man That Believes You Owe Him
This type thinks he is doing you a favour by marrying you so he obviously won’t respect you and expects you to take anything he dishes out to you.
7. A Man That Carries Kids For The Gram
There is a new trend lately of men with children all over social media. They are usually all lovey-dovey with them but don’t be deceived. People ooh and aww at pictures like that only because we are not used to that kind of image in our society. Half of these men probably don’t know how to change diapers so once again the pressure is on you to always make the children look good or you will hear it.
8. A Man That Believes it is Natural & Normal for Him To Philander
It is not and will never be normal to cheat. It is a lie from the pit of hell that so many believe and so many more perpetuate. If you agree with this, then you agree that every man has a place in hell already which we know is not true. What is wrong is wrong and everybody doing it will not make it right. If you marry someone with this mentality, you know what to expect.
9. A Man Who Cannot Answer To You
Wo, this one will show you pepper in marriage. A fi mu e fon fere. You cannot question his actions or inactions o. He will not be accountable to you on how he spends money, where he goes, what time he comes in, etc. He will make and take decisions that affect the family without consulting you and without giving any tangible or logical reason. Awon team ‘I Will Because I Know I Can’ leyi. He will wake up one morning and tell you to change the school your children attend and you will be there wondering what went wrong. Stay far away from them.
10. A Man Who Doesn’t Take The Issue of Rape & Child Molestation Seriously
Just take note of your conversations with him when the issue of sexual assault arises. If he is the type that always finds a way to blame the victim, either male or female, you should have a rethink. He is not a qualified father material. It will be dangerous for him to bath your kids. Forget that they are his kids too, we hear stories na.

There are many more things to look out for like his tolerance level, humility, religious beliefs, gene compatibility, level of responsibility etc. There are really no fast rules to this and you will probably never meet a man that will not fail in one or two of the categories listed above. Just decide within yourself which flaws you can live with. Selah.

*brings out cutlass cut off the op's head*

netizenbuzz:
1. A Man That Does not Love & Respect His Mother
There is a thin line between a mommy’s boy and a man who genuinely loves his mom. A man should love his mother and respect her even when he disagrees with her. If a man doesn’t respect his mum, what makes you think he would respect you? He shouldn’t be a mommy’s boy with no backbone but he should respectfully disagree with her if the need arises.
2. A Man That Beats His Sisters
Forget that he is the older one or that his parents approve of it. There is a natural imbalance of strength between a man and a woman. A man that feels it is okay to beat his sisters won’t think twice before hitting you. His sisters are his blood relations and yet he hits them, how much more you? If he cannot protect his sisters, what is the assurance that he will protect you?
3. A Man That Is Money Conscious
This type has only one thing on his mind, ‘make money’ by whatever means whether good or bad. In the long run, he would probably do something that will embarrass your family. He also believes his money should earn him your respect irrespective of his character.
4. A Man That Cannot Cook
Just ask yourself some simple questions. What will happen to your kids or even to you if you are sick and bedridden? What will happen to your kids if you happen to travel? What will happen to your kids if by nature of your job, you close later than your husband? Finally, what will happen to them if peradventure you die untimely? Will they starve? Or will your husband replace you immediately even if the new mother is not a good person?
5. A Man That Will Not Cook
This is quite common in our society. He can cook but he chooses not to because they find it quite demeaning. Truth is, this says a lot about how he sees you. If he believes only you should do the degrading chores around the home, it is because he believes you are a lesser human than him. Even if you are dying, this one will rather buy food than cook o. Run.
6. A Man That Believes You Owe Him
This type thinks he is doing you a favour by marrying you so he obviously won’t respect you and expects you to take anything he dishes out to you.
7. A Man That Carries Kids For The Gram
There is a new trend lately of men with children all over social media. They are usually all lovey-dovey with them but don’t be deceived. People ooh and aww at pictures like that only because we are not used to that kind of image in our society. Half of these men probably don’t know how to change diapers so once again the pressure is on you to always make the children look good or you will hear it.
8. A Man That Believes it is Natural & Normal for Him To Philander
It is not and will never be normal to cheat. It is a lie from the pit of hell that so many believe and so many more perpetuate. If you agree with this, then you agree that every man has a place in hell already which we know is not true. What is wrong is wrong and everybody doing it will not make it right. If you marry someone with this mentality, you know what to expect.
9. A Man Who Cannot Answer To You
Wo, this one will show you pepper in marriage. A fi mu e fon fere. You cannot question his actions or inactions o. He will not be accountable to you on how he spends money, where he goes, what time he comes in, etc. He will make and take decisions that affect the family without consulting you and without giving any tangible or logical reason. Awon team ‘I Will Because I Know I Can’ leyi. He will wake up one morning and tell you to change the school your children attend and you will be there wondering what went wrong. Stay far away from them.
10. A Man Who Doesn’t Take The Issue of Rape & Child Molestation Seriously
Just take note of your conversations with him when the issue of sexual assault arises. If he is the type that always finds a way to blame the victim, either male or female, you should have a rethink. He is not a qualified father material. It will be dangerous for him to bath your kids. Forget that they are his kids too, we hear stories na.

There are many more things to look out for like his tolerance level, humility, religious beliefs, gene compatibility, level of responsibility etc. There are really no fast rules to this and you will probably never meet a man that will not fail in one or two of the categories listed above. Just decide within yourself which flaws you can live with. Selah.

rubbish,any woman that don't want to marry a man because of this flaws can never get married.

missKiffy:
I agree, I will run and my two legs won't touch the floor if I come across such a man

Best be prepared to keep on running as most male folks exhibit many of these traits. Hope you don't run out of steam!

Its VERY OFFENSIVE for you to suggest that some type of men will molest their kids... A normal human being will not rape his kids only people with serious mental issues do that.... Please delete your no10 point...

op u no like our ladies o u no1 mk dem marry.

We heard you.

Na im be say we go de carry lists de waka before we marry abi?
Lists don too much for nairaland abeg....

Ralphdan:
op u no like our ladies o u no1 mk dem marry.

Leave her, make she dey there dey form 007.

netizenbuzz:
Never referred to anyone has a bad man. I gave logical reasons why it is necessary for a man to know and be willing to cook. Cooking is basic survival instinct. My advise for you is to learn. You can be prudent with your spending without making everything about money. A real an should know where to find the balance. Do this for yourself, don't make decisions based on what girls will or will not do.

Mr. Man sharap dia!

You wrote jargons and you still trying to make people believe you

Very well said. But some ladies are just daft.

sonofananimal:
Lolzzzz.

imagine nonsense.

Only God knows where OP sprang from! That's how they'be been brainwashing our girls into believing stuupid things.

netizenbuzz:
1. A Man That Does not Love & Respect His Mother
There is a thin line between a mommy’s boy and a man who genuinely loves his mom. A man should love his mother and respect her even when he disagrees with her. If a man doesn’t respect his mum, what makes you think he would respect you? He shouldn’t be a mommy’s boy with no backbone but he should respectfully disagree with her if the need arises.
2. A Man That Beats His Sisters
Forget that he is the older one or that his parents approve of it. There is a natural imbalance of strength between a man and a woman. A man that feels it is okay to beat his sisters won’t think twice before hitting you. His sisters are his blood relations and yet he hits them, how much more you? If he cannot protect his sisters, what is the assurance that he will protect you?
3. A Man That Is Money Conscious
This type has only one thing on his mind, ‘make money’ by whatever means whether good or bad. In the long run, he would probably do something that will embarrass your family. He also believes his money should earn him your respect irrespective of his character.
4. A Man That Cannot Cook
Just ask yourself some simple questions. What will happen to your kids or even to you if you are sick and bedridden? What will happen to your kids if you happen to travel? What will happen to your kids if by nature of your job, you close later than your husband? Finally, what will happen to them if peradventure you die untimely? Will they starve? Or will your husband replace you immediately even if the new mother is not a good person?
5. A Man That Will Not Cook
This is quite common in our society. He can cook but he chooses not to because they find it quite demeaning. Truth is, this says a lot about how he sees you. If he believes only you should do the degrading chores around the home, it is because he believes you are a lesser human than him. Even if you are dying, this one will rather buy food than cook o. Run.
6. A Man That Believes You Owe Him
This type thinks he is doing you a favour by marrying you so he obviously won’t respect you and expects you to take anything he dishes out to you.
7. A Man That Carries Kids For The Gram
There is a new trend lately of men with children all over social media. They are usually all lovey-dovey with them but don’t be deceived. People ooh and aww at pictures like that only because we are not used to that kind of image in our society. Half of these men probably don’t know how to change diapers so once again the pressure is on you to always make the children look good or you will hear it.
8. A Man That Believes it is Natural & Normal for Him To Philander
It is not and will never be normal to cheat. It is a lie from the pit of hell that so many believe and so many more perpetuate. If you agree with this, then you agree that every man has a place in hell already which we know is not true. What is wrong is wrong and everybody doing it will not make it right. If you marry someone with this mentality, you know what to expect.
9. A Man Who Cannot Answer To You
Wo, this one will show you pepper in marriage. A fi mu e fon fere. You cannot question his actions or inactions o. He will not be accountable to you on how he spends money, where he goes, what time he comes in, etc. He will make and take decisions that affect the family without consulting you and without giving any tangible or logical reason. Awon team ‘I Will Because I Know I Can’ leyi. He will wake up one morning and tell you to change the school your children attend and you will be there wondering what went wrong. Stay far away from them.
10. A Man Who Doesn’t Take The Issue of Rape & Child Molestation Seriously
Just take note of your conversations with him when the issue of sexual assault arises. If he is the type that always finds a way to blame the victim, either male or female, you should have a rethink. He is not a qualified father material. It will be dangerous for him to bath your kids. Forget that they are his kids too, we hear stories na.

There are many more things to look out for like his tolerance level, humility, religious beliefs, gene compatibility, level of responsibility etc. There are really no fast rules to this and you will probably never meet a man that will not fail in one or two of the categories listed above. Just decide within yourself which flaws you can live with. Selah.

You've just described Toks2008 to a T.

[quote author=lurlah2014 post=43061453]COS THAT'S WHO U ARE[/quote

Wetin this one dey talk sef

What a funny story over there! What if the girls you're suggest there find themselves in deeply love with a guy who already discover one of the above mentioned listed? Would you think that she will give up and break down her relation with him? Would you think she should not find a way to depend him with some excuses over what you already mentioned? Pls don't you interrupt over the matter of love and marriage, coz its come naturally in blood