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I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by alberson(f): 10:35pm On Feb 29, 2016
.I Caught My Best Friend And Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding.

I walked into the room and met my best man making love to my wife
I met Charles on campus. I was in my first year in the university. I had just resumed and was trying to grapple with the demand of university life. One morning I had gone to the cafeteria. While paying for my food, I ran into a young handsome looking guy and we ended striking an acquaintance.
I later found out that we are both in the same department. From then we became friends. In the second year, we ended up being roommates. Our friendship grew from there. We were like brothers. We helped one another in our studies. We looked out for one another. In fact many people on campus thought we were brothers. Charles was a great guy. He was handsome tall and good looking. In fact in our third year on campus, he entered the Mr. Campus contest and won.
That made him become very popular. He was especially popular with the girls. They loved. In fact the attention was so much at a time that he lost focus and his grades suffered.
There were just too many babes jostling for his attention. In our fourth year, Charles had become very used to the attention that it meant nothing to him again. Our association blossomed.
As his fame grew, I became his manager when he attended shows. He also worked as the Master of Ceremony at school events. I was the calmer guy. I made sure I kept my head so I could put my best friend in check. At last we graduated and our parents, who had become friends because of our association, came to celebrate with us. When we left school, we continued our friendship.
We got jobs in two blue chip companies. We also continue to date our campus sweet hearts. Charles and I met our future partners at a departmental event on campus in our second year in the university.
They were both in another department. But we had continued the relationship even when Charles derailed and become way ward. I convinced his girlfriend not to give up on him. Eventually we all graduated and our relationship continued. After about two years of working I proposed to my fiancee. I did not want to waste any more time. But something bad happened to Charles relationship with Adaeze, She had caught him again cheating and had decided to call it quits despite all my pleading. Charles was left to spend more time in my place as he complained of boredom. Adaeze doesn’t come to keep him company again. She had left the relationship for good. I was sorry for my friend. But how many times will I keep interceding on his behalf? Charles now practically was living with me. He also became close to my woman. Gradually I discovered they were both unusually close. When I am at work, they will call me they went out together as Charles had been on leave from work. I noticed their relationship became closer.
But I still thought nothing of it. Many times, I my wife to be will stay glued to her phone chatting. I never thought nothing of it as she could be chatting with her sister s and friends. As the days turned into months, we began the planning for my wedding. Naturally, Charles became the choice for my best man. I had pacified my brother who returned from the United States that I and Charles had gone way back since our campus days. The day of the wedding was set. I was also so busy that I did not notice the change in my fianceé body language. Every time I asked for romance, she was always reluctant and unresponsive. I had thought then that she was reserving her body until we get married. One day, instead of calling my name, she mentioned Charles. Well, I did not get angry because I and Charles are like blood brothers.
About two weeks to our wedding, I had gone to the office to retrieve my computer as I had been granted leave to prepared for the weeding. Charles was home and busy with preparations as usual. I returned home an hour short of when I told my fiancée I would returned.
I parked the car outside our gate as someone had already taken my parking space.I walked the distance to the house. The entire place was silent. I called out but no one answered. I climbed the staircase, and as I made to enter my room, I heard an unusual noise from the guest room. I went to the door and listen.
The noise was a moan of pleasure from an excited lady whose voice sounded like my wife. Why they refused to lock the door is what I can still not decipher. But according to the saying, every day for the thief, one day for the owner.
I pushed open the door and met my best friend, my best man for my wedding on top of my wife. They were both Unclad as they made love furiously. I shouted Charles name and became unconscious. I later found myself in the hospital. My cheating wife was at my bed side but Charles was nowhere in to be found.
He had packed all his things and absconded. I cried profusely as I looked at my wife. When my parents and sisters came into the hospital, I could not reveal to them what brought me to the hospital. I only lied to them that I was stressed out because of the wedding preparations. When they asked for Charles, I could not give any sufficient explanation and I could not tell them that he had been sleeping with my wife to be behind me. I was discharged from the hospital and I am back home.
My fiancée has gone back to her parents place and Charles is still missing. I was later told by his brother that he had travelled finally to Canada and had apologise for the short notice. I know Charles had escaped being confronted with his guilt. But I know he can run but not hide. My fiancée has been pleading that it was the devils work. She said she did not know the charm Charles used for her.
She has refused to tell me how long Charles has been sleeping with her though she swore the time I caught them was the first. How do I believe her? The wedding in two in two weeks and I still do not know what to do. Do I tell my family and cancel the wedding or should I forgive my wife to be.
This is the dilemma I have found myself. I love my wife to be but how can I live with the thought of seeing my best friend Unclad on top of my wife? Should I cancel the marriage and look for another woman or should I accept her apology?
matured comments please ..

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by NaMe4: 10:51pm On Feb 29, 2016
From my experience: once a cheat, always a cheat!

2 weeks to your wedding undecided

Even if you both were having an 'open' relationship initially, that's highly disrespectful.

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Smellymouth: 10:52pm On Feb 29, 2016
Kpele

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by saintkash(m): 10:54pm On Feb 29, 2016
painful indeed...... just go ahead with d plans but try not to involve too much cash...on d wedding day u should grab d mic and explain to the church dis same story on how ur would be wife messed up or rather u can decide not to show up on d wedding day while u call ur pastor n explain the reason behind ur absence and tell him to call off d wedding. ...that will be a good payback. .... bro u have to hit her whr it hurts d most. ..do not marry that woman... I repeat DO NOT MARRY HER IF U WANT TO LIVE LONG!!!!

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 10:56pm On Feb 29, 2016
A broken heart relationship is better than a broken marriage. Luckily for you it happened now, only you knows what action to take, then again this is a pseudo-option there's only one option to make anyway. All the best if you decide to marry , we will keep this thread alive for future issues if you decide to go ahead with the wedding. Take care


To be honest a large part of me doesn't believe your story but that's my opinion

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Sparkles003(f): 11:00pm On Feb 29, 2016
move on
The most essential commodity which is trust has been broken.

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Alertz3(m): 11:08pm On Feb 29, 2016
The case is settled. As painful as it might be, you just have to move on. Thank God it happened before the marriage was consummated.

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by alberson(f): 11:08pm On Feb 29, 2016
pcguru1:
A broken heart is better than a broken marriage. Luckily for you it happened now, only you knows what action to take, then again this is a pseudo-option there's only one option to make anyway. All the best if you decide to marry , we will keep this thread alive for future issues if you decide to go ahead with the wedding. Take care


To be honest a large part of me doesn't believe your story but that's my opinion


I appreciate your advice.
May you never experiences this, it's gonna sound like jokes to someone....thanks!!!

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Wallade(m): 11:10pm On Feb 29, 2016
Hmmmm. I think you should call off the wedding or delay it. You need to be sure that your wife loves you and she isn't in love with Charles

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by kimnicki(f): 11:12pm On Feb 29, 2016
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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by vicstar(m): 11:12pm On Feb 29, 2016
what an egregious act lipsrsealed a friend with such cruelty can kill undecided op beware!

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 11:13pm On Feb 29, 2016
alberson:



I appreciate your advice.
May you never experiences this, it's gonna sound like jokes to someone....thanks!!!

If am not married I will simply move on, if I am married I will kill them both or ruin their lives.

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Truckpusher(m): 11:17pm On Feb 29, 2016
Wtf is happening to men of nowadays ? You caught your fiancee pants down with a friend in your own very apartment and you're still here seeking for public opinion on what to do ? undecided
Well , the fact that you fainted after witnessing that shiit shows you're a puccy.

Charles deserved a broken head with one eye gone bad forever before leaving for Canada but you chose to faint over a hoe ? grin smh

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Truckpusher(m): 11:20pm On Feb 29, 2016
pcguru1:


If am not married I will simply move on, if I am married I will kill them both or ruin their lives.
Any woman that treats you with such disrespect doesn't deserve a finger of yours lifted against her and she's not worth killing for - But you can at least give the guy some everlasting scar.

Can't afford to spend my life in jail over a puccy . tongue

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by skywalker240(m): 11:21pm On Feb 29, 2016
first of all , nice novel,..oya straigth to mattaz at hand, Will u still marry an unfaithfull partner?

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by abiolag(m): 11:26pm On Feb 29, 2016
Tell ur parents, call off d wedding and move on. Don't let anybody tell u to 4give her and go on wit d wedding. D though alone might kill u @ d long run

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 11:29pm On Feb 29, 2016
Truckpusher:
Any woman that treats you with such disrespect doesn't deserve a finger of yours lifted against her and she's not worth killing for - But you can at least give the guy some everlasting scar.

Can't afford to spent my life in jail over a puccy . tongue

lol Dexter's style no one will find me.. besides there's no CSI in Nigeria so am safe grin

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 11:30pm On Feb 29, 2016
Truckpusher:
Wtf is happening to men of nowadays ? You caught your fiancee pants down with a friend in your own very apartment and you're still here seeking for public opinion on what to do ? undecided
Well , the fact that you fainted after witnessing that shiit shows you're a puccy.

Charles deserved a broken head with one eye gone bad forever before leaving for Canada but you chose to faint over a hoe ? grin smh

Exactly i heard Canada has great health care, so it won't be bad to put Charle's heathcare to use after breaking his head and some few punches.

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by zeezyoung(m): 11:34pm On Feb 29, 2016
Call off the wedding and explain what happened to ur parent. Bro move on with your life cos once a cheat always a cheat, two weeks to ur wedding haha. Bro God will surely send u ur own wife

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by robosky02(m): 11:39pm On Feb 29, 2016
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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by torqque7(m): 11:42pm On Feb 29, 2016
You are a very funny dude.. U are asking what to do after u saw with ur own eyes?plss marry her fast,one day ul find ur bro on top of her too just get ready for that,how can u be talking about love when clearly if someone loves u she woudnt want to hurt u,and u even believed when she said that was the first time?smh..

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Ekugbeh(m): 12:26am On Mar 01, 2016
Telling ur parents the mata culd pose an eye soarin attitude towards her. Je z tell dem u dn't want any more. Dn't even think of marrying her coz u culd die too quickly

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Yorobastard(m): 12:28am On Mar 01, 2016
alberson:



I appreciate your advice.
May you never experiences this, it's gonna sound like jokes to someone....thanks!!!

Sounded like a movie script cos you will not be asking us what to do...cmon God gave you wisdom to know the right from wrong so use it...

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by doris4u(f): 12:34am On Mar 01, 2016
Even if u marry her,u can never trust her. If she can cheat on you with your friend,she can do it with another person later in future. Forget about her pleaa,she will repeat it one day

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by leke12(m): 12:41am On Mar 01, 2016
my advice: dump that b I t c h now! For her to mistake ur name for charles clearly indicate she has been f u c k I n him for a while. She will soon bleep ur gateman if u marry her, mayb 70% of ur children might not be urs in d long run

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by MrBLING(m): 2:04am On Mar 01, 2016
What's the movie title?

Ps. Can someone summarize?

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Clonus: 7:03am On Mar 01, 2016
U r lucky to find out b/4 the wedding. Call it quits now! U will grieve but u will heal. However that picture will not leave ur mind if u go ahead to marry her. Each time u r touching her, you will see both of them & it ain't gonna be healthy for u. Take heart bro

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 7:38am On Mar 01, 2016
cancel asap

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by ibnzubair(m): 7:44am On Mar 01, 2016
I think you should believe her when she says it's the devil's work

However ask

1. Who is the devil?

2. If the devil is some bad spirit, how you sure he won't be back... even after marriage?

3. Most importantly, who is deceiving who?

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by CaroLyner(f): 7:47am On Mar 01, 2016
i'v read this story before. if this gets to frontpage i'll know our mods have gone mad again

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Re: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by GoldenJAT(m): 8:07am On Mar 01, 2016
U read stories like these 1,and it looks like a movie script... Bt in reality all these things happen.. 2d person in question, it hurts 2d bone marrow..... Grief ur loss and move on.. U dnt wanna b an abusive husband... We ain't God. Move on.. U will b healed eventually.... Bt cry.. Evrtin will b ok

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