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Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by automatix: 8:03pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
OneManLegion:Damn bro, you got it all good. Ladies are something else. I had a girl who never initiated a convo for 8 months. She told me she had a guy but I persisted because I had chased her before and gave up due to "yanga". Anyway, in the name of being with someone she led me on. It's a long story. But after I realised what I had turned myself to, I break off the communication. Now, a girl who never called voluntarily nor initiated a chat, has been sending me "hi" every now and then. I have not communicated with her since this month. What bothers me is that in that 8 months, she didn't care to initiate any convo, call or text. I did it. She so led me on to make me feel we were already dating, even accepted monetary gift from me. However, something happened that made me asked questions and she said she was still in a relationship with the dude. No problem. She went on to say I should know what to do at this stage which should be translated as don't bother me anymore. I did. I tried to maintain friendship but then, she made me felt/realise that I am not regarded as much as I regarded her--an inconsequential entity. Well, why does she feel the need to buzz me now that I have finally given her the space she requested for? Why now? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by automatix: 8:17pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
2dice:national diploma |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by OneManLegion(m): 12:19am On Feb 20, 2016 |
automatix: Just lay off her. Don't jump on her or smother her with attention now that she's seeking it. Be cool and dignified. Whenever you give her attention, make sure it's quality attention that'll leave her reeling for more! Bring up dope discussions and surprise her with your uniqueness: however, don't overdo it o, always leave her hanging. They're suckers for suspense. Make yourself scare man. She don sabi your worth now, just play on that card. That's your ace in thr hole. Lol. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by automatix: 8:14am On Feb 20, 2016 |
OneManLegion: I was the one chasing her initially then gave up. When I came back she claimed to have a boyfriend. Anyway, I think the emotions has finally died and cant be resurrected. I dont fancy talking to her anymore. Though I knew it will come to this, hence more reason why I chose to be persistent just incase she changes her mind. So as not to create a scene whereby she changes her mind and the feelings are no longer there. But that is the case now. it's sad, really but all dead. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
YourMain: Oh my God. I need a bed and some sheets. This comment is so boring, just reading it is putting me to sleep. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
JamesMoriarty: . No one asked you to read it. JamesMoriarty. . |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by malele(m): 5:15pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
I888: I don't beat about the bush when I really see a girl I love. I hit the nail on the immediately. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
YourMain: That's the point, I shouldn't have read it. Big mistake. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
JamesMoriarty:Soz bbz. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
YourMain: You don't look Nigerian. Are you? |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by automatix: 9:13am On Feb 21, 2016 |
JamesMoriarty:boss, I hail ooo nice tactics. Learned something new 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by I888(m): 12:50pm On Feb 21, 2016 |
malele:but this one withdrew. I know where I made a mistake. So, I wanna give her some space. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by I888(m): 1:02pm On Feb 21, 2016 |
firstking01:hey bro, I was banned and so I couldn't reply you. Thanks. I am take a break off her case for awhile to come back after almost a month. I will follow what OneManLegion has said. This girl is damn gorgeous and you are right about being in a haste. I had the key at on time but lost it because I was too in a hurry and emotional. |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by firstking01(m): 4:37pm On Feb 22, 2016 |
I888:cooL 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by I888(m): 9:04am On Feb 23, 2016 |
OneManLegion:hey bro, I am gonna need you on this. Since she told me she can't date me, I have kept my distance. Yesterday she buzzed me on whatsapp out of the blue to ask how I am doing to which I replied fine and asked how she was as well. She asked how is work going. I said fine And she replied okay nice. I read that and didn't reply. So, a guy who knew about my adventure to get her contact after losing it, he gave me, called her because they have been friends. She told the guy what happened and that she has a guy. She told him she likes me but can't cheat on her current guy. This morning, she buzzed again, maybe cos I didn't reply her last buzz from yesterday after reading, demanding if I was angry with her. I said no I ain't. She said yes I am angry because I stopped chatting with her. I am trying to reduce the frequency of my reply to any of her messages when they come in. What would be the best way to handle this since it has some how affected how we planned it initially with me calling after 3 weeks? Cc: firstking01 |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by OneManLegion(m): 7:35pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
I888: You're one lucky nigga. First is, you must never mention anything about dating her again. For every two times she initiates a chat, initiate it once. When she starts getting frustrated with being the sole initiator, give her a surprise call and spend a long time with her. When you speak with her face to face, be very relaxed and free with her. If you're free, you'll be funny and girls love funny guys. But don't let her see too much of you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Narrate your embarrassing experiences with her. If you don't have any, make some up. Lol. Na she go toast you. With girls, one just has to show that one is not desperate. They'll cave in. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by firstking01(m): 7:49pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
OneManLegion:@188...follow this advice 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerians Girls Break Heart Of A Real Brother? by I888(m): 9:20pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
OneManLegion:Thanks, you are the man. firstking01:Thanks bro. Advice taken. |
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