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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by 4C2215131: 8:28am On Feb 25, 2016*

missyadorable:
Yes,I don't love him, I don't attach my feelings and emotions to him.Men don't deserve love! Afterall,after showing them love and care,what do we get in return? Cheating,domestic violence,etc! Abeg,free me!!

Sho some sad lassie here (with the voice and facial mien of a 16th century aged male slave).

Meant that lightly. But on a serious note, you best seek 'true happiness' elsewhere. If y'all got kids you could find it in them but take note that it takes a STRONG mind to do this as you'll still be under the room of he that causes you so much pain deservedly or not.

Most women will leave. From your statements, you do not like the male folk, your hubby included. Save he's very obtuse, he must have realised this by now and this realisation could inform other marriage destroying attitudes such as philandering (he justifies it by saying "after all she no even send me sef.." wink

.

I suggest you leave as soon as its reasonably possible (as it will happen anyway save something changes. It's just a matter of time).

Your statements are so dark. That must be a real gloomy home you have there, a stifling atmosphere. How can y'all raise loving kids in such an ambience knowing how smart and tuned in kids are?

Could go on and on but know this; giving up on love is not the answer as it sure exist out there despite the preponderance of evidence to the contrary. I pray you find it someday.

P.S: This post of mine wasn't meant to indict or castigate you in any way. If it comes.across as such, my apologies.

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by missyadorable(f): 8:28am On Feb 25, 2016

wristbangle:
May God have mercy on your husband. I wish he can be reading this. Well I feel your predicament is deeper than i thought. Seems u were forced into the marriage sef

Yes,i was forced into the marriage by my society!

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle(op): 8:33am On Feb 25, 2016

missyadorable:
Yes,i was forced into the marriage by my society!

Oh no wonder! I really feel for you because the pain of not marrying the one you love will never cease to lingers in your memory. It is well madame. I honestly don't know what to say than for you to accept me the way he is since he is now your husband.

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by 4C2215131: 8:34am On Feb 25, 2016

murphyibiam15:
GOD PLEASE FORGIVE ME MY SINS AND I PRAY U THAT I SHOULD NEVER MARRY THIS KIND OF GAL OH LORD.....IF IT WILL BE A CURSE REMOVE IT FROM LIFE AND NEVER PUNISH ME WITH THIS KIND OF LOW THINKING BEING..AMEN!

You had to get on your knees and pray huh?

Quite a scary picture right? But you must understand that folks just don't come by this attitude by chance. Something somewhere somehow informed it, made the OP you quoted the unfeeling baby making machine she is today.

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Bishops10(m): 8:40am On Feb 25, 2016

Spanner4:
Gals can form ehhhh, maybe becoz of ur twin sister dat she saw

lol..Though what she did surprised me,but the Bae gat a heart of Gold

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Bishops10(m): 8:41am On Feb 25, 2016

Spanner4:
Gals can form ehhhh, maybe becoz of ur twin sister dat she saw

lol..Though what she did surprised me,but the Bae gat a heart of Gold

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by ShakurM(m): 8:44am On Feb 25, 2016

missyadorable:
Yes,i was forced into the marriage by my society!

You were forced into marriage. Are you 12years old or what?

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by MzPecs(f): 8:48am On Feb 25, 2016

wristbangle:
Will you subscribe for my next subscription please? don't disgrace in front of these people

I'm still thinking abourrit!

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by tosyne2much(m): 8:49am On Feb 25, 2016

eddymandy94:
lol...guy you don too provoke

No mind me jawe

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by MzPecs(f): 8:50am On Feb 25, 2016

dancok:
let date first to know u are not stingy.

No, we don't need to do that..

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Funkybabee(f): 8:50am On Feb 25, 2016

rubbish!!!!!!!?!!?
nonsense!!!!!;!!!

all na lie

go ask me from iya risika she go tell u am not stingy,but I normally did some things u wrote down

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by MzPecs(f): 8:53am On Feb 25, 2016

Mayflowa:
If she actually meant what she put up there, it means her partner is in trouble now and in the future. What a small mind!

I am moved by kindness. U won't have my love ever if you are not kind. I could give a thousand naira for every N1 you give. Once I am clear you could give if you had, then you have my world.

Wow! That's very good of you!

Send me your bank account details.

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by tosyne2much(m): 8:53am On Feb 25, 2016

sophietosyneabou:
true talk..buh hmmm..me i lyk suya sha..only bought it wit my money

U like it shey?

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by spidey77: 8:53am On Feb 25, 2016

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

That's one of them...you kmw it was written in d Bible or Koran that a man must b d only 1 spending

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle(op): 8:55am On Feb 25, 2016

Funkybabee:
rubbish!!!!!!!?!!?
nonsense!!!!!;!!!

all na lie

go ask me from iya risika she go tell u am not stingy,but I normally did some things u wrote down

Nobody is seeking for your opinion to whether u are stingy or not and what's our business asking from iya sikiru about your generosity. Abeg swerve go pacific ocean cheesy

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by benedictnsi(m): 8:56am On Feb 25, 2016

Decker:
I don't know which I find more repulsive- your english or the comment you just made.

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by 4C2215131: 8:58am On Feb 25, 2016

ShakurM:
You were forced into marriage. Are you 12years old or what?

This was what I meant by STRONG mind in my post earlier on.

I believe she meant that our societal views with regards to single ladies push ladies not strong and independent enough in the mental (she happens to fall into this ilk) into wedlock they would rather do without.

I tell my female friends not to be swayed by society into making a mistake when it comes to the right choice of men (when I say choice, I also advice them to be reasonable in their list of potential hubby attributes) as they'll be the ones to live with that mistake forever.

Nothing kills a human faster than mental torture occasioned by living with a spouse you detest as this scenario snowballs into terrible conditions that can impact the physical, emotional, spiritual and even psychic well being of all involved.

The mistake has been made and she doesn't have to live with it. She can get up and get a life by seeking a life of her own without him. Hard I know but the manual of marriage never said it'd be easy.

S'times one is forced to thank God one is still single, sometimes, but not all the time as it gets lonely sometimes. Oh yes it does!

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by omoharry(f): 9:00am On Feb 25, 2016

I can only borrow my husband money but not my boyfriend...na so i borrow my x bobo 30k till now he refuse to pay back the money..I have learnt from experience i will never try it again unless he is my husband..

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle(op): 9:01am On Feb 25, 2016

MzPecs:
I'm still thinking abourrit!

You are thinking about common 1000 naira since yesterday? grin

u are very very stingy jor!

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle(op): 9:02am On Feb 25, 2016

omoharry:
I can only borrow my husband money but not my boyfriend...na so i borrow my x bobo 30k till now he refuse to pay back the money..I have learnt from experience i will never try it again unless he is my husband..

What kind of women is the world breeding recently? So you can't give your husband money but just borrow him? Huh! undecided

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Funkybabee(f): 9:02am On Feb 25, 2016

wristbangle:
Nobody is seeking for your opinion to whether u are stingy or not and what's our business asking from iya sikiru about your generosity. Abeg swerve go pacific ocean

if its pain u too go swerve to 'odo osun'
and did I beg u to quote me
abeg mind ur own business oo
seun or lalatisca abeg come warn him oooo

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by omonnakoda: 9:03am On Feb 25, 2016

dazzle101:
And who asked you??

Una hate money ehn

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by tosyne2much(m): 9:04am On Feb 25, 2016

Symphony1:
A lady who is not a virgin tells me, no sex before marriage, yet she is so demanding. The worst is that same lady is been forrrkd almost on daily bases by another guy, if not guys.

The most painful thing these days is that even the so called virgins are very wicked in relationships, they know every damn thing about sex, except how kissing and penetration feels.

To hell with them all. A bitch tells me no sex before marriage! I dey craze. Certainly not me and you. And take note: Distant relationships these days; God forbid.

Bros, na so u like kitty-cat reach?

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Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle(op): 9:05am On Feb 25, 2016

Funkybabee:
if its pain u too go swerve to 'odo osun'
and did I beg u to quote me
abeg mind ur own business oo
seun or lalatisca abeg come warn him oooo

They are on sabbatical leave. So no one to save u tongue

. U go hear am today cheesy

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by ShakurM(m): 9:06am On Feb 25, 2016

4C2215131:
This was what I meant by STRONG mind in my post earlier on.

I believe she meant that our societal views with regards to single ladies push ladies not strong and independent enough in the mental (she happens to fall into this ilk) into wedlock they would rather do without.

I tell my female friends not to be swayed by society into making a mistake when it comes to the right choice of men (when I say choice, I also advice them to be reasonable in their list of potential hubby attributes) as they'll be the ones to live with that mistake forever.

Nothing kills a human faster than mental torture occasioned by living with a spouse you detest as this scenario snowballs into terrible conditions that can impact the physical, emotional, spiritual and even psychic well being of all involved.

The mistake has been made and she doesn't have to live with it. She can get up and get a life by seeking a life of her own without him. Hard I know but the manual of marriage never said it'd be easy.

S'times one is forced to thank God one is still single, sometimes, but not all the time as it gets lonely sometimes. Oh yes it does!

Thanks a ton brother. There's this thing called EQ( emotional quotient) , the variation of IQ. Most people lack the former which is mostly more important. The deed has been done . I hope she realises soon because she's a potential time bomb to the husband.

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by tosyne2much(m): 9:06am On Feb 25, 2016

missyadorable:
Yes,I don't love him, I don't attach my feelings and emotions to him.Men don't deserve love! Afterall,after showing them love and care,what do we get in return? Cheating,domestic violence,etc! Abeg,free me!!

A bittered woman is very easy to spot.. When a man marries wrongly, he has made a lifetime mistake.. Ur husband don mistakenly buy bone instead of meat

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by MzPecs(f): 9:07am On Feb 25, 2016

wristbangle:

You are thinking about common 1000 naira since yesterday? u are very very stingy jor!

So 1k is common?

Anyway, i'll surprise you!

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle(op): 9:08am On Feb 25, 2016

4C2215131:
This was what I meant by STRONG mind in my post earlier on.

I believe she meant that our societal views with regards to single ladies push ladies not strong and independent enough in the mental (she happens to fall into this ilk) into wedlock they would rather do without.

I tell my female friends not to be swayed by society into making a mistake when it comes to the right choice of men (when I say choice, I also advice them to be reasonable in their list of potential hubby attributes) as they'll be the ones to live with that mistake forever.

Nothing kills a human faster than mental torture occasioned by living with a spouse you detest as this scenario snowballs into terrible conditions that can impact the physical, emotional, spiritual and even psychic well being of all involved.

The mistake has been made and she doesn't have to live with it. She can get up and get a life by seeking a life of her own without him. Hard I know but the manual of marriage never said it'd be easy.

S'times one is forced to thank God one is still single, sometimes, but not all the time as it gets lonely sometimes. Oh yes it does!

You are very diplomatic brother. Nice one. It's a pity that the decision has been made and it's either she accepts the man or file for divorce which may add more emotional torture for her and the children.

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by wristbangle(op): 9:10am On Feb 25, 2016

MzPecs:
So 1k is common?

Anyway, i'll surprise you!

I am waiting! wink

anyway I dey joke. I have always known you to be a generous lady especially when you bought a house 4 me.

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by tosyne2much(m): 9:11am On Feb 25, 2016

CuteEmma:
That's crap..

It's just your opinion tho',
And since you're a minor, your opinion doesn't count..

#BolasMesquinho

Hey take it easy.. I never directed my comment to you

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by MzPecs(f): 9:14am On Feb 25, 2016

wristbangle:
I am waiting! anyway I dey joke. I have always known you to be a generous lady especially when you bought a house 4 me.

Hehehehehe

...and more houses will I buy for you!

Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by Funkybabee(f): 9:14am On Feb 25, 2016

wristbangle:
They are on sabbatical leave. So no one to save u . U go hear am today

weting u want hear grin

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u better keep mouth before I bang u with ur wristb

anyway did u want to hear, Oga seun is my neighbor and lalatiscal is my cousin
anything u wish to say it now he go barn u before I open my eyes

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